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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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My mom is sleeping with a guy my age!
Q. My Mom is Sleeping with a Guy My Age. Advice? My mom is 45 and she's sleeping with a 21 year old guy I knew while growing up. I'm her only son (only child) and I'm 20. I don't think this is right, or appropriate at all. I think she should act h...
A. 8 April 2013:
I’m sorry you are having a hard time with your mom having a life now that you are grown. I guess the issue is more that you know this guy and see him as a contemporary. I guess maybe it would be easier if it wasn’t someone you knew from grow... (read in full...)
When is a woman at her sexual peak?
Q. When is a women's sexial prime...
A. 7 April 2013: Around age 35 from what I've been told and experienced.... (read in full...)
Why does he always need to turn his phone off? Is he cheating?
Q. my boyfriend went to vegas with his friends but when ever i txt him he tells me he needs to turn his phone off could he be cheating on me his pregnant girlfriend please help....
A. 6 April 2013: I went away in September on a girls weekend. My hubby did not react well and the second night he started to blow up my phone with calls and messages. I had no choice but to shut my phone off it was making me crazy.
The information you have pre... (read in full...)
What actions should I take to protect myself from this demanding girl who's behaviour concerns me?
Q. I got talking to this girl on a dating website on Wednesday. She asked me firstly would I pay for sex! Obviously, I said no. I gave her my number and I thought all was legitimate, until she asked for £2500 to 'make her flat habitable' because ...
A. 5 April 2013: end all contact with her. block her number if you have it. delete and block all social media as best you can.
that's all you can do.
you may want to report it to the dating site that she's essentially prostituting herself on their site as i'... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't even want to acknowledge me now we work together, does he think I'm not good enough for him?
Q. Hi In addition to my below question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-got-me-a-job-where-he-works.html my bf does not want 1) even to say hello to me in office 2) whenever he crosses me he doesnt even turn my side and even if...
A. 5 April 2013: Tell him that it's going to be more obvious to folks that he IGNORES YOU TOTALLY as that's rude.
Personally, you need to keep it very professional but I see no problem with being civil and friendly at work
and i have no issue coming in toge... (read in full...)
My partner points out my physical flaws, is this passive agressive behaviour?
Q. First my significant other told me he hates my hair. I have sort of wild curly hair that is hard to control. Now that it has grown longer it is more managable. Lots of people have told me they love my hair and would love to have curly hair so ...
A. 5 April 2013: Let me start with we are in the same age range. My hair is curly, my husband hates it curly but he also hates it long and he makes no bones about disliking it… so I feel your pain there.
Your neck probably is aging and you are beautiful to him, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is constantly pissed off with me over the smallest things, I'm starting to wonder if it is worth staying with her anymore?
Q. Hello everyone, I want help/opinions on my over 3 yrs relationship. you see my girlfriend is a great person but she is not a great girlfriend. Its hard to stay happy with her. Shes really delicate in t sense that any little think just flicks the ...
A. 5 April 2013: If you are thinking of life with another woman, I think it's time to make it so.
I would let her know that you are done catering to her whims and needs and whining is no longer allowed.
if she can't be pleasant then don't be around her.
... (read in full...)
My husband has these rapid changes in his life and never seems affected by them. What could be going on?
Q. It is going to be a difficult question,because it is not a very common situation . Im not sure what goes on with my husband, but Im suspecting a mental condition, not sure, and also helpless about how to relate to it. Some mental conditions are so e...
A. 5 April 2013: My doctor just said to me last week that I was like this... when I'm committed to something I'm very very very good at it doing it all the time (think exercise) and when I'm off of it, I'm off of it 100%.
I have ADHD and tend to have inabili... (read in full...)
He always has to be right?
Q. Hi I have been with my boyf for about 8 months and the last few I have been noticing how he always has to be right. I don't know whether I'm overreacting but I feel myself getting very frustrated sometimes in conversation. Some examples: When I...
A. 5 April 2013: You sound petty about the car for sure. He was right you had to squeeze so you didn't have enough room.
As for periods stopping in water... they don't stop, but the flow lessens based on how you are swimming the temp of the water and the fact... (read in full...)
Should I text my boyfriend to break up? I'm not going to see him to do it face to face
Q. Me and my boyfriend work shifts at the same place and I want to end it, it's only been a few weeks but its never going to work, I know this. My question is can I do it by txt message, I know it's harsh and not nice but I need to do it before Tue...
A. 5 April 2013: I do not think breaking up by text message is acceptable.
stay up late and call him when his shift is over.... (read in full...)
She knows I want a no strings attached relationship. Is she willing to accept that?
Q. Bout 5 years I had a crush or fell in love with a girl. I wanted a relationship but she rejected me. She started to date other guys so I left. Took a bit but I got into a relationship and she got married. After years not talking my relationship was ...
A. 5 April 2013: I agree with Cerberus. If you want NSA and even if you told her that's what you want, she will probably not react well to it being over when it is and that will destroy the friendship.
BTW, something like NSA/FWB will NOT help you get over you... (read in full...)
Lost feelings for my husband, fell for another guy ...
Q. I am 33 and have been married for 3 year, dating for 5. I was coming out of a bad relationship and this older, successful man came into my life. after 2 years, i figured it was time to get married. I started doubting my happiness in my marriage ...
A. 5 April 2013: I am thinking you need to at minimum get a legal separation from your husband (and a divorce if he asks for it) and see what happens when you are ON YOUR OWN.
DO NOT go from one man to another... that's a recipe for disaster.... (read in full...)
I'm Atheist and dating a Christian man. Are we likely incompatible?
Q. I've been friends with this guy since I was 17 (We are both 22 now). Although we lost touch after high school graduation, we recently met again for dinner and coffee. Surprisingly it wasn't awkward like I thought it might be. We had a wonderful ...
A. 5 April 2013: I'm a non-practicing Jew who is married to a non-practicing catholic. The reason it works.. we don't practice our respective religions.
I can see problems coming up in a serious relationship if he's very devout and practicing weekly (chur... (read in full...)
I think I made a terrible mistake and need help making amends
Q. I made a terrible mistake. I am a college student, but I am an older one trying to get a second degree. One of my teachers is the same age as me (and I am also a female). She invited me to couple of her concerts (she plays instruments in a group). ...
A. 5 April 2013: Ah so glad I could help.
I've been there.... it's weird the first time it happens... and it's ok.
... (read in full...)
I need help feeling better about my Almost flat chest! Sometimes it gets me down!
Q. (Btw, I'm in a relationship and I'm happy with my relationship, it's great, and I'm confident and comfortable with my body most days, but some days I'm not) Now that I've got that out of the way... Sometimes I feel confident, but other tim...
A. 5 April 2013: when I had a mastopexy nearly two years ago I ended up with cute perky 34B breasts. SCANT B cups. Now I've gained some weight (mostly in my boobs) and I'm a 38 FULL C. I miss being small and perky...
I tell you this because just like wo... (read in full...)
I have a crush, but is the age difference too much?
Q. This is not like me but I've got a crush on a girl who is 18. I have never been attracted to a girl with that big of an age difference and I kinda of feel weird aboit it. I'm 30. When I first met this girl I thought she was 22-24, and that is right ...
A. 5 April 2013: When my husband turned 18 I was 31. I did not know him then but I’m just saying this so you know it’s not RARE to have a big gap and have it work.
You like her, she likes you, she’s over 18 so can’t see any harm in the two of you figuring... (read in full...)
If he likes me then why doesn't he talk to me?
Q. Hello There is a guy on a lecture I go to. This guy is always sitting alone with a girl. They also take the same bus after the lecture. This guy looked sometimes at me in the lectures. Everytime I look at him I see this girl looking very ang...
A. 5 April 2013: He does not like you enough to date you or pursue you.
he's being polite.
... (read in full...)
Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.
Q. Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have be...
A. 5 April 2013: he's on dating sites whether he meets them or not he's available if "someone better" comes along.
he has lied to you about it.
he blames you for it (that alone is enough for me to leave)
you don't trust him (with good reason)
I do no... (read in full...)
My fiance seems to have no goals or ambition
Q. I'm 24 and my fiance just turned 30. He lives at home with his parents, going to community college for the last 10 years now trying to get his bachelors, and has no work or real relationship experience. His 'income' comes from his parents by working ...
A. 5 April 2013: NO OP LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH. How will you feed your family, clothe your family and support your family with a man who will not work?
What will happen to your fiancé when his parents are gone? How will he support himself?
YOU can’t fix him or... (read in full...)
I think I made a terrible mistake and need help making amends
Q. I made a terrible mistake. I am a college student, but I am an older one trying to get a second degree. One of my teachers is the same age as me (and I am also a female). She invited me to couple of her concerts (she plays instruments in a group). ...
A. 5 April 2013: It was a compliment to a teacher who is becoming a friend.
RELAX if you are a contemporary (age wise) then I see nothing wrong with being friends and I see nothing wrong with complimenting a friend on her attire.
Telling her she looked beaut... (read in full...)
Who makes the first move on a third date?
Q. Hi Everyone! I am single and have joined an internet dating site. I met this fellow, let's call him Mr.M. Originally we organised a date for the week after we met, but it just so happened that our work gave us the same day off before th...
A. 5 April 2013: I wouldn’t bring it up. Sadly for most, sex does not change anything. The time to ask for exclusivity is before you are sexual. You are wanting to close the barn door after the horse is out and about.
Now you just have to wait and see what... (read in full...)
Wife wants to take a break but we have 3 kids and 12 years together! How am I supposed to deal with this?
Q. So I've been in a relationship for 12+ years. Me and her have three beautiful kids together...two boys and my baby girl. We've been going through a rough patch over the last few months, I found out she somehow got in contact with someone from her...
A. 5 April 2013: I’m not saying she’s cheating on you now. I sense that she would not do that. I also get the idea that she wants “alone time” and a “separation” so she can pursue this other fellow guilt free.
YOU guys have been together a long time over ver... (read in full...)
My husband admitted to having a crush on someone else
Q. What do you do when you are so very in love with your husband, but can't handle the fact that he had an emotional affair? I struggle on a day to day basis knowing that he actually "put someone in the middle" of our relationship. Him and I, (so I ...
A. 5 April 2013: I don’t think that marriage counseling is what’s needed at this point Shae. I think what you need is personal counseling for yourself to figure out what you want to do. It’s not an easy thing. Maybe I’m TOO forgiving. I know my mother ... (read in full...)
Is there any way out of this clash of values and attitudes? She wants to stop having sex until the wedding day (no date set for wedding yet)
Q. Hello, This is a bit long-winded but I hope you enjoy the ride. It's certainly been interesting for me. The backstory: I'm a 33 y/o professional traveling musician from the states. Three years ago I met a lovely 33 y/o girl in Germany ...
A. 5 April 2013: OP what's important to you the WEDDING or the MARRIAGE?
You have asked for a date and she's refusing.
You say you can't do it quickly so your family can be there.
I say do it without your family (the marriage)
and have the weddin... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband is distant. Is this just a lull in the relationship?
Q. I've posted this problem before, and I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I are pregnant with our first child (6 months now), and I feel like we're growing apart. We both were very active together before pregnancy, and I still am to my abiliti...
A. 5 April 2013: I'm afraid for you OP that he may have the "Madonna-Whore Complex" and be aware that this may be an issue for him and there won't be much you can do to fix it, he will need to work on it himself if he has issues with it.
You will have NO... (read in full...)
He's taking things slow, tooo slow!
Q. Hi, am 21 years old and I met a 40 year old man 2months ago, he told me that he was interested in me so we exchanged numbers. Since then we met only twice but he communicates with me everyday. We never have serious conversations, he always asks how ...
A. 5 April 2013: OP we are giving you advice, it’s just not the advice you want to hear. That seems to be the trend this week (there’s usually a weekly trend around here, this week it seems to be that we aunts are not being supportive of relationships and giving ... (read in full...)
Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt
Q. Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails d...
A. 5 April 2013: OP I know you feel bad but this really is NOT personal. It’s hard to understand how it can’t be about you and what you did or did not do but his behavior is his and it’s his problem and NOT a reflection on you.
One of my favorite relation... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of ending my 2 years relationship. I think its just time to let go.
Q. Hi everyone. Lately I have been thinking about ending my two year relationship with a really amazing guy. I just feel like at this point in life he will be better off without me and could be happier. I don't want to break up with him because I love ...
A. 4 April 2013: Ok fine, so you don't want to see that breaking up with a guy YOU LOVE who loves you because you think so poorly of yourself sucks. You are assuming it's not fair to him. You are making the choice for him.
Ok here's what you do tell him exa... (read in full...)
Wife wants to take a break but we have 3 kids and 12 years together! How am I supposed to deal with this?
Q. So I've been in a relationship for 12+ years. Me and her have three beautiful kids together...two boys and my baby girl. We've been going through a rough patch over the last few months, I found out she somehow got in contact with someone from her...
A. 4 April 2013: she wants permission to have an affair....
plain and simple...
she's been with you 12 years
you are 29 at most that means 17 for you so how old was she?
if she wants to feel better about herself suggest therapy.
having an affa... (read in full...)
I said I'd have a threesome but now I'm having second thoughts about it!
Q. My Fiance and I have decided to have a ffm Threesome, we decided to use an Escort for it. My fiance had Threesomes before with his Ex GF, it is my first one. Also I'm not BI not into other females at all. But know he likes to see the Bi of the ...
A. 4 April 2013: if you don't feel good about you you go to him and say "i'm sorry I've thought more about it and I just can't do what goes against my feelings to please you."
to be honest if he can't deal with you saying no and sulks about it, then perhaps... (read in full...)
We spend every night together and act as married but I am living out of a bag!
Q. For the most part I am living with my boyfriend. We spend every night together at his house. He calls it ours, we share everything like a married couple. Yet, my belongings are not moved in. I live from a bag and when I brought it up we had an ...
A. 4 April 2013: Stop toting the bag daily.
Stop going daily if it's such a bother for you.
How long are you together?
stop cleaning HIS home
stop cooking his meals in HIS home.
If his argument is that he needs to organize his house first, offer to c... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's?
Q. Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's? Sometimes I get jealous and even though he says it innocent, it really hurts. We are living together, and in a very serious relationship. Is it wrong to ask him not to text or call her? Is it ...
A. 4 April 2013: if my husband was texting another woman with "I think you are beautiful" or "I wish I could hold you" he would be my soon to be EX husband.
those are not friendly things
those are not even light flirting... those statements are over the top for ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of ending my 2 years relationship. I think its just time to let go.
Q. Hi everyone. Lately I have been thinking about ending my two year relationship with a really amazing guy. I just feel like at this point in life he will be better off without me and could be happier. I don't want to break up with him because I love ...
A. 4 April 2013: you want to end it because you think he will be happier without you?
have you asked HIM how he feels about this.
breaking up with him will require you to give him a reason.
I doubt "i'm leaving you so you can be happier" is going to sit... (read in full...)
What could my fwb want to 'discuss'?
Q. Friends with 'some' benefits situation: here goes: Nov 2012: approached him, started to hang out with him, told him I liked him, he told me he liked me too. Started to send flirty text messages daily. Saw him 2wice a week. Very sexually attract...
A. 4 April 2013: So what did he want to talk about??? I'm curious to know where you two stand now.... (read in full...)
My husband admitted to having a crush on someone else
Q. What do you do when you are so very in love with your husband, but can't handle the fact that he had an emotional affair? I struggle on a day to day basis knowing that he actually "put someone in the middle" of our relationship. Him and I, (so I ...
A. 4 April 2013: OP, if it’s over 4 months and you are not letting it go, I suggest some counseling for you to figure out if you want to get out of the marriage or figure out how to forgive him for his indiscretion. Then I suggest some couples counseling, if you ... (read in full...)
Do guys normally hold out a few days before making contact?
Q. Hey guys, last Saturday a guy who I got friendly with at a club overseas took my email address and I haven't heard from him yet. Does that mean his not interested? Or do guys normally hold out for a few days?...
A. 4 April 2013: who knows... maybe he lost it.
maybe he took it to be polite
maybe he got busy
or got sick
only HE knows why HE hasn't contacted you.... (read in full...)
Married 6 years and I still don't know if my husband loves me
Q. Hi I m now married fr six yrs but still dont know whether my hubby loves me or no? I love him though but he hs never exressed his love verbally Any signs to understand tht he loves me?? Well he does takes care of me but he never hs celebrated m...
A. 4 April 2013: my husband never says "i love you either" he never gets me a card of a gift for our anniversary either.
he loves me.
I know he does.
he cares for me and worries about me and treats me with respect. His friends are not allowed to disrespec... (read in full...)
Why do we have sex only when my boyfriend wants to?
Q. Hiya, so i posted a question on here yesterday and the people didnt really understand what I ws trying to day so and gonna try again I have been with my Boyfriend for 3 years. It's our sex life that I think is the problem. We have sex, oral e...
A. 4 April 2013: because you don't tell him NO.
See show him what it feels like
when he wants sex turn him down for every time he turns you down.
the other day my husband wanted a blow job... but i was not going to give him one till I got sex. it's been w... (read in full...)
Do I tell my jealous boyfriend that I've been texting a friend to play games? B/f has forbidden me to do so!
Q. Hello all. I have a question, it's kind of bothering me, so I'd like some advice... I'm 21 years old. I have 2 friends, who I don't hang out with (they're busy with kids and such) so I'm normally hanging out with my boyfriend. We've been together 5 ...
A. 4 April 2013: you are 21 and have been with said boyfriend since you were016/ 17... that's a long time in the world of someone so young.
you say "my boyfriend doesn't ALLOW me to text other guys"
honey you are NOT his property. He does not own you and ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date two guys at the same time?
Q. is it right to date two guys at a time? There is this who helped me once with finding a location. And since then, we've been friends. I tell him some personal things about myself, and he does same. I like him as a friend and wish to kip it like that ...
A. 4 April 2013: if you don't want to date him then don't date him.
if he says "date me or i'm leaving" then he's not a friend and let him leave.... (read in full...)
Is there any way out of this clash of values and attitudes? She wants to stop having sex until the wedding day (no date set for wedding yet)
Q. Hello, This is a bit long-winded but I hope you enjoy the ride. It's certainly been interesting for me. The backstory: I'm a 33 y/o professional traveling musician from the states. Three years ago I met a lovely 33 y/o girl in Germany ...
A. 4 April 2013: well I sense a couple of problems.
problem 1 is easily solved... get married ASAP... even if you go to the route of a quick legal civil marriage (of course she could say she wants to be married in the eyes of the church in which case... rush it ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband is distant. Is this just a lull in the relationship?
Q. I've posted this problem before, and I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I are pregnant with our first child (6 months now), and I feel like we're growing apart. We both were very active together before pregnancy, and I still am to my abiliti...
A. 4 April 2013: You've talked to him about this and he says it will get better but he does nothing to forward this along.
you are not happy and I will tell you right now when the baby comes it's not going to be better in terms of your happiness.
I am th... (read in full...)
He's taking things slow, tooo slow!
Q. Hi, am 21 years old and I met a 40 year old man 2months ago, he told me that he was interested in me so we exchanged numbers. Since then we met only twice but he communicates with me everyday. We never have serious conversations, he always asks how ...
A. 4 April 2013: You met this older secretive man about two months ago. He said he was interested and you exchanged numbers. Since then you have met him twice (average about once a month) but he contacts you daily with just casual chat. You want to have a ... (read in full...)
My husband admitted to having a crush on someone else
Q. What do you do when you are so very in love with your husband, but can't handle the fact that he had an emotional affair? I struggle on a day to day basis knowing that he actually "put someone in the middle" of our relationship. Him and I, (so I ...
A. 3 April 2013: I know how you feel and how your husband feels if that makes sense to you.
IMO his only huge mistake is not taking responsibility for his unhappiness and bad behavior. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
One of the things I've always done with my par... (read in full...)
Who makes the first move on a third date?
Q. Hi Everyone! I am single and have joined an internet dating site. I met this fellow, let's call him Mr.M. Originally we organised a date for the week after we met, but it just so happened that our work gave us the same day off before th...
A. 1 April 2013: I think you can go in for the kill... (just kidding)
sounds like if you don't make the move he might.
no hard and fast rules... you are an adult... if it feels right do it.... (read in full...)
What could my fwb want to 'discuss'?
Q. Friends with 'some' benefits situation: here goes: Nov 2012: approached him, started to hang out with him, told him I liked him, he told me he liked me too. Started to send flirty text messages daily. Saw him 2wice a week. Very sexually attract...
A. 1 April 2013: You want to continue seeing him while he continues to try to have sex with you knowing he does not want to commit to an exclusive relationship.
I can see nothing but heartbreak for you in this situation OP.
... (read in full...)
Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt
Q. Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails d...
A. 20 March 2013: OP... please feel free to PM me.
I think you may be over thinking this.
IMO, he TRIED. maybe he tried TOO Hard and too fast.
I often have found in cases like this that the "flash and burn" kind of relationships have this happen. ... (read in full...)
Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt
Q. Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails d...
A. 19 March 2013: OP i see your follow up... (its not marked as one) thank you for the rest of the story. I didn't think he was married I don't think he used you and I don't think that you sleeping with him is what ended it. I have seen his type before.... (read in full...)
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