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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Want to give my boyfriend spontaneous blow job, but lately his sex drive has been really low and i'm afraid if i attempt to give him a spontaneous blowjob he's going to shut me down or something...should i just take a chance and go for it? or no?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 April 2013):
 how do you plan to do this?
in our house I just ask "do you want a blow job?" he says no.
but if he's in bed and I say "assume the position" I just might get to give him one.
the problem is he gets a blow job and I get.........the satisfaction of having given him a blow job... nothing more.
so what will YOU get out of giving him a blow job?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2013): Go for it. It's a blow job the worst that can happen is he says no. The gesture will be greatly appreciated even if he does say he's not in the mood. Just understand OP, giving him head isn't going to make him horny again, and don't get into the trap of just giving him head without getting anything in return.OP try and figure out why his sex drive is gone and try and find a way of getting that back as a priority. Your relationship is not going to be a good one if you're not sexually satisfied. You need to know is this is going to temporary or if this is just going to be how things are. It's not normal for a guy your age to have such a low sex drive, it happens that some guys of course just never really have a high sex drive but it's very uncommon.
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