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writes:here deal i'm 25 never dated, slept with anyone. It part by choice and timing. I both studying, working kind lost interest in pub n night life after most of my mates got married and popping out new life into this world. I refuse to dsate/kiss/sleep with someone, just for sake of it even if i was attracted to the guy. So now i volunteer at two youth center therefore not lot time to go out. Always had a wondering eye, and a very active imagination. lately my imagination is in overdrive for example during my last camp that i help run one coworker whom worker different organisation. Personally i wouldnt call him good looking[however i do have few cilent whom would disagree], sadly we didnt really talk other than shop talk [we just didnt click that all]Nothing about him really got my attentions other part me was curious about the idea of sleeping with him, to point where where i have picture him naked when i was in bed. the point is i hate the fact i had those thought cos it very unprofessional. He's a nice guys and it was not nice of me think of him like that. so any ideas of stopping stop myself from hormonal thinking
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reader, Fender +, writes (17 April 2013):
Fender is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys the questions now is how can i look this guy in the face at the next staff meeting
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 April 2013):
 no i'm sorry having thoughts about people you know on your own time is not unprofessional... it's normal and natural.
I really am wondering if there is some sort of sexual repression or discomfort going on for you that causes you to said "it's not nice of me to think of him like that"
umm yeah it is.
and you are blaming "hormonal thinking"
and refusing to DATE and/or kiss someone EVEN if attracted to them makes my radar wonder what repression is going on for you....
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reader, raiders +, writes (11 April 2013):
 having some Eye candy is never a bad thing and having sexual thought is normal, just give it time and you will see it will die out.
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