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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 September 2011: Sorry I haven't checked in on this post in awhile. I'm so glad this article helped. I'm not a counselor, I work with a feminist group where I try to help out women who are in relationships with users. You weren't rambling at all, it made perfect ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 7 August 2011: First off, porn and prostitution are not hardwired. I will first address the whole oldest profession in the world argument. Yes prostitution has been around for a long time. So has war, rape, murder, torture, abuse, slavery, cancer, pain and ... (read in full...)
Do porn stars really enjoy very hard core porn?
Q. I recently saw a porn that was very hardcore in my eyes, and was wondering if the women that star in the movies actually enjoy themselves. There was 5 men and one woman and they each did her anally, directly followed by orally till they cummed in ...
A. 1 July 2011: I just wanted to add very late, I found out an "interesting" statistic about this. Women in the sex industry have higher rates of PTSD than soldiers who have been in combat (it's around 65%). It is in the same range as people who have been tortured. ... (read in full...)
Is she a virgin anymore? And can she get pregnant from anal sex?
Q. if during anal sex the penis slipped and touched the vagina and blood went out (in a virgin lady ) does it mean she lost virginity? can this causes pregnancy ?...
A. 3 June 2011: She can't get pregnant from that. Everyone else has covered the issue of hymen tearing, but I think it's a little confusing to be having anal sex and still be worrying about virginity, seeing as anal sex is generally regarded as more "extreme" sex ... (read in full...)
Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex and ex lovers?
Q. View points and opinions please!! Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex? In regards to your ex lovers? My boyfriend doesn't want me talking to any men on the phone or by email. I work in a bar so he ...
A. 3 June 2011: I think a lot of relationships do have some "rules" about dealing with exes and friends of the opposite sex. However, saying you can't so much as talk to men outside of work since being at work means you're around lots of men is pretty over the top. ... (read in full...)
Why is Girlfriend Obsesed with Former Friend?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for three years and mostly things are great. But lately something has been really getting to me. We met in college through a friend of hers, I'll call him Tyler, he was on the school soccer team and I worked maintena...
A. 3 June 2011: I don't know if there's anything you can do. She clearly is still hung up on him. If you're worried about cheating, I don't think you need to be. But if you don't like being compared to someone else (I can't imagine anyone would), you need to try to ... (read in full...)
Should I email his other girlfriend? He has been seeing both of us at the same time!
Q. Should I or not? I recently came across the email address of my boyfriend's 19 year old girlfriend. For 6 months he had been seeing me all the while seeing her too. I've known about her for 5 months now, she doesn't know about me. She lives an hou...
A. 2 June 2011: It's not your place to tell her she's been cheated on. What will it do for you? It will ruin her relationship, make both of them miserable, etc... Chances are, dating a guy that big of a jerk she won't end up with him anyways. My advice is cut your ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating?
Q. how can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating? I'd be interested in hearing some realistic ways of finding out if he is. Thanks for reading this...
A. 2 June 2011: First off intuition can sometimes play a part, many women just say they can feel that something is horribly wrong (but it could be many things ranging from him being stressed at work to you just thinking yourself into it).
Some cheaters will get... (read in full...)
Wife Said Top Fantasy Is Another Woman
Q. My wife and I were sharing fantasies. I thought mine were fairly normal and things we could do together. However, My wife's number 1 fantasy is sex with another woman. I was shocked! I am actually not part of any of her fantasies she listed. I ...
A. 2 June 2011: Yes I think so, though I don't like to tell people they are overreacting since you can't really help how you feel. That's actually a very common fantasy for both men and women to have, the woman with another person (I'm not sure why it's so much ... (read in full...)
My period is late, but I've never had sex before. What is going on??
Q. Alright. I'm 18 and a virgin but I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm not sure what's going on and I'm really afraid. I called my mom and asked her about it but she was no help as usual. I know I can't be pregnant because as I said... I'm a ...
A. 1 June 2011: Sometimes periods just go wonky for weird reasons, but it's almost always something very benign and easy to fix, such as diet, better sleep, etc... Don't panic, it's probably nothing serious. Just go see your doctor and she/he can tell you what's ... (read in full...)
Little blood in urine - please help!
Q. I'm 19. Today, I went down on my girlfriend and licked her vagina a little bit. I also rubbed my fingers outside of her vagina. Everything was alright. I didn't put any of my finger inside of her. And we didn't have sex. Then she got home and told...
A. 28 May 2011: Sorry if this sounds a little gross, but when a woman is on her period sometimes the urine can wash a bit of blood into the toilet and it can look like peeing blood. If she had her tampon in while you were giving her oral then yes, she's obviously ... (read in full...)
Do you tell your partner when you get hit on, find someone attractive, or have a crush?
Q. Do you tend to tell your partner when someone has hit on you or find them attractive? Does the situation make a difference? For example, if your coworker is hitting on you versus the girl in line with you at the checkout? My girlfriend ...
A. 27 May 2011: I tell my partner when random people compliment me or hit on me, as does he. But it becomes a gray area when it's someone you know. Generally if there's someone who could be a "threat" like a close coworker, ex-boyfriend, then I keep it to myself. ... (read in full...)
Question about anal sex.
Q. My boyfriend and I have tried anal sex a few times throughout our one year (and counting!) relationship. I currently work in the medical field as a CNA in a nursing home and I see almost everyday what bowel incontinence can do to a person's dignity. ...
A. 27 May 2011: It's not as though there's some kind of absolute number, but using LOTS of lube will help, and certainly don't do it daily. This question has a lot of good answers, Cerberus makes some great points:
h... (read in full...)
What is a good way to react to his high stress levels?
Q. Does anyone have any tips on how i can cheer up my bf, he is so down at the moment and stressed. We are planning to spend the weekend togther and just chill and do nothing, we both need it. Thing is he gets shouty when he is stressed and then i get ...
A. 27 May 2011: Just put on your extra thick skin and don't respond to him getting shouty. Just walk away when he begins to get angry. A lot of people when they get stressed just need to hole up alone in a cave and not be disturbed. Meaning even if you're together, ... (read in full...)
I have genital warts. How do I tell my b/f?
Q. Hi I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months and everything has been going amazingly, but I just found out I have genital warts. I know that HPV can be in the system for quite a long time before breakouts occur, so I'm not worried about hi...
A. 27 May 2011: He probably does have it. But it doesn't matter, you really have to tell him. I know it's embarrassing, but he could have just as easily given it to you. You never know who had it first. He needs to know so he can pass on that information to any ... (read in full...)
Why is masturbating so painful for me?
Q. So I'm a virgin but I masturbate with a vibrator. It's a 6 inch bullet so is rock hard. Every time i've used it to penetrate it's really hurt! I have to use lube every time before hand so i'm really worried that when i first have sex it will really ...
A. 27 May 2011: It could be the vibrations are just too strong for you and causing you to clench up painfully. If it hurts, don't do it. Also, having to use lube with a vibrator is totally normal. If it doesn't hurt when you put lube on it and turn off the ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to have my g/f want anal?
Q. My girlfriend since one year ago has had very many sexual partners and she is only 19 years old. (i am 20) People always say that it is a good thing because she is very sexual if she has been sleeping around, but she isnt. She only did it because ...
A. 26 May 2011: If you loved her, why would you want to find ways to make her do something she clearly does not want to do? She is not your private sex toy, she is your girlfriend. The vast majority of women downright hate anal sex. Even the vast majority of porn ... (read in full...)
Should I Sue Her?
Q. Okay here is my previous post and question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-if-she-is-genuine-and-it-is.html My girlfriend and I have broken up now.I have spent more than 20k on her in the past 8 months. I bought her various gifts fr...
A. 26 May 2011: This is a legal question about extremely delicate financial issues. You're going to have to talk to a lawyer about this.... (read in full...)
Attached men visiting strip clubs?
Q. How to deal with a man who use to visit strip clubs when he was single!!My boyfriend was a strip club visitor when he was single. He tries explaining to me that he feels those were better places to hang out, have a beer and relax, than a normal bar. ...
A. 26 May 2011: I don't think he's trying to sleep with them, first off I just doubt he'd want to and second off most strippers hate the men who visit strip clubs. But I agree that it's quite frankly, a sleazy thing to do, especially while in a relationship. It ... (read in full...)
Oral sex with a canker sore?
Q. so i perform oral sex on my gf and i had a canker sore... im super scared and so is she...can she catch somthing from it??? and if so what?? ...
A. 26 May 2011: A canker sore is not contagious. A cold sore is a form of herpes and could theoretically cause genital herpes.... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 24 May 2011: Pedophile isn't referring to amount of illegal activities, it just means you are attracted to children. Anyone who is attracted to children is a pedophile. Pedophilia used to be considered simply a sexual minority or preference.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to conceive and my ob-gyn tells me that testing negative is "good." What gives?
Q. I went to my ob/gyn for a check up and she did a pregnancy test. When the test came back neg she said the it was "good" that I was not pregnant. Why does she say that when we are actively "trying to conceive?"...
A. 24 May 2011: She probably assumed you were being tested because you didn't want to be pregnant. I'm sure she didn't mean to sound mean. You could always call and ask why she said that.... (read in full...)
What exactly does everyone consider cheating?
Q. Hi aunts, a question: whats really is cheating? When someone u are in relationship with chat with her ex but not tell u until u ask when u see received calls in her cellphone...
A. 24 May 2011: Usually cheating involves being sexual with another person. Chatting with an ex isn't usually considered cheating. Not all conversations with an ex are bad news, but you should ask her why she was talking to him before assuming the worst.... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?
Q. How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...
A. 24 May 2011: It's not so much a matter of time as a matter of comfort. When a couple starts spending nearly every night together, your stuff is just always at the other's apartment or house, when you feel comfortable enough to be completely yourself. It should ... (read in full...)
Do porn stars really enjoy very hard core porn?
Q. I recently saw a porn that was very hardcore in my eyes, and was wondering if the women that star in the movies actually enjoy themselves. There was 5 men and one woman and they each did her anally, directly followed by orally till they cummed in ...
A. 24 May 2011: Probably not. Would you enjoy having you anus pounded by five different men (and one woman I assume with a strap on)? I'd imagine following that with oral would make just about anyone want to be sick. And it might actually make you sick, it's ... (read in full...)
If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???
Q. ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask f...
A. 24 May 2011: She could either be being obnoxious, or she could be giving them a chance. Blowing them off is one thing, but agreeing to a few dates could be her just wanting to give a guy a chance for having the courage to ask her out.
But if she purposef... (read in full...)
Was he offended by my height?
Q. I am an outgoing 27 year old female. I am 5 foot 4 1/2 and slender. I recently had a date with a guy and went to the river. I wore flip flops because of the rocks, he (6 foot 3) thought that I was taller (I wear heels a lot) Was he offended by my ...
A. 24 May 2011: I've heard of guys getting upset by girls who are taller than them, but shorter? I've never heard of that. I can't imagine he cares.... (read in full...)
He will not leave his girlfriend now or in the future for me!
Q. i've ben dating a man and i guess he knows i am his girl friend for the last 4 months but he told me he would not leave his other girl friend and she will remain his girlfriend in the future. How can i win him and want me to stay with him?...
A. 24 May 2011: You can't. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. He just wants to have his cake and eat it too. He even was totally straight forward with you, he's happy with the situation as is. You should leave him and find someone who can be totally ... (read in full...)
About to be married and I'm terrified... Help!
Q. Hi, I need help here please. i am an 18 year old who is about to get married, ive had lots of friends with benefits in the past and 2 serious boyfriends. I love my 22 year old boyfriend so much i feel and im sure he is the one for me. We love each ...
A. 23 May 2011: 18 is awfully young to be getting married. If you're concerned about divorce, you should wait a few more years to make sure this is really what's best. Marriages have a much better chance of surviving if you wait until you're in your mid twenties. ... (read in full...)
Can he stop me from moving?
Q. Hi, some advice please. I have an 11 month old son, I split from his dad, my husband due to him having an affair. Now I decided I wanted to leave the area to make a fresh start for myself and my son as they only live around the corner from me and I ...
A. 22 May 2011: I'm not sure what the laws are in your country, but in my country these types of custody battles are common as it's not legally possible to move your child away without the permission of the other parent unless you have sole custody. You're going to ... (read in full...)
Guys: do you like being called 'hot'?
Q. Random pretty silly question, but do guys like hearing that a girl thinks they're 'hot' what do they think when they hear that? Because i met this guy and the other day i was talking to his friend and he asked me what i thought of his friend (the ...
A. 22 May 2011: I think just about everyone on the planet wants to be attractive. Just about everyone likes being complimented, especially on that.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 22 May 2011: This is a post about relationships and porn, not so much feminism and porn. I am more than happy to discuss pornography and feminism normally, however, I'd like to keep to the topic. I will post links instead. (this is relevant to why it is problema... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 20 May 2011: Actually I am excluding "niche" porn such as BDSM, as did the studies that found violence in the scenes. Those were just mainstream popular porn scenes. Violence included things such as gagging, slapping, hair pulling, etc... The point was largely ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 19 May 2011: There's a pretty big difference between noticing someone attractive and actively going out and seeking them out for the sole purpose of arousal. Everyone notices other attractive people. But I think most people would be offended if they were out ... (read in full...)
Is this a good long term method to desensitize the penis?
Q. I read somewhere that for uncircumcised/sensitive penis a remedy to desensitize it is to expose the head of the penis (or glans) for by pulling the foreskin back, for long period each day for several days (or even weeks). Say I pull my foreskin...
A. 17 May 2011: That sounds like a terrible idea. I mean I don't have a penis, but why would you want to desensitize yourself?! The only way you can last longer is to practice during masturbation.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sending flirty messages to his ex and is very distant with me....
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months and things have been fine expect this problem with an ex-girlfriend of his, however she was from 3 years ago and is a friend of his family. A few months ago, she started to randomly text him in the ...
A. 17 May 2011: This is definitely over the line. No you're not overreacting. It's not her who has no respect for the relationship it's him. This guy sounds, quite frankly like a jerk. Who breaks a present from his girlfriend and throws it in her face??? You should ... (read in full...)
How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Q. This if for teenagers mainly! But anyone who isn't a teenager else be sure to answer too :) ....How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend?...
A. 17 May 2011: I'm not a teenager, but I met my boyfriend in college. We had both transferred late into a class neither of us wanted to be in. I don't know what it was, but basically I saw him and felt this REALLY strong attraction, like nothing I'd ever felt be... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to decrease my libido?
Q. Ever since my girlfriend started her new job more than two months ago, our sex life has gone through the floor. Three times a week to one time a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and that one time she wants to do it is often when I don't feel ...
A. 17 May 2011: Rather than trying to fix the problem short term, you need to find a way to address the problem at it's root. Everyone gets stressed, but you need to find ways to work around that. You should talk to her about ways to have more sex. I know it sounds ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 17 May 2011: Wow guys, I'm flattered! I'm glad I helped.
Smiliek: Hmmm I can't remember exactly what I said on that post (there was a lot to read through). I think what you're referring to is when I was discussing who is prone to addiction. Basically there ar... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cant even be bothered to talk things through and always wants to leave at the first sign of trouble!
Q. whenever my girlfriend and myself have a disagreement her first answer is always well maybe we should just end it? or well shall i move out then? I almost feel like she wants me to say yes. I have been there for her through everything. Look...
A. 17 May 2011: I think it less means she wants to break up and more means she's feeling insecure about the stability of the relationship. I think she more just wants to hear you say that you still want to be with her even when you're both angry. It's very passive ... (read in full...)
When a girl stops giving oral does it mean they are no longer into you?
Q. Hi Just looking for some advice really Ive been with my partner for nearly three years now, things are great except for one aspect. We still have sex regularly, but the oral sex (from her) has gone from frequently to hardly ever- even as...
A. 17 May 2011: I agree with K_c100. It sounds like she wanted to impress you. A lot of women really want to do everything they can to blow their boyfriend's mind (pun intended) in the beginning, but other than the satisfaction of pleasing a partner, it can be very ... (read in full...)
Living with my boyfriend and have a young child together, but thinking of meeting up with my online guy. Should I meet him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone each other constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...
A. 17 May 2011: You can't go running for the hills every time your relationship hits a rough patch. All relationships hit rough patches now and then. It's fairly cowardly to ditch your boyfriend for someone else just because things got tough.
You need to try to w... (read in full...)
I think I might have made a mistake by breaking up with her......
Q. Hi all. A week ago today I broke up with my girlfriend and for the first 2 days I was happy but as the days went on I've been feeling less and less happy. I started thinking it was a mistake to end it and now I miss her. I thought it needed to...
A. 17 May 2011: Long distance relationships can be tough, and without an end in sight (such as one person taking off for another country indefinitely) the relationship can't continue without some way of being together.
Further, why would she become a prostitu... (read in full...)
A quick (honest) survey: How often do you and your partner have sex?
Q. This is something I am interested in as this often comes up on Dear Cupid, how often are couples actually having sex? I know personally I feel that my boyfriend and I are not having enough sex, I am 24 and he is nearly 28 yet we have sex once or...
A. 16 May 2011: I think it really varies for the couple and where they are in their relationship. It will vary. For some couples, stress makes them want more sex (like Cerberus and his girlfriend) and for some couples stress makes neither want sex. Couples may hit ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 May 2011: @Cerberus: I would never tell someone who seems OK with it that it's harmful and she should be bothered when she isn't. People who come on here asking for reassurance are far more often than not asking for reassurance that they're not stupid or ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 May 2011: I do believe vibrators and porn are different though in the way the need exists or is created. Some women need them in the sense that even when they try really hard, nothing they do can make them orgasm until they get themselves a vibrator, which I ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Why would it be banned. Cigarettes are horrible for you, they aren't banned. Alcohol causes a ton of problems but it's not banned either. Who said anything about banning anything? Most things that are atrociously bad for you aren't banned. Usually ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Cerberus, your views change from post to post because you are rational and logical on most answers and give extremely good advice, and then when it hits porn you are irrationally angry. I find it extremely amusing that you think you are open to new ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 9 May 2011: In my last response what I said to Auntie Tracey is the longest part. I'd hardly say that's ignoring. There is a huge difference between a small vibrator and buying the most enormous dildo she can. Like porn no one needs an enormous dildo and since ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 6 May 2011: Odds, I see what you're saying, but when you get to the porn part it doesn't make a lot of sense. I think if two people have differing sex drives, every so often they are going to have to sacrifice. One person will have to give a bit more, one ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: The scientific community also doesn't know smoking causes lung cancer, research suggests it. There are many studies out there that show no correlation or a negative correlation between smoking and lung cancer.
You'll note below I said as close to... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: I just got sent these links today, so instead of trying to explain this I'll let someone else do it:
A website mostly geared towards addicts, but explains why/how it works:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
(sorry for the long URL on this next one... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 3 May 2011: Dirtball, I wasn't missing your point. My point is that porn and sex are the same in a person's brain. So if someone asks a partner not to have sex with other people, asking them not to look at porn is exactly the same. Of course cheating is ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 2 May 2011: Dirtball they use something called fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) to watch how the brain reacts on top of measuring the release of hormones and chemicals. It's been known for some time now that orgasm, especially orgasming to porn, ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 2 May 2011: "It's not an appropriate subject"
If absolutely everyone with internet access has looked at least a few times, it doesn't matter if it's appropriate or not. Talking about venereal disease is appropriate, but porn isn't despite impacting almost 1... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 May 2011: Men and women are not that different. They are far more similar than they are different (a meta analysis found that over 95% of studies out of several thousand on psychological differences found no significant difference). However, there were large ... (read in full...)
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