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Question about anal sex.

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Question - (27 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have tried anal sex a few times throughout our one year (and counting!) relationship. I currently work in the medical field as a CNA in a nursing home and I see almost everyday what bowel incontinence can do to a person's dignity. My boyfriend enjoys anal sex and I do too (after a while of penetration). My question is, however, how often can a woman have anal sex before she becomes permanently incontinent? Please don't judge! Thanks!

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A male reader, a-g55 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2011):

a-g55 agony auntthe longer you do it the more the muscels get used to the stretching. when your older you will experience the problems more. but if you dont do anal sex at all then your still at risk of suffering problems. so i guess its best to live your life in the moment.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011):

ok honey listen. Use lube. and i mean use it. secondly only do it as a special treat not all the time.

also, arent you a little young for anal? whats wrong with vaginal sex at your age.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (27 May 2011):

person12345 agony auntIt's not as though there's some kind of absolute number, but using LOTS of lube will help, and certainly don't do it daily. This question has a lot of good answers, Cerberus makes some great points:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-having-frequent-anal-sex-cause-incontinence-later.html

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