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Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 September 2011: Sorry I haven't checked in on this post in awhile. I'm so glad this article helped. I'm not a counselor, I work with a feminist group where I try to help out women who are in relationships with users. You weren't rambling at all, it made perfect ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 7 August 2011: First off, porn and prostitution are not hardwired. I will first address the whole oldest profession in the world argument. Yes prostitution has been around for a long time. So has war, rape, murder, torture, abuse, slavery, cancer, pain and ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 22 May 2011: This is a post about relationships and porn, not so much feminism and porn. I am more than happy to discuss pornography and feminism normally, however, I'd like to keep to the topic. I will post links instead. (this is relevant to why it is problema... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 20 May 2011: Actually I am excluding "niche" porn such as BDSM, as did the studies that found violence in the scenes. Those were just mainstream popular porn scenes. Violence included things such as gagging, slapping, hair pulling, etc... The point was largely ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 19 May 2011: There's a pretty big difference between noticing someone attractive and actively going out and seeking them out for the sole purpose of arousal. Everyone notices other attractive people. But I think most people would be offended if they were out ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 17 May 2011: Wow guys, I'm flattered! I'm glad I helped.
Smiliek: Hmmm I can't remember exactly what I said on that post (there was a lot to read through). I think what you're referring to is when I was discussing who is prone to addiction. Basically there ar... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 May 2011: @Cerberus: I would never tell someone who seems OK with it that it's harmful and she should be bothered when she isn't. People who come on here asking for reassurance are far more often than not asking for reassurance that they're not stupid or ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 16 May 2011: I do believe vibrators and porn are different though in the way the need exists or is created. Some women need them in the sense that even when they try really hard, nothing they do can make them orgasm until they get themselves a vibrator, which I ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Why would it be banned. Cigarettes are horrible for you, they aren't banned. Alcohol causes a ton of problems but it's not banned either. Who said anything about banning anything? Most things that are atrociously bad for you aren't banned. Usually ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Cerberus, your views change from post to post because you are rational and logical on most answers and give extremely good advice, and then when it hits porn you are irrationally angry. I find it extremely amusing that you think you are open to new ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 9 May 2011: In my last response what I said to Auntie Tracey is the longest part. I'd hardly say that's ignoring. There is a huge difference between a small vibrator and buying the most enormous dildo she can. Like porn no one needs an enormous dildo and since ... (read in full...)
How do I help my wife get over some bodily fluid aversions?
Q. I know this is a common problem for men and a lot of the advice / replies posted to this are, well, less than helpful - so let me start by saying something REALLY important: I love my wife. We’ve been together for over 12 years, have a fantastic ...
A. 7 May 2011: I know this isn't the answer you want to hear, but many (most even) find cum to be a fairly disgusting substance. Women frequently describe vomiting when trying to swallow it or take it in their mouths. It tastes like bleach and rotting veggies ... (read in full...)
I gave her oral but she didn't reciprocate
Q. I just recently just performed oral sex on my girlfriend yet she didn't return the favour. She always txts me that she does want to but she didn't. I didn't want to tell her about it since she'll just do it out of pity which I don't want. I'm just ...
A. 7 May 2011: Many women are worried about being forced to swallow or even have a man finish in their mouths, so she may be hesitant for that reason. You could always just ask, and unless she gives you explicit permission, once she gives you oral you should give ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and wondering about being induced before the baby gets any bigger
Q. I'm 5 ft 1" and I'm pregnant. The last ultrasound I did the baby's weight was 7 lbs 8 ounces and that was at week 36. I did one more at 38 weeks and he is 8 lbs 4 ounces. I would really want to deliver the baby vaginally. Should I talk to my doctor ...
A. 6 May 2011: The drugs they use to induce labor can be immensely painful, so you'll want to make sure you have all the information about that before choosing it. From the women I've talked to size of the baby actually has nothing whatsoever to do with how hard ... (read in full...)
Do looks and types matter?
Q. Do you honestly think looks and types matter? There is this guy who I'm not dating, but we talk a lot and i just don't want to lead him on. But I think i am starting to like him, as a person he makes me laugh and I've noticed he is (fingers ...
A. 6 May 2011: If you like him, go for it. If you're going for him because you're worried nothing better will come along, then that's not a good idea. But just remember, looks fade much faster than a sense of humor. Good looks can't be the cement to a good ... (read in full...)
Worried about my contraceptive pill?
Q. Hey there. I'm currently on the microgynon contraceptive pill and I'm having a few queries and was wondering if anyone could help? Ive been taking them for about 8 months now. I was told at the doctor to take them everyday for 3 weeks and then s...
A. 6 May 2011: You need to continue taking them even if you start bleeding. Breakthrough bleeding can happen throughout your cycle, but it does not impact the pill's effectiveness. If you want to be protected you MUST continue to take your ENTIRE pack of pills. If ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 6 May 2011: Odds, I see what you're saying, but when you get to the porn part it doesn't make a lot of sense. I think if two people have differing sex drives, every so often they are going to have to sacrifice. One person will have to give a bit more, one ... (read in full...)
He had an emotional affair, but he wont accept he cheated! How can I make him understand?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we get on like a house on fire, I've never felt like this with anyone before, everything just worked. Before christmas he was having a tough time and I supported him best I could not giving him any ...
A. 5 May 2011: Cerberus is dead on. He probably does fully understand, but what's in it for him to admit his fault? If he can continue to insist that he did nothing wrong, he can continue to be "the good guy" with the insecure girlfriend. You're not being overly ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: The scientific community also doesn't know smoking causes lung cancer, research suggests it. There are many studies out there that show no correlation or a negative correlation between smoking and lung cancer.
You'll note below I said as close to... (read in full...)
Past events from my childhood still haunt me. How can I ever enjoy sex without needing to watch porn to enjoy sex?
Q. Hi I am a 39 year old woman who really loves sex and trying new things. My problem is that due to troubling issues from when I was a child, where a person did the wrong thing, it has resulted in me having trouble having an orgasim with my husb...
A. 5 May 2011: This sounds like a way of avoiding intimacy, in other words it sounds like something you need to work out with a professional. This is really beyond the sort of thing you can work out on the internet. Please speak to someone who can help you work ... (read in full...)
He wants me to be one of those women who cleans the house and have dinner ready for their husbands; but I have a full job with a lot of stress and responsibilities.
Q. My relationship is going downfall. My bf and I don't get along. We disagree on pretty much everything. He is conservative, I am liberal, he plans everything, I live by the moment, he likes to eat at home, I like to eat out, he watches reality ...
A. 5 May 2011: I'm sorry to say but this relationship doesn't sound like it can possibly work out. It's OK to disagree on things, but you both want completely different things out of your relationship and out of life. These are major things and would be pretty ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: I just got sent these links today, so instead of trying to explain this I'll let someone else do it:
A website mostly geared towards addicts, but explains why/how it works:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
(sorry for the long URL on this next one... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be to buy the contraceptive pill in Queensland, Australia?
Q. I was looking into buying the pill. Not really for sexual reasons (although it will come in handy), mainly to help clear my skin up, and to help regulate my periods. I am also wondering how I get the pill? Do I just go to the chemist and ask t...
A. 4 May 2011: You need to see a doctor. It looks like where you are you'll need a parent's permission since you're under the age of consent. Try explaining the reasons to your parents and hopefully they'd go with you.... (read in full...)
Do you still have periods if you have a STI?
Q. do you still have periods if you have an STI/STD? ...
A. 4 May 2011: Yes. STIs wouldn't affect your period. The only way to know if you have an STI is to be tested. If your period has stopped after sex you should take a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness?
Q. Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness? Romantic relationship meaning a committed, stable, relationship. you also must be with the same person for at least 2 years....
A. 4 May 2011: If you're not already happy, a relationship won't fix that. But if you're happy enough with the rest of your life, a stable relationship can be a great addition.... (read in full...)
Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance
Q. i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?...
A. 3 May 2011: Some STDs, such as Gonorrhea can cause a sore throat.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: People respond extremely differently to masturbation versus masturbation with porn. It's not even so much the masturbation part that leads the brain to believe its having sex, it's the visual part. I think masturbation is normal and healthy so long ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about what my BF will do when I am on vacation?
Q. I dreamt of my boyfriend that he was having sex with some girl I know, only I don't know who that girl is. Do you think this indicates anything in reality? I am supposed to go on a vacation at the end of May and I will be gone for 3 weeks. We spok...
A. 3 May 2011: He sounds like he's going to miss you, you're going to miss him, and your dream came from some little bit of insecurity that popped into your head right before you fell asleep. Dreams don't mean anything except whatever you were thinking about right ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: It's not about knowing the difference. Of course you consciously know the difference. But physically and subconsciously your brain cannot tell the difference. Maybe it knows something's missing, but even without the feeling of the masturbation just ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 3 May 2011: Dirtball, I wasn't missing your point. My point is that porn and sex are the same in a person's brain. So if someone asks a partner not to have sex with other people, asking them not to look at porn is exactly the same. Of course cheating is ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: The subconscious part of your brain, you know, the part you have no control over. It cannot tell the difference. There are a lot of studies about why we like porn, and that's basically why. There are many anecdotes and surveys as well to back it up. ... (read in full...)
My son's friend stares at my breasts. Should I say something?
Q. I'm a 46 year old woman with a 17 year old son. Whenever his friend comes over he always stares at my boobs. No matter what i'm wearing or if im showing cleavage or not he still stares at them. Should I say something to him when he does this or ...
A. 3 May 2011: You are not eye candy. You shouldn't feel embarrassed because he's acting inappropriately. Next time he's over just say exactly what ChiGirl said to say. Just because you have breasts doesn't mean you're required to be on display 24/7.... (read in full...)
My marriage is void of intimacy and I feel I'm running out of time.
Q. I have been married for 33 years. We (my wife and I) never had intercourse before marriage. Although we did everything but, before marriage. We have never been able to make each other orgasm or cum through intercourse. Masturbation seems to be the ...
A. 3 May 2011: 33 years???? And you're only just now asking this? You two should try going to therapy to work out why your wife has decided she hates sex. If nothing changes in a few months, it may be time to call it quits since this clearly isn't a fulfilling ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: Actually for many couples it doesn't come up until one person discovers it. Usually if it's dicussed it's a quick sort of, "hey let's not watch porn." "OK." There is really no difference between that and "Hey let's start dating exclusively/not see ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and haven't ever masturbated. Does this make me weird?
Q. Just a short question, I am a 16 year old female and haven't ever masturbated in my life because I don't know how to :/ Does this mean I'm weird? Or am i normal? Thanks so much to anyone who has any advice for me, i really appreciate it :)...
A. 2 May 2011: Not weird or bad. A lot of women don't start until later in life. There are a lot of resources online, sort of how-to guides for self-pleasure. They can be very helpful to a lot of women, especially if they are unsure what does what down there. Just ... (read in full...)
What would be the reasons why my GF is unable to have satisfying sex?
Q. This question is regarding my girlfriends inability to have sex; we are both well legal and have been dating for 2 years. the first time we tried i neglected a condom (stupidly, though nothing happened) as it was an experiment of sorts to see if I ...
A. 2 May 2011: There's a psychological thing some women have where upon penetration of any kind, the muscles seize up painfully, or she could have an infection, or any number of things. Sex should never hurt, so she should see her gynecologist to see what's up.... (read in full...)
What does anal sex REALLY do to your body?
Q. Another anal sex question..... Okay, I want to try this (well we have three times, and I failed, I was just not relaxed and too tight I guess), and I've been reading all the how to posts and what to expect, etc., but the one thing I am a little fr...
A. 2 May 2011: As long as you stop if it hurts a lot, you won't do any permanent damage. It will probably be a little loose for a few days, but it won't permanently damage anything. Women in porn look like that because they do it all the time, roughly, and ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 2 May 2011: Yes, asking a partner to stop watching porn is controlling. It's not even a TINY smidgen more controlling than asking that a partner not be sexual with other people (which actually is exactly what porn is except the people are behind glass). Asking ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 2 May 2011: Dirtball they use something called fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) to watch how the brain reacts on top of measuring the release of hormones and chemicals. It's been known for some time now that orgasm, especially orgasming to porn, ... (read in full...)
Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?
Q. I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion ...
A. 2 May 2011: He knows what he's doing is inappropriate and wrong, and at this point he doesn't even care that you know he's having some form of affair. There is no respect in this marriage, it's time to leave.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 2 May 2011: "It's not an appropriate subject"
If absolutely everyone with internet access has looked at least a few times, it doesn't matter if it's appropriate or not. Talking about venereal disease is appropriate, but porn isn't despite impacting almost 1... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 May 2011: Men and women are not that different. They are far more similar than they are different (a meta analysis found that over 95% of studies out of several thousand on psychological differences found no significant difference). However, there were large ... (read in full...)
He's cheating, I keep forgiving him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, but I still have feelings that he is cheating. About 6 months ago he left his phone open to some messages from a girl he used to work with saying, "We should meet up" and "Your not just a plan-b ...
A. 1 May 2011: He doesn't mean he's sorry he cheated, he means he's sorry you found out about it. This guy knows you will let him get away with anything and takes advantage of it. You need to dump him immediately, he is the type of cheater who will never stop.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 1 May 2011: Porn and pizza really aren't comparable (nor are mushrooms and porn). Most people have their first sexual experience with it. People also release bonding chemicals when they use it. Some people actually fall in love with porn. Any regular user who ... (read in full...)
Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?
Q. Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...
A. 30 April 2011: Just saw the follow-up, but to answer your question, I'm not married but have been with my partner for over two years and have lived together successfully for nine months and we are planning on getting married once we're done with graduate school. ... (read in full...)
Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?
Q. Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...
A. 30 April 2011: I'm speaking on for my own country, I suspect things vary in different countries. It turns out money issues aren't really the leading cause at all, and haven't been since right after WWII. Basically it mostly comes down to a couple's inability to ... (read in full...)
Masturbating for the first time!!!
Q. I have a few questions! I am thinking about masturbating for the simple fact that my boyfriend is sometimes away and i get lonely while he is away. Ive never masterbated ever in my life and im not sure how to get it started or the right "tools" ...
A. 30 April 2011: If you want a vibrator, buying online is a good place to look as it will cheaper, and there are reviews. Don't feel weird about masturbating, the vast majority of people do and it's perfectly natural and healthy. I'm sure your boyfriend does and ... (read in full...)
Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?
Q. I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion ...
A. 30 April 2011: No this is totally inappropriate to have a secret relationship with a female coworker. He's just flipping the blame on you so you'll get off his back. Saying I love you at the end of the call and staring at he breasts in front of you? It may be time ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I will pass a drug test!
Q. i have a job interview this following wednesday coming up i used cocaine about a month and half ago and now i need to make sure i past a hair drug test i only used one time only and like i said it was about a month ago...i am scared i may not past ...
A. 30 April 2011: Are you sure you will be doing a hair test? Hair testing for drugs is really expensive and companies rarely do that, it's usually urine. If it's hair, the only thing you can do is get rid of your hair since it will most definitely show up from 45 ... (read in full...)
Oral Sex Can Be A Sharing Experience - Swallowing IS Equal...
Q. I am in my early fifties and my man is as well. We've only recently become intimate and I was not involved with anyone for a few years prior. So, I had a long time to think about sexuality and what I would do when back into it. My thoughts are tha...
A. 30 April 2011: Wow I would never ever ever ask a guy to go down on me during my period. Out of curiosity I've tasted that, and it's pretty vile. I would have sex (being on my period makes me feel constantly half turned on) but I would never request oral sex. It's ... (read in full...)
1st time pregnancy questions
Q. Hi. Hadnt been here in a while so it kind of feels odd to be doing this after so long. Well i got married last year and i'm now pregnant for the first time ever. I wanna ask all the moms out there a few questions. First how do i deal with the ...
A. 29 April 2011: For the nausea, it always seems to set in for women when they get hungry, so always carry snacks around with you. Leave some by the bed and munch them as soon as you wake up, before you get out of bed. Ginger ale is a good idea in theory, but most ... (read in full...)
I told b/f I hate him watching porn but he says its normal
Q. my boyfriend watches porn and i am not happy about it. i think he watches far to much even though he has me. i am willing to experiment, but he chooses these porno girls. i have told him i hate it but he says it fine and natural. is it? i am also ...
A. 29 April 2011: This sounds like the beginnings of an addiction. The moment it starts to interfere with your sex life, even the most hardcore of porn defenders will likely agree the porn has got to go. He should not prefer to "test" his fantasies with porn over ... (read in full...)
Oral Sex Can Be A Sharing Experience - Swallowing IS Equal...
Q. I am in my early fifties and my man is as well. We've only recently become intimate and I was not involved with anyone for a few years prior. So, I had a long time to think about sexuality and what I would do when back into it. My thoughts are tha...
A. 26 April 2011: I don't think this is an issue of equality at all, many, even most, women just severely dislike or hate having that in their mouths and they shouldn't be forced to do that. It's one thing to not like BJs, and unless she has a history of abuse, I ... (read in full...)
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