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writes:so i perform oral sex on my gfand i had a canker sore... im super scared and so is she...can she catch somthing from it??? and if so what??
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 Cold sores are more common on the outside of the lips yes. However, as we are not doctors we can not tell you for sure. But, unless a doctor tells you otherwise, this sounds harmless.
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reader, Toushite +, writes (27 May 2011):
Toushite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionas of right now it has been 5 days now and she hasnt told me anything yet...she doesnt feel anything she says...the canker sore was inside my mouth...and it rarely hurt really...it is really small and is close to being gone...so is this really a canker sore??? it wasnt pure white as if it was a zit it was rather a clearish liquid in it... i also heard canker sore happens inside your mouth and cold sores happen outside of ur mouth on ur lips or so...this was inside my mouth on the inside of the lower gums.. so would it be considered a canker so?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (26 May 2011):
What I read is that a canker sore isn't contagious.
If it is herpes type 1 (commonly known as a cold sore), it can be transferred to your girlfriend during oral sex.
If you are unsure of what you have, contact your doctor to get tested while the sore is there (you can only test on the actual sore, not when the sore is gone). If you are certain what you have is a canker sore, then no need to worry.
Herpes isn't lethal either, just to calm you down in case you and your girlfriend get scared. It is a very common virus to have, and it is not the end of the world if you have it. Many get infected with the virus as children, from kisses from their parents, or on the playground. It is not dangerous, although uncomfortable when you have a break-out. I suggest you and your girlfriend read up about different sores, and be better prepared next time. Having sex means taking the responsibility to know about STI's, and pregnancy. You need to be aware, well educated, and prepared (in a mental state), for all of the above. If you are not prepared for this, then you are not ready for sex.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 Hey.. why not get it sorted out and let it clear up, then go back to the BJ's? I think that is healthier and would make you feel better. :o)
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 well, it depends on if you meant canker sore or cold sore. A canker is caused by excess bacteria and ancid your mouth and will cause a wound but nothing more. A cold sore is a form of herpes, and can be passed to other people, but you can also pass oral herpes to another person without actually having a breakout. it is a good idea not to perform oral sex or kissing when you have a break out as it does increase the risk, but any exchange of fluids can potentially infect her. Its nothing to be afraid of though, even if she does contract it, it may never present itself physically, or if it does it may only happen once or twice. The first time may be unpleasant but in all reality, its not the end of the world.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 May 2011):
 A canker sore is not contagious. A cold sore is a form of herpes and could theoretically cause genital herpes.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (26 May 2011):
Canker sores and what we nicely describe as "cold sores" can really be herpes 1. The so called "good kind". Even children who are Not yet sexually active can have it. (face)Herpes 2 was traditionally the genital kind but both can be present in either location. If she develops any kind of sore or irritation - she should get it tested. Next time, do not go down on anyone if you feel any sore.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (26 May 2011):
 As far as I know nothing bad can happen there. My gf gets them now and then and as long as they don't hurt her we still kiss and do things like normal.
Some people get them and others don't. I do beleive the suseptability is genetic and I don't really know what causes them. I think it is mostly stress related and not contagious at all.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 If it truly was a canker sore, nothing will happen, although perhaps you shouldn't have performed oral sex on her.
If it is a herpes sore, then you may have given it to her by now.
I think you should see a doctor and make sure it's just a canker sore.
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