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About Facebook and relationships

This question has 7 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...

Is Pornography cheating?

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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

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Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   16 September 2011: Sorry I haven't checked in on this post in awhile. I'm so glad this article helped. I'm not a counselor, I work with a feminist group where I try to help out women who are in relationships with users. You weren't rambling at all, it made perfect ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   7 August 2011: First off, porn and prostitution are not hardwired. I will first address the whole oldest profession in the world argument. Yes prostitution has been around for a long time. So has war, rape, murder, torture, abuse, slavery, cancer, pain and ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   22 May 2011: This is a post about relationships and porn, not so much feminism and porn. I am more than happy to discuss pornography and feminism normally, however, I'd like to keep to the topic. I will post links instead. (this is relevant to why it is problema... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   20 May 2011: Actually I am excluding "niche" porn such as BDSM, as did the studies that found violence in the scenes. Those were just mainstream popular porn scenes. Violence included things such as gagging, slapping, hair pulling, etc... The point was largely ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   19 May 2011: There's a pretty big difference between noticing someone attractive and actively going out and seeking them out for the sole purpose of arousal. Everyone notices other attractive people. But I think most people would be offended if they were out ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   17 May 2011: Wow guys, I'm flattered! I'm glad I helped. Smiliek: Hmmm I can't remember exactly what I said on that post (there was a lot to read through). I think what you're referring to is when I was discussing who is prone to addiction. Basically there ar... (read in full...)

A quick (honest) survey: How often do you and your partner have sex?

Q.   This is something I am interested in as this often comes up on Dear Cupid, how often are couples actually having sex? I know personally I feel that my boyfriend and I are not having enough sex, I am 24 and he is nearly 28 yet we have sex once or...

A.   16 May 2011: I think it really varies for the couple and where they are in their relationship. It will vary. For some couples, stress makes them want more sex (like Cerberus and his girlfriend) and for some couples stress makes neither want sex. Couples may hit ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   16 May 2011: @Cerberus: I would never tell someone who seems OK with it that it's harmful and she should be bothered when she isn't. People who come on here asking for reassurance are far more often than not asking for reassurance that they're not stupid or ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   16 May 2011: I do believe vibrators and porn are different though in the way the need exists or is created. Some women need them in the sense that even when they try really hard, nothing they do can make them orgasm until they get themselves a vibrator, which I ... (read in full...)

Hygenic to go back and forth between 2 places?

Q.   I have a fantasy about having half anal sex and half vginal sex as in in and out of one for a bit then in the next hole, but is that hygienic!?...

A.   15 May 2011: Vaginal to anal would probably be OK, but never go anal to vaginal or oral. That's just asking for an infection.... (read in full...)

Not sure how to tell my boyfriend I have probably passed genital warts on to him?

Q.   I have recently been to the clinic because I have developed genital warts. I asked the doctor if I needed to inform my current sexual partner about them and she said not to bother as he would know if he had them. I'm really embarrassed abou...

A.   15 May 2011: It's easier to spread the virus while there's an outbreak happening. Most people with HPV don't develop warts, so there's a good likelihood he will be unaffected. HOWEVER, you need to tell him. It's a really horrible thing to even think about not ... (read in full...)

How can I give my boyfriend pleasure with a handjob?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't masturbate using his hand, and when I try to give him a hand job he says it feels good when I touch him but that's about it. Like he doesn't moan or react in those kinds of ways and it makes me feel bad. Is it because he doesn't ...

A.   15 May 2011: Have him put his hand over yours and guide it so you get pressure and rhythm right.... (read in full...)

Can you use lotion as a lubricant?

Q.   I'm really nervous about giving my boyfriend a hand job. Can you use lotion as a lubricant? If so, which kinds of lotion are best? Thank you!...

A.   15 May 2011: Just so long as it's not for sex, lotion is a very common handjob lubricant. Unscented very basic kinds are best as they are least likely to irritate.... (read in full...)

He will not share the computer fairly. How do I get almost equal time?

Q.   My boy friend and I share the Internet. He lives in our home as his Dad is away working where he can get work, and his mother left them a long time ago. We both paid for it, but he did put in a little more for the computer as he wanted a better ...

A.   13 May 2011: Tell him that if you don't get half the computer half the time you won't pay for half the internet. Calculate total time spent on the computer, and only pay for your proportion.... (read in full...)

I'm scared my mother has ovarian cancer!

Q.   I am very upset and keep crying. My mother had blood work done and urine as well recently. She is 60 years old..they found blood in her urine..they tested again and still found blood. They did a urine culture. He said it was bacteria but not a UTI ...

A.   13 May 2011: Bacteria cannot cause cancer, I'm sure your doctor would say if he was worried it was and refer her to a specialist. Saying it's not a UTI is in no way the same as saying she has cancer! Log off webmd, stop googling this and let the doctor do his ... (read in full...)

What does the female g-spot feel like? And where is it?

Q.   hello. Just wondering if you lovely people could tell me what the female g spot feels like. And how far in it is. Many thanks ...

A.   13 May 2011: Some women have a really obvious feeling one, like a spongier material or the wall outside where it is feels a little rough. It's difficult to tell how far in it is, since it varies from woman to woman. The easiest way to tell is to make "come ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   13 May 2011: Why would it be banned. Cigarettes are horrible for you, they aren't banned. Alcohol causes a ton of problems but it's not banned either. Who said anything about banning anything? Most things that are atrociously bad for you aren't banned. Usually ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   13 May 2011: Cerberus, your views change from post to post because you are rational and logical on most answers and give extremely good advice, and then when it hits porn you are irrationally angry. I find it extremely amusing that you think you are open to new ... (read in full...)

For anyone who has cheated after agreeing to get married.

Q.   Have any of you had affairs after you became committed to a person, but before getting married? If so, what were the reasons? Was it ever revealed or did you keep it a secret forever? How do you feel about it now that you are married? Does it ...

A.   11 May 2011: It's actually fairly common for people to cheat around big commitments. They get scared, panic, and do something to reaffirm their freedom or to try to convince themselves what they're doing isn't that big a deal. That doesn't make it OK or right, ... (read in full...)

He was really attentive, then acted like I was bothering him. Why?

Q.   Ill make this brief: Went out on a lunch date with this guy who Im interested in dating. He paid. Said he wanted to see me again after he got back from army training which is only for 2 weeks. After we ate we held hands, kissed..thats about it. When ...

A.   11 May 2011: I think you're trying to get way too much from one text. Before you come to any conclusions it's worth texting or calling him again with a reason. Guys tend not to give long detailed responses to questions like "what's up?" I don't like to make ... (read in full...)

Bleeding between period...Any advice?

Q.   Hi all, Gosh I'm having such an annoying problem. I've been bleeding between my period for 9 days straight now and not even due on my actual period until this Wednesday. 2 Wednesdays ago, 27th April I missed that pill but didn't start spotting...

A.   9 May 2011: It could be so many things from a hormone imbalance to taking the pills irregularly to any number of things. You should call your doctor.... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   9 May 2011: In my last response what I said to Auntie Tracey is the longest part. I'd hardly say that's ignoring. There is a huge difference between a small vibrator and buying the most enormous dildo she can. Like porn no one needs an enormous dildo and since ... (read in full...)

What is "Masculine"? - A body language question

Q.   Hello all, Allright guys. Amidst all the serious questions on relationships, dating, marriage, break-ups etc, I thought of giving you guys a breather. This is a sort of trivial question, but am sure it can make for a casual chat topic. I am a...

A.   9 May 2011: Well masculine and feminine are totally socially constructed, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. Typically yes, crossed like that is a "feminine" way to sit. The "masculine" way to sit is ankle over knee (open legs) or legs spread with feet ... (read in full...)

Do you think you can tell what a person is like by their photo?

Q.   I am just curious: do you think you can tell what a person is like by looking at their photo? I do a lot of online dating and sometimes contact a girl by their profile photo...but I am thinking this might be a silly approach, since often you ...

A.   9 May 2011: Yes and no. Anyone good with photoshop can make themselves into whoever they want. I do this as a job, and it's extremely easy to make someone look friendlier or sweeter or anything just with minor changes. So in that aspect, no not really. But o... (read in full...)

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

Q.   My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...

A.   9 May 2011: I just wanted to point out that perhaps your wife doesn't want to vary the sex since she feels like just about everything you want from her is to copy what you see in porn. That would turn most women off sex, especially anything not strictly ... (read in full...)

Husband has lied before. Do I trust him or continue with the divorce?

Q.   Help! My husband and I met 7 years ago, we have now filed for divorce. When we met he told me he didn't have a gf and later I found out he did, but we started to date anyway. He had 2 kids by 2 different women when I met him. Two years later we got ...

A.   9 May 2011: You're not overreacting, this guy is treating you like garbage. He's lied many many times and will never stop lying and sexting and having online affairs. It's not better for your daughter to grow up in a loveless marriage where her parents resent ... (read in full...)

Does being ambidextrous mean I have something developmentally wrong with me?

Q.   This isn't exactly a relationship but a question about human biology... it's not sexual but a question about my body. I hope that counts? It's not a serious problem but I'm just dying of curiosity. I don't have a dominant hand and don't think ...

A.   8 May 2011: Nothing's wrong with you. It's a cool skill is all. It's useful, don't worry about it.... (read in full...)

My husband want to take a break from our rocky marriage by having sex with other women! And he says people do this all the time!!

Q.   hey. im 25 years old and married. ive known my husband for 10 years, dating for 5, married for 3. we are going through a rocky patch. my husband has suggested we split for a week or two and have sex with someone else. i am worried though that he ...

A.   8 May 2011: Couples don't do this. Couples having affairs do this. He wants to have sex with someone else so he's making sure he can do it without repercussion. That is a very unhealthy way to handle this. All couples go through rocky patches occasionally. Part ... (read in full...)

I think my married teacher is having an affair with another teacher! Can I intervene??

Q.   So I am madly crushing on my teacher. Don't worry this isn't one of those stupid "should I tell him!?" questions. I know he'll never reciprocate my feelings and I never plan to tell him and I am perfectly comfy with him not knowing and liking him ...

A.   8 May 2011: What business is it of yours? Basically you have a crush on him and you don't like the idea of him liking someone else. If you try to intervene you could ruin his marriage. Stay out of it. Stay way out of it. Don't even try to intervene. Sounds like ... (read in full...)

I miss oral sex and foreplay. Should I cheat on my fiance?

Q.   my fiance doesnt want to give me any oral sex getting really frustrated,im a very pretty girl never had this problem before,i couldnt get ant of my other boyfriends to get out of my vagina,yet he cant even toch it i dont even think ha has ever ...

A.   8 May 2011: Why would you want to stay with a guy who's terrible in bed? If he's not satisfying you and won't even try, then you need to break off the engagement and find someone you're more compatible with. Why would you agree to marry someone who you fake ... (read in full...)

Condom talk and pregnant test talk have turned him off from sex?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. Last week, we were getting hot and heavy and after all that, I asked him if he ever thought about having sex. I'm still a virgin, I don't know about him but I'm pretty sure he still is. ...

A.   8 May 2011: He probably just wasn't in the mood. Unless it happens again I don't see any reason he'd be scared off. Nothing about that conversation screams "scary" it just sounds responsible.... (read in full...)

I don't know what to say during foreplay

Q.   Hey, I have this problem when getting it on with my bf. When we make out and initiate foreplay, I get really quiet and don't know what to say. Also I think I'm shy of doing things, despite the fact that I am confident to say what I'd do to him wh...

A.   8 May 2011: Well I don't think most people "say" anything. Fast breathing, moaning, etc... should be plenty enough to let him know you're enjoying yourself. Don't talk, just moan, breathe, and make noise like that and that will fill the silence plenty.... (read in full...)

I think my husband was cheating but he tells me to just forget about it

Q.   I caught my husband of 21 years hiding text messages and phone calls from another woman always had his phone on silent or vibrate and never left it laying around texted in the middle of the nigh while I was asleep even while I was taking a shower. ...

A.   8 May 2011: You're right to be suspicious, that sounds totally inappropriate. I guarantee you that he wouldn't be OK with you sneaking around texting men going through a "tough divorce." If there was nothing going on he wouldn't get angry at you for asking ... (read in full...)

Tried so hard to looked toned and look the same!

Q.   I hope you can help and I would really value your advice :-) I am just under 5 ft 4 and I weigh just over 9 stone. I have been exercising pretty vigorously since January and yet there is little difference to my appearance or how I feel! I don't ge...

A.   8 May 2011: When you get to the point where there's nothing else to lose and tone, everyone is telling you that you look great, and you're still obsessed with losing weight, it's time to start seeking help for an exercise disorder (a form of anorexia). You ... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend calling other girls perfect?

Q.   I really don't know what to do :'( my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and pe...

A.   8 May 2011: He doesn't seem to be showing you much respect or attention. It may be time to leave and find someone who actually cares about you. You may love him, but do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you back?... (read in full...)

How can I fake being a virgin?

Q.   hi there, my name is nancy and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can fake being a virgin. because i'm gettin married soon and it's a crime in my culture to have sex before marrige....

A.   8 May 2011: Since virginity is a mental state rather than a physical one, there's nothing to fake. Many women don't bleed because they broke it falling, riding a bike, riding a horse, etc... But a marriage should be based on honesty and trust, and lying about ... (read in full...)

Do irregular periods mean you won't be fertile?

Q.   Question for the girls mainly: Hello. I am a 22 year old woman. I started my periods a lot later than everyone else, and they were very irregular - once every two months for a while, then once ever 6 months. I have had an internal test and there we...

A.   8 May 2011: Not necessarily, you just won't know when you're most fertile when you try to conceive. You may want to speak to your doctor to rule out any hormonal imbalances so they are so irregular.... (read in full...)

I regret breaking up with him! How do I get him to respond to my text messages?

Q.   I ended things with my boyfriend of two months because I was jealous of the interest he seemed to be paying to my best friend. I sent him a text message telling him that I was annoyed that he seemed to enjoy her company more than mine and that I ...

A.   8 May 2011: You could always try to get him back by saying you acted in the heat of the moment and that you're sorry, but you have to be willing to accept that he might not be open to the idea of getting back together.... (read in full...)

Pick Up Artists..why resort to this, guys?

Q.   Dear DC readers. I have a question that I've been thinking about and couldn't really answer myself. I've noticed that a lot of guys I know, either who get dumped or who can't find a lady, they resort to being a Pick Up Artist. Question is, why...

A.   8 May 2011: I've rarely heard of that outside of Hollywood. I'd assume most pick-up artists are for picking up girls for one night stands. It's sleazy to pretend to be someone you're not for that, but in the end no one would ever really know. It's a slime-ball ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has never gone down on me

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost four years, I am 18 and he is 22. We were each others first, and we started having sex around 6 months, we did it at the park, in this secret hidden area since we couldn't do it at each others ...

A.   8 May 2011: Simple. Stop going down on him. He's being a selfish jerk, that's all there is to it. This relationship is entirely one-sided. Basically he doesn't get head if you don't get some. Why would you continue to give him oral every single day without ... (read in full...)

Is it ok if I change my mind about having a threeway?

Q.   OK so early i agreed to do a three way with my bf cuz he wants to but we havent yet but they cant touch each other at all. Than my bf says thats not fair if you do stuff with her if i cant but then i said i cant fall inlove with girls and stuff and ...

A.   8 May 2011: Threesomes are often a very bad idea, and in this case it sounds like it will definitely be a bad idea. Your boyfriend is acting extremely inconsiderate and childish. Because of how insistant he is that he gets to touch the other woman, it sounds ... (read in full...)

I don't get turned on when we have sex

Q.   I am 18 years old I lost my virginity when i was 16 (big mistake). I am now in a serious relationship, I really like the guy I am with in fact I love him. When we have sex i find that i do not get turned on. My boyfriend gets turned on but i ...

A.   8 May 2011: Most women can't orgasm from intercourse, and if sex isn't somehow stimulation your clitoris, it could be downright boring feeling. We unfortunately don't have many nerve endings in our vaginas (fortunate for giving birth, not go great for sex). ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend loses erection as soon as we try to have sex

Q.   Hi my boyfriend Is 20 and im 19, We have been dating for 5 months now, known each other for 2 years. Everything is going great except for one thing. We cannot have intercourse at all as my boyfriend looses his erection as soon as we try. We alway...

A.   7 May 2011: If he can't even begin to have sex, that sounds like performance anxiety. Try making sure you're both really relaxed and boost his confidence before hand. Not in a way that will make him feel put upon, but just make sure he feels sexy and desired. Ho... (read in full...)

Did I pee or squirt?

Q.   Did I pee or squirt? My fiance is reading up on how to make me squirt. Meanwhile I think it's something I have to learn to do or maybe I can't at all. So I read up on it and watched some videos. I tried and well the result was fun, but strange. I ...

A.   7 May 2011: It all comes out of the same area so it will feel roughly the same to pee or squirt (though obviously with the whole being extremely close to orgasm accompanying it). Squirting actually doesn't happen because you orgasm, they usually happen at ... (read in full...)

He won't commit but I want to build a life with him, what can I do?

Q.   I have been in a relationship (with a mini-break 2 years ago) for 6 years and I love him dearly. I get really frustrated that he wont move forward and commit (ie live together properly) and I voice this to him occasionally. He simply answers he's ...

A.   7 May 2011: This guy has no intention of ever moving the relationship forward. He's just having fun and dating. If you want a real commitment you need to find another guy.... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend's behaviour with his "friend" inappropriate? ?

Q.   My boyfriend has a friend who a while ago he used to fancy. She rejected him because although she liked him she lives about two hours away and at the time neither of them had cars. While my boyfriend and i were seeing each other she called him up s...

A.   7 May 2011: Well, it doesn't sound good. It sounds like you're basically settling for second fiddle. He really likes her, but he's dating you instead since she's far away. He doesn't sound like he has much respect for you or your relationship. That last text is ... (read in full...)

How do I help my wife get over some bodily fluid aversions?

Q.   I know this is a common problem for men and a lot of the advice / replies posted to this are, well, less than helpful - so let me start by saying something REALLY important: I love my wife. We’ve been together for over 12 years, have a fantastic ...

A.   7 May 2011: I know this isn't the answer you want to hear, but many (most even) find cum to be a fairly disgusting substance. Women frequently describe vomiting when trying to swallow it or take it in their mouths. It tastes like bleach and rotting veggies ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   6 May 2011: Odds, I see what you're saying, but when you get to the porn part it doesn't make a lot of sense. I think if two people have differing sex drives, every so often they are going to have to sacrifice. One person will have to give a bit more, one ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   5 May 2011: The scientific community also doesn't know smoking causes lung cancer, research suggests it. There are many studies out there that show no correlation or a negative correlation between smoking and lung cancer. You'll note below I said as close to... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   5 May 2011: I just got sent these links today, so instead of trying to explain this I'll let someone else do it: A website mostly geared towards addicts, but explains why/how it works: http://yourbrainonporn.com/ (sorry for the long URL on this next one... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   3 May 2011: Dirtball, I wasn't missing your point. My point is that porn and sex are the same in a person's brain. So if someone asks a partner not to have sex with other people, asking them not to look at porn is exactly the same. Of course cheating is ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   2 May 2011: Dirtball they use something called fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) to watch how the brain reacts on top of measuring the release of hormones and chemicals. It's been known for some time now that orgasm, especially orgasming to porn, ... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   2 May 2011: "It's not an appropriate subject" If absolutely everyone with internet access has looked at least a few times, it doesn't matter if it's appropriate or not. Talking about venereal disease is appropriate, but porn isn't despite impacting almost 1... (read in full...)

Is Pornography cheating?

Q.   The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...

A.   1 May 2011: Men and women are not that different. They are far more similar than they are different (a meta analysis found that over 95% of studies out of several thousand on psychological differences found no significant difference). However, there were large ... (read in full...)

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