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* I'm brutally honest, sometimes to the point of offence, I never hide under the secrecy of anonymous. I'm pro-porn and many people don't like this. I'm also non judgemental of different relationships and lifestyles. I'm pro-men and pro-women, I believe strongly in equality and happiness for both sexes, that's my definition of Feminism. And I'm an atheist, there aint no God in my world.

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My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   17 April 2010: mmmmmm..... you sound so much like me, it's very funny. Read back this post, your moods keep changing like the wind. 1. First your hurt and sensetitive over small things 2. Then your abrupt and to the point 3. Then you get angry and explai... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   16 April 2010: Yep, perfect friday.... I'm watching politics and eating ice-cream... yummmmm... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   16 April 2010: Got to admit it's the aunts and uncles here at dear cupid who pulled me out of my hole and taught me how to laugh again...... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: Sigh.. sorry babes, you've been in my thoughts for most of the day.... I wish I had the nice words like Mal, to make you feel special and beautiful and tell you everything will be alright... Your mother dosen't have any idea how your suffering, if ... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: About mothers who don't have time to realise how badly your suffering.. my family were like that... what I did was scream, shout and break down. I stopped being polite, I stopped trying,, I threw away the pride and said, "people damn it, I bloody ... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: Ah.. bingo.. thanks for your update, now I can understand why you sounded so abrupt and to the point.. (rude) Yep, know the feeling, my life got destroyed by sickness too. Not going to tell you to be cheerful, dosen't work with depressi... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: Hey guys, are we all friends now... I say, time for big group hug.. lol... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: They are still sweet when they are one.. when he gets to two and starts shouting, hitting you and thinks he owns the place then I suggest you sell him and see how much you make. He won't start running until he's about 18months.. that's when you... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: lol.. Mal, your a hell of a lot nicer than "narrow minded me"... ... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: Yep, knew you'd respond just like that.... As I said before, you appear to be rude and insulting, as well as childish and immature.... Your the one who is disrespectful and you need to take a good look in the mirror. I have a feeling, that yo... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: To bad you didn't want proper advice at all... First, your follow up was very abrupt, almost to the point of rudeness... Secondly, your living in her house, your unemployed, so why aren't you interested in helping out... "The thing is I basic... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: Actually, I've never minded paying taxes, I've always been willing to pay more, so I have always put some extra in the charity box... too many people have it hard, and yes, the young pregnant teens get it worse.. It's just that it seemed so unfai... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: Jumpsupshoutout, the more you write and tell us how your managing with Isaac, the happier I am that you decided to come here to dear cupid.. Now you explain about your finances, changing nappies and learning all about babies, the easier it is fo... (read in full...)

I love her but she slept with so many men

Q.   I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

A.   15 April 2010: And Ms Trying.. I'm laughing because you have survived, your fighting back and doing all you can to turn your life around as well as helping other people on here.. In my book that deserves a pile of applause... What dosen't kill you, only makes you ... (read in full...)

I love her but she slept with so many men

Q.   I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

A.   15 April 2010: Damn.. now I'm all sad again... sad for all you women and men who have suffered such pain... Thanks ms trying... lol.... speaking out and telling the world that you've been hurt too is one of the best things you could do... you help so many peo... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: No problems Starmonster... I'm teasing... not offended at all... Dear Cupid is a place where people are truthful and it's always good to see things from another point of view... Didn't you see my smiley face... :) PS: Don't watch your hands... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: No she's not offensive, she's just giving her opinion, and yes most mothers are like that... Hope this answers your question.... (read in full...)

My mother slanders my cooking

Q.   O.K. this is kind of childish I know. I live with my parents cause I'm jobless and have a lot of debt. My mother told me a friend of hers ask her if I know how to cook and my mother told her I knew how to but my food was always 'tasteless'. I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: Either your food is great or it's not...... I used to be the worst cook in the world, but I got tired of people laughing at me, so I bought myself a book and studied it as hard as I could... Now I'm not the worst cook in the world.... probably... (read in full...)

I love her but she slept with so many men

Q.   I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

A.   15 April 2010: Here's an old post that I want you to read.. it broke my heart at the time.... this is what she felt, and why she wanted to destroy herself (by being used by tons of men), because rape victims always blame themselves.. http:... (read in full...)

I love her but she slept with so many men

Q.   I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

A.   15 April 2010: I'm in with fatherly advice..... rape victims turn their anger and their hate inwards, they aren't having fun with tons of guys, they are either punishing themselves or trying to punish men... She didn't cheat on you, she loved you too much to ... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: "cold, happieness-hating woman"... "righteous and mean"... lol, I've been called worse... Lots of positive feedback on this post, and for that we must be thankful to Issac's mother for telling us her story.. ... (read in full...)

He's watching porn -- am I just not good enough?

Q.   i recently descovered my boyfriend has been watching loads of porn on his computer ive asked him before about it but hes always denied it i had a strong feeling about it so i looked at his history and it came up with loads of redtube sites im so ...

A.   15 April 2010: mmmmm.... dear ms anonymous, you seem to think that pornography is something only for men.. many women watch it and enjoy it as well... Only three options available.... 1. Partner gives up pornography (yes, it can happen) 2. Partner refus... (read in full...)

He's watching porn -- am I just not good enough?

Q.   i recently descovered my boyfriend has been watching loads of porn on his computer ive asked him before about it but hes always denied it i had a strong feeling about it so i looked at his history and it came up with loads of redtube sites im so ...

A.   15 April 2010: Bravo Kaede, that is the best answer I've ever read in answer to a person who has problems with men and pornography..... Bravo, Bravo.... every single thing you say is absolutely true.. Unfortunately, it is difficult for many women to accept t... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: Don't worry Q, yes she is adorable, and she's got loving family and friends beside her, she'll be all right in the end... She just needs to think a bit more carefully about the riches that come to her... but she can worry about all that next ... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   15 April 2010: Yes I know Q, that's why your not allowed to be with children on your own, you turn into mush too easily.. :) ... (read in full...)

Why can't my husband understand that I don't want any more children! We have 2!

Q.   I have been married for 15 years and have 2 beautiful children with my husband. Unfortunately, my pregnancies were not easy, 4 pregnancies, cyst removal on one of my ovaries, 2 miscarriages between my 2 successful ones, no natural birth only ...

A.   14 April 2010: Take him with you next time you go and see you gynaecologist, they can explain due to your medical history why another child would be painful to you. He may not believe you, but he'll believe it when a doctor says the same thing.... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   14 April 2010: jumpupshoutout as you can see, I'm very angry.. you make having a baby seem so easy.... Other 13,14 and 15year olds will read your story and think that they can do it too... You are very lucky your mother is helping you so much, without her, the... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   14 April 2010: "my uncle helped with furnuture i wasnt allowed to do any thing my uncle dan and uncle george and a couple of there mates helped i was sent off to a day at the spa with my best mate who was 16 and pregnant so we went to a young mums spa for the ... (read in full...)

The virtual baby didn't put me off!

Q.   i am 15 and im craving a baby really badly i feel ready for one, i have had a virtual baby to try and cut me off this situarion but it made me want a baby even more what shud i do can you help me please ..xx ...

A.   14 April 2010: Why don't you read this young girls post.. she's only 13, she's got a house, a kid and for her everything is so easy... maybe she's got better idea's than us adults about how cheap raising children are.. http:... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   14 April 2010: Actually, it's probably best you go and look after your children.... posts like yours make a lot of working people and taxpayers angry.. that's why they keep wanting to change the laws...... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   14 April 2010: Think she meant me... didn't know it was so easy to get a 3 (4) bedroom house in Britain..... she just went to the council, and bang, they moved her and her mum, her mother didn't even have to ask.... "i ran out at 6 months pregnant i went dow... (read in full...)

Isaac and Me

Q.   hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...

A.   13 April 2010: Mmmmmmm...nice fantasy, but you really do need to study harder.. your story has no punctuation and is very difficult to read.... (read in full...)

Why do men turn to protitutes?

Q.   this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...

A.   12 April 2010: It is a pity that so many women feel the need to put other women down...skanks, hoes, drug addicted, ugly... blah, blah, blah... I'm confident enough to feel sorry that some women are driven to sell their bodies for money, and probably a little j... (read in full...)

He lied about being a stoner

Q.   Back in high school my boyfriend used to smoke pot (we werent together yet). We are now both 19, and been dating for 5 months. He hasnt smoked weed in about a year. At the beginning of our relationship I strictly said that I dont want him smoking ...

A.   11 April 2010: Cannabis can affect mental stability and can cause fertility problems... So can alcohol and tobacco.... You may be anti-drugs, but you get nowhere giving out unscientific statements that are not backed up by research... the fertility proble... (read in full...)

Update from post "Can my husband sue?"

Q.   I wrote a post earlier regarding my adulterous affair and questioned if my husband could sue my lover...now ex-lover. Instead of suing, he did a background check on my ex-lover and found out that he was married. He found his wife on a social ...

A.   11 April 2010: It might help others if they hear the rest of the story, so I've included a link to your original post. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/could-my-husband-sue.html... (read in full...)

How do I get my dad to realize that my stepmother is the problem too?

Q.   hiya, two years ago my dad got re-married and i HATE her. i've written about her before but then it wasn't so bad. she doesn't do anything to me but her even BEING there is awful. i have told my dad this many times but he always takes HER side. sa...

A.   10 April 2010: Do you love your father, or do you hate this woman more? What happens if you hate her so much and treat her so bad that she gives you what you want and she leaves. You'll be happy, and then you'll grow up and fall in love and get yourself... (read in full...)

Should I let him finger me?

Q.   hi umm i need help this boy wants to finger mii weve recently dated nd recently brokeup...now he wants to finger mii but im reallly scared can u guys/girls help mii...

A.   10 April 2010: He's just a boy, he's not your boyfriend. He wants to finger you, but your not in a relationship... He could do this to you and then go do it to someone else.. your just a girl, your not his girlfriend.. Very bad idea.. wait until you find a b... (read in full...)

How can I find happiness again?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. As with most relationships, it was absolutely PERFECT in the beginning. Then we found some astoundishing incompatibilities between us which caused problems with jealousy and trust. But we fought to ...

A.   10 April 2010: Yep, you show all the symptoms of serious depression. When your depressed, you are sick and you are not thinking straight. Please go and see your doctor as soon as you can. What you describe sounds like clinical depression (I have it) and it can ... (read in full...)

Porn problem!

Q.   hi guys, Two years ago I found porn on my pc, me and my partner are the only people who have access to this pc. I found porn searches in the google toolbar, viewed pics, websites etc. He flat out denied it was him. After months of me screaming ...

A.   10 April 2010: "i feel insecure and ugly because of the whole thing because he is asian and i am white.... i always find asian porn on the pc.... i cannot compete with that as im never gonna b asian " You feel insecure because your not Asian..Is it ok if he lo... (read in full...)

Porn problem!

Q.   hi guys, Two years ago I found porn on my pc, me and my partner are the only people who have access to this pc. I found porn searches in the google toolbar, viewed pics, websites etc. He flat out denied it was him. After months of me screaming ...

A.   9 April 2010: "in response to celiaaletta; thanks but i dont feel i should give myself a makeover to please any man!!!" (original poster) "This is really making me feel down and insecure, I've had 2 kids in the last 2 years and feel ugly and so insecure... (read in full...)

I need good advice, how do I get over loving my teacher?

Q.   Okaii,so most of you already know from my last question that I am in love with my teacher,but believe me I wish I wasn't,not because of him but because we can't be together 'obviously',even though I really wish we could,so my last question was "how ...

A.   9 April 2010: Some people want help and are able to take criticism... some people are sensitive and it's best to leave them to solve their problems alone. You've been given good advice, sorry if you feel bullied by anyone... anyway, doubt there is anything... (read in full...)

Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?

Q.   I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009:...

A.   9 April 2010: Betty said everything that I wanted to. You tried nice clothes before, please try them again.. one last push, if you love her, then please try again.... You asked her for her medications and details of her condition. Well ask again, and back ... (read in full...)

I need good advice, how do I get over loving my teacher?

Q.   Okaii,so most of you already know from my last question that I am in love with my teacher,but believe me I wish I wasn't,not because of him but because we can't be together 'obviously',even though I really wish we could,so my last question was "how ...

A.   9 April 2010: Jaii Dixie, thanks for coming back after we were so harsh to you... I know it feels really bad at the moment, but we are only talking about a couple of months, and then your new life begins and you'll be away from him. We get thousands of these st... (read in full...)

I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!

Q.   How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...

A.   9 April 2010: hahaha... pluged in you say... hell, go for it... it'll definately shake you up a bit... ... (read in full...)

I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!

Q.   How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...

A.   9 April 2010: Masters and Johnson, and Dr Kinsley did extensive research on the sex habits of men and women.... Tons of men (and women) have sexual experiences with someone of the same sex. Common arround puberty, when people have sexual desires but little c... (read in full...)

To dress or not to dress?

Q.   *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Rece...

A.   9 April 2010: Why can only married women answer? I don't get it...... (read in full...)

I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!

Q.   How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...

A.   9 April 2010: Trees... yep that's it.... You aint gay, you are just desperate... when some men can't get a woman, they'll jump anything... best friend, family pussycat, poor old tree standing in the woods... You need to get yourself a girlfriend..... (read in full...)

I want to maintain a friendship with him and keep in touch with him when I leave my place of work.

Q.   There's a guy at my job that i'm about to quit and move away from that i kind of like, but i wouldn't allow anything to happen because i'm about to move in with my boyfriend. i WOULD like to pursue a friendship with him, just see him one day out of ...

A.   8 April 2010: Q I've seen this movie already, she gets royally f'd just before she moves house, boyfriend finds out, then she starts a crying... I'm going back to the cinema where they are showing the guy making him self look an idiot at the wedding.... (read in full...)

This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!

Q.   I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...

A.   8 April 2010: Kylie, things are going much too fast.. slow down with the wedding and continue to use contraception. A baby at the moment is the worst thing you can do. If you think things are hard now, wait until you've got a crying baby and a angry, jealous ... (read in full...)

Glamour modeling advice?

Q.   hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour ...

A.   8 April 2010: Dear Cupid is for advice with sex and relationships.. use google to help you if you need dieting tips.... (read in full...)

Should I try some marijuana just for the experience?

Q.   i am 21 years old and i have never smoked,drank or any other stuff! but all my friends do it..and since i hang out with them all the time i felt an urge to do it too and i tried smoking and i liked it but i am not addicted to it or anything but i d...

A.   8 April 2010: Nope.. why bother... nothing wrong with it, if taken in moderation and your in the company of friends, and can swear it's not been adulterated with rat posion or glass... But why bother... a good walk in the clear air will do you just as good.... (read in full...)

Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?

Q.   I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009:...

A.   8 April 2010: Oh yea.. the dress.. it's because she's fat and feels ugly... now you know her weight, go and buy her some nice dresses in the right size, and tell her your tired of looking like she dosen't care what she looks like. Remind her she's a woman, and ... (read in full...)

Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?

Q.   I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009:...

A.   8 April 2010: PS: Even if you can't have penetrative sex, I do hope that she is taking care of you. She is your wife, she may not have no desire, but your a man and you need some sex relief. Please come to some negotiation about sex within a marriage, this may ... (read in full...)

Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?

Q.   I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009:...

A.   8 April 2010: Two complete different issues.. one is about money the other is about attraction and sex... lets not tie them together it makes things too complicated. Sex and attraction first... What's wrong with her, if she's going to see doctors then somethin... (read in full...)

How can I shut myself off to other people and still have a productive life?

Q.   I'm in college, and I've probably had depression, social anxiety, and aspergers for most of my life. I want to know how to live alone without wasting time feeling bad. What methods do you use when you don't have or want contact with anyone? How can ...

A.   8 April 2010: So what kinds of things do you normal people say? Hahahaah... good question... yep, it would be good to have Motoko person to help... ... (read in full...)

How can I shut myself off to other people and still have a productive life?

Q.   I'm in college, and I've probably had depression, social anxiety, and aspergers for most of my life. I want to know how to live alone without wasting time feeling bad. What methods do you use when you don't have or want contact with anyone? How can ...

A.   8 April 2010: I have depression, sometimes people talk too fast for me. You can tell them if they are talking too fast. You can also say, please slow down, I would like to talk too. If you tell them that you don't understand everything, people will slow down ... (read in full...)

How can I shut myself off to other people and still have a productive life?

Q.   I'm in college, and I've probably had depression, social anxiety, and aspergers for most of my life. I want to know how to live alone without wasting time feeling bad. What methods do you use when you don't have or want contact with anyone? How can ...

A.   8 April 2010: Yes, you need to contact other people who have Asperger's syndrome. They will help you and they will tell you what to do when people confuse you or the everything becomes too noisy. It is not good to shut yourself away from people. But you can ... (read in full...)

Glamour modeling advice?

Q.   hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour ...

A.   18 March 2010: You have to be 18., and Glamour modelling is not for life, it is only suitable for 20year olds. You still need to get an education, for when your career is over. You need mathematics to work out how to save your money so you don't waste it on ... (read in full...)

This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!

Q.   I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...

A.   17 February 2010: Oh, when she jumps in between and spoils your kiss, the only response to "my daddy", is "yes your daddy, and the man I love", then give her a kiss, a hug or tickle her, and then kiss him again. Show her that there's space for her and you and daddy ... (read in full...)

This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!

Q.   I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...

A.   17 February 2010: hahahahaa.. calm down, calm down.. take a deep breathe, your not doing anything wrong, and you have been brilliant with this little girl... Ok, feeling a little better now.. :) You are very young yourself and of course you want some loving time... (read in full...)

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