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Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 7 July 2010: That's what I'm worried about, that wild card of a brother, he's got to learn to act normally.....
Go to the clinic, give them your dates, period and stuff.. tell them everything, it's confidential and they don't judge... they will be able to ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 6 July 2010: I heard pregnant... damn, just when things were going so well.. so what happens now dear lady?... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 25 June 2010: No, I loved the length and the frankness in your most current post.. I was getting pissed of by what I could see as your "cruelty" in continuing to demand she relive her past..
But your last post, that was beautiful, hard for me to understa... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 10 June 2010: Here they are Karma, when you have time, take a look at these 3 links
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-would-not-have-married-her-had-i.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/retroactive-jealousy--how-do-i-overcome-it.html
http://www.dear... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 10 June 2010: Yes, Gottman's Four Horsemen article was brilliant, good for everyone to take on board.. think I'll print it and keep it for myself.
I'll try and track down Yos's recommended posts on this issue.. ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 9 June 2010: It's funny how we've gone from a wife who was working through this with you in your original post, to a wife who now has a serious personality disorder... ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Rereading all the posts again... a couple of things stand out..
1. You'd rather not feel like this, but you are in pain and suffering, it's not something you can help.. you need your wife to understand this and help you by working through this tog... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: What can she blame you for? The only thing you are responsible for is demanding she relive her past which probably causes her pain.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: So it dosen't mean that she has to repeat the story of the past... all she has to do is listen to how your feeling?... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: *sorry.. or her..
How dose your wife do this "validation" thing?
Does she need to recognise your in pain? Do she need to apologise for her past? Dose she need to admit that she was wrong? What is it that you need?
... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: Ok.. lets break this down.. Let me try to understand what you want...
"I want to be validated now, I want to validate her now,"
Validate how, what dose this mean? Your in pain, definitely, thoughts about her past hurt you, yes, deeply...
... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: Yes.. "the past is another country.. once we leave there is no passport to get back".... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: You say that you've noticed she hasn't changed... what dose that mean... has she been unfaithful to you, is she doing things with drugs again?
"I want is for her to give up the control and to learn not only to soothe herself, but also me. Instead,... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: :)... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: "some people do not know how to think. They have faulty logic, most of it too linear which allows them to justify just about anything in their own minds, even to help you with your problem."
You know what.. R&B is totally right.. I am wasting ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 7 June 2010: Yos, if I can remember was all for you fighting your own obsession yourself and trying to ignore it and push it away.
Troubletoomuch on the other hand found it useful talking about it with his wife and getting all the details until he could un... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 7 June 2010: We have very, very good discussions about "retroactive jealousy".. again search the board for posts by either "Yos" or "troubletoomuch", they have suffered and in many discussions gave lots of different hints about how to overcome..
I'm still he... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 7 June 2010: Karma.. I like your post and the way you are approaching things...
I do not have time for jealousy in any form.. it is a destructive, non loving emotion..
You want to know what I really think.. again, it's not good to ask women things when you ... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 5 June 2010: Me and Q, we know what it is to be cheated on.. that bloody thing hurts.
For me, my ex had a one night stand, never saw the girls again, and we was having problems anyway.. Still it hurt. It left my heart bleeding, destroyed my trust, gave me ... (read in full...)
How do I control my jealousy?
Q. So depressed don’t know what to do. Sorry this is long. Been with fella since Jan this year. He asked me out. At the time he had come out of an 8 year relationship whom he has two children, one 7 one 3. They had been split since june 09. S...
A. 4 June 2010: Everyday do something fun together, something special that you can remember and say "that's our special time".. then you think about them good times instead of the past.
Kiss him everyday, and say "he's mine and I am his"
Stay in the present b... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: What you guys don't get is that the problem is with you. Not him. (Q1605)
I understand that very well Q.. but people like what they like, and vicea versa. If they don't like it, then walking away is probably the best thing. At the moment, ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Looking at tv/movie stars is probably better for a lot of woman, than your partner looking at someone who is realistic and may be someone you meet... Lots of women say.. "I wouldn't mind if the porn stars had smaller breasts, red hair, real breast, ... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: I read your other post.. guess that made me angry..
Yep so your trying, (when your not going back and forth from Bitch to nice trying to get a reaction)
Keep trying then... years, not weeks or years.. that's what this guy needs... as you ... (read in full...)
Can you really love someone and never say "I love you"
Q. Does anybody here love their significant lover, but never says "I love you" to them? Iv been in a relationship for 4 years and he used to say i love you a few times but he never does anymore. I know actions speak louder than words but it would still ...
A. 4 June 2010: Took my dad 40years to say the love words to me... lol.. he loves to say it all the time now, he's like a baby with a new word..
Just keep on kissing, loving them, and eventually in time they'll say it back if they love you enough.... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: No.. Your marriage is not over... PLEASE HOLD YOUR HAT, I'M GOING TO BE VERY HARSH.
You are not acting like a wife, you are acting like a spoiled child and you are taking up all his energies when it sounds like he has tons of things on his mind... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: Here's Babymonkey's other post for background information. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-him-to-see-that.html... (read in full...)
Is he connecting with me for a quickie?
Q. Sorry in advance if this is goes on abit! haha Well i'm in an online dating site and this one guy contacted me about 7 month ago just sent a hello then asked if i'm ever out (in the area we live) and i said i didn't go clubbing or anything he sent ...
A. 4 June 2010: It's an initial contact.. He's not looking for a romantic relationship, he's made that clear. He might just want to go out for coffee, if it turns to sex then that would be great for him. If your not interested in sex, then he might do coffee one ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 4 June 2010: mmmm... I'm trying... can I use a chainsaw instead.. me cords have turned into big massive vines that have tangled me all up...... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Sorry Kizzal, you are right...
That's why I put down 4 ways to solve the problem of dislike/like pornography which causes arguments and conflicts in many relationships.
Thinking back on other posts we have had regarding pornography, her... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Thank you very much for proving my point - an addiction is labelled as something you cannot give up, I rest my case!
Is there nothing that you find you cannot live without? Drinking coffee, talking on the telephone, watching TV...
Anyway.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 4 June 2010: I suggest you take up Gabrielle's offer. Many aunts are not willing to open themselves up on the board, and a private letter would allow a longer conversation and more honesty than just a general response.
I would also suggest you search on the b... (read in full...)
My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.
Q. My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...
A. 4 June 2010: Ah, now that makes much more sense. You and your husband have decided to have a relationship built on honesty and open communication. That is one of the best types of relationships a couple can have. However, it dose come with it's own problems, ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 2 June 2010: Granted male anon, the main problem is his perception of his wife and what she HAS been capable off.. it leaves him feeling confused and picturing her in a different light. But we all have many dual personalities, we can be a whore in the bedroom, ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: "Sorry. Sometimes a question takes on a life of it's own beyond what the original poster is asking. It's starts becoming a brawl between the people answering and we miss answering the posters original question." (Q1605)
Sorry, dear poster, ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: Oh dear, I'm immoral because I accept human frailty and mistakes... ah well, you all are perfect, so that means everything evens out in the end. Thanks BunnyTee for reminding me that I'm more immoral than the writer of this story.... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: PS: What do we do about Dean.. talk to John first, do not lie to him, your friendship and marriage was never built on lies.. See what John says.
Then go talk to Dean.. either you keep things secret, and you both agree to protect John's pride...... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: Hey Babes, I don't deal in who is the most moral, and I aint wearing no angel wings and halo... Lucky for me, I know all kinds of stuff in life happen, so when I make a mistake and fall down, I never look like a hypocrite.
Ok, so I was wrong.. ... (read in full...)
How do I control my jealousy?
Q. So depressed don’t know what to do. Sorry this is long. Been with fella since Jan this year. He asked me out. At the time he had come out of an 8 year relationship whom he has two children, one 7 one 3. They had been split since june 09. S...
A. 1 June 2010: Sorry, couldn't read everything.. I know it's important to you, but it just gave me headache.
ONE QUESTION I ASK - Do you want to be happy and in love, or do you want to continue to give yourself headaches?
Concentrate on what's important... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: Also, this child is being "spanked" with a belt, shoe or hairbrush.. this is not done out of anger, but needs planning and premeditation...
When women divorce, they become both father and mother, that is why the punishments have become harsh, t... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: Sorry ChristineAvril we disagree... I know people think that corporal punishment is not allowed at home, but they are very wrong..
Cases went to Europe, the law still remains the same. Punishment of children should be "reasonable", "should ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to get a council flat?
Q. hi im 18. im 3 months, i still live at home in my 2 bedroom council house with my mum, dad and sister, me and my sister share a room... i have been bidding to get a flat but it has took ages, it looks like im not going to get anywhere with it, i ...
A. 1 June 2010: We is European.. things are different here... and what's a horse and a bluff? Are they cards in a poker game.. :P... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: I don't know american law, but this is perfectly legal in Britian, your mother is not abusing you.
"I know I can be sassy with her and talk back and stuff but she's treating me like a kid and I'm nearly 14 now and want her to stop."
You are... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to get a council flat?
Q. hi im 18. im 3 months, i still live at home in my 2 bedroom council house with my mum, dad and sister, me and my sister share a room... i have been bidding to get a flat but it has took ages, it looks like im not going to get anywhere with it, i ...
A. 1 June 2010: Please go back to your council and explain your situation. It is difficult for me to tell you if you are a priority case and should recieve housing or if your bottom of the list. Much depends on what your council's policy is.
mmmmm... living i... (read in full...)
Wife treated exes better than her husband!
Q. I was reading someone else's question and it encouraged me to post a similar question of my own. My wife and I have been married for about 7 years. When we met, she had a lot of sexy lingerie - about 20 pieces. She also told me she had thrown ...
A. 1 June 2010: Ah, forgot other reason..
You make her feel abused and try to treat her like a dolly that's there for you to use.. She dosen't sound happy in the bedroom, how much time do you take to make sure she's happy and satisfied. How much effort do you s... (read in full...)
Wife treated exes better than her husband!
Q. I was reading someone else's question and it encouraged me to post a similar question of my own. My wife and I have been married for about 7 years. When we met, she had a lot of sexy lingerie - about 20 pieces. She also told me she had thrown ...
A. 1 June 2010: sorry.. but marieclaire and caringguy have it spot on..
The only other excuse is either she dosen't love you, or she's using them sexy clothes on somebody else. No other explainations make any sense..
The best thing to do, is go and ask her y... (read in full...)
How can I confront my mother about masturbating?
Q. I am 13 and female. I have been masturbating since i was 12. I know i am too young to buy a sex toy and my mother and I don't have a very good bond. I'm afraid to ask her to buy one for me. Any advice on how to confront her without being embarrassed ...
A. 1 June 2010: At 13, no sex toy is needed.. your hands are good enough. ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: original poster, go and talk to your school counsellor or school nurse.. they will understand.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Yep.. but how dose she explain the naked bit and the "it just slipped in"... sigh... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "I would personally label an addiction as "something you cannot give up"."
Then as I said before, you make a mockery of the clinical word that medical people use to identify true addiction...
I can't give up food, so I'm an addict
I can't ... (read in full...)
What do you make of this conversation between my ex and I?
Q. what do you guys think of this conversation me and my ex had... mind you we've only been broken up for a week May 26 at 7:43pm me: why are you making yourself sound like i didnt give a s**t about you. your such a lame. i BEGGED ON MY KN...
A. 1 June 2010: sigh.. sounds like you two broke up for stupid reasons.. your both stubbon, and you like to shout and prove yourself right, but neither of you like to do much listening.
He's asked you to leave him alone, and he's decided he can't do this "fall in... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: Can you recreate the experience?.. you can give her the danger and excitement.. but the rest is impossible.. you can't give her the feeling of youth, or the feeling of doing something wrong, or feeling totally immoral and ultra powerfull.. she also ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: I'm like you.. no good at stranger sex.. I'm also one who thinks that the past is the past.
But I have a friend who suffered like you about his woman's past. He also found it comforting to understand and put things into perspective.
Sex, or... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Good, good.. break ups are hard.. you come back here anytime you feel sad and need advice on how to move on and get happy again... Blessings... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: on the average day we'd have sex more than once and everything was good in that department.
This dosen't point to a porn addiction. If he is still able to have sex more than once a day with you, then he porn is not destroying his labido..... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: Thank you for sharing Kizza.. it is not wrong to dislike pornography or want it out of your life.. But people need to find solutions that they and their partner can be happy with. Thank you for explaining your situation and sharing on how you ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: Hope I don't get whipped and hung as an immoral witch/bitch (choose your insult) but I see things differently.
Woman basically married the wrong brother. She knows that, her husband knows that and the brother knows that. That's why this is a mes... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Happy Birthday, may your life be exciting, healthy, happy and long.. :)... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Sorry babes, my words are harsh... you are young,you will heal and grow strong.. This girl is not the right woman for you... it will take time, but the right woman will come. You heal your heart, get strong, and before you know it, you'll be in ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?
Q. Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...
A. 1 June 2010: Find out your laws.. if you are in a part of america where this is illegal, then it is not possible for you to be together in that country.
In this case you may just have to love her from afar. I suggest you find yourself a girlfriend, and star... (read in full...)
My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.
Q. My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...
A. 1 June 2010: I was with my ex for 18 years.. and as far as I know he still finds me attractive.
I don't understand what is happening in your marriage. How do you know he fantazies durring sex? Do you ask him, or dose he tell you.. How in the hell do you two ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: oh and the girl.. she's told you "she's moving on"... she may love you, but that dosen't stop her loving and dating someone else and making plans for a future without you.. I suggest you forget about her because as far as she is concerned, your ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: You are not mature enough to handle the rejections, misunderstandings and difficulties that occur with romance and love. If you get depression and anxiety when your relationships break down, it becomes very dangerous for you to fall in love or a ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: ah.. you want help and advice from other women who also feel sick and keep crying and refuse to leave or finding a proper solution..
Yep, I can help you with that.. here are all the women who cry and suffer and still have no solutions.
http://... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: This may sound dramatic, but I really need help i'm becoming more and more depressed and I feel empty. I love ths man and I know he doesn't love me half as much as I love him or he wouldn't be doing this to me, he's seen what a mess it's made of me ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "That is the biggest fallacy going but the myth is perpetuated through the inane ramblings on this site by young flibergibets who don't have life experience or a clue."
That's right, don't give a reasonable arguement, or point out a proper s... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Especially if they can be shown to tell lies...
Original poster records her age as 13-15 and currently living in the USA..
But in her story she says... "and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16"
... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: In any allegation of rape, the absence of consent to sexual intercourse on the part of the victim is critical. Consent need not be expressed, and may be implied from the context and from the relationship of the parties, but the absence of objection ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: ah she was naked... again, it is too easy for him to prove consent.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Wait a sec.. where was her knickers.. how come he just slipped in....
No rape charge will stick, and all she will do is humilate herself. There is much more to the story than this young lady is telling here.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Dump him.. and forget the whole thing... this guy is a user and abuser, and dosen't respect you at all.
Marieclaire, sorry to say, a rape charge would not stick.. she was alone with him, he was a boyfriend, it's hard for her to prove rape, an... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?
Q. Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...
A. 1 June 2010: In Britian it is legal to have sex and marry your cousin. In many states of america, this is illegal. Please check with your local laws.
I also notice you say nothing about love or marriage. You just want to screw her, use her body, then mov... (read in full...)
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