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Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: What you guys don't get is that the problem is with you. Not him. (Q1605)
I understand that very well Q.. but people like what they like, and vicea versa. If they don't like it, then walking away is probably the best thing. At the moment, ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Looking at tv/movie stars is probably better for a lot of woman, than your partner looking at someone who is realistic and may be someone you meet... Lots of women say.. "I wouldn't mind if the porn stars had smaller breasts, red hair, real breast, ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Sorry Kizzal, you are right...
That's why I put down 4 ways to solve the problem of dislike/like pornography which causes arguments and conflicts in many relationships.
Thinking back on other posts we have had regarding pornography, her... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Thank you very much for proving my point - an addiction is labelled as something you cannot give up, I rest my case!
Is there nothing that you find you cannot live without? Drinking coffee, talking on the telephone, watching TV...
Anyway.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: original poster, go and talk to your school counsellor or school nurse.. they will understand.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Yep.. but how dose she explain the naked bit and the "it just slipped in"... sigh... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "I would personally label an addiction as "something you cannot give up"."
Then as I said before, you make a mockery of the clinical word that medical people use to identify true addiction...
I can't give up food, so I'm an addict
I can't ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Good, good.. break ups are hard.. you come back here anytime you feel sad and need advice on how to move on and get happy again... Blessings... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: on the average day we'd have sex more than once and everything was good in that department.
This dosen't point to a porn addiction. If he is still able to have sex more than once a day with you, then he porn is not destroying his labido..... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: Thank you for sharing Kizza.. it is not wrong to dislike pornography or want it out of your life.. But people need to find solutions that they and their partner can be happy with. Thank you for explaining your situation and sharing on how you ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Happy Birthday, may your life be exciting, healthy, happy and long.. :)... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: Sorry babes, my words are harsh... you are young,you will heal and grow strong.. This girl is not the right woman for you... it will take time, but the right woman will come. You heal your heart, get strong, and before you know it, you'll be in ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?
Q. Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...
A. 1 June 2010: Find out your laws.. if you are in a part of america where this is illegal, then it is not possible for you to be together in that country.
In this case you may just have to love her from afar. I suggest you find yourself a girlfriend, and star... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: oh and the girl.. she's told you "she's moving on"... she may love you, but that dosen't stop her loving and dating someone else and making plans for a future without you.. I suggest you forget about her because as far as she is concerned, your ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?
Q. Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...
A. 1 June 2010: You are not mature enough to handle the rejections, misunderstandings and difficulties that occur with romance and love. If you get depression and anxiety when your relationships break down, it becomes very dangerous for you to fall in love or a ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: ah.. you want help and advice from other women who also feel sick and keep crying and refuse to leave or finding a proper solution..
Yep, I can help you with that.. here are all the women who cry and suffer and still have no solutions.
http://... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: This may sound dramatic, but I really need help i'm becoming more and more depressed and I feel empty. I love ths man and I know he doesn't love me half as much as I love him or he wouldn't be doing this to me, he's seen what a mess it's made of me ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "That is the biggest fallacy going but the myth is perpetuated through the inane ramblings on this site by young flibergibets who don't have life experience or a clue."
That's right, don't give a reasonable arguement, or point out a proper s... (read in full...)
Husband masturbates to porn when we have sex every day!
Q. Hi I'm 18 years old. My question is why does my husband masturbate watching porn on tv if we have sex every day. Iv seen him masturbating when he thought i was asleep. What can i do. ...
A. 1 June 2010: Your husband masterbates while you are asleep... if you have no problems with your sex life, I would say thank him. He's a kind husband, he lets you sleep and goes and takes care of himself, and still loves having sex with you every day.
It's ... (read in full...)
Am I a man whore???
Q. Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not ...
A. 1 June 2010: You are flirtatious to men and to women.. you make yourself look sexually available to everyone. People dont know you, they only know what you present. You present a person who is sexually available to any and everyone, so that's what they think ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Especially if they can be shown to tell lies...
Original poster records her age as 13-15 and currently living in the USA..
But in her story she says... "and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16"
... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: In any allegation of rape, the absence of consent to sexual intercourse on the part of the victim is critical. Consent need not be expressed, and may be implied from the context and from the relationship of the parties, but the absence of objection ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: ah she was naked... again, it is too easy for him to prove consent.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Wait a sec.. where was her knickers.. how come he just slipped in....
No rape charge will stick, and all she will do is humilate herself. There is much more to the story than this young lady is telling here.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Dump him.. and forget the whole thing... this guy is a user and abuser, and dosen't respect you at all.
Marieclaire, sorry to say, a rape charge would not stick.. she was alone with him, he was a boyfriend, it's hard for her to prove rape, an... (read in full...)
Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?
Q. Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he ...
A. 1 June 2010: I'm sorry we sound so harsh, but its the truth.. That's why we keep telling you teenagers not to have sex before you are legal.... (read in full...)
Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?
Q. Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he ...
A. 1 June 2010: Back off, have more respect for yourself. This guy aint interested, he only wanted sex. He's had sex with you, he dosen't want you anymore. He's got a girlfriend, and that's who he saves all his love for.
Your allowing this boy to make a fool o... (read in full...)
Why does the man you love need to be so controlling?
Q. My question is why does the man you love need to be so controlling? I was married to him for 29 years. He left me for a younger woman then she died and he came back into my life. I am in her house with him but he wont let me bring my home things ...
A. 1 June 2010: "I work my butt off for him, painted his and her home"
This is where you is going wrong... you do everything for him, you make his happiness more important than your own. If you treat him like a king and yourself like his slave, don't be surprise... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?
Q. Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...
A. 1 June 2010: In Britian it is legal to have sex and marry your cousin. In many states of america, this is illegal. Please check with your local laws.
I also notice you say nothing about love or marriage. You just want to screw her, use her body, then mov... (read in full...)
Am I a tramp?
Q. I've been a very bad discusting person well i think so anyway :( ive had sex with two boys in the space of a month, and other sexual acts with them too spreading over 5 months im just realising now that i feel nasty and horrible, im sucha tramp...
A. 31 May 2010: Let's not deal in labels.. you like two guys, your young and dosen't sound like your attached. It would be better if you could just choose one, but if you can't you can't. Use condoms, enjoy yourself. This is where you are right now, you like two ... (read in full...)
I masturbate 5-6 times a day! Its an addiction!
Q. Hello.. I have addiction with masturbation since i was 13. Im 30 now but still cant stop it, i would masturbate 5-6 times everyday. It really effected my life, my health and confidence. Im jobless and still single. My life is a mess and im falling ...
A. 31 May 2010: It dosen't affect your physical health directly, but it dose affect your emotional health if this is all you do. You need to also be arround people, you need people to hug, touch and love. Masterbation all the time with no other human contact ... (read in full...)
I masturbate 5-6 times a day! Its an addiction!
Q. Hello.. I have addiction with masturbation since i was 13. Im 30 now but still cant stop it, i would masturbate 5-6 times everyday. It really effected my life, my health and confidence. Im jobless and still single. My life is a mess and im falling ...
A. 29 May 2010: Yes babes, I would class this as sexual addiction. True sexual addiction is very rare, but masterbation 5-6 times a day seems excessive to me.
The problem is, that often we use sex to hide away from the world. When problems come, it's easier t... (read in full...)
Scars from cutting..will it put guys off?
Q. i have a bad history of sexual abuse as well as physical abuse when i tried to prevent the sexual abuse from taking place.. because of this i started self-harming. ive cut myself pretty badly and deep and have really ugly scars from it on my arms ...
A. 29 May 2010: The scars are not a problem babes, only stupid worthless men care about such little things as small imperfections on your body.
But I must be truthfull, what will put them off is that you are unhappy, have negative thoughts and hurt yourself... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 29 May 2010: Congratulations lexie... am so happy for you both.... (read in full...)
When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!
Q. i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...
A. 15 May 2010: But they've already been living together for 2 years, I think she's probably forgiven him already.... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?
Q. Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible....
A. 15 May 2010: Me again.. one more good book to read... "Shoot the Damn Dog" by Sally Brompton. Once an editor of a UK newspaper, depression knocked her down. She's not cured, but she dose many of the things that you've been advised to do, and now knows how to ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?
Q. Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible....
A. 15 May 2010: B12 is also good.. Please listen to the aunts and uncles, they are giving you good advice, and may (shock, horror) know more than you.
Your frame of thought at the moment is limiting and negative, that's a symptom of your depressive illness.... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?
Q. Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible....
A. 15 May 2010: I see psychologist, and I also read buddhist stuff. I have severe clinical depression and am on medication and under the mental health services. The doctors I have seen are happy when they see the books I'm reading. They say continue to read the ... (read in full...)
Religious conflicts...
Q. Hey guys I could some real answer plz. First I was a Hindu when I 1st meet my husband he were also Hindu, about a year later he said that he wanted to become a muslim because he found peace their... so I help him all the way and now he is in the ...
A. 15 May 2010: Ah.. read your post again... you will talk to god directly and will not follow any religion... Yep, that works for me... You believe in God, and you follow him directly.... (read in full...)
Religious conflicts...
Q. Hey guys I could some real answer plz. First I was a Hindu when I 1st meet my husband he were also Hindu, about a year later he said that he wanted to become a muslim because he found peace their... so I help him all the way and now he is in the ...
A. 15 May 2010: I'm confused... He is a muslim, and you are not.. I don't really understand what religion you believe in.
Anyway.. I know little about hinduism, but I dont think they believe that only people of the same faith should be married. Under Hinduism... (read in full...)
When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!
Q. i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...
A. 14 May 2010: Am I crazy... are you aunts and uncles reading a different story to me. His wife of 2 weeks who has been living with another man, finally wants him back, and you suggest this woman who has lived with him for two years should walk away and give him ... (read in full...)
When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!
Q. i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...
A. 14 May 2010: He was wuth his wife for 2 weeks. He married her because you made him angry. He's been living with you for 2years. They don't have a proper marriage. He and you have behaved like children. Tell him to put in for a divorce. Two years with you, ... (read in full...)
I need him to grow up!!!
Q. hi, I am 20 years old and my bf is 23, we meet usually twice a week, for sex most of the time, he only text me, no calls! I'm the one who rarely calls.. we had a great romance a long time ago, he is my first real bf and I still love him like I did ...
A. 14 May 2010: Tell him what your feeling, tell him that you don't think this relationship is offering you enough and you want more. Tell him you need more than texts and sex. Tell him you need space to think. Then give yourself a break. Hang out with your ... (read in full...)
I need him to grow up!!!
Q. hi, I am 20 years old and my bf is 23, we meet usually twice a week, for sex most of the time, he only text me, no calls! I'm the one who rarely calls.. we had a great romance a long time ago, he is my first real bf and I still love him like I did ...
A. 14 May 2010: You meet twice a week and only have sex. He dosen't call you, and I bet he dosen't take you out, buy you gifts or surprise you with loving calls...
I agree with Tisha, sounds like all he's offering is sex and nothing else. You had a great ro... (read in full...)
How do I get my point accross and tell him that his porn watching is affecting our marriage?
Q. My husband is very addicted to porn. i have asked him over and over to stop, but he still wont. i have even threatened him with divorce and told him he would never be able to see his daughter. he still watches it. i feel like crap when he watches ...
A. 14 May 2010: If you do not like pornography, but your partner dose, the solution that causes the least arguments is a policy of "Don't ask, and don't tell".
Ask him to remove all the pornography from your marital home. Ask him to remove any items of pornogra... (read in full...)
How do I get my point accross and tell him that his porn watching is affecting our marriage?
Q. My husband is very addicted to porn. i have asked him over and over to stop, but he still wont. i have even threatened him with divorce and told him he would never be able to see his daughter. he still watches it. i feel like crap when he watches ...
A. 14 May 2010: What do you class as an addiction? How often dose he watch it? Is he still able to have sexual intercourse and perform in bed with you. What are your views about pornography? Do you dislike it, tolerate it, or use it yourself. Has your partner ... (read in full...)
Finding latex gloves and using them
Q. Hi.. Is it worth getting latex gloves for when fingering my partner's genitals and where are the best place to get them?...
A. 14 May 2010: And can I remind all aunts and uncles, to behave and act their age...
Scratch that.. it's impossible, just try to act the age of someone older and you'll be alright.... (read in full...)
Finding latex gloves and using them
Q. Hi.. Is it worth getting latex gloves for when fingering my partner's genitals and where are the best place to get them?...
A. 14 May 2010: If you are clean enough to have sex, and your partner is clean enough to have sex, there is no need for any gloves at all. Sex is not dirty, the human body is not dirty. Wearing gloves is impersonal, slightly neurotic and you will lose the ... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend but no sex makes me want to move on
Q. my boyfriend and i are having problems i guess you could say. we have been together for a year and a half now. we only have sex about twice a month. his first excuse was that he never wanted to cause im too pushy about it but now he says he has a ...
A. 14 May 2010: Alex, it's fine if he wants to do his own thing quickly with one of them pornography things, but if he hasn't got enough left for his girlfriend, then he's not ready to be in a loving relationship.
Pornography shouldn't leave a partner alone an... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend but no sex makes me want to move on
Q. my boyfriend and i are having problems i guess you could say. we have been together for a year and a half now. we only have sex about twice a month. his first excuse was that he never wanted to cause im too pushy about it but now he says he has a ...
A. 12 May 2010: Tell him that he dosen't have enough juice to masterbate and take care of you as well. Tell him that you need sex more than twice a month, and tell him he has to change his ways. You need to decide how much you love this man and if your willing to ... (read in full...)
I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I ...
A. 12 May 2010: You have fantasy and wonder about something sexual and forbidden. Good, you are using pornography in the way it's intended. These feelings are just imagination, something to make you feel sexual and arroused. No need to make it reality, ... (read in full...)
Him watching porn is a side to him I don't know and I don't like it!
Q. Basically, I have the best boyfriend, soon to be fiancee but I hate him wanking to porn. I have never been bothered in past relationships but I think because we are so close I hate the fact he hides it from me. I feel it's a side to him I don't know ...
A. 12 May 2010: He is too shy to watch it with me it seems, won't talk to me about what he likes and I feel he lies to me. I feel like what's the point (even though he is perfect in every other way)
He's shy and embarrassed to watch pornography with you. Is this... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth or is he a liar?
Q. I was on my boyfriend's computer and was searching for my favorite magazine's website. When I started typing, a list of visits to this one porn site came up. My heart sank. My boyfriend had told me repeatedly that he found it disgusting and ...
A. 11 May 2010: "Lying is a big deal to me as I don't think I will be able to ever trust someone who lied about something big to me."
Then get used to heartbreak, suffering and more crying. You said Porn is not important to you, as you've watched it yourself... (read in full...)
I couldn't be bothered to have sex with him anymore, will he cheat?
Q. hi i'm laura and i'm in an interracial relationship with my Fiancée for 7 years he still find me sexy but i can't be bother to have sex with him much now , at first we used too be at it like sex craved teenagers the slightest touch would turn me ...
A. 11 May 2010: Yep... he'll either cheat or he'll dump you. If you can't be bothered to make him happy, what reason dose he have to stay or respect the agreement to be faithfull.... (read in full...)
My teacher won't mark my work!! What should I do?
Q. I did all my work. I went to hand it in and my teacher opened the door she said no. She then shut the door in my face. What am I gonna do?? if she doesnt mark it I've failed:(2 years in college(not university):( I dont know what I have done...
A. 11 May 2010: Unproffessional behaviour. She is not paid to like you, she is paid to teach you and mark your work and give you a grade.
Take it higher. Talk to either your form tutor, mentor or whoever is supposed to take care of your problems. If you can'... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 19 April 2010: Sirinity Faith... nice name, so she's decided to be a footballer then.. lol... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 25 March 2010: Congratulations Lexie, now comes the hard part of trying to be the best mother you can.... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 17 February 2010: Lexi, your doing real well, you got your sister and your boyfriend to help you right now. Please contact planned pregnancy, get advice from the experts there. You do need to see a doctor as soon as possible.
About your parents.. catholic... (read in full...)
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