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female
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41-50,
*at_33
writes:Last night my partner and I went to his mates house to visit. His mates said can I drop them off at the pub so I did not realising that my partner wanted to go in for drinks too so I went into the pub. My partner knew there would be a topless waitress there and did not let me know before going in. I felt very uncomfortable as the only females that were there were the waitress and the bar staff the rest were all males. I told my partner I was uncomfortable as I have never seen a topless waitress before and the pub was full of males. His response was well sometimes you just have to get out of your comfort zone. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Highly approve of quiet-echo's advice... hey, remember, you'll be helping him get out of his "comfort zone"...
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female
reader, Miamine +, writes (12 June 2010):
So topless bar is like topless beach.. sigh.. there goes another of me fantasies.. topless beaches are just so normal.
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female
reader, Miamine +, writes (12 June 2010):
Nothing, it's done now.. just ask him not to take you into such places again... I wish a man would have taken me to a topless bar, I've always wondered what it looks like in there. I like to get out of my comfort zone, I'm curious and nosy about everything...
sigh.. the fact that no man would dare take me to such a place indicates to me that the your guy has the manners of a goat and dosen't understand about treating you like a lady and protecting you..
On the other hand, he has shown you a place where men hide, so he dosen't keep secrets, has no need to lie, and is willing to share of his life with you, be it good or bad.
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