A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my question is about and the fact im so bad at it and i have no idea what to do.i feel like i just lie there and try tomove to help my bf but it never seems towork and when im on top its disasterous! Everytime i move it just seems to fall out and its not like my bf is really small hes the opposite so i definately have to be doing something wrong!!I was just wondering if anyone could give meany tips of what to do or how to move??? Or how to make my bf cum from sex and not just foreplay???Thank you!!
View related questions:
foreplay Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, KuraLuvsAkatsuki  +, writes (18 June 2010):
i suggest some teasing and exotic corsets or outfits ONLY if you feel comfy doing or wearing it and i suggest if your going home to you know..:) in the car start by putting your hand on his leg and unzipping his zipper and giving him a sly grin...my bf l.o.v.e.s it when i take charge :) lol
A
female
reader, Miamine  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 It was just a suggestion.. you don't like porn, some people do, and some people find it helps improve their sex life.. Unless you state things that offend you, how are people to know what you do and do not like..
I think you need to improve your communication skills.. don't just lie there, move your arms, tell you boyfriend when he is pleasing you and when he's not..
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone!!
Rainorfire not everyone wants to watch porn i actually think porn can ruin sex because most woman dont want sex likeporn stars were you cum all over your face etc.
...............................
A
male
reader, rivi +, writes (13 June 2010):
But is he in fact complaining ?
Maybe you are worrying about nothing.
But if he is not happy just ask him what exactly he wants you to do.
...............................
A
male
reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (13 June 2010):
 its called free internet porn watch some
...............................
A
female
reader, person12345 +, writes (13 June 2010):
 If even when he's on top or in doggy style he can't orgasm (since that has very little to do with skill) but can from "foreplay" such as manual stimulation, he may be masturbating a bit too rigorously. If someone masturbates a LOT they can get used to the very tight grip of a hand and a vagina or mouth simply can't compare. You may have to find an article about it or something and show it to him just because it's interesting so it doesn't feel like an attack and so he doesn't feel alone. You can try suggesting that you'd find it really hot if you both went a day without masturbating to make sex better.
...............................
A
female
reader, heaven34 +, writes (13 June 2010):
Nobody is bad at sex just sometimes we all need a bit of direction. only he can tell you what makes him tick so one suggestion is rather than you thinking you are making the wrong moves ask him along the way does he like this, is this good for him, let him guide you in what makes him feel good. I bet that he wants you to enjoy yourself just as much as he does so if he sees you are enjoying sex then the rest will happen as it should.
Good luck hun
...............................
|
