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writes:Is it okay to be married to a guy who has a child but not married? I want to know the views of women around the world with this kind of situation. I am 25 and I am kinda attractive to guys who have kids but they are not married. These guys have experienced a worst relationship and I guess they became mature already. But the thing is, acceptance. What do you think guys and gals? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): yeah, of course it's fine, just be ready for someone else's kids
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 I think it's more then ok...........like you said despite the previous failed relationship, these men have proven to be more mature and responsible. I personally think it's really attractive as well, it means they are family men not career guys or fun time guys who do anything possible to avoid pregnancy or bail out on their women if they do get pregnant. I think it's important to judge the man on his character as well, get to know him really well and don't push him to introduce you to the child too early as the child will be very hurt if things don't work out and he/she attaches to you. Go for it hun............good luck :)
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Totally agree with Ask Older Sis, as long as the guy isn't still romantically involved with the mother of his child, and as long as you like kids and realise that they come first and you will have to compromise a lot.
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reader, Atif Khan  +, writes (12 June 2010):
hey, what you are thinking may be right, or it might just be the other way around. it could be the girl who had a real hard time, and the guy (you are attracted to) might be responsible for it being that bad. n besides, he had a child with someone, n still left her. why wouldnt he leave you after you experience the same. as far as the maturity is concerned, it is not a rubber stamp that a single father would be mature. it might be his immaturity which made him a single father. if he was mature enough, his childs mom would be with him.
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