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anonymous
writes:Hi.My boyfriend is confusing.Ever since, I had a agurument with him in the last 2 weeks it feels he doesn't want to spend quality time with me anymore then he used too. Well, he still calls me frequently [even, when he has no money on his phone] and I still see him but, at times I think he wants to be alone.He's finishing off his college work which is due in this month and is working partly over-time and I wonder if this or the agurument tires him which cuts him off spending full time together. Of course, I don't involve around his world only so, I'm good at keeping limits.I always let him call me to asure if he is still interested in me which is kind of silly I know. Perhaps, I'm just afraid of losing him because, he is a wonderful person and do love him dearly. Always told me he loves me and I haven't heard it much now..except 2 days ago. All I hear much now is ''I miss you''What should I do? He is going to Thailand soon for a month and I want to keep this relationship strong. We've been together for 8 months now and this is his first serious relationship. Mine too though, his my first boyfriend. I trust him and he's been faithful to me.Should I just leave him be until he wants to commit something proper with me like before? I have told him if he wanted to have his freedom or space and he said no. ?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Thank you, glad I could help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank-you for the answers. I guess I was just acting a little bit over sensitive indeed. Everything is doing good and I guess it takes patience. We still do things from the past which I wanted as it's nice to be at his presence again.
Thank-you Smiles that was great advice!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 You could be over sensitive .
Perhaps he is quite busy at the moment and not because of the tiff he had with you.
He probably forgot about that incident and moved on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): I think this guy has a lot on his mind; his college work etc;
I suggest you give him some loving support and a little space;
He obviously still cares abut you, phones you to tell you he is missing you,; you offered him his freedom, he does not want it.....Just give him a little time and space...
Keep yourself busy with something and see, he will be around soon.
Sometimes absence makes the heart grows fonder!
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