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writes:i have been dating a girl for two years now and just the other day we were having a fight and she told me she wasn't sexually attracted to me at all.What should I do? She says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): Well she may have been telling you the truth. If so, I would recommend ending the relationship because if this is true the relationship will self-destruct over time anyway.
My gut feeling is that she probably was speaking the truth, consider the context though. Did she say this in response to why aren't we having more sex question? If so, she probably spoke the truth. If she said it in response to you saying something similar to her she may have just been lashing out in anger to hurt you because she was mad.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Words spoken in a fight or anger should not be taken into considerations.
She was just lashing out.
You should not take it to heart.
Forgive her and move past this episode in your life.
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 maybe she was just trying to score a low blow or maybe she ment it you would have to discuss this with her as she is the one with answers to your question. as for if she isnt sexually attracted to you do you think you could live with that whether or not she loves you ? ask yourself questions too! in the end its your choice what you do but look at it from all angles. thats my opinion aphexy
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