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writes:Very confused, need some help please. So my man is a tow truck driver so he works all the time. The problam is that he does impounds on the week end and is gone until about 3 am, sometimes when he gets home he smells like alchol and when i ask him why he just says that him and one of the guys that he works with had a few drinks while they were waiting on people to pick thier cars up. I was wondering if he might be out at the bar or something or if he might be telling the truth. Any answers would help alot!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): My dad used to say: Nobody knows anyone else, and this is so true. You could be married to someone for the rest of your life, think that you know them, and find out you havent even scratched the surface. So who know.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Hire a PI or get a friend to monitor him.
You will have the proof.
Men are creatures of habit.
They do the same thing everyday.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Who knows.......Of course it's possible. It's also possible he's telling the truth. Nobody can really tell you what is happening.
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reader, gpac +, writes (8 June 2008):
the question is? how much do you actually trust him????if you don't trust him then there is absolutely no relationship! that's it! and it'd be your fault! the #1 key to relationships is trust! you don't have that and your set up to fail. and that goes for both ends, not just you! having trust is one of the most fullfilling things i've had in life (and trust me, i'm not even in a relationship right now, my last b-friend was to jealous)! don't be lame! so what if he wants to have some guy time w/ his buddies! let him have it! and here's the rule, if he cheats on you, F him! he's not worth it and you move on! he'll miss you a lot more than you miss him! stick to your guns and stick to your instinct! but if jealousy is involved, you might not be feeling the right instinct and that's your problem!
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