Do you think our relationship go anywhere?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...
A. 25 May 2017: Sweetie honestly you cannot have a connection with someone until you have spent time with them face to face. Anybody can tell you anything over a computer or phone screen. But you will never know each other truly until you are able to spend time ... (read in full...)
How do I recover from this breakup?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. Neither one of us was expecting it, but it became clear that we loved each other but we weren't on the same page and wanted different things. Our maturity levels did not align. The hardest part for...
A. 22 May 2017: You are doing everything right, you just need to be patient now, it is going to take longer than a few days to get over someone. You just need to accept that it will be like this for a while, but it will get better. The more time apart you spend the ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm so I always fake them. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I am in a relationship, almost a year now and we have amazing chemistry together. Every time we are having sex I can't seem to orgasm even if I try my best. On my own Its every time, so I fake it to not upset him or to get it over with.What do I ...
A. 22 May 2017: Stop faking it. Show him how to get you off. Most women don't orgasm through sex but more so through foreplay. So show him what works for you.... (read in full...)
He argues about everything! Will our relationship last?
Q. My partner and I have been fighting a lot ever since getting together 2.5 years ago. I love him a lot but often have doubts about whether we will work long term. Whenever I ask him to do something small (like take his shoes away from my front do...
A. 22 May 2017: This is never going to work, am surprised you have both lasted so long if it is always like this. You are not compatible, now am not saying he is in the wrong or that you are, its just simple that it won't work between you both as you are very ... (read in full...)
Does my ex have unresolved feelings for me?
Q. So I dated this girl long distance about 3 years ago. The relationship was fine until the very end when she started lying and treating me horribly. Long story short, she ended up cheating on me with her best friend (shd denied that she cheated on ...
A. 22 May 2017: My guess is that she feels bad for what she done to you. I guess we all make mistakes and she is trying to put hers right. If she is around your age then she was young when she cheated on you and now that she is a bit older it seems she may be ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do, yet I don't want to give up on us.
Q. I recently read a post where the woman didn't know what to do because get man was still visiting online dating sites even though they are together and so neither of them are no longer single. I wanted to answer her, yet I can't honestly give her ...
A. 22 May 2017: You say you are confident? Then gain more confidence and leave this waste off space. You are deluded if you think this man is in love with you. Yes he may love you but he is not in love with you, if he was he would not be looking to porn when he has ... (read in full...)
I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?
Q. I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...
A. 22 May 2017: No it is not your place to tell his girlfriend. The moment that you found out he had a girlfriend you should have blocked him and never looked back. Instead you agreed to be friends, probably because you liked the attention he gave you. Stop ... (read in full...)
I am not sure if she feels the same about me. what can I do? I've developed feelings for a female co-worker.
Q. Not sure where to start.... So I am a 24 year old female and have developed feelings for a co-worker who is also female but is 45years old. We have worked together for over 2years now, we work amongst a team and work with different colleagues. I wo...
A. 22 May 2017: Their is a lot to think about here, if this goes wrong you will be stuck working with this woman. Honestly has she ever gave you any indication that she is sexually interested in females? You very easily could be mistaken friendship for something ... (read in full...)
What do her words mean?
Q. hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...
A. 22 May 2017: It appears you are both quite young. It sounds to me like she is having doubts about the relationship but at the same time she is scared to let you go. Honestly save yourself the hurt and end things. If she feels like this then it will only get ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work when you love their personality but aren't attracted to them sexually?
Q. I talked to a guy for a long time via text before actually meeting him. I loved talking to him and we share the same humour. Upon meeting him I continue to love his personality but I am not physically attracted to him. Can a relationship ever work ...
A. 22 May 2017: I would give it a chance, sometimes sexual attraction does appear once our feelings grow. Give it three months, if you are still not feeling it then move on. At least then you can say you tried and you didn't give up. Who knows it may work out great ... (read in full...)
I cannot keep on ignoring him. He keeps on asking me to his, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am only 14 but have a boyfriend I think he is super sweet and super cute but he is always asking me round to his. I always decline because I am too nervous because he seems to eager to move on with our relationship but all we have ...
A. 22 May 2017: It sounds like he is pressuring you in to this. What age is he? Does he still live with his parents? Honestly you are being really mature for saying no when you are not ready. You need to build up a good relationship before you feel the connection ... (read in full...)
Have you been asked out by someone that you consider a friend?
Q. Hello Aunts, I've got this female friend in whom I have been romantically interested in. It's been almost a year since we first met and didn't make a move because I'm a nervous idiot. I feel confident enough to ask her now but I'm afraid I'll lose...
A. 22 May 2017: Honestly why do you think you would loose the friendship? Granted if she did not feel the same things may be awkward for a while but you would both soon learn to deal with it and save the friendship. Honestly you have nothing to loose. You have ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 years older than him, I know its crazy but its so intoxicating!
Q. I feel like I've completely lost my mind here, so maybe someone can give me some perspective. I'm a 38 year-old mother of one. I've been divorced for years. I've always thought of myself as a rational person until now. For reasons I cannot explain, ...
A. 22 May 2017: You are old enough to be his mother, although that is nobodies business as you are both adults! Honestly though no protection? He is 20 he could very well be sleeping with multiple women and he could be riddled with infections, I really never ... (read in full...)
He didn't invite me to a family function. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Hey, Thanks for taking the time to read my post I'm going to keep it short I've been with my partner 10 years I'm 27 hes 28 we've had a very happy time together no real drama or anything we have always been great together I cant imagine anyone in...
A. 22 May 2017: Honestly it doesn't sound like he didn't want you their, it sounds like when he got invited he thought cool and then never gave it a second thought. Are you sure their is nothing else bothering you in the relationship?... (read in full...)
Why is he ghosting me now?
Q. Why is all of a sudden ghosting me? This guy bought us concert tickets, we spoke for a while he gave me his number. He spent over £200 for these tickets, continued chatting a while then all of a sudden he started ghosting!! His ignored my me...
A. 22 May 2017: Are you sure he even bought these tickets? Did you physically see them or could it be that he has been stringing you along hence why he is now ignoring you nearer the time?... (read in full...)
Do I message "his secret woman" and ask how many times he has seen her?
Q. After finding a 3 year old secret twitter account of my long term partner I was gobsmacked the tweets 4/5 times a day hugs and kisses can't wait to see you tonight etc he'd been working with her every night for 8 years in 10 years I've never met one ...
A. 22 May 2017: I have heard your story before and I am glad you have finally ended things with him. I hope you stick to your decision for you and if my memory serves me right your daughter also. I think you need to ask him to leave your house and take some time ... (read in full...)
Is it time to downsize due to illness?
Q. Is it time to downsize due to illness? My husband just got diagnosed with a chronic and deblitating disease. His diagnosis came a month after moving into a bigger house. We have two young children. Since our finances are now affected (not to...
A. 22 May 2017: My thoughts are if you feel you will be struggling for money on top off coping with an illness then downsize. You will get used to a smaller living space, and you will just be glad you can live comfortably and have your family around you. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried how rude the nurses will be
Q. Im going into hospital tomorrow for a minor procedure and the nurses are known to be nasty, what can i do? Am staying overnight and on the ward im going to overnight on the nurses are well known to be sarcastic and cold... I have spoken to s...
A. 22 May 2017: From your posts my guess is you are a very sensitive person. The doctor probably did wonder why you where in over night if they usually just do it and the person goes home. Anyway don't worry it is over and done with now and glad to know you got on ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with parents now I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice and hope right now. I'm soon to be 18 and I'm pregnant... I'm happy to have the baby and I'm happy for my bf too but our parents... Please, I don't want anyone to judge, there will be enough of that, thank yo...
A. 22 May 2017: How did things go Sweetie?... (read in full...)
Does this look like a deeper relationship?
Q. I've had a FWB about 6 months now. We casually meet every other week, do our thing, split ways and just chat via messages the rest of the time. Lately, when I go to his house, he wants me to spend all night, go out to the movies, go eat, he kisse...
A. 22 May 2017: Yeah I think he has done everything but actually come straight out and say it. I hope it goes well for you. ... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship go anywhere?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...
A. 22 May 2017: But realistically what is it that you have now? Someone you can chat to and have a laugh with behind a phone screen? I know for me I wouldn't want this, because I feel I would end up getting hurt. To me it sounds like he is having a laugh chatting ... (read in full...)
Why's my teacher acting so cold?
Q. My favourite teacher in the whole world is my art teacher. He's 30 so he's younger and is able to connect with certain students really well. He's the type of person who can make stupid or rude remarks that make you laugh, but he'll only do this ...
A. 19 May 2017: My guess is that he knows you have a crush on him. Teachers look out for all the signs. He is trying to nip it in the bud. He is not your friend he is your teacher. I think you should stop using the art room, as it is making him uncomfortable, maybe ... (read in full...)
Does this look like a deeper relationship?
Q. I've had a FWB about 6 months now. We casually meet every other week, do our thing, split ways and just chat via messages the rest of the time. Lately, when I go to his house, he wants me to spend all night, go out to the movies, go eat, he kisse...
A. 19 May 2017: It does sound to me like he is looking for more from what you have wrote. He is testing the waters by bringing it up casually and as a joke but he is looking to see your reaction. He is probably afraid like you off getting rejected. Go for it and ... (read in full...)
He's engaged and 13 years older than me. Could things work out?
Q. How many years apart is too many? The man I love is 13 years older than me, I believe it's one sided, but I'm just curious on what people believe. He's also engaged, could this possibly work out for me at all?...
A. 19 May 2017: No realistically he loves someone else. It is a crush you have and you will get over it. Just a tip, nobody likes a person who tries to interfere in someone else's relationship and tries to steal someone's man so don't do it.... (read in full...)
Do we have a hope of making this work?
Q. Hello. I've been speaking to this guy since February but only been dating him since April. He lives 2 hours away from me but I went to uni' close to him. I have finished uni' now. We spent a lot of time together in the month that we da...
A. 19 May 2017: They can work, but they are difficult. If you are both wanting it to work then it will. However I will say if things are not progressing as it is then it might not work out for you.... (read in full...)
I cheated then found out my girlfriend is pregnant. She says she doesn't trust me and would leave me if she wasn't pregnant
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for four years. A year ago we bought a house together and within weeks I got laid off from my job. I ended having to take a job that required me to be out of town for three weeks then home for a week. I felt terrible ...
A. 19 May 2017: We all have bad days and say things. If this is the first time she has mentioned it then I wouldn't mention it again. build up her confidence. You need to earn her trust back.... (read in full...)
Closure on possibly unfaithful ex boyfriend
Q. I was in a four year relationship in which I pretty much did everything for my partner. I paid for everything, was disrespected, even had him move in with me for a couple months until he got back on his feet. I come from an extremely broken family ...
A. 19 May 2017: Honestly why does it even matter now? You need to get over this, stop torturing yourself. Get back to work and get on with your life. Yes get tested but other than that stop worrying about your ex boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's emotion letter to ex for closure has left me feeling second best
Q. I'm in a confused relationship, my boyfriend of 3 years (were living together) send a closure to his ex-gf behind my back. She cheated on him with another guy 5 years before we got together. He already told me that he dated one girl after her before ...
A. 19 May 2017: It sounds to me like he still has strong feelings for her. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.
Q. My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...
A. 18 May 2017: I think you need to give us more details. A bodyguard? What age is this boy? I mean who grounds a adult? He has his own mind. He is free to live his own life.... (read in full...)
We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...
A. 18 May 2017: He is trying to get in to your knickers! Honestly its the oldest trick in the book, his plan is to ask for a hug and try for more! He sounds like he would happily cheat on his poor girlfriend! Honestly your best bet would be to stay away from this ... (read in full...)
My crush is suddenly avoiding me!
Q. I met my personal trainer end of March 2017 and immediately we clicked. We had so much fun together we would laugh all the time. He inspired me to push harder and even to go to the gym. Sometimes he would touch me in an unusual flirtatious way (but ...
A. 18 May 2017: Honestly it sounds like he was nervous because he saw you both chatting and he knew that he crossed the line letting you train for free. Other than that my guess is that he knows you have a crush on him so he is taking a step back because he has a ... (read in full...)
Do many females masturbate ? I feel ashamed when I do so.
Q. Do lots of girls/ladies masterbate? I get so paranoid that I'm abnormal for doing it because my friends never talk about it and sometimes someone will make a comment that it's more of a boy thing and I'll feel ashamed. ...
A. 18 May 2017: yip everyone does, it just seems guys are more vocal about it than girls. Girls tend to be more ashamed, the older you get the more you will find you can chat about it and have a laugh with friends.... (read in full...)
I'm worried how rude the nurses will be
Q. Im going into hospital tomorrow for a minor procedure and the nurses are known to be nasty, what can i do? Am staying overnight and on the ward im going to overnight on the nurses are well known to be sarcastic and cold... I have spoken to s...
A. 18 May 2017: Honestly if you are nice to them then I am sure they will be nice to you. Show them respect and hopefully they will return the favor. Just remember the nurses are there to help take care off you, so allow them to do their job. It is only one night ... (read in full...)
So hard to control my feelings
Q. I've been in a problematic "relationship" with a married acquaintance from my work for the past few months. We aren't full-time co-workers but we work together alone enough when he's around. I'm 23 and he's around 39-40ish. I had developed a bit ...
A. 18 May 2017: You should have thought on them poor four children and his wife before you even entered in to an affair with this man.
Honestly you should look for another job and stay away from this man, that or else you will be enemy number one and yes you will... (read in full...)
Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?
Q. I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...
A. 18 May 2017: I agree do the background check and see if he is actually married, faking it would have been quite a job. If he did fake it you need to then wonder will he get caught? Because if he does he and she will go to prison and yes off course this could ... (read in full...)
How can I distance myself from a friend without hurting their feelings?
Q. I am currently a grad student in college. I used to be best friends with this girl all throughout middle school. We grew apart through highschool, and I am now a graduate in college. Half a year ago, I thought it would be cool if to reach out to her ...
A. 18 May 2017: This is a tough one, you don't actually say why you don't want to be close with her? Could she not join you and other friends on nights out so that its not just the two off you? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is planning to propose! Should I tell my difficult parents now or after the engagement?
Q. My boyfriend is not a secret keeper at all. For a while now we have been talking about marriage. For us, it is just the next natural step to take in our relationship. I cannot imagine it going any other way, love him dearly, and see the same from ...
A. 18 May 2017: We are not traditional but my partner asked my dad for his blessings. If you are worried what they will say maybe suggest to your boyfriend that he tell them he is going to propose. If he is not comfortable doing that then you should just tell them. ... (read in full...)
Help me with this family situation, my father thinks I'm avoiding an event!
Q. I have a difficult situation with my over 65 yr old parents Need advice please My parents live in another state that is a 1hour plane flight away I visit once a year and they come to my state, once a year to visit and and we talk on phone sometim...
A. 18 May 2017: I am sure you are entitled to holidays, have you even asked your employer can you go to your mothers 70th and book a day off or are you just making excuses. You say they are healthy how on earth could you know that for sure? If you want to work then ... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship go anywhere?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...
A. 18 May 2017: I understand where you are coming from. It would be horrible if you fell for this guy and then got hurt. It is okay to ask him what his plans are? It is okay to ask him does he see you and him being together? Meeting up? ect.... (read in full...)
Is this kind of kiss usual?
Q. What does it mean if a guy kisses his hand and then touched your lips with the hand he has just kissed? No guy has done that 2 me before have always gone with a proper lip on lip kiss Yes I properly sound young and not very experienced but ...
A. 17 May 2017: It could mean anything, is he a friend? A date? You need to give us more information. If you where out on a date then I would see it as a good thing he was respecting your boundaries. If it was a friend then he is showing affection. ... (read in full...)
Is he using health issues as an excuse?
Q. I have been with my wonderful man for over a year (I'm 38 and he is 36) and we're engaged. My issue right now is that my fiancé has been through a lot medically. He was in a Coma for over 2 months and came out with more conditions, neuropathy a...
A. 17 May 2017: Maybe you both need to speak to a counselor, he is getting over a traumatic experience and you are feeling neglected in this relationship, you do both need to chat and help understand each other and maybe a counselor would help you both achieve ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with parents now I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice and hope right now. I'm soon to be 18 and I'm pregnant... I'm happy to have the baby and I'm happy for my bf too but our parents... Please, I don't want anyone to judge, there will be enough of that, thank yo...
A. 17 May 2017: Don't rush in to marriage you are only young. I understand that you are worried but you need to look after yourself and your baby now. Your parents will be hurt and angry but they will am sure get over it once they meet their grandchild. You and ... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship go anywhere?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...
A. 17 May 2017: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-scared-my-online-guy-off.html... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship go anywhere?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for nearly 4 months who I met online. We are from different states, would be a 10 hour drive there. Originally, I was only talking with him for something to do, casual flirting here and there, nothing serious. He ...
A. 17 May 2017: Okay so am guessing this is your second post about this guy? Only it is much different to your first post. Long distance won't work here unless you both have a plan. Are one off you planning to move to be near the other? Honestly I think he enjoys a ... (read in full...)
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