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writes:Why is all of a sudden ghosting me? This guy bought us concert tickets, we spoke for a while he gave me his number. He spent over £200 for these tickets, continued chatting a while then all of a sudden he started ghosting!! His ignored my messages etc When we spoke he said to me I know you'll defo come so now I'm thinking is he ghosting but going to resurrect nearer to the concert which has put me off going tbh What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 May 2017):
 Are you sure he even bought these tickets? Did you physically see them or could it be that he has been stringing you along hence why he is now ignoring you nearer the time?
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (21 May 2017):
For Denizen's benefit - "ghosting" is the practice of suddenly cutting of all communications with some-one without warning and for no apparent reason. Often because the ghoster no longer wishes to carry on a relationship or friendship with the ghostee but is too cowardly to say this outright.
For the OP - How long has he been ghosting you for? If it's only been a few days - hold your horses, he may just be busy (and a bit rude). But, if he IS ghosting you, he might resurface but possibly without concert tickets. I surmise that the "tickets" never existed. He only SAID that he bought them and now doesn't know how to admit his lie. If he really DID buy tickets, the same "generous offer" may have been given to several other potential dates and he's now decided to take someone else (and he doesn't know how to admit to that either.)
Either way, he's expressing to you that he's not particularly interested so it may well be wise to leave it if he does re-appear (with or without tickets).
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reader, N91 +, writes (21 May 2017):
 I think why are you wasting your time on someone who's ignoring you?
I can't think of a single valid reason why he would do this, therefore I would block him, delete and move on.
What an absolute waste of time.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (20 May 2017):
 Sorry but I don't understand what you are talking about. He bought 'us' tickets? Who is the us? Then he started ghoating. What does that mean?
Can you explain as if you were talking to a small child or a golden retriever.
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