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writes:hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know how I feel anymore about you". so I went on to say "are we done then"?. She then said "I don't want to be seeing you but I know if I finish with you, I would regret it". so I said "I'll give you time to think about it over the weekend and then come to an answer on Sunday". What does she mean by this? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 May 2017):
 It appears you are both quite young. It sounds to me like she is having doubts about the relationship but at the same time she is scared to let you go. Honestly save yourself the hurt and end things. If she feels like this then it will only get worse. Relationships are delicate at your age. But once she starts questioning the relationship the best thing to do is end it. I wish you all the best.
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (21 May 2017):
Her words mean she wants to break up with you but doesn't have the guts to do it. She's keeping you around until someone better comes along. Dump her now and move on with your life. You' shouldn't allow yourself to be some woman's Plan B.
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reader, N91 +, writes (21 May 2017):
 If a girl said that to me, the reply would be 'No worries, look after yourself and best wishes for the future'.
No way in hell would I let a girl tell me 'I don't know if I want to be with you' And then give her a few days to decide whether I'm worthy or not.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (21 May 2017):
 Taking back control of this situation will help you in the long run. Tell her YOU will make the decision for her and finish it.
If she really wants to be with you, she will fight the decision. If not, then she never wanted to be with you in the first place.
Hold your head high and know your worth. There are girls out there who will KNOW they want to be with you.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (21 May 2017):
 Dont sit around waiting for her to decide your worth. I can tell you right here right now. You are worth more than be be considered a 'token' for her ego. Her 'regret' will be a lessoned learned and your freedom to find someone else to invest and sped time with.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 May 2017):
 Sounds to me like she is done but doesn't know how to break it off.
Sorry. I'd just let her know that you wish her well and is going to cut the contact.
Don't be so desperate to have a GF that you will let a girl treat you like you aren't important. If she says: "I don't want to be seeing you but I know if I finish with you, I would regret it". then it sounds like the ONLY reason she still wants to see you is because she RATHER have a BF (any BF will do) than being single.
I would not settle for being second best in someone's book.
Sorry, I think you can DO better than some vague "I don't want to be seeing you but I know if I finish with you, I would regret it"....
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