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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am in a relationship, almost a year now and we have amazing chemistry together. Every time we are having sex I can't seem to orgasm even if I try my best. On my own Its every time, so I fake it to not upset him or to get it over with.What do I do,is there something wrong with me?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (22 May 2017):
 Stop faking it. Show him how to get you off. Most women don't orgasm through sex but more so through foreplay. So show him what works for you.
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female
reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 May 2017):
 Faking it will NOT fix the issue.
SHOW him HOW you get yourself off - TEACH him HOW to make you orgasm.
You are not sparing his feelings by faking it. You are "letting," him think he is a better lover than he is, so you get "bad sex" because THAT is what you encourage.
If you can have SEX with this guy you can TELL him what you ENJOY and what you would LIKE for him to do to you, where he should touch you and how. SO you BOTH can get pleasure.
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reader, N91  +, writes (21 May 2017):
 Is the sex good?
Does he perform foreplay? Or just dive into sex?
Have you told him what you enjoy or given him any direction?
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