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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it wrong of me not to be happy that my married lover had a baby with his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My lover just had another baby with his wife. I am very sad and disappointed about this. Is this normal? I love the guy so much and he loves me too. We have been together for two years and has been married for three years. I have always respected ...

I would be just friends, but I think my feelings for her will get in the way. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Her friends and family felt neglected and told her that she was spending too much time with me, even though she gave everyone an equal amount of time. She said her friends and family are more important than a boyfriend so she pushed me away. I agree ...

I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my ...

He tells white lies. We argue. I don't know how to solve this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I'm in desperate need of some relationship advice. This is going to be really hard to put into words, but i'll try my best :)... I have been with my partner for a year now, he is one year older then me (18). We get on so well, i love spending ti...

Am I crazy if I want something with him still?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who ive known for a few years. We met last year in college and we ended up dating for only a few weeks last year. I came back from a trip and he told me that he still had feeling for his ex. We agreed to be friends, and i wasnt ...

I am uncomfortable with BF's drug use. Need advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Ive been back with my ex for 4 months were living together and im totally in love. i broke up with him 2 years ago coz of drugs and hes having a bit of trouble trying to forget how much hurt he went through but he only told me yesterday that he ...

Son is dating an older woman with children. How can I make him come to his senses?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I've been pretty confused about something lately and just can't seem to get my mind off of it. I'm really having a hard time figuring out why my son who is 22 y/o is dating this older woman who's 33 and has 2 kids (twins). I feel like he's ...

I want to go back on the dating site, but my ex is there. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site, we dated for a long time, he told me he loved me everyday and I loved him a lot. But he lied to me, cheated and dumped me.. He really hurt me.. ...

He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will a...

What does he mean by saying, "I don't want to hurt you?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I met this stranger not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and texted and called each other every day for a month then finally went out on a date. Everything went really well, and we set up some more dates. At the end of our second date he t...

We hardly ever have sex anymore. I'd like this other man on the side. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i'm 42 yrs old and my husband is 52. i'm happily married and do not want to leave or lose my husband, but we hardly ever have sex. well a month ago i went on a little vacation and i met another man and yes, we did it 1 time, and it felt sooo good ...

I messed up big time with my ex girlfriend. How can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Its been 3 months since my break up with my ex, i believed she didn't love me, i believe she was dating around guys, and had sex with this one guy i had my suspicions with. So during the last 3 months i took up drinking and smoking (not heavily but ...

I'm too young to be in a relationship with no spark, but I'm afraid to leave. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody I need some help. Me and my now ex had been together for almost two years. And recently we had been on and off. I hadn't been happy with him for awhile, at the beginning he used to make me feel special, listened to, and wanted....

He tells me I should understand him. He promises not to leave. I don't know what to think. Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - A guy proposed to me, but before i answered, i asked him if he had a girl friend. He told me that it doesn't depend on the girl friend one has but someone's choice, and that I am his choice. He said he had had many experience with women so therefor...

She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Why is my ex girlfriend so cold? She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. She says she needs a month...does that mean she wasn't telling me the truth about loving me? I don't see how people could just switch their fee...

I don't know if I should keep this LDR or not. I feel he is the one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've been having long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We love each other so much. Both of our parents also agree with our relationship. Otherwise,sometimes I feel that it's too hard for me to keep go on with this relation...

Reasons BF gave me for breaking up with me are preposterous. I am heartbroken.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently broken up with me. We were in a relationship for more than 4 years, this being the 5th year. (Additional Info:- He was my first ever boyfriend and he said I was his first too. At the beginning we had a wonderful relation...

We got back together. I think he's cheating but he says no. What can I do?

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11 April 2011 (F) - i think my bfs cheating on me we broke up about 2 weeks ago but got back together bout a week go but ever since hes been acting weird. he does not text me no more and only phones when hes in work and then i dont hear of him till the next day. when i ...

How do I handle his "sexting" when I see him next.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - A friend of mine and I have a complicated relationship. It is complicated in the fact that I have had on and off feelings for him, but as of recently, been keeping it platonic. And he is a massive flirt who will flirt with most girls in my year and ...

What advice can I give to my friend that is having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - A friend needs advice and I am unsure how to help him. He's having a relationship with a married woman and wants to get out but doesn't know how to end it. She loves him, but I have told him that these types of relationships hardly work. He feels ...

What can I do to get back at him for all the pain he has caused me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I am going to make a long story short, so if u want more info just ask. My ex and i dated for three months and then he dumped me, he told me while we were split up that he still loved me, that he fucked up, he wants another chance, and was kissing ...

I regret telling him. How do I put things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've been at 6th form since last September, and a guy who went to the same school as me goes there. We never spoke at spoke, but over the past 8 months, we've bonded so well, to the point that we both trust each other so much. We have a lot in ...

Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...

Sex was good in our marriage, but husband has no interest for the past 3 years. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - What can be the cause when a man does not want any sex with his wife? Is this possible,that he doesn't know why? What can you do,if he says he loves you,but he never wants sex, ever, for years. He never looks at me naked, or touches me. I as...

My jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and recently have known how jealous i can get the jealousy is changing who i am and i hate it and dont know what to do about it it's also changing how i feel about my bf i keep telling myself he ...

I threw myself at him, Did he lose respect for me? Is there a chance of turning this around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - dated this guy I work w/ for a while, it was steady, intense and consistent. Then I pulled away bc he wasn't spending enough time w/ me. I had hoped he would try to work it out w/ me, but he didn't..he just let me go. I mean, canceled our weekend ...

She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...

He walks all over me. I want him to respect me. How do I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have low self esteem. My boyfriend senses this so he feels that things are super "safe" with me because I will never leave him. So sometimes he enjoys driving me up the wall and rarely apologizes anymore. Most days he's sweet but some...

He'll never be anything more than a liar. We had 2 weeks planned. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now. We see each other every weekend, and yesterday he arrived here and is going to stay with me for 3 weeks (we did this before, in August last year and it was grea...

I know now that childcare is not what I want to do. Need help with career choice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hey, a quick question, how do you know what you want to do in life if you have no ambitions and no idea on a career path? I had to quit college because i became pregnant, yes it was planned but it happened sooner then planned. The college cou...

GF is a workalcoholic. We are to be married in 3 months. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I dont know who else to turn to. Its really getting to the point where I dont know what to do. sorry if its long, but yeah. My Fiancee and I are getting married in about 3 months. For the last year, she has been doing freelance work to save up ...

My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She ...

He says he loves me but cannot marry me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i am a traditional orthodox indian girl who was never in a relationship before, now from past 2 year i met a guy and both were truely in love. i have not revealed this with anyone nor he. now his parents are forcing him to get married then i raised ...

43 and trying to start over

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - hi, im 43, divorced, 3 kids and in a relationship for 8 months now, my question is, should i be expecting long term plans and commitment??? should i be included in vacations with his family and kids after a year, or it is normal for us to be havin...

He lied about his age, should I see him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) - Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...

Is he really is having his cake and eating it by living rent free at his mums and at mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Please help me I'm very confused about my relationship of 15 months. He has two kids from his prev relationship of 8 years. We don't live together but he is at my place every night. For majority of the time we get along good and I really love hi...

He is avoiding telling his mum that we are getting engaged, is he having second thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were supposed to tell his mum that we were getting engaged and then at the last minute wanted to tell her another day, this then made me wonder if he even wanted to be engaged at all?...

Just had a baby and not feeling too great about my body, and now I find out my boyfriend is watching porn! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've just had a baby so am not really comfy with my body at the minute, but I've just recently found out that my boyfriend and my babies dad has been watching porn on the internet and Im not sure how to feel or what I should do about it?...

Is it possible to get the relationship back? I'm ready to marry her now but she wants space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I have dated a girl for about 6 years. Ive always loved her and she has been awesome in the realtionshiop. We went to different schools and for the past 3 years Ive worked in London and she lives in Texas and has a great job there. Ive alwyas ...

Pregnant by my ex who has another girlfriend, and I'm only 14! Should I keep it or give it up for adoption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - ok so, i was with my ex for a year and 2 months, he currently has a new gf because hes 'trying to get over me' we had sex a couple weeks ago (yea i know im such a horrible person letting him cheat on her like that, blah blah blah) but the condom ...

Why would he even ask if I want to have sex with other men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have always been happy and very much in love. My boyfriend is very protective which makes me feel special enough for him to care how other boys act around me. He has always told me he would hate ...

Whatever happened to love conquers all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi all I'm recently feeling vexed over a guy! He's been courting me for a few months and even though initially I wasn't interested, I was finally beginning to be touched by his words. And for a moment, I really considered his friend's advise on ...

Obsessing that my boyfriend may cheat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I find myself obsessing over whether my boyfriend is having sex with anyone else. We've been together 5 months and I have no specific evidence at all. In fact, he tells me what he is doing whenever I ask and he picks up the phone whenever I call ...

He wants a break when I don't believe in them, how do I act if he tries to contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me for a 'break' today. In my mind there is no such thing as a break but I didn't really feel like expressing that, or anything else to him at the time. He said he had a lot of stuff to deal with and that he needs to straigh...

This is more than just a crush on my best friend......what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i'm in love with my best friend and don't know what to do because i can't tell him and i don't know if he feels the same way though whenever we're together lately it feels like something is there and our friend thinks so too. whenever he touches my ...

Should I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or should I try and break my ex and his new GF's relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I can't get over my ex. He has a New girlfriend and says he is happy but I want him back, I'm still in love with him, we have a baby together and just want to be a family. Do I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or do I be a ...

He wont give his opinion but then complains when I make decisions without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I don't understand this. I ask my boyfriend for his opinion on something and he acts neutral about it. Then when I make a choice and it was the "wrong" one, he then has an opinion and tells me then he is mad that I made the wrong choice. This has ...

I really like her a lot, and want to know how to get her attention!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - So I've found this girl and she really makes me feel... I cant really explain the feeling =/. I guess "alive" would be the word. After a bad breakup with my ex a couple of months ago i thought it'd be impossible to find another girl to make me feel ...

Ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Alright so recently I confronted my boyfriend about that I thought he was cheating but.. that's not the problem anymore because I trust him now. Although, one thing I've noticed since is.. he's staring to ignore me.. today we was going out and ea...

Does he still care about me or is he just scared of commiting himself to a family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, we have a baby together, he just started seeing someone else in the last month. But things between us never seem to be finished. Lately I have been sending him pics of myself, with him encouraging more of them. He ...

Was I wrong to contact his mother? I haven't heard from her since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - was i wrong for contacting his mum? in a LDR and ive met his mother and mailed her on facebook a couple of times. my boyfriend has recently got a severe case of depression and last night I have never been so terrified, i made myself physica...

If he wanted me he would initiate it, right? Or is he just scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and everything was amazing. He introduced me to his parents, friends... and then he started getting distant so I asked him waht was going on... He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me ...

Sleeping with a girl who is "involved". I want more. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I met a great girl a few months ago and have recently started sleeping with her. The problem is she is in a long distance relationship with a guy in another country. We spend a lot of time together but I get the feeling I'm more into her than s...

What he just telling me what I wanted to hear? How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi there. Kinda a long story so please bear with me. I was engaged to my Fiancé "M" for almost a year. We have been dating for 3 years and living together almost that long as we dated a long time ago. He is 27 and I am 25. Him and I had many many ...

Not sure what to do about lecturer who is jealous when I get male attention.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...