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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend becoming a control freak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (?) - i think my bf is becoming a control freak. we have been seeing each other for 13 months and he has been great, nothing like as controlative as he has been in the last 3 months. he is buying me clothes, telling me what to wear, telling me how to wear ...

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...

She wants a break but she is still acting like she loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. Things were going well and everything was working our perfectly in the relationship. Over the past few months we had not gotten to see each other very much, I was starting a very high level/time ...

We get along well, the conversation flows, but I can't get past his looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I need some advice and please don't judge me or think I'm being conceited i just have no other way than to put this bluntly. You know how when you are out, you see those couples where they don't suit....Well, this guy who i get along with really ...

Feel so alone without my best friend, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I miss my x best friend(with Bennefits) so much it hurts. He was my best friend. Always there wheather I needed him or not. It was a very different relationship as it started when my boyfriend(x) started to abuse me. Robert was always there.. we ...

Drama in relationship, but should I have broken up with her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ok we started out good first time. The first times were great and stuff but as the relationship went on things started to change. Our first argument was over her telling me I might not be the girl for her because she feels alive around other guys. ...

He walked out, should I move on or take him back if he returns??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - hello everyone. . I would be grateful for some advice. . My boyfriend of four years walked out yesterday saying it was over after a strange tense day. We had had a lovely week together the week before but for some reason yesterday we were at each ...

She isn't ready, I don't want to wait around, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Me and my gf split at the end of january, as i said some nasty things about her ability at work etc (i was an idiot) we lived together and i moved out about 6 weeks ago. We've met up a few times to see how things go, but everytime it goes well i ...

He's gone most of the time, I'm ready to leave. Thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years now, during that time we broke up 3 times cause he had cheated on me, and yet i still took him back cause i love him or so i think i do. Im 31 years old now and we have one child together and another one on ...

Things have been weird with my boyfriend lately so I'm afraid to read my poem in front of him

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30 April 2011 (F) - I am in a terrible quandary. Today, there is a Release Party/Reading for a book of poems, and i am invited to the party since one of my poems is in the book. The thing is that the poem is about my first kiss with my bf, but lately things have been ...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

Ex girlfriend with roving eyes wants another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me. after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud....

How do you handle a friend who is deceitful and hurtful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - whats the best way to handle someone that you classed as a close friend but have discovered they have been nothing but deceitful and lied to you and used you for personal gain but when confronting them they act like youre mad and deny everything ? ...

Not sure whether I am right or wrong in this situation...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I feel really upset right now and don't know whether I am justified in feeling this way. Yesterday (for the royal wedding) my boyfriend and I (been together 15 months) got invited to my cousin's bbq. Meanwhile he also got an invite to attend...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

Was my boyfriend out of line for the hurtful degrading things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Hello. I would like some advice regarding anyone's opinion of my ex-boyfriend's comments to me last night. He has said that he loves me and will support me yet when he came over last night he did nothing but rubbish what I was trying to do in the ...

My boyfriend's bird obssesion is troubling me...along with the bird shop girl who flirts with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My b/f Paul likes collecting birds and I am not sure I can take it any more. He already has one cage of birds. His father collects them too. But I have asthma and i dont like be near the birds and all the feathers and it smells. But when he is away ...

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the ...

He can't maintain an erection in bed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My questions are a bit complicated and probably TMI. I apologize in advance. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. I love spending time with him, love who he is... but there's an elephant in the room only I seem to bring up...

After 6 years my son's father wants to be in his life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I got pregnant at 15 to a man that was married, at the time I didn't know, when I found I finished it, well I had my baby when I was 16, father didn't want any contact whatsoever, well 6 years down the line I got a message of him trough facebook ...

Why am I only good enough to be the "other woman"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am i only ever good enough to be 'The other woman'? A and B are two guys i have met at different stages of my life who have both turned me into the same person - when i am around them the strong confident woman i generally am disappears, and ...

I'm lonely and want to connect with others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I woud like to be able to trust people again. I find it hard as i've been betrayed and rejected by so called friends. People tell me i'm hard to get to know, but I feel no one has made the effort because it takes a while for me to open up. I lack ...

Why did he lie so much... I thought he was a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - really need help-so down. ok ive been friends with a guy for 2 years we were close friends and we worked together. he was in a bad way when he started and i helped and supported him emotionally and financially for the last 2 years. during th...

Should I just go on the cruise and behave myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Having been a cruise last year and made a complete fool of myself chasing a man half my age I KNOW I was wrong. This year I decided to book a completely different company for the itinary I wanted however last week I got a letter saying the company ...

How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?...

I feel like people see me as a joke and its very upsetting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I keep feeling sad and upset over my past. It feels like a ton have bricks has landed on me and i'm being confronted with it and trying to come to terms with it everything. People have always branded me thick and stupid, throughout my li...

I think my husband's female friend is just waiting on the sidelines for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My husband has a female friend that he has had for fifteen years the same amount of time that he has known me. We all used to work in the same company and my husband (he was single then) used to make a fool of himself over this woman always taking ...

Should I hang around until he can secure a divorce without losing too much of his assets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey! I hope I can get some help here. I have been in a relationship with a man for over one year. The problem is that he is married to someone else. Ok! He left his country and went to the UK on a six months visa. (That was some 15 years ago). ...

Boyfriend thinks he can watch all the porn he wants after our baby is born!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend likes porn. He watches it every chance he gets and I've told him I hate that he watches so much of it but he starts getting into the statistics that all guys watch a ton of porn and blah blah. It really irritates me. And I am already ...

Friend's remark has really hurt me! I don't think luck has anything to do with how I have survived!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate what people think of what my supposed friend has said to me just recently. To cut to the chase I have been trying to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle for around 20 years now and finally enough strength with my...

How do I draw this man closer to me and away from his work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a 22 yrs old girl. I met a guy online who is 39 years old.After we spoke for online for sometime, he asked me for an Open relationship. At that point of time , i has no clue what does that mean. So i just agreed to be friendly with him....

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she ...

Does it ever work out when a couple is forced to marry? (Not arranged marriage)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Is there anyone out there who has been forced (not arranged) to marry someone you do not love or are not attracted to, when you already loved someone else? Has your marriage to this person really truly honestly worked not out of obligation, ...

I really can't figure out from her behavior if she loves me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now but we broke up once because of the long distance, it happened 2 or 3 weeks ago... But we got back together after 1 day no contact, she said we'll be together in 1 condition if I won't go out with ...

Married woman won't leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - What do I do? This women wont back off and leave my boyfriend alone she is a married women but seems to have some interest in my boyfriend in particular like a crush or something. She is always drawing pictures for him, she comments on everything he ...

He's scared about things progressing so he has backed off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I am a gay male in my mid-20's. Just by way of background I recently got out of a 4 year relationship in which I was living with my ex for most of that time. About 8 or 9 months ago I met a guy and we became friends. I didn't even know he was gay ...

I'm an escourt, falling for client and he wants me to not use condoms! Is he just playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am an escort;started to have feeling for one of the clients....and he apparently feels the same; He wanted to start seeing me without the agency but I refused as did not want to risk the good relationship as I have with the agency especialyy that ...

I found out my fiance was promiscuous and now I don't want to marry her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - dear cupid should i go through with the wedding my fiancee just told me she was promiscuous when younger.i find that to be a turn off i wish she had being honest at the begining like i was i told her i was a virgin by choice and religious ...

Unplanned pregnancy, I don't want college b/f to deal with it. Should I go away, leave a note and say I'll explain later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 17(and yes I graduated and I'm turning 18 in two weeks)and I have had the same boyfriend since I was a freshman and we have know each other since I was a baby because his family and my family were friends. He is also 3 years older than me ...

My boyfriend impregnanted another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend impregnanted another girl he dated for 3 months.but he is telling me that he loves me he want to marry me.but however last year i got pregnant and he told me to abort because he was not ready to became a father because he is curently ...

My girlfriend feels sad knowing she will be "wife number 2"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I am 23 years old, and have been dating my girlfreind for 8 months, we are truly in love. when i was 20 i got married, but it only lasted 3 weeks, then got divorced. my girlfreind and i have spoken about our future and how we want to marry and be ...

My boyfriend has changed and I don't know what is going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi people! Recently i've moved Out of the Town (5 miles difference) from my boyfriend and I told him I want to stay close with him and he agreed with it. But..... Every time I ask him if we should hang out, he's always busy and something is wrong...

Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I woul...

How can you marry someone when they can't be a team?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - i've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. she moved to a different state to be with me. to me, i see us as a family now. she has a son that i've taken on as my own. so to me, when things happen, we should look to each other for ...

Am I the only one who thinks the justice system protects sexual offenders?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am a 39 yr old woman, who has been in state care and also sexually abused, physically abused and mentally abused. I recently took one of my abusers to court and he got off. Since then my health has spiralled out of control, i have a personality ...

Is this the kind of person I should try to stay with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Need some advice how to move on.. my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today after not speakn with him for a month.. I had givn him time to try to get over my past of me cheating on my ex....and he now decided it wuz something he couldn't deal with..cuz ...

I think if this guy was closer my g/f would be with him, not me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, and i really like her alot. We say we love eachother daily, but i really dont even know what love is. She does alot of shit that bothers me and i can't tell if im over reacting or if im angry ...

I like her but she doesn't like me but she has her reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - i really like this girl but the problem is that she doesnt like me...and she has her reasons. I am really nice but i just cant show it to ppl and they dont see it...ppl think that i am unsensitive and not a nice guy...but i am not like that...i ju...