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Archived questions from: 28 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I like her but she doesn't like me but she has her reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - i really like this girl but the problem is that she doesnt like me...and she has her reasons. I am really nice but i just cant show it to ppl and they dont see it...ppl think that i am unsensitive and not a nice guy...but i am not like that...i ju...

My b/f found out about my chats, phone calls with co-worker and broke off with me. I don't even know how he found out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ive done a really stupid thing and now its gotten out of hand, and i dont know what to do,im 26 and have a boyfriend.About 2 months ago a male work colleague and I started talking,then hanging out,then swopped phone numbers, and started ...

I told b/f I hate him watching porn but he says its normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (?) - my boyfriend watches porn and i am not happy about it. i think he watches far to much even though he has me. i am willing to experiment, but he chooses these porno girls. i have told him i hate it but he says it fine and natural. is it? i am also ...

Getting over a broken heart when you still have to see them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - How do you get over a broken heart when you still have to see her weekly? Should I just grin and bare it or try to never see her at all? I don't want to do the later because I really don't want to give up a sport i love (which is where I see her)...

Is he just cautious in waiting to commit or am I deluding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I don't know whether I'm being an idiot and wasting my life waiting for someone who will never commit, or whether my man just needs some time... I've been in a relationship with a man 12 years older than me for three years. Things are great betwee...

Messing around with husband friend! I know I'm a bad friend, wife and mother!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I have gotten myself into a huge mess and only keep digging myself deeper and deeper. my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs, we have 5 children (4 still very young) but there is no romance, i guess there has never really been. Here is the d...

Smother-in-laws

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...

A little girl accidentally got hurt while I was babysitting and I cannot get over the guilt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - During the day I look after two little girls aged 3 and 5 (I'll call them J and K respectively); I collect J from nursery at lunchtime and K from school a few hours later. When I brought K home this afternoon there was nobody else around, as her ...

Boyfriend has been unemployed for 3 years and its getting to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - hi everyone so heres the thing my bf of 3 years is unemployed hes been like this for 3 years since weve been going out . is it wrong that its getting to me now as i have to pay for things and he constantly beg money from me for ciggerets and when...

G/f dumps me every year on my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - im 26 tomorrow and have never felt so alone and unloved im an extreamly caring person and have a big hart i would say im attractive stocky in build blue eyyes dark hair around 6ft. My ex finished me 2days ago for the 3rd time 3 years on the tro...

Boyfriend has become abusive, we constantly fight and I'm always on edge. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all. I am very upset. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a total of almost 3 years now, but lately we have been arguing a lot. The last heated argument we had I ended up crying on the floor while he made sarcastic remarks about ma...

It is domestic abuse. So why would some try to blame the victim? What's their mindset and the payoff for doing it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i work with T who has recently been subjected to domestic abuse, and is still having this happen to her, at home. But something happened this week, people talking behind the back of T. And it has shaken my trust in some of my co-workers. Am i m...

I feel short changed but should I be happy with my lot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we have lived together for one year. He is 42 and I am 48. Before we got together he had not had a girlfriend for about 15 years. He said he had resigned himself to being single for ever. I think ...

My boyfriend is a bit too close to his sister, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and his sister are very close same as me and my siblings, but sometimes when i am around i do not feel comfortable at all, they will playing together tickling each other and that makes me feel out of place. i just sit there and watch ...

Problems with my boyfriend's family.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend, we have been going out for 1 yr 9mnths now and he has a sister who is my friend i met him through her. At first i told her i liked her brother and she tried to get us together and we went out for about 2 weeks briefly, it was ...

Boyfriend said he will love me more once I give birth to his kids! What does he mean by this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we both 21 and he said he wanted to marry me and i would love that too. One day he said to me if you give birth to my kids you will be loved more, what did he mean, does it mean his love for me is on a ...

Crazy about an older man who is already in a relationship....how do I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl in love with a 16 yrs older man, who actually has a family (he is not married, but he has been in a relationship for about 6 yrs, and also has a little son). If he would be single, I didn't care about the age ...

How do I convince her she is beautiful, and to try more foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hey there, Just after some help on what to do.. I've known this girl for a few years now, slowly gone from flirting to becoming more. i had sex with her once very drunk a few months back and now everytime i see her we kiss/hug and talk/text everyd...

He slept with someone while we were on a break, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - cutting a long story short, my boyfriend broke up with me in a pretty shitty way last June. I was heartbroken, We spoke and sometimes we were going to sort things and sometimes we weren't, sometimes he was falling at my feet and the other he would ...

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we...

He doesn't call me, does this mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - please i love my boyfriend but he does not call me , he said i should be the one calling, he said he does not have the money to call, does that mean he does not love me...

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. ...

Dating a guy out of my league.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and things between us are great. We get along, we make eachother laugh, the sex is great and we are happy together. So whats the problem, right? The problem is- He's extremely attractive. I on...

Boyfriend resents spending £5 on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 35 doesn't have a lot of money to spare but has 8k in the bank and no debts and two cars and a bike which are his hobbies. We go 50/50 and always do free things like cycling and rambling. Last night I cooked him an expensive meal ...

I think I like this other guy more than my boyfriend, but he keeps letting me down! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hello all :) I'm sorta of having a problem. Here we go; I have a boyfriend who is such a great boy. He's lovely and is always there for me. I don't think i could ask for anyone else better. But see, that's just it. Last week i went to a party and ...

My boyfriend's friends were showing naked videos to him! How should I react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 months.recently my bf has gone for a trip with his guy friends.he was telling me that he and his friends were having a nice time on sea beach. but after sometime there was a huge wave due to w...

Sometimes I feel like he's over us and just doesn't know how to tell me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend seems completely bored and distracted when I'm in his presence or on the phone with him. He rarely initiates conversation, sits silently at dinner, is easily annoyed by me, avoids me when I get upset with him, doesn't ask me much, do...

I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I'm at a crossroads at the moment and feeling very confused. I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. I don't know how to tell him that I want to get my own place...I think he's going to be devastated. ...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

I really want him back though, I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but he's mine! how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me on my birthday. We had a 3 hour long conversation because he was feeling depressed am I wanted to help him. In the end he called me a doormat and he said I let him walk all over me. He thinks it's my pride/val...

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more...

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and ...

I am always hard around my fiance and it's starting to turn her off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Is it normal for me to just be constantly hard around my fiance. we been dating for 4 years...and we lost our virginity to each other. She is very very beautiful and when i was younger, im 19 now i dont remember being so hard around her, ever since ...

He says we have to move states because Arizona has a lot of bad memories for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi dear-cupid. I need your help. Me and my bf been together for 4 years. We live in state of arizona. We both have job, apartment for living and car. He said he want to move to another state. This state have a lot of bad memory of him. We had one ...