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Archived questions from: 8 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will my abusive ex start begging to be back with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I need to know where am standing ? will an abusive ex bf who is possessive and obsessed of being wid call after slapping me this time and spit on my face ? he violated a restrained order once and my dad trials to ask him stay away from failed ..ea...

Is there a reason why this guy goes into so much detail about his sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - ok, i need answers from guys. this question is hard to explain, but thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and answer it for me.. ok, i am in a long term relationship, and we have very different schedules, so we e-mail very often, actually...

Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I feel so alone in my life right now. It's mainly because I'm 30 and I still haven't met the right person for me who actually really does want to be with me. I've been out with a few girls but something always seems to happen or go wrong, like I get ...

Do you think this could be the start of the end of our relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - my partners mum passed away yesterday morning. I met him at the hospital to comfort him, went back to his brothers house after- put my arm around him on the couch but when we got home he told me to save it for when we're alone(he usually doe...

Should I confront my girlfriend on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My friend has being a mean girl lately and i am not liking it. She tells everybody i am a _______ and i am not. She has been starting rumors about me and my other friends to and i want to what's going on because the other day i found a note with her ...

Boyfriend cheats but won't admit to it. He doesn't take me seriously. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - So, the scenario is that Im with a man who has cheated in the past a couple of times..and every time he got caught his answer was that we were having problems..anyways, been together for 6yrs and Im not happy how everything is going..I have no trust ...

I have feelings for my best friend's wife. I need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - so here's the situation probably asked here a thousand times but mine is with different details. i have this close friend for more than ten years, we live and work aboard. two years ago he met this girl online and they fell in love and being his ...

Should I be patient and wait for him to fall in love with me, or should I run now to avoid a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm looking to hear what people think about something I am worried about with my boyfriend of 6 months. We get on really well, especially when it's just the two of us together (he can try too hard to impress his friends sometime...

Husband has anger issues. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Should I give my husband a second chance? We have been together for almost 11 years. My daughter was 7 when we met. He was very affectionate, and was very good with my daughter. The only thing I found out about him is that he has problems with ...

We fought over housecleaning and he walked out. How do I make him understand?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Ok, living with my boyfriend is killing me! Lately we have been arguing because he doesn't clean up after himself. I do all the cleaning and I don't mind seen as I don't work as much as him but the guy does nothing and when he eventually does ...

One ourtcome of casual sex may be incest

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - This is an interesting point I've been thinking about for a while and am curious to see what anyone else has to say. It seems like more and more it is becoming socially acceptable to have children outside of marriage, even to have multiple childre...

Is my life cursed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I'm in huge confusion, I don't know what to think. I keep doing the right thing, but my life ,(actually not mine but my family's life) is falling apart. I have such a tragic things with my kids, with all of them, that nobody would believe me...

Should we stop having sex or still have it occasionally? Need advice on this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I need some advice about sex. Sorry for the long story. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months (only known him about 5). We met online on a dating website and he's one of those really sweet guys that are hard to find. When we were ini...

I have fallen for my online friend. I don't think he feels the same. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - hi i am 22 years old and i finally met the guy i was talking to for over 2 years..we got to know each other online through a common friend,started as texting but then we started talking everyday!..and we finally met,he came down to my city for 3 ...

I told her I used drugs in the past and she broke up with me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Just recently I told my girl that I used to smoke marijuana, and because of that she said she doesn't want anything to do with me. She left and said that she can't be with a druggy. I was smoking before I met her and quit because I met her and she ...

My ex is now willing to get with me, but I think it's too late

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But...

I want/need to tell my teacher how I feel about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I recently posted a question about being in love with my teacher. I don't need anybody to tell me that it isn't love because I have never felt like this with any male before. Friends are telling me that they can see chemistry with us both, they way ...

Need suggestions on how to win her back while she is dating someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck ...

I am concerned that my GF is cheating on me with a male coworker. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Im in a lesbian relationship of 2 and a half yrs. My girlfriend and I have been going through a lot of bs lately. She is my best friend we talk about everything. I havent been able to take her out lately due to financial issues. She has recently got ...

After being found out he admits to all the cheating and says he'll give up his other girlfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi everybody! I and my boyfriend are been together for 2 yrs and I just found out recently that he has already a girlfriend before me and they're still together. On top of that he has other women that he sees once in a while... I found out also ...

I don't know if I believe my married lover when he says he doesn't sleep with his wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Im too much depress now, because my boyfriend is too busy and he have wife and 4 kids.. i understand of his being busy because his a General surgeon he always have operation, he told me that if he ddn't do his job the patient get died.. he is ...

He kills the mood when he asks me how long it is going to take. Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has tried to get me to orgasm a few times. Every time he does, he ends up stopping halfway through the process and asking me how much longer I'm going to be. It frustrates and even offends me to no end because when he says that, it ...

My boyfriend is pushing me away - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Please help me I'm in such a pickle. I'm currently in a relationship - I'm approaching the 1 year mark so it's still early days but we both moved very quickly and things were rapidly serious. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do but...

Should I tell my friend I dated his sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, I had been seeing my friend's sister after she came onto me over Christmas. I had liked her for a long time. She told me that she had wanted me for a long time which felt good.We had several conversations in which she and i discusse...

Girlfriend says I need to give her more space. I am not sure what it means for our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I'm feeling really down at the moment. I was getting to know a really wonderful girl, and then the last two months things have gone from talking daily, to it appearing like me texting her is a nuisance. She told me we need not speak daily, tha...

Should I leave her? Ten years, I have done all I can to appease her. Sex is rare. Is this fixable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone! Sorry for this long text, but I want you to understand my situation better, so I can get a better advice, I need it! I have been having this problem for a while now and desperately need advice. I am a 27 yr old guy and my gf is...

My girl friend exhausts me mentally so I broke up. How do I deal with all my negative feelings at having to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Two days ago, I sent a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. The reason I did it is after 6 months of chasing after her I feel mentally exhausted, so I have to said to her is the end of our friendship. Yesterday, I went up and tried to talk to her, ...

Why can't I return my partner's physical affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i cant cuddle or kiss my partner when he cuddles me. i keep my arms down when he leans in for a kiss and i turn my head. he has noticed this and i had no idea i was doing this even now when i know i do it, i cant stop it. why is this?...

I am torn between my polygamous ex who I love and a stunning woman who I dumped. How do I sever ties to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I have been dating this girl since October and we are madly in love, but it hasnt been easy. She has lied to me numerous times,I have found out her actual age (a lot older than me) and she has lied about being with her ex, while she was still wi...

Tell me how I can heal my broken heart? Is my caste my fault? Twice I lost for same reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - how could i ever forget my boy friend easily? He said that he loved me, but he can't be married to me, because his family don't accept me because my caste didn't match with him.. tell me how my caste is my mistake? i loved him unconditionaly w...

After I had sex with him he told me he was involved with another girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hello, So I've always liked this guy. Ever since middle school I've had the biggest crush on him. I'm in college now, and we've just started corresponding last summer. We used text each other about once a week or so. I could tell he was generall...

One aspect of boyfriends behaviour frustrating me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend gets angry whenever i become a little possessive about him.I dont like it at all that other girls try and draw his attention and if i tell him about it he gets upset.even in office i dont like him borrowing a shawl from any girl to wrap ...

How do you get away from a manipulator?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - How do you get away from a manipulator? My bf and I have been together over 2 years. Its long distance as he lives in the states. We met online and its definitely been a roller coaster from the jump. He's "cheated" on me with many other women on...

My break up....did I deserve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years in total. I had started dating him after 6 year relationship I ended because I was so young I grew out of it. We fell in love and after a year and a half I cheated.. he started neglecting me sexually he ...

Can a 15 year old move out of home? my family make me feel sick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i seriously can't stand my mother we fight and yell all the time i really want to move out, but i don't know how to really make it. i'm 15 and done with my family because of my family i have depression and stress, so bad it's affecting my heal...

Advice on rebuilding my life and moving on after abuse has ended

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Firstly thank you so much for taking time to read my question. I really do need help. I have recently come out of an abusive relationship, I have been out for roughly three months. It was a terrible experience that h...

My GF doesn't open up to me, is very close to her ex, got naked at a school party...yet has no regrets and just doesn't seem to care anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi there everyone. I'm not sure what to think about my girlfriend. I'm normally really good at reading people and I've just been having trouble this time. My girlfriend and I met online and have been together 3 months. Yes I know, I don't ne...

Men please help me, Was it love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I dated this guy for 8 months. we recently broke up and come to find he had other sex patrners and was still sleeping with his ex the entire time. I dont get why you would get into a relationship if you have no intention on being faithful. His ...

She led me on believing she wasnt dating anyone when she was, why do I still badly about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - This is about an online relationship. My question this time is, why do I care so much about my online ex girlfriend? We dated in january and it was fantastic, she was the "perfect girl" emotionally, and we shared lots of values and hobbies. ...

Please help.. judgmental mom doesn't like my boyfriend of 2 years for no reason whatsoever

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My mom is being really mean saying that she doesn't like my boyfriend of whom I've been dating for 2 years now only because he is shy and doesn't like to talk much. Gosh it's really irritating me.. gahhh I feel myself getting closer and closer to ...

How do I fall back in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I have fallen out of love with my fiance'. what can i do to regain this?...

I can't get over this person even though they have never been free!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Good evening. I've known this person for two years, and they have been TAKEN for three. Since the day I met them, I "fell in love". Usually when this happens, I simply get over it. Alas, not this person. In the months that this person goes back hom...

He blocked my number and then lied about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi My bf and myself had fight few days back and he blocked my number. I knew that he blocked my number since i hv asked my friend to call him and she was able to reach him and but from my cell i was not able to reach him. After few days he call...

The relationship isn't great and I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 21 and in my first year at university. I have been with my bf for about 7 months and things over the last month or so havent been the best. Found him keeping in contact with ex's and lying about it etc. I have found out today that I am ...

I don't really know how to act- sometimes we're very close but at other times, we're not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for around 3 months now, but we only mostly get to see eachother during holiday periods, as we go to different universities. We get along great but he's really confusing me lately. He can be quite hot and cold- one minu...

My dads porn addiction is hurting our family!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - A little back story: My mom and I are very close, so we talk to each other like friends often. Because of that, I know a lot about her and my dad's relationship. My dad has been experiencing some Erectile Dysfunction issues over the past two...

How can I get my mother to kick my sister and her kids out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i have a sister that is in her 30's and her and her kids moved in with me and my mother almost 10 years ago and they wont leave. my sister wont get a job or even make an attempt to look for her own home and expects for my mother to keep taking care ...

I made a mistake. Should I try to get her back or just get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - me and my x split up last year due to my sexting and emailing other women and she kicked me out even thou it was meant to be for a few months she still hasn't and now wont let me back (harsh i know but that's what she wanted) basically i cant get...