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Archived questions from: 21 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Girlfriend has been pushing me away because I am "like a puppy"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Goes like this. About 5 months ago I got together with a wonderful lady (shes 26 I am 34). We had known each other for several years and saw each other just as friends on a semi regular basis. She has a 5yr old daughter that loves me to bits a...

I want to spend my life with b/f but don't want to lose my youth as a consequence of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we come from different backgrounds and have many differences. He is European and I am American; he is 27 and I am 19. We get somewhat jealous (e.g. when an old acquaintance stops to chat with him at ...

My dad hasn't worked in 3 months and my family is falling apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I feel like my family is falling apart. My dad hasn't worked in over 3 months I feel like this is a big part of the problem. This has been putting a lot of stress on the family my mom is starting and organization for women in need who are abuse and ...

Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in ...

Girlfriend asks me out to lunch but expects ME to pay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - i have problem. My gf of 18 months, pregnant for 8 months now and we work 2geta she said we have 2 go 4 just lunch on this cuming monday if i m off . Thats excite me very much i said and then she said u will pay and i told her i wont cause i dont ...

My mom doesn't like the guy I'm dating so we are hiding it from her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - my dad died last january and now its only me and my mom, and now we are having arguments and fight because she wants me to stop my relationship with one guy because we have different race, religion. ive known this guy for 4 months only, and dated ...

I can't make friends! My abroad teaching experience has been a failure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I'm from USA originally, but I'm living abroad right now, and I have become extremely depressed about something. I feel that I can't go to my parents because it would torture them... they're far away and can't be with me to comfort me. I'm ...

Why would she want to friend me if she hates me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - So hey all, I was involved in a almost threesome with two older women which were my friends I do say attempted because they were both intoxicated on alcohol and I'm a gentleman and won't have sex with a woman in that state But I did make out wit...

Need help trusting my girlfriend....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend that i have been dating for about 7 months are having trust problems. It all started about 3 months into our relationship everything was great up till then we had never had a fight or argument in the world. she is the very ...

His ex knows things about me only my boyfriend knows, is he still seeing her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi. Recently I've been gone through a lot of dumb stuff with my boyfriend.. we broke up 3 times already but next day we just get together 'cause there is something in the relationship that just keeps us together.. But recently his ex(they was t...

Should I tell him he still has to wait for one more year? Or should I just cut all communications to him just like what my friends want me to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy, about 4 months ago at this university and I actually like him. We hang up for a day but sadly that day has to end. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. and I have to leave the city, I have to get back home. like him. But we ...

Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it ...

Boyfriend was on a dating site and he wanted to meet "me"!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I receently had a tip off that my boyfriend has a profile on a dating site. The profile had pictures on it taken a few months ago and we've been together for nearly a year. I pretended to be someone else and got in contact. He replied and agreeed ...

My family are prejudiced towards Chinese people and China in general, but I am marrying a Chinese girl! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - I've being thinking A LOT about this over the last few months, and it is a painful one. I am from Europe, but living in China, Beijing, and have had a girl friend here for 3 years now. I do plan to stay here and do business here, and it is also...

What did this message mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started...

We cant agree on when to have a baby.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I'm nearly 26 and my partner is 28. I have a 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship but she rarely sees her dad so it's my partner who helps her with homework, takes her on days out and comforts her when she's unwell etc. He's such a ...

I'm afraid our relationship will fall apart one day! What can I do to prevent this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. G...

I cant stand my girlfriend's friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - i really cannot stand my girlfriends friends. and it's not because they gossip or stir up drama, etc. it's because they're all extremely unfaithful and really genuinely not good people. and what i've learned through my experiences in life is that ...

I don't think I can do long distance, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half will be going away for the summer, and be living thousands of miles away for a summer job. I told him last summer that if he did that, I wouldn't be able to uphold a long distance relationship, and i got upset ab...

No money, no sex....can we survive on just love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My partner (50) and I have been together for 2 years now and he relocated to my town and moved in a year ago. We started a business not long after we met and as I have a good paying job it was assumed he would work in the business which I funded and ...

I am scared to start a life with my BF, because he doesn't have that financial security which I need. Am I being too picky and analytical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. He's an amazing person and I love him, he's my best friend. We don't live together and for a while now he's been asking me when we're going to move in together. We've ...

I know he likes me, I just don't understand whats going on.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - hi, well this is kind of long, first of all, I feel ashamed to be this confused because i am 27 years old and should not be feeling like this. truth is up until a year a go, i was doing very good when it came to men. my two most relationships, w...

I hate to end a relationship over texting but I dont' know what to do anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - This is a really random question, but I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, and I'm not a big cell phone person. I believe that when you're in the company of other people, be it friends or especially your significant other, the ...

I'm not happy in this relationship, and it's getting worse and worse every day.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - i'm not getting what i need out of the relationship i'm in. i feel like i'm putting in full time effort, and only receiving part time at best in return. my girlfriend works hard and long hours, and has a son from a previous relationship to worry ...

When it comes to intimacy, I'm turned off by my BF who weighs over 300 pounds!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is over 300 pounds. I don't love him any less because of his weight (I am also 130 pounds), but when it comes to intimacy I am turned off. I feel terrible to think this way but I can't help it. He is trying to lose weight but I am ...

Is my BF a racist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have a issue with my man, he is half Hispanic and half white He is great and funny and sweet but there's this problem A few days ago.. He told me this racist joke Like what 3 things scares a black man away and then he said a educat...

She doesn't want to have sex unless we're married, and I don't want to get married unless I know the sex will be good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year. She's in her early 30s, and she was married for about 4 years when she was in her early 20s. She had quite a few boyfriends between her divorce and when we started seeing each other. She told me she ...

Boyfriend says he has fallen out of love with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - hello my boyfreind of six and a half years told me that he has fallen out of love with me a bit cause of the way i am but we had sex and he said he is back in love with me if i change will we be ok please help important ...

Should I go back to my ex, despite my friend's opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi, so I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and we were really in love but there were just reasons that it couldn't continue. I have been hanging out with my other ex a lot lately, almost every day. He has told me that he really likes me again. I ...

Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a ...

Should texting really be an issue in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - So I have a question, but I dont know if I am being silly or if I genuinely do have a point. Ive been going out with my bf now for almost 10 months and I really do love him and he tells me all the time when he sees me and he is ever so sweet an...

I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her).

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her). Before I carry on I know I was in the wrong but I will not make excuses for why I did it, but I had a relationship with a married woman wh...