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Archived questions from: 10 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend makes me jealous with talk of beautiful colleague. I don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi My bf of an year often talks about his colleague, says she is sexy and beautiful and all that stuff. I am not comfortable him talking about her even when we are intimate and it also makes me really angry. I told him in a normal way that i dont ...

Fell in love with a man who is in a "marriage of convenience." What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - It's complicated, I fell in love with an Egyptian man. he is funny and kind and I love him with all my heart, but he is married. He married a woman to allow him to work in the EU as a doctor, and now she lives in her country and he is in England. ...

The condom broke and now she doesn't want to see me. Why? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I have been dating a lady for 7 weeks. I am 45 and she is 46. On our 10th date I stayed at her house and we ended up having sex. The problem I have is that I used a condom but it broke. I felt it go pop but was just about to climax and couldnt stop ...

Boyfriend forgot my birthday. How should I handle it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Yesterday was my birthday and the guy I've been dating for over ten months forgot it was my birthday OR didn't even know. We are more than "friends with benefits" and less than totally serious. He has told me he loves me. He went away with friends ...

He said he wanted to be seduced, but that's not working either. Our sex life is dead. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating this lovely man for around 9 months, and have been sleeping with him for a year. The problem is, our sex life seems to have completely died - just before Christmas. We've only had sex once since the end of January. He keeps telli...

How do I reconcile our relationship and not be overwhelming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Last year, me and my best friend/guy I dated had an argument about our situation and we went our different ways. We were long distance and had work/studies at the time Only recently, he got in touch with me saying that he wanted to apologise for...

I am not sure what kind of a relationship we have. GF wanted to take it slow. What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hi, First time asking here. Having some relationship problems. I've been "dating" my gf for just over 2 months, long time acquaintances. She got out of a bad relationship in December, and we started dating in late January. This were so great at...

I miss my friend and I want her back in my lfe

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I miss my best friend. Last summer she met a new girlfriend who is very possessive - she doesn't like my friend spending time with me on her own and when I see the two of them, I am ignored all the time. I was in a car accident before Christmas - ...

My father did not tell me I have a half brother. I want to confront him. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I just found out that I have a half brother. I think he's still only a baby, but I don't know. I found out by myself, my dad (whose child it is) doesn't know that I know. My mum and dad split up before I was born and my dad lives in a differen...

BF is not the same since he started hanging out with misogynistic band members. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I've never written for help about this kind of thing before but I really don't know who else to ask. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now and, until recently, things had been great. About six months ago, though, he start...

A week before we are to see each other LDR b/f starts totally ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Please help me. Im going out of my mind. I was having a LDR with a guy who works 400 miles away and he was due to come home yesterday. We had arranged to spend next weekend together. But for the past week he has been totally ignoring my texts, calls ...

Is she acting entitled?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - ok gang, so here it is. its a little long, i know but it reads fast! :) this girl and i have been on rough terms for the past few months. i kept gettin more and more upset with her because i felt she took me for granted. we are not dating or an...

What do you do when you've done everything to move on but you still suffer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - About a year ago, I met this guy off an online dating site. We automatically hit it off spent hours on the phone. When we finally met, we spent the whole night talking until six a.m. We ended up seeing each other for three consecutive dates talking ...

My crush found out I was in bed with someone else even though it was innocent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Well last night i was at my friends house and she had a party and a boy came who i really like and we were ment to be getting together. Then he went at like 2 in the morning, and one of his friends came onto me and i pushed him away and said no! and ...

Did I use bad judgment in loaning my ex money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I live together. I have 2 children from my ex husband. My boyfriend and I have come to what is becoming a pretty big issue. My ex husband has been unable to obtain employment since december. In the past he was always ...

I have a very spoiled boyfriend who criticizes how my parents raise me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) - I have noticed a pattern in my boyfriend's behavior, and I've found out that he is very spoiled. He has no respect for conserving money, and his parents encourage it. For instance, when we are at my house, my air conditioner is set to au...

B/f doesn't trust me because of what happened while we weren't together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hey there everyone, So me and my boyfriend recently got together. We were together for two years, split up for six months, and are now back together again. During these six months, I saw a couple of guys for a few months each but that didn't real...

I'm shy but don't want to be!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - hi everyone i'm a very shy person but i don't want to be. I always want to talk to others but i just can't. i always chicken out. and when i am with someone i always worry about what to talk about and always thing of something to say. i also ...

First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? Hi everyone... Well the answer might be obvious, but I might need your opinion.. I date a girl and we get along. We spend everytime around 6-7 hours together when we see each other and we h...

Family doesn't like BF, but I love him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with my bf for almost 2 years and my family n friends especially mum don't like him at all. For many reasons. But ill only mention 3. One, he showed up to my house drunk early one morning. Knocking at my window so loud that mum heard i...

I don't know if he's really stressed and tired, or if he's just making up excuses to avoid sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi! I am in a year and three month relationship, and right now it's going good, but I'm still having some doubts. The reason I am having doubts is because about 8 months ago, my boyfriend and i moved in together, and since then, it's been a ...

Is he acting this way because of work, or is he just over us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, My problem is really nothing new and I am sure some of you have been something similar but I am just at a loss. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months but we were best friends for a while before we started dating. ...

Don't know if what he wrote on his Facebook page referred to me or someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone there's a guy I've liked for ages but haven't the guts to tell him that i do like him, he drove me somewhere on Tuesday evening and anyway after i left his and a few hours after he wrote this on his facebook page......... It hurts ...

I plan to be independent, but don't know how to tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I'm studying Eng.,and he is my classmate, we both love each other, but he gets angry whenever i talk to boys, he also told me not to wear jeans, and also tells me that after our marriage i have to leave my job because I have to take care of his ...

Any advice on how to play it cool and get this stubborn boy to realise he has an amazing girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Me and my bf are a big on-off couple. Its always him that breaks it off with me and leaves me heartbroken and I always feel like the idiot. He so stubborn, and when we have a serious argument he runs. We had a big argument the other week and H...

Bf is not 'mentally attracted' to me though am pregnant with his baby - help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Im 14 wks pregnant and my bf just told me last night that he is not 'mentally attracted' to me. We are living together and I feel absolutely crushed by this. I told him last night I was highly concerned as there was no intimacy since I have fallen ...

I kicked him out because he watched too much porn, please advise.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now (we are both 30) and we moved in with each other at the end of November. I have been blissfully happy and not even thought about anyone else, I was ready marry this person and have children. I used to go ...

Unhappy sex life ruining relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hello, Before this I never thought it would be such and issue. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year and a half. Our sex life went from several times a week to like three times a month, and it is always me asking a being very upset. I...

Does this other man now have more influence over my husband than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - This am married. My husband got his ears pierced 5 years back. then he met a man with more radical piercing. And copied that man. Now he is very reluctant to change them back to studs. I fear him being ridiculed by society. Now he has purchase...

How can my confusing situation with my ex be resolved? what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys.. my ex and i had been together for around 1 year and 6 months. We broke up 3 weeks ago. She asked for it. I found out about some relationship repair programs and followed it. She started contacting me, telling me that she misses m...

If I can't get my act together and trust him, is he saying we have no future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - when he told me he was buying a house we almost broke up, we decided to try and work things out instead. so after a month of not seeing him and talking just a few times he finally came over for a visit. we had a great night, dinner, a movie and we m...

He's been lying. I just found out he has kids. Should he stay or go? what do I tell my kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - i found out my boyfriend of 3 years has 3 different babies, by 3 different women. the ages of his three children are 5, 4 and 2 i love him, he lives with me and my kids, who are aged 8 and 13. I love him and i want to be with him, but what do ...

I think my boy friend is depressed. When depression hits does the person lose their emotional feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Ok so I actually just posted this question like earlier: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ldr-boyfriend-is-depressed-and-yelled-at-me.html and now I'd like to know...when someone is depressed can they lose all feelings? I asked him...