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Archived questions from: 18 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My college lecturer acts jealous when guys show an interest in me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...

I'm upset at how much people have walked all over me in the past!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I don't quite no what's wrong with me but within the last week, i haven't been my usual self. I feel sad and low for no apparent reason. Everything, is going well in my life, and i'm achieveing things, like quitting smoking, getting into shape, ect. ...

Does my psychic's reading mean that there is no chance of a reconciliation with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I went to a psychic/medium today as ive always been interested in that kind of thing. Well anyways my boyfriend broke up with me last week due to his state of mind and when it came to the womans cards she pulled out the one which symbolised him a...

No interest in sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I am a woman 62 years old;I've had 4 children;for 3 years I have no interest in sex and the little that we do it it hurts real bad;it's as if there's no room inside for him and it hurts lots after too. Things are not too good with us but it's not ...

My boyfriend is giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are...well were planning to get married. Then about 3 months ago things started to change he went from call 2 or 3 times a day to 1 if I'm lucky he takes forever to respond to my texts and just seems so ughh all the time...he ...

Whom do men really have on their minds the next time they have sex after watching porn? Their partner or the hot chick from the last porn they watched ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - My husband used to watch porn quite a lot, wich I found out by accident. I was shocked and confronted him later after I couln't keep those tremendous hurt feelings to myselfe anymore. After a while he was able to cut his visits to the pornsites ...

My boyfriend is booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer, and I'm NOT happy about it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Urgh. I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and a half, and am having huge issues with him booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer. I can sense your eyes rolling, and I’m sorry :( I’m 24 and he’s 32, so far our relationships be...

I'm not ready for such a serious relationship but I don't want to lose her

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18 April 2011 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She had many personal problems and I really wanted to be there to help her out. Due to this the relationship took a turn for the very serious. After about a 8 months her personal ...

How can I get him back and seduce him without using sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - We work together. At first he was more into me than vise versa, but I fell in live with him. After hanging out sporadically for a few months, we began to date intensely and steadily, which lasted 5 weeks. I can be jealous, insecure and a little ...

Does my b/f take me forgranted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we are serious with each other, we have discussed the future and he said to me that he can see us togeather in the future. Okay, so my main concern is, He is at uni and is always ...

My dad is having an affair, how should I handle this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, Sorry 4 the length. I had to explain in detail. I am so confused. I got an anonymous call with a hidden i.d a woman informed me that my father has a mistress and is willing to marry her. He is 58 years n has been married to my mum for 3...

I'm not sure what do about my current relationship or this other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What do you think about my situation with the guy I am dating and his friend?. I'll call the guy I am dating C, and i'll call his friend J. J winks at me a lot, and I knew him before C, as I saw him in a bar once and he kept looking at me then. On ...

Her immaturity is driving us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid Key facts: -She is 18 years old -Maturity level of a child -Defence mechanism: complaining and irrationality When I first met her, I believed that beneath her immature perceptions of humanity there would be a deep philosophi...

What if she is genuine and it is just the way she is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay.. here is my question following up to my previous one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-she-avoiding-having-me-meet-her.html My girlfriend and I had been together for 7 months now and she had recently left to the UK for work experie...

Why does he continue to pay for ex's child meanwhile we can't have a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - My husband was previously married and has been divorced for 4 years. He was married to a woman who had 2 children of her own and they had 1 child together. The children’s father also lives nearby and they see him or go to stay with him, although...

I acted oblivious to his presence and his reaction made me more confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I asked a question a while ago about this guy at the gym and i took the advice from people to act uninterested and see how he reacts. Well i tried this and now i am more sure of him liking me what do you think!? But he still wont make a move! why i ...

Am I being too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - so i met this girl a few times.. at a party and at a bar.. little chit chats here and there. nothing special. one night i saw her again at a bar so i went up to her being nice and just started a chat. then i sat down and she came up and started ...

Can a counsellor really help save our marriage? Will she still maintain she wants an open marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I am in the depths of despair and hopelessness right now and I could really use some feedback from others who have been here. I have found out my wife of 16 years is cheating on me. To give some background, I was her first lover (and first...

We broke up because he said we had lost the 'connection' but he is still talking to me and wanting to be in my life! Does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What should I do about my ex boyfriend? am so confused:(? My ex boyfriend and broke up nearly 2months ago, he wasn't just my bf when we were together, he was my special friend as well and we did everything together and now I miss him so much...

How can I get him to see that I really love him and I have no interest in any other man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi i hope you will be able to give me some advise. I have been with my bf for just over a year now. He went through quite a nasty break up with his wife of 25years, she came home one day and told him that by the end of the month he must move out...

How can I break up and afford to live on my own? he wants a threesome. He's over protective.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Recently my partner and I broke up, but we still live together, he goes through my phone and expects me to have a threesome with him and one of my friends (who's a girl) He has been treating me a little child lately...xo. Here's more info I ...

She's never happy with me.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 4 months, but have known each other for years before that. I love her and she says she loves me, and everything was sooo perfect at first. But now it seems like all I do is piss her off. Over stupid ...

He won't respond to my text messages, he doesn't pick up his phone and I haven't seen him in 3 days because of World of Warcraft!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend just started playing world of warcraft with his brother. They used to played it, but my bf quit because uni started and there physically was not enough time. He told me he used to stay up til 5am playing WoW during the summer and ...

I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She ...

I want to be his but unfortunately, he already has someone. How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 and about six months ago, I met an insanely hot and gentle-spirited 29 year old doctor... with a 38 year old girlfriend. His girlfriend doesn't want more kids as she had three from her previous marriage (her eldest is my age with her ...

Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However,...

He told me he enjoys staring at sexy girls, is this normal or is he doing this because he is bored of us? Or is he just trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and ...

If he is not interested in me, why does he make such efforts with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I just turned 30 and am very attracted to a man who is 46. I am in the US from a different country originally and am still closeted. This guy knows that I like him and we spend all our time together - we laugh, joke and discuss history ...

Why would he just stop talking to me? Is it me or the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Last summer i went on a road trip to Montana with two of my friends. Long story short, i met a boy while i was there. I've never felt something so real in my life, he made me the happiest i had been in a while. We kept in touch for six months ...

I want him to spend more time with me and have more sex, but he says I am just spoiled! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - my african boyfriend say im spoiled and want everything my way cause i asked him to spend more time with me and have sex. we dont live together, he visits every two weeks and have sex 1 time a month, what should i do im pissed?...

Is it a waste of time to make things work with my older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - So I'm in love with this guy 8 years older than me, we were gonna have sex last saturday but my mom wouldn't let me go out.. the thing is that im 16 and he's 24. I haven't told anyone but a few friends my status with this guy, I've given him head, ...

Did she reject me? Should I quit talking to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought ea...

Why is love the only thing he's quit??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Why is love the only thing my ex has ditched?? Ive been in a LDR for almost 3 years now and recently he broke up with me. He became depressed about life and what hes doing and became emotionless altogether. I used to talk to him everyday onl...

I want no more part of this "love triangle", but I know it will be a problem because we work together....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Well here goes.... I'm a 29 year old male and last July I got involved with a woman that I work with who is 35 years old with 3 children. She initially approached me and asked me for my number after she started working there for a month or so. S...

Dilemma. I want to get back with my ex, but his GF has to leave. I also want to be with my married lover, but he has to leave his wife.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I Have a lot to say so here goes. I have a big problem with men. my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because i cheated on him with the guy i,m living with now. but this guy i,m with now well we don,t really get along. so anyway my ex is let his ex ...