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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Any advice please? I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny wh...

He's my ex and wants to have sex. I want to do it, or at least say that he asked me, out of spite. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - So why did this boy "J" text me yesterday asking me if we still can have sex. When he has just broken up with me and is now going with another girl... a part of me wants to just have sex with him just to try and get back at her by telling her.... ...

He's doesn't treat me or my son very well and I am stuck here. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My 9 year old son and I moved to another country to be with my partner and now I am stuck as I am waiting for my visa decision, not allowed to work, and can't afford to move. We don't want to leave the country because my son loves it here and is ...

BF uses drugs. How do I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now and its been the most rocky relationship I've ever had. Its very on again off again which is weird considering we haven't even been together a year yet. He uses drugs and I found this out a few months back ...

My husband is cheating with one of his students. Does he still care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I am married with grown up children. My husband has been seeing this university girl the age of my children. He said he was helping her to stop drinking spirits cos she was addicted. Other times he says she is the security in case anyone wants to ...

I gave him a BJ and he told all his friends I'm frigid.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i gave my bf a bj the other day 4 the first time. i dont like the idea but he asked and i did it. it obviously worked but afterward he said it was s*** and he told all of his friends im frigid what should i do?????...

It's over, but he calls about five times a day. Is this harassment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together, so obviously we keep in touch. He sees my daughter on weekends. I'm getting constant calls of him. My mum says I'm over-reacting but I don't think I am, I'm ...

He was jealous and possessive, but says he's changed. Should I risk going back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I hope there is someone out there who can help me. I have been dating this guy for almost three years I love him so much. We recently broke up because he is extremely jealous and possessive and things seemed to get worse. Since the break up he has ...

Do girls like their space? Will she feel crowded if I request more of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I am middle aged guy in late 30's dating a 26 year old single mom. We met a year ago through a internet dating site and have been seeing each other for over a year now. I am a settled, educated, professional, who has separated ...

My marriage ended two years ago....I found out my wife had been cheating on me, but I still cant seem to move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi new person here. I am a 39 yr old male and at the point of desperation. My marriage ended two years ago. I found out my wife had been cheating on me (again, we had that issue before and thought it was resolved). She did not want to w...

My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something ...

Am I being cheap here and over-reacting? Or does my boyfriend not give me the respect that I deserve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Sorry this is going to be long; thank you in advance for reading and for your answers. I’ve been dating my bf for about 2 yrs now. He’s always been a little clingy and overbearing, but I attributed that to the fact that he’s had a disturbed childh...

When a man says "Be Patient With Me, ".what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this man since Nov. all was great until Feb. I saw him 3-4 times a week, slept over and suddenly that slowed down. I found out that he sees another girl on my off days, he has no idea I know, I have asked if there are other women ...

He slept with his ex after he'd been out with me. Does that mean he liked her or made a mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 16 months now. i recently found out he had slept with his ex a day before wed first slept together last year jan 2010 around the time we started meeting up. we had only met up 3 or 4 times at this poi...

How can I help someone when I'm so shy and don't speak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I think one thing holds me back in life, from being myself, and that is I am painfully shy. I am acutly aware of how awkward I am in many social situations, any involving people I do not know, always in groups, even with my best friends,...

He wants sex but won't tell me where we stand. How do I make him understand that this is important to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) - There is this friend of mine that i study with at my uni. we have know each other for roughly 2 and a half years and a lot of nights we study until really late (between 2am and 3am). The problem is we are attracted to each other and sometimes after ...

I resent my boyfriend sometimes to the point that it disgusts me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles.. I have been using this site for a while but this is the first question that I have posted. I am very nervous so please be gentle with me. My problem is my hard to explain but here goes... I have borderline personality di...

Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents....

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7 April 2011 (F) - Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents. Nothing I have ever done has gotten any sort of approval. Everything I do could always be improved, according to them. I get A's and all they have to say is, 'You didn't get an A*, it's not good ...

How can I make my boyfriend sexually interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was married to a woman for 5 years, and she left him mostly because there sex life wasn't happening. I met him a year after his divorce, and now the same seems to be happening with us. We both love each other, and want the relationship ...

His moody behavior confuses me. What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Ok, brace yourself. This might be a tad bit confusing. So, "Leonidas" and I were together before from November till February until I got pregnant and had an abortion. He clearly has relationship issues which I think are pretty obvious? He grew up in ...

Whenever b/f has to chose between me or friends & drugs, I lose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. We've always had a great relationship- going out together a lot, regular good sex etc. We even ended up going to the same University together, which although many people said was a bad idea, ...

How can I get over someone I can never have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - How can I get over someone I can never have when I have to see them once a week and they stare at me all the time? Sometimes he ignores me and acts quite rude to me. I don't do anything to provoke this right enough but then all of a sudden, when I ...

I found out about my husband's sex secrets after he had an accident. Why doesn't he understand that I am upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - my husband has been addicted to porn for many yearswe have been to many councilors irecently found out he has been masterbating with abroomstick in rectum he had fallen and perferated his colon he had to get acolonostomy bag iwas devastated ifound ...

My boyfriend and his sons always pick on my mentally handicapped son

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have a boy friend whom has 2 boys.. I have 3 young children my self... My boyfriend hates my oldest son and him and his boys always yells at my son and picks on him cause hes mentally hanidcap... What do i do ? Do i leave my boyfriend?...

When is it too late for closure? is revenge helpful? Should I try to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, it's me again. Well, a guy broke up with me about 7 months ago and I haven't heard from him since. 2 days after the break up (which was a bad break up) he was in a relationship with this girl (Who I suspect he was cheating on me to begi...

I got physical with my girlfriend during an argument. She has forgiven me, but I cannot forgive myself! It is always on my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and we get along great. I can honestly say that she is the only girl I ever want to be with again. BUT at the same time I am so confused and disappointed in myself. A month ago, we got into...

My boyfriend can't stay hard during sex and it’s upsetting me? Does anyone know why? Need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend can’t stay hard when it comes to sex. I accidentally fell pregnant with his baby, but never knew at the time he was on Viagra, which he has now run out of. I never noticed he had a problem until now. He tells me it’s not me and that it ...

I ended it with my husband because he was awful to my son. Now he wants to work on the problems. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Ok, I did it. I ended my relationship. My second husband’s relationship with my little boy was awful. My little boy is 9 years old and he needs anxiety counselling because of all the chaos in his life. I have to say, although I love my Husband, it ...

My boss bullies me, and my boyfriend is a colleague. Am I right to feel peeved that he ignored me at a social gathering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boss is a horrible person and a bully. She treats me like crap even though I do a good job (I have great stats for my work, better than almost everyone else). For example, she recently forced me to apologize publicly for a mistake that was her ...

My husband cheated on me with his ex! Did he truly end things with her? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been married 5 yrs. Lately, when my husband and I argued, he would always calls his ex. He said it was nothing and they are just friends. Then he started calling her secretly. One week later, he went on a date with her and they had sex ...

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...

She broke up with me for another man. Does she want me back now? What should I say to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Two years back, I had a girl friend whom I loved so much. She had all the qualities I would need in a woman. I love her and did everything in my capacity to make her happy. We co-habited for two years in Kampala Uganda during my studies. When I ...

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the ...

I'm worried our relationship is purely based on sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 and a half years are always having sex. Our sex drive is ridiculous and we always want eachother. Our relationship has been good so far but I am worried that its based on sex. Im taking him very seriously now so I dont want this to ...

Is he right about our relationship? Will I be missing out? Will we both end up getting hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i'm 18 and i'm dating a 26 year old. though unorthodox, we persued our relationship. through the protective older brothers and sisters, judgmental extended relatives, and questioning parents; we came out as happy as ever and perhaps ...

Am I just a bit of fun, so he keeps me a secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - How do you know when you are being used for "one thing"? Ive being in a relationship for 6 month now. I would be offened if he didnt want to or fancy me like that but Im not sure if thats all he is after. Im not saying we are at it all the time or ...

Loves me or loves me not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hello eveyone.this is my first question and i hope that you can help me.just to clear this out,im gay and i dont want any hate in here.so let me begin.im 18 years old and i am at this college.there is a fellow student of mine that i really like and ...

She lied and flirted with other guys so I cant trust her anymore, but she wants another chance. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hi everyone. please help! i met a girl last year, march 29 2010, shes very pretty, cute. a month later, we started dating. and i proposed her and she accepted me. when we go out together, she kind of stare other guys, she doesn look, rather sta...

How do I get over him and stop blaming myself for our breakup?

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7 April 2011 (F) - When I was a child I was sexually abused and when my boyfriend and I broke up two years ago I felt like he left me because he could tell I was molested. We had sex and then afterward I told him that I loved him. He told me he was not capable of ...

I want to get married, but she had 1 minute intercourse with a man while we were on a three month separation...Should I let this bother me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - I been with my girlfriend for a very long time and we both are thinking about marriage. We have everything we want in one another. I just have question if everything you and your girlfriend did sexually was both of your guys first besides a a ...

He said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was the marrying type...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We were great together we were dating for about 4 years he knew very well I wanted to get married he always told me to give him some time.....he said if he wanted to be married it would be with me ...

How do I decide between my boyfriend who I want to marry and my best guy friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I am having a really big problem… so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He’s a great guy, very sweet, and would never do anything to hurt me. He wants to marry me one day and have a family. We’re 17. So, two months ago my ...

Complicated girl trying to get a complicated guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - This is a bit long, but I tried to keep it as short as possible. I'm a 28-year-old virgin who has never even held hands with anyone. People find this hard to believe. I'm not religious, just never found a guy I would be interested in, perhaps I'm ...

My ex-bf recently got married and I want him back...Plead for a lifeline.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I met this pakistani guy on the internet since 11 dec 2008. I am lebanese and was 19 years old at that time he was 27 years old. The moment he sent me msg on facebook we clicked, we exchanged emails and chats for almost a year without seeing each ...

I want to marry her, but her friend is exaggerating horrible secrets from my past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Basically, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and I'm planning to propose to her soon as we are very much in love, but I have some very horrific and soul destroying secrets that I never ever want anyone to know, but a close ...