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Archived questions from: 26 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The guy I dated on vacation turns out to be my new teacher! Can we keep things a secret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I was on a holiday with my friends three months ago and one night we were out in a club and we met a few guys thinking nothing of it i got really close to one of them and we kind of just stuck together for the rest of the holiday we had a great time ...

Does my teacher like me as more than a student?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I need advice on what I should do about my science teacher! He is in his late forties, married and has two kids (including a daughter who is one year older than me!) and he has done so many things that felt very unappropriate and flirty in so many ...

Why did he tell everyone that he broke up with me when it was me who ended things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hii, So bacicly ive just been out with a boy, he kept asking me one day at school. Recently in the easter holidays i saw him we went out me him my bestfriend and her boyfrined the first day he was fine but all others he messed me around had me and m...

Is he only playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - what does it mean when a guy says that we can see each other when our schedules allows? Just wondering because I was dating this guy but somehow I think he only wanted me for sex. Like, he would call me Saturday and ask if we could go movies ...

He doesn't want a relationship but I've fallen for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi, ok, so I'll try keep this very brief. I'm 30, met a guy in a bar last month, his 27. Gorgeous, funny and yum. We get on great. However he doesn't do relationships and made it pretty clear... But we started seeing each other. Were both pretty ...

I think he made upa girlfriend because he's afraid of what is happening between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - How do you help ease the anxiety of a man who's afraid? For the background story see here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-move-back-to-be-with-my.html So a month and a half ago, I told this guy Steve that I had feelings for him. St...

Is my boyfriend still in love with the deceased mother of his four year old child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year. he has two children from two different mothers. the oldest, his daughter, is 4 years old. Her mother passed away 4 years ago, 11 days after the now 4 year old was born. When this death occured my curr...

How do I change a habit that has become ingrained? my daughter in law has complained about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My son has asked me to stop repeating myself when I speak to his wife. He says she doesn't want to speak to me any more because I repeat myself so often. My son says he is used to me doing this and thinks nothing of it, he says I have so many good ...

I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After...

How do I get her to tell me what is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - ive been dating my girlfriend for a while now by far the longest relationship i have ever had and all i want is to make her happy but lately we've been fighting, she has been sick but her rudeness and attitude is just been getting really bitchy and ...

After I moved thousands of miles to be with him he cheated on me with my co-worker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I don't know where to turn. Six years ago I met a man online, after talking for over a year online, I went to visit him and fell in love. I packed my things and moved from Pennsylvania to Alaska for him. I gave up everything adn our life together ...

I moved on from my ex, but I think he left something that's interfering with my relationships with other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend for year and a half, I really believed it was true love and that we would marry someday. He broke up with me the day I lied to him when he asked me if I had cheated on him when he went away to Israel for six months (by that time, I ...

Discovered a girl I liked is a sociopath. What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - I know today people throw around these terms too much like narcissist, sociopath, borderline, et cetera, but....I have come to believe strongly that a girl I have liked for a very long time is likely a sociopath. I have known her a while. She's v...

Should I tell him he needs to decide whether he wants me or not? Or should I let him have more time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I started seeing this guy about 18 months ago. We met at work, he asked me out and was very keen for us to become serious. During the first six months he broke up with me twice, both times he asked me to get back together with him about three ...

He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...

How do I get more passion from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - The sex is great, but he's a horrible kisser! I've tried teaching him, it'll last one day, then he goes back to peaking me on the lips. How do I get more passion from him without the alcohol?...

This married woman is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - hi thanks for reading this please help! I've just moved in with my boyfriend and things are going great between us however the main issue we have is that he is friends with a married couple and the wife is completely obsessed with my boyfriend!!!i...

My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and ...

I have this sense of guilt like I cheated! Have I done something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Early in my relationship, my girlfriend and I just were very honest about our past sexual history. Probably for most, too honest. Through all this, I admitted to her having slept with a friend of mine, at a time when we were both single and it ...

We had a row and it has left a bad feeling between us now he is back in Germany, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi, It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend is in Germany at the moment with work. I have exams in 10 days. Before he left a few weeks ago we agreed to celebrate my birthday after my exams. He is having a horrible time in Germany and tells me...

I've been stuck in limbo with my ex for 5 years now! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem w/ my ex here. It may sound weird, but we broke up 5 years ago and I still can't get over him. We were in junior high school and just got introduced to each other for one week before we made up for a relationship. In fact, I wasn't ...

Why do I always have to start the conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - i like this girl in school and we have been talking on fb for quite sometime...and i make sure that chatting with me is fun. We enjoy chatting and all but the problem is that she never starts the convo whenever i dont and only i have to start it all ...

How to prove that I am innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - We know each other from 1 year. we were in physical relations, but now he thought that I cheated him, actually he got a CHAT history from my mail account, but it was not made me, but i fail to prove that, so now we are not in contact, I tried lot to ...

Help! I fantasise about my boyfriend with other women when we have sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This is going to sound very strange!!! I have always been quite a jealous person and I still very much am. On a normal day, the thought of my boyfriend even looking at another woman makes me angry and upset. However, when I am with my boyfrien...

Am I going off him or is it stress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend only two months. He seems perfect, kind, thoughtful, he takes me out and actually listens. Recently I have found myself not wanting sex with him and getting angry at everything he does or says. We see each other prett...

He wont reverse his vasectomy, and now I am thinking of divorcing him for not keeping up his end of our agreement.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I had a happy marriage over the past year, but now it’s all gone downhill fast. We had decided before the wedding to start our family in our second year of marriage (which is this year). However he had a vasectomy after his first ...

When will she be mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - hi... well i am very jovial guy and right now finished my deg 2nd year. in this academic year i fell in love with my junior she is very good and very talkative, and shy girl. she was friendly to me, i saw her first on July 16 2010 and i changed all ...

Is there anything I can do to save him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Where to start. Well I'm a 27 year old female and my boyfriend of three months is 32. When my boyfriend was 16 he apparently was madly in love with another 16 year old boy, they were each others firsts and they had managed to stay together for about ...

He lied to me about spending the day with another girl, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi i've been with my boyfriend 7 months. I've always had a problem with this girl, who's legally his auntie, but from his step-dads family. She's only 13/14 ish and my first impression of her was not good. She just sat looking at my boyfriend the ...

I don't understand why I'm always intitiating spending time with my bf...did he just get used to me doing that? Or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I always have to initiate hanging out with my boyfriend. He does it probably only 20% of the time, while I ask to hang out 80% of the time. We have been together for 2 years, and we do not live together, but we go to the same school. Like if I don't ...

He keeps on going between me and my best friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This past year has been tough. I've lost a lot of important people in my life. Back in September i met this guy and him and I were perfect for each other but he was 3 years older than me. We hung out everyday and had a lot in common. Then all of a ...

Is a good man worth cutting off for his financial lackings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - If he has a bad credit and no job should this be an automatic dump my boyfriend prompter? I have been dating my current boyfriend for 10 mths. Everything seem great. When I met him, he had a business he was working on and was also a correctional ...

He is not the same as when we first met, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - How can i put this we met on a chat line and after two months of talking over the phone i went and seen him, i told him how i felt about him and everything because we just gotten that close to each but point of it all i sent the weekend together We ...

I'm pretty upset and I feel used. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This guy (i'll call him "B") and me quit talking for six months and the other night he showed up saying sorry for it all amd wanted for to forgive him. Well, i did. He said never meant to stay out of my life that long and the whole entire time he ...

My boyfriend's grandmother wants him to date/marry a lighter woman and I feel hurt by this when I cared so much for her health. Now, I don't know what to think...Please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - So i have been in this great relationship with this guy for almost a year. We get along great. My family likes him and I think his family loves me. he is a great guy and we both love each other very dearly. I can actually imagine a future alongside ...

Trying to let go of an abusive situation.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Alright, SO, about 3 years ago I met a man, Luke, online and formed a very quick friendship with him. Over the next few months we became best friends and fell in love. I had never been in an internet relationship before and was a bit naive and very ...

My boyfriend has no ambitions for his career! Should I be concerned? Is there any hope for a future with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I've only been with him for 2 months and have only known him for about 4 months. We work together. I just started. He's been with the company for 3 years. He's 28, about to be 29 in a matter of weeks. He comes from a very good family--I don't mean ...

How do I tell him of my feelings without losing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 8 months are cooling down in our relationship. And that's fine and normal and all but I feel like he doesn't care anymore, he gets mad easily, and makes me feel like crap. I need to tell him how I feel but I don't wanna loose ...

I got felt up by the boyfriend of a girl I know. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - A couple of weeks ago my best friend and I were hanging out, and she told me she wanted me to meet her Jana and her boyfriend. I was excited because my friend never really felt the need to have me meet her friends. So I met her friend Jana and ...

My boyfriend bought a new and has not asked me to move in, much less what I think of this move. I can't see us living together. Should I just tell him I'm moving on? Or stick around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend just bought a new house and never once asked me what I thought about it. I have 4 animals a dog and three cats, he also has a dog. Now he is alregic to cats and I can't see us living together at all. He never asked me to move in so I ...

He says I should yell at him for not making more money

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - The man I love has wounded me very deeply. He says that I don't yell at him for not earning more money! Money has become a big issue for him lately because he was laid off from his highest earning job. He has other, very fulfilling (I think) w...

Is it possible that you meet the right person and they're immature and damaged, but they're still the right person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I was dating my Ex and then he dumped me, like 2 days after Valentine's day. We said we loved each other, we've both said being together just felt right. Ex contacted me after the breakup and we tried hanging out as friends but ended sleeping t...