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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I have this guy friend we are exclusive but not together we took a break for a week with non contact but when we came back into contact he says that i was becoming to jealous and didnt trust him thats why he took a break but when i told him that i ...

Would it be ok to give my ex some self help books?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I know I am going to get a lot of negative comments about this, but I would like a suggestion nevertheless: I am just out of this thank god short relationship with a guy who clearly falls in the commitment phobe category, lots of push and pull, ...

Boyfriend says my past makes me unclean

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I feel really down. I have been with a guy for about 2 years now... He is a sweet guy that cares for me and goes out of this way to get me what I want. The problem is hes 2 years younger.. people say age is just a number and I know that. But I have ...

Why would he do this? and How do I move forward after he lied to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much. I just recently moved in with him(his idea). We have been looking at condos together, we talk about getting married and having children one day. He asked me to start managing his property so we can get more property and ...

Do I break up with ogling boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I wrote a while ago regarding my boy friend ogling other women. I did not see him for 10 days, I asked him for a short break. We do not live together. I have told him many times that his ogling other women is upsetting me and he has to eith...

What my girlfriend really wants? I'm so confused now... Please help!!l!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Please help me! I can't understand my girlfriend now, i can't explain it so please let me copy and paste our conversation. Is she testing me or what does she want really?? If she wanna go then why doesn't she break up with me? Why she want me to ...

Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help ...

How to I get her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - i like a girl and this girl kind of dislikes me i dont know why...she in fact knows that i like her and she plays dirty being more interactive with other guys especially when i am around (hugging, flirting etc etc). She also doesnt talk to me much ...

How can I trust and love my new partner after what I've been through?

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6 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid hi im jst startin a new relationship and a year and half ago i fleed domestic violence also lost my 4 children through it. my new partner is the most loving person and caring but i think im pushing him away because im scared because of my ...

GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...

My BF's political views are self destructive. I will be leaving and I am worried about what he will do when I'm gone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I think my boyfriend is delusional and lost. We're both 16 and he's confusing me so much. We come from different backgrounds. I live a comfortable middle class suburban life and go to private school. He goes to a rough school (People have been ...

Do you have any advice for someone who is separated from their loved one because of work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I am very concerned about how much time I crave to be with my partner. Her job as an international guide makes it difficult for us to have any time to see each other. She is always overseas, out with friends or at the office. She is pressed for t...

Don't want my ex to know he is the father. Is it right not to tell him?

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6 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm pregnant with my ex's baby. He doesn't know yet and I'm debating about him ever knowing. I left him because he hurt my pets and was very mean to my son (who is 2). He would call my son names, say that he would grow up gay and things l...

I worry that one day he'll wake up and realize that it's her he wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I'm in this 3 year relationship with this AMAZING guy. He and I have recently just came back from a 4 month trip in Europe. We have big plans for the future together. We are currently starting a business together, so life has been really stressful ...

Girlfriend has broken my heart. I don't know how I am going to cope. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 days before we took a trip to Texas to meet my family. We get back and she continues to go out every night (shes 21 Im 30). She comes home 3 nights ago wasted and refused to tell me ...

I think my friend is moving in on the boy I like. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Well ive met this really sweet, nice, cute boy and well we've been talking too each other for months and we told each other our feelings for each other. I told my friend all about it and she was just happy for me, but my friend and the boy i liked ...

I always get bored. It's happening again. Why and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and i think of myself as a mature adult, i want to have that long term commitment with someone but my problem i have is that i become bored in a relationship very quickly. I am usually loud and very out going, and i enjoy the ...

Just friends or just games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 April 2011 (?) - I recently met a man online, he seemed nice, and would contact me everyday and also added me on a well known social network. We became close over the weeks. Both of us agreed that we were not ready to meet up just yet as we are both cautious after ...

Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them? I am very in love with my girlfriend and we have been together since the beginning of 2010. A few months prior when we were "dating" I put myself in a very bad situation. We all ...

Stepmom instigated Dad and older brother to beat up my BF.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - me + my bf(15) have been dating 4, 5 months (the only thing we do is kiss cus we decided 2 wait.) my step-mom hates me so last nite we were sitting their watching t.v. (my step mom was home the whole time) so she told my dad + big bro he was "on top ...

Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...

My husband isolates me and treats me poorly. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My husband does not want me to work. He wants me to stay in the house. He does not want me to have any friends. He does not even want me to have any money. When i complain of something or when a problem arises he blames all on me. He tries all he c...

Why does my ex still have bills and accounts together if she's broken up with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Ok agony aunts, so the girl I've been dating for 5 months now, I just found out that she has her ex's phone still under her contract, and that they still have money in a bank account together, yet according to her they've been broken up for over a ...

I went psycho on him and he changed his phone number

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - about two months ago i meet this guy i really liked him and still do. i was in a bad relationship before i met him and i was still kind of scared. he asked me to be his girlfriends right away and i said yes. we were talking and everything was ...

Why is he bothering?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Some time ago I mentioned that I had met this young man on a cruise ship who was a singer-MUCH younger than em and I told you he kept eyeing me up and everytime I saw him his eyes were on me-well a few months down the line he is still e mailing me ...

I don't know if he has any intentions of us ever being a proper family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Why doesnt he want companionship? I have a relationship if you can call it a relationship with a guy who is 42. We have 2 children together and i have known hin many yrs now. We no longer live together but continue to have this relationship. He ...

Do men become immune to small fights?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - **Sorry to re-post my question but I didn't receive any answers :(** Is it normal for men to become 'immune' to small fights and arguments? My fiance just doesn't seem to care about talking things out, but would rather sweep it under the rug and ...

Boyfriend acted differently, am I thinking too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - hi everyone, so last night me and my boyfriend were texting as usual, then he told me he was going to a festival in france so he told me the present he was getting for me was going to have to wait. i was a bit annoyed but i was just glad he was goin...

I am desperately unhappy because I cant measure up to my boyfriend's ex and I just want to get out of this relationship so that I do not have to be compared to her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am so so jealous of my partners ex. I dont know where to start but it just seems like she was better in every way. She was very good looking, she had a kid, guys were always hitting on her. She is now doing a great job that pays well and she is ...

First guy I've met in town, should I move on now or give it a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - So i have moved to a new town. I meet a guy who seemed charming. We never went on a proper date.. Just out for drinks. I'm not keen on him as of yet, as I don't know the guy. But last friday he said he wasn't going out, then i bumped into him out ...

I think my Dad is cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - This is a random question, I'm 26 and worried my dad is cheating on my mom? My dad travels away for business every week. I have been living away from home for 9 years. I just moved home and noticed a big distance between my parents. My dad ...

Forbidden Love and I don't know how to handle it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other, as we both stay in different cities but in the same country. Our story is a very clichèd tale but unfortunately wi...

Too scared to tell her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - There was a new girl in my class this year, I noticed her on the first day. She's really beautiful, I started to like her a bit, but I hadn't talked to her much. A week ago I was waiting after school for a ride home. My mum was late so I was th...

My partners arranging dates and I've found out, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just made a stupid mistake that has exposed him. My boyfriend was just visiting me and he asked to use my computer. It was very unfortunate that he forgot to log off his facebook account and now i have access to his messages. I ...

Bizarrely Friends With Benefits

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hello, fellow DearCupid users! Okay, my situation is a little complicated...I met this guy online, and crazy as it sounds we really hit it off straight out the gate - our first conversation over IM went on for 7 straight hours - so we arranged t...

Why has my fiance just joined a dating site????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, I have been dating a wonderful girl for just over a year now. we don't live together but see each other most weekends. she is always excited to see me and tells me she misses me when I am not there. we have a healthy emailing relatio...

Is this guy a player or am I just suspicious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I really need some help on this one, guys opinions too please. Im not 100% sure but I think I have guy who is a bit of a player or a flirt. He is older than me by 7 years. Met him over a social network site (you know the one). We live in the same ...

Online dating..he led me on and then just disappeared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Please help solve this puzzle: 1. Girls notices guy on dating website 2. Girl approaches guy 3. Guy responds positively and begins to chat 4. Guy disappears without responding for 2 weeks then gets back in touch full of apologies. 5. Gi...

No friends, can't study and depressed about my grades

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6 April 2011 (F) - I am so much dipressed ,i don't have any friends ,and i don't like to talk with my family member's lso becoz they aren't so friendly,and with whom i lime to talk,i am nt allowed to talk with them bcoz of this i am unable able to do my studies ,n ...

I just want to move on with my life and enjoy the rest of my pregnancy and get along with my ex but I don't know how...HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - im 19 years old and i am 22 weeks pregnant. My baby's father and i were together for 3 years but broke up before i found out i was pregnant. When i told him everything was fine but then a couple weeks later out of no where he would tell me that he ...

Is that me just being overly jealous?? Or is my wife the one in the wrong by constantly talking about her ex boyfriends' even though it makes me mad??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - My wife constantly talks about her ex's, not in great detail about stuff they did but she constantly brings them up at times and it's pretty annoying... She thinks that I'm overreacting and that I'm a "baby" because she thinks its harmless when she ...

Girlfriend accuses me of not being excited enough about getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I've been living with my girlfriend for a few years now. We have a stable relationship - some up and downs, of course, but nothing big, I guess. We're both around 26-29 y old. For some time she's been talking about getting married an...

Is it me or am I just not choosing the right one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I really need some advice. I recently started conversating with this man I met online and he was in the army at the time. Everything was good until he came home. The first night he came home it was love at first sight. We had sex and the emotion ...

She found pictures of girls I was attracted to on my computer, have I ruined everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I've been in a stable relationship for over 2 years now. We've had arguments before but this one feels so much different. This time I feel terrible and I could really do with some advice. My girlfriend found pictures of women that i knew, that I u...

She's keeps asking me when I'm going to propose to her, but she tells other people she wishes she was with this other guy who she's cheating on me with!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Hi I just wanted to get some advice I don't think my gf is phisicly cheating on me but..... When got together she was seeing this other guy at the same time. 2 years on and she is still in daily contact via txt and face book with this guy. to save ...

Is it normal for men to become immune to small fights?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Is it normal for men to become 'immune' to small fights and arguments? My fiance just doesn't seem to care about talking things out, but would rather sweep it under the rug and not really talk about it. His view is that I get upset and angry every ...