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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend threatens to kill herself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I'm in highschool and just about to go to college and I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I really love her. But over the year of us dating she began to get really clingy and pretty much abandoned all of her friends for me. Also at ...

How do I make my boyfriend practice better hygiene?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a real guys guy, and plays a lot of sport. I don't think he showers properly all the time. He barely washes his hair and it smells!!! and he doesn't cleanse his face and you can see the build up of dirt sometimes where it just lo...

He has said I need to get my act together or we have no future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have together for 5 years and we've felt great about eachother. recently he has told me he's buying a house, we don't live together. he has said i need to get my act together or we have no future. i felt insecure and looked at his ...

Everytime I try to break up, he threatens suicide...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hello, Well I'm a 22 year old female and I've been in a relationship now for two years, but finding problems with the relationship. He isn't violent or a bad person which is why it's difficult to break up with him, but I feel trapped and want to...

How do I get this guilt to go away? Should I be 'just friends'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Sorry, this is kind of a long story. So I broke up with my ex of two years, and he was my first for pretty much everything. A couple weeks after, I met my best friend up at his college and we had fun to take my mind off of my first big break ...

My girlfriend is confused and wants her space. Its tearing me up inside

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of almost ayear told me she wants time and space to be on her own for a while. She has been very stressed at work, her 4 year old son gets sick often and her divorce is almost finalised. She has told me that nothing is wrong in our ...

I heard she liked me, so I told her I liked her and she got mad. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - ok , heres the deal . Im 13 and in middle school . This girl likes me and i like her alot. I feel so attracted to her. 3 of her friends told me she likes me. one of her friends said "She likes you, she didn't want me to tell you". I told her ( th...

GF is now dating my ex. I'm hurt and don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - i was going out with a guy for 8 months and we were very happy together, we had ups and downs but we always managed to work through them and i loved him and he had told me the same. we broke up a month ago but now hes going out with one of my best ...

BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...

BF is upset because I won't pick him up at the airport. Is he being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is flying into town to close on his house on Monday at night, and will be here until Friday. I have class Monday until 9pm and he expects me to pick him up at the airport after class even though his flight gets in at 7pm and i have ...

I told her I wanted to get to know her better and she said the same to me, but she has a BF. Is she playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I don't know. I think she likes me. Well long story short, she's been in my class for years before we got different classes. I changed a lot, physically and mentally and I really wasn't talking to her till near exams. We both are in the same coll...

He got his ex pregnant and it hurts to think about it. Not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Okay , me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 4 months, 1 year ago (on our 4 months) he cheated on me with his ex :( and got her pregnant......... At first he was denying that it was his like crazy and after the baby was born we got a ...

Sex starved by wife. Is it ok for me to find a similarly sex starved lady available for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Been married for 11 years. hardly have sex with my wife because she is hardly ever in the mood or want me to have sex with her. Have to content with secret masturbation many many times. Have never had sex with another person except my wife since ...

He got angry over it. But how do I get him to realize it was his mistake?

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9 April 2011 (M) - i got a fight with my boy friend,it was his mistake, he got angry on me, right now he is not feeling well, now what should i do? How do i get him to realize it was his mistake?...

Is my low self esteem coming from the way my family treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I have been wondering for a while about how my childhood may have affected how I feel about myself today. I have a lot of difficulties of social anxiety, and I always feel that I am inferior to everyone else. Even though I firmly believe in equality ...

My boyfriend belongs to his ex, not to me

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9 April 2011 (F) - I feel as if my bf is not MINE, rather he belongs to his ex. I have been with him for five years and they have been apart for almost ten so its certainly been a while, but I still do not feel like he is my partner. When we do stuff together (...

What can I do? I can't stop thinking of him, yet I thought I was over him.

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9 April 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the end of last november after two and a half years together, it had been going hill for a few months and he had done badly in his exams which made him basically initiate the split. I was hurt and distraught as to the fact ...

Many random hookups have spoiled my interest in sex and my faith in true love.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I don't think i can ever love a guy. I have hooked up so many times that i dont even enjoy romance or a simple kiss. Kissing doesnt turn me on like it used to, b/c im not doing it with guys i even like....I feel lost, confused and impatient because ...

The love of my life said he would marry me...but that he's not the marrying kind! How do I deal with this?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Hi Aunts Me again the ''he said he would only marry me if he was to get married but isn't sure if he's the marrying type'' girl. I'm completely heartbroken. I love him so much and I know we can make each other happy. I just need to know what to ...

I'm being pressurized into marriage because my GF whom I never really loved, got pregnant and had our baby, by lying to me about using birth control..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I am in a spot of bother. I had been going out with a girl long distance for about a year, we moved in together and I was pretty sure then that it wasn't true love. After about 6 months, when she was telling me she was taking contra...

Should I break the news to my parents about my having sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - for some backround info: i'm 18 and i have a 26 year old boyfriend. we have been dating since october 5th and on valentines day told me he was in love with me. i have just recently began staying over at his house. my parents have many issues w...

She made plans to meet with someone from work without me for a drink. Should I be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My girlfriend of two months made plans to drink with a guy from work without me. Do I have a right to be upset? It seems like she's enjoying the fact that it hurts me. I know she loves me, she tells me all the time. I'm not understanding her ...

I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts ...

Is it right to stay in this relationship when I am hurting myself so badly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I dont want to love him anymore. For months of our relationship i found out that he had a live in partner and they are living together,ofcourse. Three months when we're together i found out that she was fregnant but i love him so much and i can't...

She only calls me when she needs a shoulder to cry on. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - She called me crying saying she has doesn't feel like she has many friends and all the girls hate her or think she is a slut. I am there to comfort her and tell her she needs to relax and is welcome to come over any time she wants. I am really ...

How can he be kissing other girls and texting and then say I'm the one for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - So last weekend my boyfriend and I were at his friends house for the week end living it up... The first night I only had a little to drink, and decided to go to bed, my boyfriend told me to take his phone with me and plug it in, and that he'd be ...