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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get short, blunt answers...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get blunt answers. Before the last few days I was getting really lovely texts and phonecalls from her, as if she was really eager to hear from me and was really chatty. But it doesn't feel lik...

Is it me or what's the deal with this guy???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I met this guy online a couple of months back, first we just exchanged emails then we started texting and then we talked on the phone a couple of times. I think he seems nice but something inside me tells me to be cautious and wait and see( I'...

My boyfriends wants to have sex with another girl!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend, well hes a good guy over all but he has said and done some stupid s***, first of all he does say Im pretty and he loves me and he takes me out but then... he has this friend that he told me with these exact words "I want to f*** her, ...

There is no reason for my children to have these problems. Where can I go that someone will understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I feel so alone with my problems. I feel there is no one else on the world who is going thru the same tragedy as me, or in the same way. I have tried to get help before from counselors and support groups, but i felt very misunderstood, and that the...

His parents won't accept the union and I am heartbroken. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I'm madly in love with this guy, but we can't marry because our parents wont accept the union, it's more his parents. He's not even allowed to have female friends, if they found out about me, they'd disown him. We've broken up lots of times bu...

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

Girlfriends are spreading rumors that I am a lesbian. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Okay so hi everybody I'm back with yet another problem .. All my life I've been very weary of boys because of a bad past which I would not like to go into. This has obviously taken it's toll on my social life. I have a close group of 4 friends who...

Is he talking of marriage just because I am planning to leave?

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5 April 2011 (F) - I dont think he will be moving on too for his Msc. I think he will settle for a job in Mauritius. Besides he changes ideas quite quickly. i wonder if the fact that am going is making him say all the sweet words and plans of marriage...thanks for ...

At my age are there any legal or moral grounds where your parents can forbid you to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Are there any justifiable legal or moral grounds on which your parents can forbid you to date at the age of 19? I mean, if you still live with them but never bring your boyfriend home (so nothing happens under their roof) and you're sensible ...

"Is she crazy, or am I? OR both?"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend (ily) broke up with me last week because I finally leveled with her about sexual relationships I had when she and I weren’t together. One of which occurred before ily and I had ever met. When we first began dating she heard I had a ...

I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...

My girfriend may be dying, why don't I care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Im really stuck here. My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with viral encephalitis which is irritation and swelling of the brain. She had it before and nearly died from it but recovered. I have felt that the relationship has been over for a ...

Her excuse for sleeping with my brother is that she thought it was me! Should I believe her?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - A few days ago my twin brother and I had our birthday party at our apartment. Our girlfriends were at the party with a few friends. We had quite a bit of different kind of liquor. Then I guess I passed out. In the morning, my brother's girlfriend ...

My son will only get financial help for college if I remain umarried for 2 years, but when my fiance found out he took the ring back and demands I marry him next year and leave my son alone in my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid , hope someone can help me. i was planing on marrying this july. well my son got full fiancial aid for college books . everything . well i cant marry for 2 years now, they go by your income. i asked my guy to wait and he got mad. too...

She is always sick, is she the right person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - She is always sick of malaria and worms. I have spent lots of money on her treatment since I got her. She has tested for other diseases like HIV but we are all negative. Will she be the right person for me?...

Am I just being crazy or are my feelings somewhat valid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Well, I've been in a LDR with my bf for a little over a year now. I go to school away from home and have my own place, which makes it easier for him to come and visit as he has a place to stay with me. Now I'm faced with the decision of goin...

Did my dad over-react? And should I go all the way with my boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - me and my bf are both 15 and in love and about a month ago my parents left and he came over. we were making-out then i gave him a bj, (we still had our clothes on, his pants were unzipped). then my dad walked in grabbed him by his neck and started ...

Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Last night my fiancee got really drunk. Later that night he called me another woman's name right before we passed out. He called me a mutual friends name, who was his roommate for a year and like a sister to him, nothing happened between them ever. ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating and I'm not! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for six months so far. And recently my sister and her boyfriend broke up. And he hits her and first time in front of me. I stuck up for him telling him my sister deserves better than him. Her ...

When I move away for university we will be long distance, and it will last for 6 years! How do we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - hi.. I am 20 and my boyfriend 23. we have been dating sice i was 16 but take several pauses off. but last year when i entered university, we again became close to each other dated for about a year. then litle problems crop up like he leave me unatt...

Why has he stopped mastubating over me and thinks about girls we know instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend told me he masturbates over me and porn which i was fine with, but yesterday he came out with the fact he doesn't masturbate over me anymore he does it over other girls we know and porn. This really upset me, why would he do it over ...

I can't initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I joined this place after googling 'sex makes me feel guilty' and an answer from here came up. The question I read though was vague and although there were good answers they weren't foe me...so I'll say a bit more I am a female and I have a fem...

My boyfriend wont talk to me about his feelings or worries any more.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for Four years and we live together, but he no longer talks to me about his feelings, worries etc anymore. When we first got together we would talk about anything and everything (We've both had quite turbulent up bri...

Why would a guy not be hard or be able to be hard if he never came?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend where having sex this morning and while we where having sex I started to notices the feelings was going away then we thought maybe its the condom. so he took it off and cleaned up did not even try to continue he never came ...

Pregnant by an ex lover when I was supposed to be working on my marriage with my husband....what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Well please dont judge me, I made an horrible bad decision, and im hurting trendmendously. Separated from husband over an year ago. Had sex with and ex lover and now Im pregnant. Husband and I were suppose to be working on us and I sliped up bad, ...

Should I ask him to break up with her or should I save myself the heartache and just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Met this guy over the summer. We clicked right away, but he has a long distance girlfriend. We start hanging out socially but he always flirts with me. I always remind him he has a girlfriend, but he is extremely persistent. Unfortunately Im ...

I think girls are running away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - i broke up with my gf last year.i didn't want but it happened. I'm alone and it's very hard to bear.I'm going to be crazy. last month i suggested friendship to a girl but she rejected. i tried to contact with my ex gf but she is friend with anot...

I told him I wanted to give it a go but he would not leave his girlfriend. Now he is acting all jealous when I am with another guy! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Ok so i am really confused at the minute and im hoping for a little advice. I have been friends with this guy for a number of years now but in the past two or three we have gotten a lot closer. I have liked him as more than a friend for even longer ...

I want my boyfriend to be loving and caring like he used to be, rather than ignoring me for days on end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - im really worried for my relation i love that guy like hell . we have been together for almost 6 years we love each other in the begining we were so loving and close but the day he joind the school for higher studies he is changed going away he's ...

He has not had a job in the 9 years we have been together! Will he ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 years, he never had a job in 9 years, only 2 times he had a job for like a month each job.. I m a dancer so more money is not necesary to live well, but it is necesary because all he cares about is to play ...

She gave back the necklace I gave her - does she hate me?

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5 April 2011 (M) - i like this girl for a long time and just be friend now. so we are friends for only 2 month. we like to message each other. one day she said that she want a present but only for a joke. i give her a necklace and she said its too fancy or expensive. ...

My girlfriend doesn't believe in long distance relationships, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - These days we discussed a lot about our relationship but I couldn't make her understand that I'm trying to change, trying to be the man she's been waiting for. The problem is she doesn't believe in long distance relationship, she told me she needs a ...

He really likes me and doesn't want to lose me, but now his ex is back in the picture. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - ok so i met this guy im seeing a week ago.. yeah we havent known each other long at all, but we had instant chemistry.. he has been coming to my house every morning when he gets off work and he crawls in my bed and holds me, its like we have known ...

How can I get my boyfriend to listen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - hi every one, please could you give me some advice? My boyfriend and i have been together over three years and i love him very much. He has suffered from depression in the past and over the years has left me several times onlx to realise and come ...

My friends' relationship problem which I don't want to answer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Its about my best friend and me.I am noticing a strong feeling of irritability is developing between us, from my end.She has been my friend since 5 years and we share same sort of thoughts.The problem is she some times lies about herself to create a ...

I think I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - i think i'm in an emotionally abusive relationship, although i'm not quite sure. some of the signs i read online just aren't quite suiting, although i just feel something has to be very, very wrong. i've been cheated on and found out, and she beg...

Husband cant satisfy me because of premature ejaculation.... perhaps I need to have my physical needs met elsewhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I love my husband very much. We did not have a lot of sex before we married, so it wasn't until after our wedding that I confirmed that he has premature ejaculation. This has effected every single time we have had sex for the past two years, without ...

Boyfriend is in jail for violating probation, I'm doing all I can to help, but apparently I'm the "heartless evil bit*h". Why is he doing this to me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was sentenced to jail for 30 days for violating probation. His urine came up diluted, which means there was low levels of the natural substances in pee, indicating he added water to his pee sample. however, he swears he did nothing to ...

Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...

I have such a low self esteem because of my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi I am in urgent need for some counselling for a very bad siutation I have been in for 6 years - stemming around my relationship with my bf - now currently ex again I am have been putting this off for a while but now I am all alone over here...

Is he interested or am I misinterpreting everything?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Okay here goes, it will be long winded but I need to know once and for all, Im really losing my patience. About 5 months ago a new tenant moved into our house, hes very handsome and I was attracted to him instantly. Initially there was al...

Am I being unfair to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

5 April 2011 (?) - i need some advice. i left my husband a year and a half ago and i have had a lot of problems geeting on with my life.I couldn't be with hubby anymore because he was violent and i feared for my life. I thought after i got out that i would have a bf ...

My gf talks about her guy friends all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Hey Ladies and Gents, Here's the scope. I want advice on what I can do to get over this or just not let it bother me. I have a gf(yea!!) and she talks about other guys(boo!!) in conversations with each other. I understand its okay for her to have ...

Do you think not talking to him will change his mind about how he's acting and he'l come chasing after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up ...