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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to hurt him like I was hurt. How should I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Okay here goes, I'm 16 in a couple of weeks, I am in love with a 20 year old. I'm from the UK so it's perfectly legal when i turn 16. Anyway about 6 months ago i told him i liked him and he just kinda didnt really say he didnt like me but he didnt ...

I can only relax for sex if I've had a few drinks. Am I alone in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - hi, i'm a 21 year old woman who sufferers with severe anxiety disorder and as a result, my sex drive seems to be zero. i find it incredibly hard to relax as a result of this and can only seem to relax enough in the bedroom if i've has a few drinks. ...

We're great friends, but how do I stop myself from falling in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - ok, so i haven't talk to this boy in ages because i tried to ask him out and he rejected me. i have become great friends with him but i do not want to fall in love with him again because it might ruin our friendship, what should i do to stop myself ...

I told him I thought the decreasing intimacy in our relationship was a problem and he said I was moaning. Was I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - hi, i've been dating a guy for the past nine months and we get on well, both love each other but every other month our work patterns go out of sync for a month and then return into sync again because his shifts fall back in line with my weekends...

Isolated in a foreign country -- is my love for my husband enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hi, please advise. I moved to a difficult foreign country to be with my husband, sacrificing all my family, friends and life that I knew (even my religion) because I loved him, believing in my innocence that love conquers all. Because of the ...

Is fighting normal?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Is it normal for couples to get in to small fights/arguments through out a week? and if so why is it? Thank you....

I feel as if I can't take on one more thing, but if I don't I'll feel guilty. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Im in a very tough spot in life.....What can i do, if I simply run out of energy taking care of others problems around me ? My life got out of hand a few years ago, living in personal hell. I can't list the things I' dealing with, because m...

My ex FWB is back, but he has a GF now. I don't know how to handle his advances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing ...

I can't get over her. How do I get her to want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - i am absolutely in love with this girl, she knows this and she claims that she doesnt like me...however she has been doing all sorts of things, she has been trying to make me jealous intentionally in front of me randomly when i am in a good mood, ...

Does my cousin love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - i had a crush on my cousin.since then i got into another relationship but in between there was a problem and i went to him for advice but he advised me to break up.but anyways me and my boyfriend spoke and solved the problem but he said to stay ...

My 5 year old son is jealous over the attention given to his younger sister and has changed dramatically from being a happy child to a miserable one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - So recently my 5yr old sons personality has changed dramatically from being a happy child to being miserable....i know that since my daughter turned 1 thats when his attitude changed..i try to divide my time equally between the 2 of them but its ...

My GF has severe trust issues, she starts to restrict me from whoever she considers a threat, and impulsively dumps me over these issues!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half, and were really great together. Recently she says she cant trust me, when i have never done anything to ever make her not trust me. About a month ago i went home for a few days and...

How can I convince my mum that I’m not pregnant, and to let me back into my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - okay so my family is really strict christian and since my dad died last year my mum has been really strict and protective of me. so last week my mum started telling me that i looked really pale and that i was putting on weight. I took no notice of ...

Concerned about what my brother wrote on Facebook.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hello i need a bit of help and advice on what my older brother wrote on fb, he hasnt had a gf for ages but think he likes someone that doesnt like him Im getting a bit concerned about him to Below is what he wrote : Sometimes no matter how...

Looking at porn in a relationship. Is it cheating? Why is he pushing me away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with this guy for 5 years now. when we got together i told him my veiws about porn. its cheating. we have been through heaps together. We have a daughter together and everything. When i was pregnet everything changed. He started spending...

What would you do in the case of paternity fraud?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - What would you do if you were to find out the child your wife/spouse gave birth to you was not yours? ...

I was honest about my girlfriends weight gain and now in trouble. Advice please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - hey guys, i kinda sorta listened to the advice "communication is key" when contemplating whether to tell my girlfriend she has gained weight. i did not call her fat or was insensitive but she didnt take it so well and she got really mad. it wasn...

We were going to start seeing each other again. I went off for 7 weeks, and now he is ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hi All, Your opinions pls!! I have been in regular contact with my ex until recently. He said he wanted us to start seeing each other again (he works funny hours) and said we could see each other during the days when I get some time off. I was like ...

We both got sick at breakup time. how can I be just friends with my ex who I love more than anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - How do you become friends with someone that you still love more than anything and have been bf/gf in a LDR for 3 years?? I'm struggling...my bf dumped me 3 weeks ago, because he got badly depressed and didn't care about anyone or anything and the...

What do I do next? He treats me like a kid, not his GF. I turn off when he speaks badly to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, well i am still with my ex, we broke up but he said he would try for our relationship, if you read my other question.....well things are going better, but he still treats me like a kid. He never ever talks to me like a adult. i had too ge...

Boyfriend says our relationship makes him feel like he is in prison. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend feels bad lately because of my presence. He says that he can feel me everywhere even when we're apart. I don't see him a lot but he still feels like he's in some kind of prison because of me. I love him a lot and I'm trying to change...

Guys- if you're in a good relationship, do you still watch porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - So about a month ago I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. Mainly on the days when we don't have sex. We've been living together for about two years and I've always been the sexually frustrated one bc I have a super high libido. I usually have ...

It bothers me that my father in-law always brings up racial topics when I meet a new family member...How do I handle this diplomatically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am engaged and soon to be married to a wonderful man. His family loves me very much and I love them too. The only thing is my in laws are very over bearing. I almost feel bad about this situation because most people aren't lucky...

Can you lose sexual attraction for someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - is it possible to loose sexual attraction to someone? I was in a relationship for five years it ended because he was too verbally abusive."ur fat, the "b" and "c" word and all that nasty stuff.Anyways months have passed and he has been dying to come ...

I don't know how my BF can give up a girlfriend of 10 months for a girl whom he's been talking to for a week??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. I live with him and his family as my mum now lives in Canada (we're both moving there in October) and I don't talk to any of my family. Basically he's been talking to this girl for th...