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Dating: Help and advice

My best friend is hitting on me.

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9 March 2011 (F) - One of my best friends keeps trying to tickle me, touch my knee, put his arm around me and he knows I have a bf. He is starting to creep me out and i dont know what to do anymore, I have told him to stop, told him to leave me alone and he just wont. ...

Is my current relationship lowering my self-esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid Please read the entire post I had one bf before the current relationship. My ex-bf was extremely clingy type with no self-esteem at all. I broke up with him and he still send me messages. My current bf is the extreme oppoiste of my...

Am I jealous of my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i'll try to keep this as brief as possible. so im 19 years old and my best friend is the same age, we have been best friends since we were 13 or 14 and sometimes we just kind of drift apart a little but always come back and its not akward its like ...

Hot chemistry building between us, why did he stare deeply into my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I met a man over a year ago and an attraction began but neither of us did anything about it as it was all flirting via body language. I move away and accidentially met him at the train station and he acknowledged me but stared deeply into my eyes ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I met this girl a few weeks ago in my course and managed to ask her for lunch one afternoon. We had a nice chat, talking about our families and interests etc. Following lunch she said we should get lunch again the week after, so I asked for h...

I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship! As I get older I get more and more desperate, turning to internet chat sites etc. Please advise me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hello. So I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship. Is that weird? It's not that I don't want one, trust me I do, but it just hasnt happened. Also as time goes on I find myself more and more attracted to men who are older than me by 5 to 30 years...

What female habits do guys find attractive/unattractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - What habits do guys find attractive/unattractive? I know every guy is different, but I'm interested in what guys agree on when it comes to a woman being attractive. I'm interested because certain habits I have annoy some, but interest others,...

I wasn't ready for a relationship after our first date, but now I am ready. Should I give up or still try to win her trust and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Hello, I asked a girl out about a year ago. She accepted and we started out well. I didn't take the date seriously because I was actually not ready for a relationship at that time. The reason is that it was my first date and it was distracting me ...

My married lover's wife found out about me, so I went over to their house and confronted him. I told her everything, and now he won't speak with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hiya, I'm Sharon, I'm 41 and broken hearted. I was seeing a married man that I've known since school days. He texted me and called me for years. Then last year it became intimate. He is a lorry driver and I'm a door step collector. Our jobs have ...

Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. Should you be honest about your feelings or let the past go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I just have a short question. Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. I am aware that he cannot change it, and perhaps I am over-analyzing or exaggerating things. I am not sure if the answer from him would affect my feelings or not. ...

My Clingy Ex Boyfriend Won't Move On! Please Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay so about 6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. To be honest I should not have gone out with him in the first place, because I only really ever saw him as a good friend, but I was only 16, it was my first long term relationship ...

He dumped me! Does anyone have any tips for me to stop thinking and crying about this? How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I had asked a question recently here about my boyfriend (of 1 year and 2 months) ignoring me and what I should do with him. Well on Monday he broke up with me. It really hurt me and it's still hurting me! His reason was that he was having problems...

Did our two year relationship mean nothing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - So me and my ex got back together and in November and split again in December when he decided to kiss my best friend when he was drunk and out with his friends. But a week later I ended up staying at his house as we were on a night out with mutual ...

My best friend took my boyfriend's number from my phone while I was sleeping, and now she's texting him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok I guess I'll just get to the point. There's this guy I REALLY like I even think I might be falling in love with. I will call him “Steve”. I was at my cousin’s house along with three other people (one of which is my very best friend). I showed m...

My boyfriend threatens to hit me, and breaks up with me when he wants to sleep with other girls. He wants me to move in with him. Can he really change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I hope that you can help me. I can't trust my family or friend’s opinion because they're obviously going to take my side. Alright so my boyfriend of a year is asking me to move back with him. I love him very much but he has done so many awful things ...

How do I impress his mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I'm 18 , my boyfriend is 28 ..He tells his mom eveything , and we've had a few problems well we've been together 5 months he's been living w/ me for 3. Now we live together in Our apartment . His mom is very Business like . Im scared that iiL say ...

I don't understand these feelings I am having. I'm don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't know if my feeliings have faded. I need some guidance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help... I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know wha...

Question for Men ONLY!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Question for men only!!!! Did you go back to your girlfriend after pulling back from the relationship for a while?...

The guilt is killing me, how do I tell him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - hi i am 21 yrs old i had been in a relationship with abc when i was 14 that relation lasted for 5 yrs.we got physically intimate but never had sex. but at the end i broke up with him because i was not ready to commit, we continued our friendsh...

We are both married and attracted to each other. Should I be friendly with him or keep ignoring him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. Is it possible for two married people to be friendly with each other if they both know there is an attraction between them? I am experiencing this. I am attracted to a man I see regularly. I am certain he is also attracted to ...

Not sure what this grey mucus-like fluid is.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Hi gang. Me and my girlfriend were preparing to be 'intimate' with each other. I was about to start when I noticed a substance coming out of her vagina. As soon as she noticed it too she became very self concious, but after a while I managed ...

I found out my boyfriend was flirting with another girl on line!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Yesteday i found out my boyfriend has been flirting with another girl online. Saying he wanted to meet up and have sex with her, and even accepting pictures of her nude and masturbating to her over webcam. This girl then decided to email me and sent ...

He can never say anything to me face to face!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (?) - ok so the guy who left when i told him i loved him came bak almost two months ago to tell me he love me too and that what he was looking for was always right in front of his face..things have been going well but i have trust issues he knew that but ...

Is he flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, What does it mean when a man says 'I'm all the better to see you.' (with a slight smile) in response to what my simple 'How are you?' It's just that it's not a very common phrase so... And also, he was talking to me about his job and ...

I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting shady!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Today I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go out and get something to eat i wanted to go to the olive garden i had money and everything It was his day off today and I wanted to see if he wanted to do something instead of sitting around doin...

Is it midterms or is she just avoiding me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Me and this chick seemed to hit it off really well. Hung out a good few times, 4days in a row actually. However now she has big exams coming up so we can't really meet up.. and it's always me that initiates texts. I'm kinda wondering if the midterms ...

Is age difference a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm a student in my first year of university . I have never been in a relationship before because I used to focus on my study all the time. in my first day with my first class at the university I fell in love from the first sight with my teach...

Am I leaving him when he needs me the most?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He's 4 years younger than me, with us meeting when I was 22 and when he was 18. He is my first love and we had an amazing dynamic relationship. 8 months into our relationship, he started flirting...

I have a boyfriend. Is it normal to have a crush on someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - DEAR Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for one year and i truly love me him, he's like my best friend, we have the greatest relationship. I just started a new job and theres a guy there thats super cute and really nice. For some odd reason I ...

What if your girlfriend isn't the normal person that you like in general?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - what if you're girlfriend isn't the kind of a person you really like in general, the type that gets you irritated, and yet you love(atleast think so) her? ...

How to create an emotional bond with a man? (need advice from the guys, please)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - How does a woman create an emotional bond with a guy? For women, we'd want to be kind, thoughtful and generous. I hear that those things can be a turn off to a guy, so how are emotional bonds created?...

Can memories of the past make me feel something again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - So here's my story: I met my first love after 8 years. He was in town and he wanted to catch up. I've been dating someone for over a year now and we are going strong. Since i am over my 1st love...i thought it was ok to meet him. I met hi...

Am I ready to start over again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I've been seeing a friend of a coworker during the summer. We both had bad breakups last year, so I finally had someone who understood. We became close. I knew that by the end that he had to go back home interstate. So I thought that would be the ...

I don't want this guy to move on, but I miss my freedom as I'm only 16!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey, thanks for taking the time to answer this question, as much help as possible would be great. First off, I work with this guy in the same pub. We met this way, and started dating. We then soon got together. I have now been with him for 6...

My fiance dated his cousin in the past, and I think he is still in love with her. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi! I am 24 years old. My fiancee's past girlfriend is his cousin, and as she is his cousin he is still in contact with her. I think they were in a serious relationship and he has not forgotten her yet. I don't feel loved when he says he loves me. ...

I have an intense urge to wear female clothes when I'm having sex with my girlfriend, but she is fed up with this. I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I’m a 23 year old guy with a very normal life. I have been quite lucky with a number of gals I have had in my life and I’m completely straight. But I have this great urge inside to wear sexy female dresses, and this started during my college days. I ...

I want more of my boyfriend, but he says we can't fall in love. What should I do to be with him more, make him happy, and keep my mind off of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I have my first boyfriend, and I have taken the initiative to maintain this relationship. There is a 7 year age difference between us. He is charming and loving, but insists that I not fall in love with him and that he can’t do the same for me. We ...

This question is for the guys. What does it mean when a guy says "I never meant to...(e.g. hurt you).)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - What is the meaning of "I NEVER MEANT TO"? I thought I knew the meaning of the phrase, “I never meant to”...but now I realise that I don’t. This question is mainly for the MALES. Guys, what is the meaning of the sentence, “I never meant to...(e....

Stuck in between friendship and relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - hello :-) Hope you can all help me , i'm really unsure of what to do. This guy is my best friend, we met 2 years ago and in the beginning had a sexual relationship which gradually turned into non sexual and friends. This was mainly due to hi...

What does this body language mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I have a question about body language. What does it mean when a girl stands up with her legs crossed facing the opposite direction? ...

I have a boyfriend, but I kissed my long lost crush. I feel guilty now, and I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi. I am a 24 year old girl. I fell in love with a guy named Anubhav when I was in high school. Neither could I tell him nor was I able to forget him. After high school I lost all his contacts and never found him. 3 years later I went for a ...

My girlfriend's behavior is manipulative, mean and controlling and I feel helpless because my pride, respect and self-esteem is being crushed..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - i'm not sure what it is i'm doing wrong. i've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. she's 5 years older than me but personally, i've never cared about age. gradually over the years, like many relationships, you are either good or you star...

Is he a genuine guy? Or does he just want to get in my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok so their is this guy, we are best friends. Only for the last couple months. I have been very stressed out recently with school and friends, I have panic attacks and stress attacks, and he has really helped by pretty much just being there But in...

Is it wrong to date him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My sister's husbands nephew and I had a serious relationship a few months ago. (including sex) later I got to thinking about how wrong it was but everyone says it's ok. the only connection between me and him is that my sister is pregnant by his ...

I have a boyfriend, but I'm crushing on a guy at my new job! Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very ...

He doesn't trust me, I'm pregnant, and now every tiny thing turns into a fight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i'm from tennessee, i just moved to new york to be closer to my mom. i met this guy up here, we started talkin and hanging out...ended up gettin serious fast..in the mean time, not ready to settle down i was Texting other ppl also not thinkin ...

I am helping to raise a child my girlfriend conceived while we were broken up. She needs me, but I feel used, and want to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So a little history about my relationship. It's been really rocky. My girlfriend and I have never had an easy relationship. We've dealt with a lot of lies and cheating, and we've been on and off for five years. In a month that we broke...

How do I get my friend back? We were friends, then dated for 2 weeks, and then she dumped me! I desperately need some good suggestions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I need help. I have posted a few times on this issue, and I am still mentally and physically destroying myself over it. I'll summarize: We were good friends for a year and a half Ended up dating for 2 weeks (sex included) Had no issues...

I have a boyfriend, but I am falling for a guy in one of my classes! Any thoughts or suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him dearly. We have had our issues and we even broke up once (only for a few days). However, we have managed to form a pretty healthy relationship and we are in a really good place right ...

Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what ...

When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy ...

My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...

My boyfriend makes me happy and treats me well, but it feels like something is wrong. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Please help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years this month and things between us are good. I care about him a lot and I can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. I don't think I feel about hi...

My boyfriend is always busy with work! I feel like second place. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is always very busy as he runs his own business. While we have had our problems due to him practically ignoring me and backing away from promises we have worked them out. As we always try to communicate our feelings and concerns. T...

A friend kissed me, I told my girlfriend about it, but I'm still anxious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I am currently in a long distance relationship and last weekend went out with some friends. I was quite drunk and so was one of my friends and she kissed me. It took me a couple of seconds to react mainly due to my drunkeness but I pushed her away. ...

Should I ask him out? Should I tell my friends about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - So, I like this guy (big surprise) and someone told me that he likes me too. I trust this person and know they're not lying. We are both really shy. That's one reason I don't want to ask him out. Also, my friends don't like him, at all. So here ...

He asked me to move in with him, now he wants his space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to move in with him in December to help out with some family issues I was going through. We both agree that the move happened too soon, but neither of us wants me to move out. He wants more space. Either I spend the night two ...

I'm seeing my ex's brother in secret...is this the right thing to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Basically, i had been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a bit years, i had kind of rushed into it. Through the time i was going out with him i got to know his brother, my boyfriend worked a lot so sometimes it was just me and his brother in the ...

Every time I come out of a relationship, I'm never truly happy again until I find somebody else. Why can't I just get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I've not long come out of a relationship that I was very sad to lose. My most recent ex is a lovely girl who made me very happy while we were together, but I must accept that unless a time comes where distance and university are no longer obstacles ...