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Dating: Help and advice

Trying to date and maintain my friendships has become very difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - So, I'm having some friend issues. In the past my friends have said that I become this totally distant person when I'm dating someone because I only spend time with my boyfriend. This isn't entirely true. I do admit that I tend to spend more ti...

Can someone fall in love with a hooker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Do you think that someone can really fall in love with a hooker? I have been doing this profession for over a year now and I have had few clients that I liked but this time I feel that I really have fallen in love with this guy, I can't stop think...

Finding out if a girl likes you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I met this girl about 1 month ago when her and her friend came to this dudes house we were at. I thought she was really pretty but only the first meeting so no serious feeling rose. The next time we met was last Friday and we really h...

We don't have much to say online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i just got back together.We dont see each other much in the week as he lives a little while away so we mostly talk online or by text. When we used to speak online we always had loads to talk about and we'd tease each other but now ...

Why does it turn me on that he doesn't pay any attention to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - On a starting note, I'm 17, so for me, this isn't life or death, I'm merely curious. So I've been paired to work with a guy on my course, called Chris, but for some reason, I don't know what it is, he will NOT comunicate with me, he will not look me ...

Two years too old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - im 16 and the boy that i like is 18 is he too old for me? ...

I love my girlfriend, but the only thing holding me back from "taking the plunge" is her weight...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Allow me to first say, I FULLY understand the amount of unhealthy pressure and anxiety that society puts on women to look perfect. That being said, here's the low down: I'm 24, she's 22, and we have been dating for roughly 2 years now. I have alwa...

Do I just tell him it upsets me when he doesn't respond?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, and he harldy ever rpelies to my texts, I find it quite annoying, Sometimes i really need him to because i'm feeling down and need cheering up or just want to check if he is okay. How can i ask ...

He thinks I look gorgeous, I think I look like a tart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 30 wants me to wear short skirts and tight clothes. He loves that look. I have explained to him that I dont mind wearing fitted clothes in order to show off my figure but I don't want unwanted attention from men in general. He ...

She's waiting for me to ask to be her girlfriend but I'm afraid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Hello.... i have this friend of mine (girl) and she loves me and i love her back ^^ and im soooo afriad of asking her to be my GF and i really wanna just get it over whit cuz we kinda are GFs and BFs but not official ofc we arent kissing (yet) but ...

My partner verbally abuses me, ignores me and insults me....yet I feel like I'm addicted to him and cannot do without him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi My bf broke up with me for the third time a week ago and this time i thought i got over him. He called me two days back and begged me to take him back. I told him i cant do this anymore, but he was keep on insisting, i guess i agreed. But...

He seems so unenthusiastic...should I meet him again or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - So i went out on one date with Mr A. It was pretty nice...:) Actually he and i go a long way back; we were in the same school back when we were kids and now we are both working in the same city. The date was nice...but there was no spar...

I miss my ex so much that my current boyfriend can't make me happy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Ok, now i've come to a dilemma. I'm 16 years old but I consider myself mature for my age. I was with my ex for nearly five months and I loved him up until the very end when i felt smothered and ended it with him. He didn't take to this very well and ...

Does she actually love me or am I just the bodyguard??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Im going to try my best and keep this short. I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2 months and recently stopped seeing her because I knew I liked her a lot and it hurt to see her kiss another guy. but after not talking to her for 2 we...

My bf has gotten too comfortable and now ignores me. Do all guys get like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi My bf of 1 year always ignores me. We talk about all the time and he promises he would change, but never did. This time i really got fed up, so didn't call him at all for a week. Usually i'll be the one who does the calling. He relized some...

Guy I am dating talks to me but doesn't want to make plans to meet. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 6 weeks. Things seemed to start really quickly we text all day everyday and saw each other about 3-4 times a week. He always seemed to take things further, always asking to see me, saying really nice words, he even ...

How do I keep my routine-hating gf entertained?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, and we've been living together for the past eleven months. Most of the time, things are great - we have fun, joke around, support one another, and respect one another. But every once in a ...

Should I get involved with her even though she has two children and has financial problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I could really do with some relationship advice as I am unsure whether or not I am being wise in my actions or just letting my selfish attitude get in the way. Around five months ago I was asked out by a female friend of mine. She is a really ...

My mother is trying to destroy my relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Its been 3 months now since I've been dating my sister's cousin male.. but my sister and I don't have the same father but same mother..and her cousin is in her father's family. My Mum is boycotting my relationship with that guy I don't know what to ...

When we fight boyfriend says really mean things. Does he mean them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I feel so silly writing this but here goes...I've been seeing this guy for just over a year now. To be honest I've never been completely sure about him as he seems to have some issues, but I do care A LOT about him and he does make me happy, most of ...

It has been a while since I've dated, any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I haven't dated in a while, and by a while I mean almost 2 years. I've had some opportunities in that time but I get too nervous or scared because the last guy made me feel like something was wrong with me. I think I want to put myself out there...

I'm not sure what the point of a physical relationship is, is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi i really really need some advice. I am a female, Muslim, about 22 years old, virgin, never had a boyfriend and I live in Asia. I study in a college with co-education system. But i don't have male friends, because I'm from a conservative family. I ...

My boyfriend doesn't care when other guys hit on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - This guy in my biology class keeps flirting with me and wont quit. I told him to stop I have a boy friend but he doesn't care and he wont leave me alone. My boy friend saw it today at lunch because the kid tried to lay on me in line and I pushe...

I really like him, should I tell him so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, How can i get this guy to like me ?? Or how can I tell this guy I like him ?? I've liked him coming up to a year now, i have slept with him a few times and he has given me lift places and I've taken him places. Anyway the ot...

Am I pushing him away by asking about marriage every couple of months?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Just wondering what your opinions are on my current predicament. Thank you in advance for reading and advising. I'm 27, my boyfriend is 32. When we began dating 2 years ago we were clear that we didn't want to date for long as we'd...

I like the guy but I don't want to be in a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - i have been in a steady relationship for a few days now and i really don't know what to do. i do have feelings for the guy and like him and that but i dont like being in a relationship itself so what options do i have? do i go along with it and hope...

His ex didnt want him till someone else had him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - So after a horrible breakup with my boyfriend of many many years I meet this nice guy at work who also went through a bad breakup. (Long story short, his girlfriend of 4yrs whom he has a child with leaves him while he's at work to come home later on ...

My fiance always asks her exes for help, without asking me first!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 years, and we've been talking about getting married. She says I'm the man of her dreams, that she loves me, that I'm the only person who really cares about her, that I have everything she wants in a man, ...

How do I tell him that I'm starting to feel smothered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for give or take 7 months. Ok so, I moved into my own place a couple of months ago. For the past month, he has been sleeping over almost every night. Also for the past month, he has been laid off of work. I wake ...

Is it possible that he's cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hi, and thank you. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Started off amazing as most relationships do. He was so charming, complimented me and loving to me. It didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. Once we got to know e...

Do you think he will want biological children in the future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I, both 24, were talking about kids yesterday and he said that he wanted to adopt 3 kids. And he wanted one to be named after him. And I asked him if he wanted to name his biological child after him. He said his mom tells him that ...

Is this a break or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I met this guy online who pursued me for 3 months. He'd call every day, sent me flowers, sent me text messages to read in the morning explalining how beautiful he found me, etc. He asked me to become exclusive 3 times and each time I didn...

Should I still be having sex with him or am I being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 12 years and we have a daughter together, out of the blue he said he couldn't live with me anymore and moved out. We have been getting on really well and still having sex. I also know he has taken a girl muc...

I like my ex, but I am in love with my guy friend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I'm currently in love with my guy friend. We text every now and then. Sometimes every day. But sometimes, he just doesn't text me at all. We never did confessed to each other that we like one another. But i heard from his best friend that he said he ...

How do I respond to a girl who is too forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - I've been working at a supermarket for 5 months now and one of the cashiers has recently been giving me a lot of attention. It started with random talks a few months back but more recently her efforts have been kicked up a notch. It started with a ...

I'm interested in him but not sure as he is confusing?? Any thoughts please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - i know him since childhood .. he is 5 yrs elder to me and I used to call him Anna (brother) .. thtz how any girl here calls a guy who is elder to her .. anyways .. after he finished schooling and left school in my 5th grade we hardly ever met or ...

Having an open relationship while being in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I am 20 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been recently engaged and I couldn't be more happier. But, the question arose of him wanting an open relationship. At first, I was hurt by him even telling ...

He wants a girlfriend who will hang out with his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22, we've been together almost six months. He tells me that I'm all he has and his friends are not even his real "friends." I was spending the night at house the other day, hoping to be alone with him but ...

Shy boy, bbw lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - im very attracted to bbw (big beautiful women),but im also extremely shy so i need to know how i can build up the courage to actually talk to a woman or whats a good dating site for meeting bbw....

When a guy says a girl is "cool," what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Hey, Two questions, what do men mean when they use the term "cool girl?" I recently told a guy I have been seeing that I like him, his response was " I like you too, and you are a cool chick", do I take that as he likes me as a friend, or he is...

Whenever I voice a complaint to my gf, she says it's petty. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - What do you do when your partner makes you feel that everything you discuss with her is petty. Things like voicing how you feel about her dancing with other guys, how she makes me feel when she says i am talking nonsense when i am being serious ...

Relationship is spiraling down and I don't know what to do to fix it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Spiraling relationship. I want to help so bad. He keeps having these changes of mind about us and I don't know what to do. Remember: He's the outgoing one, I'm quiet. I always try to start a convo but I get speechless! And it doesn't help that he ...

I don't understand why my parents can't be happy that I've found someone like my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Due to the fact that I am still in high school, my parents disapprove of my relationship. They think it is too serious for my age and that it will keep me from doing things like going to college. Here's the thing, NOTHING will EVER keep me fro...

He blew all his chances with me -- is it right to cut him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Okay ; ijust need to know if idid the right thing. Ibeen talking to " AR " for about a year now. it may be too early, but ifell for him HARD. IConsider him my first love. Right now, he's in newJersey and I'm in Florida. Well, a couple months a...

Caught in a torrid love affair with a married woman but she refuses to walk out of her loveless, boring marriage. Why???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - Okay....please refrain from excoriating and vilifying me because I know that I'm not supposed to partake in this endeavor, but I'm a little too deep into this game. I've been seeing this married woman who is five years my senior for about three ...

He is my best friend. We've talked about finding the 'real thing' but could he be the 'real thing' for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - Are we in love, me and my best friend ? He is my best friend, I consider him the male version of me, he says the same about me being the female version of him, we know that's true and it's obvious to anyone who sees us together, always suspectin...

I'm confident in other ways but lost when it comes to girls. How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy and I've been single all my life. I've never had a girlfriend, never dated and have never really kissed anyone for that matter. Most everyone I know would say that I'm a friendly, easy to get along with, genuine kind of ...

I have a good friend who I've liked for years, how do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

15 March 2011 (M) - i have a friend who i have "liked" for years she found out for a while but i told her i "liked" another girl madison (assumed name) and i want to tell her not perticularly go out with her but she is butiful how do i tell her...

He's being extremely confusing and jealous, should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - So this is really long and complicated but I'll try to cut it as short as I can. I dated this guy in high school my junior year (I'll call him Brad) for less than 2 months, maybe a month and a half. It wasn't anything that serious, we drif...