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Dating: Help and advice

I'd really love to get some flowers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - How do you get a guy to give you flowers with out you actually straight out telling him especially if you want it to be a surprise? One of my friend heard me complaining so she went around my back and e-mailed him to buy me some flowers which I ...

He has no sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend told me he has no sex drive he's 38 is this normal ? I don't know what to do I feel like its hurting our relationship if we do have sex I have to do everything and I'm not used to this at all not that I don't mind but every once in ...

I'm going to give him his space. Is he likely to notice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - ive realised recently that i have been too insecure and clingy with the guy that ive been seeing. he always says he isnt angry at me but i know he gets exasperated. i have seen the error of my ways as it were, im going to give him his space for a ...

Worried my weight will be a turn off

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Im a 24 y/o female and recently got into a relationship with a 32 y/o guy. I really like him alot and want this to work out really bad. Problem is I'm worried that my weight will be a turn off, plus I've only ever been with one other guy and I ...

I want to make the best of the situation with his kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - So...my boyfriend has kids. Ta dah. I was made totally aware of this when we got together, and I wouldn't imagine wishing to alter that fact because I believe that what we have makes us what we are. (i.e. experiences rather than material...

Can't get what he did with her out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. Were in love and hope to spend our lives together, but there's just one thing standing in my way! Before we were an official couple, he was with another girl just on two occasions, they didn't sleep ...

Why do men in their twenties date teenagers!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - In all honesty to men between the age of 22-26. Why would you date a girl who's 18 or 19? Surely at that age you would rather be looking to date someone who you might want a long term relationship with. Is their an ulterior motive here, do ...

We're going through a rough patch -- do I keep texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend are goin though a really rough patch,and hes workin all this week so i want see him, i have already havnt seen him since tuesday and now have to wait another week. i understand hes got work and understand i want see him as he ...

Is a bad date enough to kill the crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - ladies, is it possible for a woman to have a crush on a guy for months then just stop after a bad date. i mean she was obviously sexually attracted to me before and i look the exact same now so wouldnt that thought still be there when she see's me? ...

My gf broke up with me suddenly under mysterious circumstances, leaving me a complete mess. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - Hey people, I'm Nick and I'm 25 years old. I suppose I'll sketch my situation really quick. I had been with my girlfriend for nearly two years. We lived a train ride apart from each other and saw each other during weekends and vacations. I...

How do I get my bf to give me oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have sex a few times a week which is satisfying for both of us. It was only today when we were 'getting in the mood' I realised, he has never given me oral! While i give him oral often to get him in the mood (whether i enjoy...

How do I get my parents to allow my bf and me to be alone together in my room?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (?) - I have no doubts that my boyfriend cares for me, we are both happy together and spend alot of time together, however, even being almost 17 my parents refuse to allow us to be alone or even accept the fact we are sexually active. this has res...

My friend's gf likes me and I like her, and she is losing interest in my friend. Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - in september i started college and met 3 new friends and one of them is my new best friend and he has said that he would count me as his because we hang out a lot. one of the other friends was his best friend before and me and him don't have a lot ...

How do I get over someone who is so wrong for me but whom I still miss terribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - So, the love of my life and i broke up over him just getting sick of me, promises were broken, time has passed, i went through a rough time! He went on several outings, and vacations since and I didn't. Finally 8 months later i decided to take a ...

We haven't talked all march break!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - So all march break me and my boyfriend haven't talked... I think he might break up with me.... what should i do?...

I feel like I shouldn't trust him, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Hey there,heres my situation I got a boyfriend and him and I live far from each other and hes a party person,so am I but everytime he goes out it becomes an issue for me,I stress about what hes doing,whom is he with at that party,I get jealous...

Are boys just stereotypes who only like girls for their bodies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Hey there! Okay, I'm beginning to believe stereotypes and bad notions about teenage boys. Maybe even males in general. Like most other fifteen year old girls, I have a Facebook account. I've posted about three hundred photos, but none were very ...

How would you understand this conversation between my friend and I over a guy whom I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Ok everyone Basically the other day i visited my friend last weekend with the guy i like (who also knows her). Anyway she said to me in the week, "Have you spoken to scott?" I said, "Only the beginning of the week," and she replied, "oh." ...

How do I stop over-analyzing everything and driving my bf crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I'm not very experienced with boys. The guy I'm seeing now, when we started off, really really acted as though it wasn't just a casual thing. He wanted to be my boyfriend. but then he changed his mind because he is leaving uni at the end of the year ...

Fiance wears inappropriate clothing. Is she trying to attract other guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - Girls: My Fiance, wears clothes that are not appropriate, showing her cleavage, very tight pants, lots of perfume, make-up and hairstyle everytime!!! i feel insecure, what do you think girls, is she trying to impress other guys?...

I'm 16, he's 35 and recently split from his partner. Is he coming on to me?? How should I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - So, i don't really know where to start with this question...I'll try and make it as short as i can! I'm 16, and for as long as i can remember I've had a crush on my neighbor who used to live across from me with his partner (i don't think they...

My boyfriend thinks I'm too good for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend says that I'm too good for him, and he thought this from the start. He sometimes says that he thinks that no matter what he does, I'll always deserve better. This seems like a pretty depressing point of view, and I wish he'd see how ...

Is he playing with me and his GF???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I got a crush on a guy who's in his 30 and I can't figure out whether he likes me or not..We can chat 2 hrs or more without boring each other and we really like each other company a lot..(when we first met, he told me he got an ex who cheated on ...

Should I wait for him to forget his ex and date me, or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - This guy i like tells me he likes me but can't be with me because he still loves his ex. But he said he wants to try and forget her so we can make it work. But the thing is, he never sticks to his word. Like the other day, he told me he was gonna ...

Boyfriend doesn't tell his family about me and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - hi, ive dated my boyfriend for 7 months and i ended it then because he didnt want it to turn into a relationship, he spent the next 6 months begging me to give him another chance and that he loves me and then i did, weve been n a relatiionship for 6 ...

Mistress being dragged into marriage, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - he lost his wife to ovarian cancer 4 months ago and has 2 kids,8 year old and 11 months.i have been his mistress for 2years.i have a son from a previous relationship but he lives with his dad.Problem:he wants me next to him always and wants us to ...

I don't know if I can believe that he "loves and values me" after the betrayal of cheating and the constant lies that came with it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Should I believe him when he says that he loves and respects me, and that cheating was a terrible mistake...Says he cheated b/c he was going through a phase where he was afraid of committment. Didn't want to tell me b/c he was afraid he would hurt ...

I don't know if I have these feelings simply because he is really caring or if it means something more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles : ) So... Through my best friend Sarah I met some really lovely guys because she worked with one of them, although he has since gone travelling. I met a guy Will who I quite liked and after a couple of nights out we went home...

My obsession with this guy is consuming my life!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I would like honest answers to my problem. I am worried about myself. I am currently obsessed with a guy Ive only met twice. He lives far away so we are not together. I cant get over him. He fills my thoughts permanently to the point where my work ...

Once I found out a girl likes me, I lose interest!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (M) - Ive been sorta keeping my eye out for a possible relationship with someone, and lately with some of the girls I've met I feel like they could be worth getting to know more but once I find out that they like me or they say yes to a date I don't seem ...

Should I confront him or take his sudden change in behaviour as a sign he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Sorry about the length, just want to give a bit of a background. So I met a guy at my friend's house a few months ago. We only ever saw each other at group outings and eventually started to talk outside of these group events. I wouldn't say they ...

Guys: is this because you liked the attention or are attracted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Hi quick question but guys only on this one please. Say you meet a girl out and you ask her to join you and the rest your friends that youre with when you move on to a different place (say met them in the bar but you are planning on going to another ...

Is it natural to have such a low libido at such a young age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been steady at 3rd base for about a year and eight months out of our two and a half year relationship. Early on I stated that I didn't want to have sex before marriage and he stated that he was fine with this. But now, ...

I have a nonconfrontational personality, but it makes it hard to handle conflict

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I'm a non-confrontational person by nature. Growing up my parents fought a lot with my older brother so I would do everything in my power to avoid fights. But I find now that I'm more grown up, it makes it hard to talk about conflict. This brin...

My daughter is in a relationship with my boyfriend's younger brother and since both guys live in the same house, I find it disturbing that our lives are intersecting!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - I began dating a guy a few months ago and it didn't take long to figure out that he is absolutely the love of my life. My daughter, 20 and reeling from a broken engagement, met my new love's younger brother and has began a relationship with him. I ...

He cheated, doesn't want to get married, I do, should I just leave, we have a child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 1st child got that woman pregnant. I found out on the night of his baby shower from his male cousin. It really hurts, I keep going back and fort whether to stay or to leave. Family ...

Men! Could you explain his actions please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - Looking for guidence and help. Recentlty I was having problems with this guy and we broke up about 2 weeks ago. We were arguing and fighting a lot, but we were still seeing each other and we never really stopped talking. The past week I have learned ...

I feel like such a fool for misleading this guy who's asked me out and I have no idea how to let him down without hurting his feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - OK I've really screwed up. I've been semi-flirting with one of my male friends (Ant) for a while, and he ended up asking me out for a drink the other night. I told him sure, why not - that sounds lovely. The trouble is I've just realised th...

I feel inferior to his ex and his kisses don't turn me on. I love him but is right for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I get along great. We have the same values, same goals. He is my best friend. We have a great time together and I can see us raising a family one day. The sex is great. He is everything I have ever wanted. BUT... when we kiss THE...