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Archived questions from: 21 March, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he love me, or am I being taken for a fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I know I'm gonna look like the bad person in this situation but I really could do with your guys advice, okay so I've worked with this guy for 2 and a half years we've. Been REALLY good friends since we started working together there was always ...

Should I cut my losses? He's always oggling skinny young girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my man for over a year now and we live together. He says I am beautiful but is always commenting how beautiful other women on TV are. He has even commented how beautiful his ex is. He knows this all hurts me because I have low self ...

Should I accept his invite to visit his home? he's 23 years older than me. I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - What do you think about this ?. I recently started meeting up with a much older man ( he's 23 years older than me ) . I cant exactly say that we are dating yet, as we have only met up a few times for a drink. Recently, some of his friends, who are ...

Should I keep up some level of hope for him?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Let me start off by saying that I have had feelings for this guy for around two years. It's pathetic, I know. Everyone has told me to let him go and that he's not ever going to feel the same about me. But I can't help but feel that there's some ...

My colleague tried to kiss me during an office party - now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, For the past few months I have been working with somebody on a project. He isn't my usual type and there is about a ten year age gap, (hes 40) and he is senior to me, but we started to get on really well. I enjoyed his company and will...

Should I continue to pursue a relationship with a girl who is now going back to try and work things out with the father of her child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - I been talking to this girl for the past 4 months and when I met her she just gotten out of a relationship with a guy she has a daughter with. This guy lives in another state and about a month ago he came down to see his daughter and in the process ...

Girlfriend breaks up with me after I visit her in her country...and then she is warm and affectionate for the rest of my trip! What is going on with her??

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21 March 2011 (M) - Hey everyone! This is kind of a follow up question to my previous question. If you need more information please read through that question. So just one week ago while visiting my long distance girlfriend she broke up with me. Considering I ...

Should I still ask her out even though she didn't respond to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4761 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - Hi.i met a girl in school,we liked each other but didn't actually date.many people thought we were dating bcos we were really closed. I wanted asking asking her out but felt it was not yet time.she tried 2 make me more than a frnd but i didn't give ...

Should I have told her she's fun to be with, but I have no time for relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - I've known this chick for 2 + years. I've chased after her for a while recently, our shedules just kept getting in the way. but recently, she told me she was feeling bad. I asked her what was wrong, and she tells me the guy she had been sleeping ...

Does ignoring someone you are attracted to make the attraction go away?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi guys. Just a quick question for you... Why would two people who are really attracted to each other avoid or ignore one another? And, does this mean the attraction will go away or will it get worse? Wondering what you all think!...

What does "I care for you" mean to a man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - What does "I care for you" in man language mean??? We've already said I love u. Is this another way of saying I love you? He doesn't say the "L" word a lot he says the word scares him. ...

How to sort myself out for my relationship sake

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21 March 2011 (M) - me and my fiance are having a hard time at the moment and i dont know if she wants to be with me she has already split up with me and got back with me but she says im too obsesesive with her by texting her and ringing her everyday. i think i have t...

Drama still with the baby mama..think he loves her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - There is this boy that I have been talking to since September. When we first started talking, he decided to make me his girlfriend, but because I didnt know him that well, I didn't look at what we had as a "relationship" so I was still doing me and ...

He's done so much for me but I get moody!

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i think he's mor...

What does "not serious" mean to you? No sex?

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21 March 2011 (?) - When you women are dating, and you say you "aren't serious", but the relationship has potential, what does this typically mean? That you haven't had sex yet? To me, "not serious" means sex and/or serious feelings aren't involved yet. Yes?...

I can't understand why she is happy to give handjobs and blowjobs to me all the time but is reluctant to have sex.

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21 March 2011 (M) - I have just come out of a rough relationship and an even rougher breakup. Recently, at a party, I hooked up with a girl who I have been close friends with since childhood. We didn't have sex but we did embark in other sexual acts on each other. ...

I broke up with my boyfriend for a mutual friend of ours, but I still feel guilty!

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21 March 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship which has not been working for a while and I longed to break away although I was emotionally very close to my partner. A few months ago I started having really strong feelings for one of his best friends who is also ...

He makes me feel like I'm not worth his attention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, it is a long distance thing and so quite hard to judge what is going on. When we first met he was texting me everyday around 5 times a day, he made a big effort on the first date and would text to say how ...

Boyfriend wants me return or exchange a foster child, but I would like to adopt

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21 March 2011 (?) - I fostered a three year todler, with a view to adopt, against my boyfriend's will last year. We are now engaged to be married in next few months. he is still not for the idea of the boy being around. He is an active boy, and like any other child can ...

Is he trying to play some kind of game?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - So almost 2 months ago i met this guy, he got my number and we have texted everyday since. He asked me out once, then i asked him out(didnt happen because of floods) then he asked me out and we went out and had a good time. About a week and a half ...

Girls:Would you chose attractive physical appearance over a big penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - I'm 18 , 6'3" tall, 200 pounds, athletic and i easily attract girls but i have problem that has been worrying me for a long time, i fit in the stereotype of a man with a big d**k,see i'm black,im tall, i wear a size 14 shoe and i have freakingly ...

I don't know if I'm in love with him or just obsessed?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Okay so, long story short, I'm obsessed with this guy I knew in high school. I was kind of a weird kid, but he was always nice to me. He always tried to include me in conversations and groups and stuff, and one time he even came and talked to me ...

It looks like my best friend and my crush are getting together, but he still says things that confuse me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - So im really confused i have a friend lets call liza and a guy i have a had a crush on since 3 years now lets call him bob. So liza added bob on facebook and shes a very good friend of mine. Me and bob use to always text until he gave liza his ...

How do I talk to boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - dear cupid:) im probably the stupidest girl in the world when it comes to boys. ive never had a guy like me back. ever. and its not that im not attractive to them ( see description of myself in my first question ) i just say stupid things. m...

Does he like me or should I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - i like this guy a lot.. But he has a girlfriend.. and he said he does not date black girls but he is black to he flirts with me a lot like he came up to me and started pinching me a lot and then he checks me out also and we talk just about every ...

Should I remind him of my feelings for him? Or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Okay, I have a slight problem. I have been crushing on this guy for about 9 months now. His name is James. He used to date my best friend; Allie, they dated for 8 months but then Allie dumped him. James and I still were friends after the break up ...

Was this normal or a bit weird to bring this up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about a week now and the other night we were in his car just talking about life. Suddenly he tells me he is tired of keeping his hand down on his lap to cover "it". We weren't talking about anything sexual,...

I feel like a facebook stalker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I feel like a facebook stalker. A little while back, something popped up on my newsfeed. A guy from my church who friended me a while back (in addition to quite a few other people at the same time) had posted something on his blog and he ...

He told me to leave him alone but I still want him! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hi there is this guy who i really like and the problem is that I'm in love with him and i haven't seen him in almost 2 months and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant..... ...

How do I find out if he likes me for real, or if he's just playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - recently i've been hanging out with a guy who has told me that he likes me. my best guy friend has found out about it and lately he's been making comments about it as if he's angry at me. my friends tell me that he seems hurt by it, and it may be ...

Am I the oldest person ever to not have a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I'm 27 years old, almost 28, and I've never had a serious relationship!! I dated a guy for almost a year, 2 yrs ago, but that is the longest and most legit "relationship" I've ever had, but it wasn't serious. I'm cute, smart, and funny, I'm n...

Torn between two guys.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - i have feelings for a close guy friend of mine. the thing is, i don't think he has any idea. it feels like he's always playing games with me, ignoring me one minute and then telling me his deepest secrets the next. whenever we hang out alone he's ...

I want a relationship, he is anti relationships, how can I change his mind?

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21 March 2011 (F) - i just met someone who i think is cute, he doesn't believe in relationships and has sex a lot and is interested in me. how do i make him love me?...

Should I flirt back or get out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hey :) All Answers are appreciated. Well im 14 and i have decided that i want to wait till i am atleast 16 to have a proper relotionship as i want to be free while i still can. But lately things have been hard for me and alot of bad ...

Do guys worry as much as I am worried about this argument?

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21 March 2011 (F) - I'm seventeen and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we had a small argument last night and he is now avoiding/ignoring me. It's all I think about and I can't help think that it's my fault and that if I hadnt said anything ever...

Is he insecure? Should we continue our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Im 18 year college student and I've been dating a 22 year old college student for 4 months. A lot of guys ask me out because they're sexually attracted to me which causes our relationship to stumble. Im 5'3 122 pounds and he's 5'10 240 pounds a...

Should I wait for X? Or go for Z?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - i am a 21 years old pakistani muslim girl i am in relationship with a guy X in my university for 3 years.. our relation has been really tough since the first day v are really different people with different choices n opinion n dont seem to get ...

I care very much but she doesn't want a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (M) - Hello I'm having a confusing situation right now with a female friend we cuddle when she drinks and the other night we had sex and I care about her a lot she's very close to me I care about like I've never cared about someone it doesn't feel like a ...

Should I tell him that I am head over heels for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - i really like my guy friend who i had met about 8 months ago. hes everything i want in a guy, even though hes naturally a flirt. i always catch him staring at me and he always punches me and doesnt stupid little things. he trusts me enough to tell ...