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Dating: Help and advice

My boy friend has Alcohol cravings. Can anyone give me any tips on dealing with this and the meds given to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has finally gone to the doctors on his own accord to try to suppress his alcohol cravings. Once he starts he cant stop. Its not all the time but its definately more frequent these days and he definately needs help. I can't push hi...

What am I doing wrong? Guys ignore me. Would going blonde help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. It may sound annoying to some of you because there are bigger problems but I have a bunch of friends and I wouldn't say that I'm ugly but I'm not going to say I'm drop dead gorgeous either. I'm about 5'3" and...

He broke up with me, so I deleted him from Facebook. Now he's upset with me! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I've written about a million messages on here for help and now something else had added to the story.. So to sum it up, everything was cool with a guy I was seeing, really well actually, to a point where he wanted me to open up to him about my feeli...

How can I trust my girlfriend? I'm convinced she's hiding something from me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help me. I'm a 21 year old girl and have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 years. Recently, she has become friends with a guy at work who she told me has sent her texts saying he wants to sleep with her, keeps askin...

I don't want to be a relationship/home wrecker. But what can I do if I can't stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I was really into this guy two years ago. I got over him last year and a couple of days ago I saw him again and we hung out. He was really flirting with me so I flirted back. He is with someone and their relationship is on the rocks. I knew my boun...

Does he really care? Am I being too insecure? His actions say he cares.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - This guy fell for me really hard, actually we fell for each other. But he found me. From day one I knew he wanted to be with me. It took me a little longer. I wasn't ready for a relationship because of what I had been through and certain circumst...

How can I break free? I know I will not get stronger unless he is not in my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I've let my relationship consume me. I let him abuse me for two years now, and now that I've distanced myself from, he's decided to start changing. I know he can't change over night, and I'm starting to get back to my old self. I broke up with him...

I'm in love with a married woman, and it is interfering with my life! How do I rid myself of these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I am a guy who has fallen in love with a married woman. I’ve known her since 2003 when I started working at the same organisation as her. I’ll call her Michelle (not her real name). In the beginning I had no interest in her at all. I was in a ...

Is it normal for a man to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"? I would think its okay but I guess I just wanted to question it just to make sure I feel okay about him not wanting to spend time today.Well ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to ...

We've been dating for a couple months, but he won't tell anybody he is seeing me, or call me his girlfriend. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm wondering if anyone can offer advice on the following problem I'm currently experiencing. I've been seeing a guy now for a couple of months and it's only within the last few days we have been intimate. He arranged for us to spend our ...

Is this childish banter or chemistry? Are they one and the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - By asking this question I must already have guessed my ending answer, but want to clarify some things if I can do... I work with a large group of people and have done so for around a year, the majority of them have been there for two years. I g...

My boyfriend and I have been offered to join another couple for a foursome. I want to do it, but I don't want to ruin my relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - One of my biggest fantasies is a foursome and recently some friends of my fiances saw my photo on his phone and basically asked straight out if we would consider doing a foursome as they love those kinds of things. The moment he came home he told me ...

My husband drinks, lies, and hides things from me. Should I stay? And is there hope that he will change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My husband is a big drinker that hides his alcohol and drinks in private. He started lying to me a lot as soon as things were not so good between us. He hid things from me-even a phone call he got from his friend-simple things basically too. He ...

I just had a date with an old friend that I've had a crush on! Is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I had a crush on an old friend of mine. After many years, he recently wanted to 'hang out' as he ended up working in the same city as me...so we went out for coffee yesterday. It was like the date with a guy that I'd always wanted to have...finall...

I'm trying to be more old-fashioned, so that he will be more interested. How do I get through this experiment without going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our early/mid 30's and have been together several months. I could easily fall in love and being around him just makes me happy, but he is less into me. We both see dating as being about searching for a marriage partner, ...

He lied to me about going out with friends, and now I feel like he wanted to get rid of me. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been a couple for almost 2 yrs. We love each other very much and we trust each other and we're getting married. Thing is, we went out last night and he told me he needs to be home earlier than usual because he's tired. Plus...

I need opinions, on the letter I'm about to send her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Hey there Dear Cupid I have a question on Romance, I'm young and naive when it comes to this so bare with me. As of three months ago my ex and I were forced to split up by her parents. We have known each other and been best friends for 7 years now,...

Is he just comfortable and oblivious, or something worse..?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - We've been together about 6 months. We had a real fairy tale, firey start! Over time I've noticed he doesn't hang on me like he used to (and I crave that), he doesn't return texts as much, he never even actually said happy birthday to me (w/no good ...

What's the deal with his friend who thinks I'm ugly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend has this friend. Let's call him Joe. So Joe keeps telling my bf that I am ugly. Now Joe has only seen me in person once. He also does not have a girlfriend, just a bunch of different girls that he calls up for sex. Joe constantly...

I miss my home, I miss my mum, I miss being in the countryside, but there are commitments that I have to fulfill in London....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi i just dont know what to do! I'm a 21 year old girl from the countryside in a small town, i live with my mum as my dad died when i was 4 and i have no brothers or sisters so me and my mum are very close. i grew up there until i left home to go to...

He says I'm crazy and insecure and I need help yet he is the one who cant get over his ex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start.:( My boyfriend has this ex who he can't let go of. She has been a big problem in our life. She lives far from us but that doesnt seem to matter. When I found out I was pregant he promised me he was done talking ...

I told him I loved him and he said he loves spending time with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Please take the time to read I would really appreciate ANY advice... I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who does a lot for me and I've fallen in love with him. We've been together 5 months, get on great and have a good physical connect...

Why do I miss someone who I was allowing to tear my life to bits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - okay so i broke away from a girl a couple months ago who was a liar, entitled, promiscuous and bloody selfish. finally my life is getting back to normal. but then....why do i still miss her??? i mean, i know in my mind that i am conjuring up an ...

Is he shy or has he lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - has he lost intresed in me or is he shy ? the man i really like we still look at one another an he comes over an will hug me but its one of theses do not touch each other body . just a hug around my the middle of my back an i do him the same way...

He gave me hopes of a future together and a lot of love...and now its all zilch. Have I been played?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Long story short. I met this guy last year in an airport, we connected and didn't see eachother for 8 months but from time to time facebooked. Then in January he found out I was visiting his home town for a friends birthday and suggested he take ...

I'm feel like I'm in over my head already!

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3 March 2011 (F) - I met this person not even a week ago through a friend. we were on a night out and to be honest, i hardly spent any time with him until the night was over and we went back to the mutual friends place although he was the first person to speak to me ...

I wasted my chance of happiness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I used to date this girl a year ago. I knew she was special from the start but i didnt take her seriously. So ended up not talking to each other for a year. Little did i know that she was actually really in love with me when we were dating and even ...

I caught my boyfriend looking at bikini clad women's pics and viewing porn!! Its driving me mad! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - i woke up to find my boyfirend looking and loads of girls facebooks looking at nothing but their picture, expecially ones in bikins etc, he then denied it and said ment nothing, after he admited it he seemed really upset and sorry for what he had ...

When is the right time to stop flirting with her and finally ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I recently joined a club at uni and got to know the committee members. All of them are very friendly and very nice. I didn't have any problems talking to all of them and being my usual self by laughing and teasing them. I felt very confident and ...

Am I being too sensitive over my bf's habit of revealing too much in casual conversations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy a couple of months ago. I have never married, he's divorced with 3 kids. We get along really well in most respects. My problem is he when he chats to me or my family or meets my friends, the story he is telling often involves (in ...

I am torn between my bf and my parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi.i have recently told my parents my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend and asked for their permission to marry. i am really attached to my family and him also. At no point of time in my life have they made some mistake in my upbringing. They ...

My bf says I'm the "one" but acts uninterested in me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and I love him more then ever but I'm confused. He tells me that I am the "one" always and that I'm different from all his ex's because there something special about me. Both his parents also tell ...

Does he really really like me or am I just another girl to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I have liked this guy this year. His class is next to mine and we are friends. He is a really friendly guy and talks to everyone. He is more close to girls than guys, but he is not a player type. He also has this habit of staring into to peop...

Now he's blocked me and it looks like it's all over. First I dated his friend then him. How can I resolve this. Heartbroken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I am totally confused and have never had to deal with anything like this. The story is sort of long but let me break it down for you. I met X, a younger guy, through a friend. I was going through a break up and while X was never someone I wo...

He's irresistable. He's girl crazy. How can I make him fall for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - there is this one guy in my university, who is so hot, sexy and so nice at heart who is two years older to me. he is irresistible for every girl. he is a real boy friend material, he is really too sweet with me. but the problem i have is he is gi...

Should I just cut my losses? He makes so little time for me. How can I get him off the computer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is increasingly emotionally distant. I am one that needs bonding time, and he is a robot. He prefers to spend his time with video games and other electronics, rather than with me.I have told him countless times that this ...

My parents are concerned but he's a great boyfriend. But I am worried I will get to resent him for being away so long. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I'm dating a Marine who is 21 and I'm 22. We've been dating "officially" for about 9 months now but we liked each other throughout high school. He deployed last October for 7 months and will go on his next deployment later this year . It'll be anoth...

I saw many signs to make a relationship. So why did she say no to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - i didn't fall in love but i like somebody. there are some girls and i like them. recently i talked with one of them to make a relationship. she quickly answered NO. many times i made eye contact and there was many signs to impress her and she knew...

I'm 33, never dated. and my social skills are poor. Is there any hope I will ever get a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - I am 33 years old and have no real social skills and have never been on a date. I had really bad OCD when I was a kid and couldn't talk to people without repeating myself so I just stayed alone. I've been on medication since I was 13 for depression, ...

Is time all I need? How will I ever be sure how I feel about her? I keep doubting my own feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - It's been just about 2 months since my ex and I broke up, and I've been feeling quite better. I've been noticing, however, that I've been focusing more inward, as of late. I feel as if each day goes by, i focus more and more on myself and look furt...

He calls me mean names, says I do not love him. What should I do about my married lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a married guy. He has been married for six years and we have been having an affair for five years. He has two children with his wife. but he says that he loves me a lot. i also love him a lot.. i need him. i really need him and ...

Are we in an emotional relationship or a physical relationship? I am confused. And she is upset with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Let me give you a little background. I started dating this girl around 3 months back and I'm of Indian ethnicity and she is also of Indian ethnicity. We both hold some traditional views about sex before marriage -- that it shouldn't be done before ...

He only wants to be friends. He's angry with me. What is the best advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I hurt Him - in a talk, he got angry..he thinks we better stay as just friends now He thought l am not mature enough for a relationship, that it will not work out So even though it is hard but he only wants to be 'just friends' now He doesn't want...

I feel like we're Romeo and Juliet. How can we prove to each other's worlds that we really do love each other and want to find happiness together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I met this really sweet wonderful guy who is alot older than me. We met about two months before my dad passed away and he was absolutely wonderful and supportive. My mom liked him. His daughter liked me. We had some really bad events occur in the r...

Should I just keep going along with it or should I just end it all and stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - So there's this guy a grade above me, and I'm pretty sure he's the one I'm meant for. Okay so maybe not forever, but at least for the rest of my years in high school. Anyway, ever since I moved to my current city (four years ago) I've been totally ...

How can I move on from my ex?

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3 March 2011 (F) - My ex and I dated for a year, we're both 15, and we broke up 2 months ago. He was the first guy I dated for a long time, and we had sex a couple times. I miss him. I'm not sure if it's that i miss him so much as i miss having someone there for me ...

My boyfriend accessed my facebook account behind my back...and I am mad at him! How do I approach him about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - oh man, okay. so i've been with my boyfriend for a bit above a year now, and i thought i could trust him more than anything. when i logged into my facebook today it said my account had been accessed by someone in the exact same location as where he...

Is it fair for me to date other girls, knowing full well that whatever feelings I have for them, can never match up to what I felt for the girl I truly love(d)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I'd really appriciate the benifit of everyone's oppinions and experiances on this :) Appologies for the length. The problem started when I developed an unrequited love for a girl across the best part of three years and things didn'...