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Dating: Help and advice

Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging ...

I have no friends and I'm clingy to anyone that wants to be my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hi people I've got a really big problem. I had a tough childhood and went to nine schools as a child it made me finding friends a real problem and as a result I'm so shy and don't have any friends I'm now twenty six and have two children my kids dad ...

What is he looking for? How can I make him see that I'm girlfriend material?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Heya About a year ago i met this guy through mutual friends and we instantly clicked and had a lot of chemistry and whenever we saw each other on a night out we would get with each other (not sleep with him) anyway then i found out he had a girlfr...

Only 5 days left to ask work colleague out but I'm shy!! Please help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have just recently found myself attracted to a colleague I have worked with for around 2 years, a few weeks after realising this we were told he has been given a really short amount of notice to leave, I have battled with the idea of tell...

He might like me but he might be shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Ok peeps, need lots of advice hear ive liked this guy for well ages infact since middle of last year, slept with him a few times but have never had th courege to say anything to him, Anyway we went away for the day to visit a friend, who know...

Called too soon or is she testing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so here is the situation. 4 weeks ago i started to take this course in school and there is this sweet and cute girl i like. We always sit together since the second week of class (we have 1 class per week so only see her once a week). She caught ...

How do you play hard to get by text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - How do you play hard to get when texting a guy? I know most people don't like the idea of the 'play hard to get' game. So please, if you're one of them, this question isn't for you. ...

I hate staying at my boyfriend's house.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend keep arguing lately. He lives away at uni in a house with a couple of his male friends. I've been to stay there a couple of times and I really disliked it. His mates always seem to be getting drunk and my boyfriend makes us sit ...

Excluded from my man's social life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hi there everyone! I have been with my partner for a year now. I am 28 and he is 23 ( a ickle age gap!!). He came back from afghan back end of 2009 (before I had met him). He has now quit the army and has come back to live at his parents house wh...

Why am I a bad person because I use prostitutes?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Dear All, I am going to ask few questions which might offend some of you if they do please pardon me and try understanding my query. I have few basic questions about life which I want you to answer but before that let me give you some insight abo...

Girls are flirting with my very good looking boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is quite good looking and we've been together for 6 months now but on and off before, and basically quite a few of the 'slaggy' girls in my year seem to flirt with him and say he looks good looking and everything in front of me and i ...

We want to stay friends but seeing her with someone else is just to hard!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, please help if you can. I met a girl in the first week of my final year of university, the first week of her first year. We had a wonderful relationship and seemed to be really happy together throughout. In the final weeks of the rel...

He hasn't texted for two days and I'm worrying. Am I being stupid?

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13 March 2011 (F) - Hey, emm I've mentioned in a previous question about this guy I like, that I thought was gay. Well he's not! haha. Emm were hanging out alot and thats all kool. But, he hasnt txt me in like 2 days. I know, I have to be patient, cant be pushy! I'm ...

Am I frigid because I don't want a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I am 15, and im going out with this boy, we have been going out for about 3 weeks now. Thing is though i really dont want a serious relationship and i dont want my parents to know and i dont want to have him over and me go over there, i just want to ...

Is writing an anonymous love letter a good way to test the waters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Is writing an anonymous love note a good way to approach my crush who is one year younger than I am? We stay really close everyday since we study in the same school. I can't live like I'm not going to die someday so I thought this idea was fun and ...

If there's no one else in his life, then why did he push me away??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Why did my boyfriend do that? did he really love me? ? I was with my ex boyfriend for 5months, we were so in love and everyone thought. We were the cutesy couple. I believed him when he told me he loved me, but I was so paranoid in our relat...

I was cheated upon and although we're trying to make it work again, I cant get over it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Hi all, About two years ago I seperated with my wife of hour years because I wasn't happy in the relationship. There was no big drama, we had just got together far too young and hadn't matured before marriage. A few months later I met a girl an...

I'm pregnant and my baby's father texted me saying that "" I've had a break down , I can't do this you're on your own". What do I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hello , I am confused and really unsure what to do or what is going onright now . I am 18 weeks pregnant at 40 the father is 35 and we hv been together for 3.5 years . This pregnancy was a HUGE surprise. I was on the depo shot and never missed. T...

The lady who I'm having an affair with is not willing to walk out of her marriage. Where does that leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Got issues with the most beautiful lady in this world. Where do I start? I was married for 20 years and had allotted of problem with my former wife for about 10 years. So I left .Any way, I Have known this lady whom I am now in love with for 28 y...

Is he my best friend or my man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I have a real dilemma with a man I love. Some years ago we became very close friends, I had strong feelings for him but kept it to myself as I valued our friendship so much. This all came to a head after I moved in with him with my young daughter...

My boyfriend leapt away from me like a scalded cat at the very mention of sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been unable to have sex as I have been finding it really painful. The last time we had sex was 18 months ago. I found out that a medical condition was causing it which is now cured. We have been satisfying each other in ...

My boyfriend values me at the same level as his gym!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Iv been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We always go through phases where we fall out at least once a day. I know its partly my fault but I genuinely can't see how. I hate it when we fall out and so does he but it never seems to stop ...

Do I ask my spanish guy if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hi I need some advise about a spanish guy I met overseas. I stayed at a hotel and I flirted with the waiter. There was alot of eye contact between us and we smiled at each other. I have since returned from my holiday and I decided to add him...

Boyfriend doesn't know if he wants me as a girlfriend or a best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I and my boyfriend had been best friends for one and half years, then we started dating. It has been around one and half years since we started going out as a couple. Now my boyfriend says that he is not sure if he wants me in his life as a ...

How do I prove to him I'm worth it again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - My ex has been texting me for a week and it would only be late at night around 11:00pm and he would send me things like text back you douche and i would text back answering his text and he wouldn't text back to me but then on saturday he didn't text ...

Iv fallen for my ex's twin!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Ok, about a year ago I started dating this girl, which was fun, except that her twin sister (non identical) hated every fibre of my being for it. The relationship only lasted about 3 months and soon after, my ex hated my guts but her sister and I ...

My mind runs wild when my girlfriend is out with her friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - hi i am currently having trouble trusting my girlfriend of over a year.it has been 5 years since i was in a relationship and that last one she just up and left no reason.i love my girlfriend more than anyopne before but i have trouble whenever she ...

I don't want to compete for Max only to lose, and be an even bigger idiot than I feel now. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Alright well i'm 18 years old and at University, and I really like this guy, lets call him max. I kept getting all the vibes that he liked me back, and so i was flirty and chatty around him to try to encourage him asking me out. But then the other ...

I can't get this guy alone because of his overprotective friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - O.K so There's a guy in my college whom i really like but i m doubtfull if he likes me. I m not at all goodlooking i get nervous talking to him . He is really a good frnd of mine and i dnt want to spoil it .we are in the same group and often ...

This guy says he likes me but always criticizes me for being clingy. Should I move on or work on not being clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - This guy says he likes me but is kind of a jerk. He says I'm clingy and i freak him out sometimes ....but he still wants to be with me. I have no clue what to do... should I work on not being clingy or should i move on ?...

Are these signs that he is interested in me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - so i've posted other Q's on here about a guy I have a thing for, but i'm not sure how he feels about me. one day he cant stop starring at me, messes up words when i come into the room, looks at me instead of who he's talking to, is playfighting ...

Whenever we have a fight, he breaks up with me, and then comes back after I contact him. How do I stop this cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Well I have been dating this guy for about a month. I have never met a guy who shares the same interests as me, and for the most part we get along. As soon as there is a fight he breaks up with me, and tells me he doesn't want to be with me and so ...

There's someone else, how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I've kind of been seeing this boy(let's call him boy A) and people say he likes me alot. But I do not have feelings for him anymore. We use to be head over heals for eachother but I've meet this boy (boy B) and he told my bestfriend he was going to ...

She says she loves me, but I feel taken for granted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - First off I'm In high school. Been in a relationship for well over a year my girlfriend tells me she tells me (only on the phone) how she wants to marry and have my kids! Well I want to marry her too but idk there's a "but". Let's just say I'm the ...

I feel used. why do people fake love for you just to make love to you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - hi why do people make like they're into you but they really aren't secretly because all they really want from you is use you for sex while they sneak behind your back to find a bf or gf then they dump you and don't feel bad, wrong or guilty for ...

Has this new guy made her totally forget me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - For three years my ex jumped through hoops to be with me and we finally dated for a year. We connected on a deeeeep level but have broken up unexpected. We r young and had slme differences. I opted to nreak contact as she start dating a new guy ...

I've spent the last 5 years being single with the occasional encounter now and again with men who seem to like me initially but when it comes to bedroom antics, it goes horribly wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I met this lovely guy who is lives with my good friend. I got the feeling he liked me and he told me when my friend's back was turned that he clicked with me and that I must come to a party that was being held at their house. Last night I g...

My new date is fabulous, but has an excessive dope smoking problem. Please help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Hello All, Please can you advise me on the following. I have recently met a new guy. He has alot going for him. He;s kind, thoughtful, generous, attentive, and can offer me the stabiltiy I am looking for. We have been on four dates, and all is going ...

I'm like a jealous and insecure mess and I hate it yet it wont go away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I have issues!!!! Im incredibly insecure and I wish I wasnt...I dont know what to do! Thing is I know they are based on my weight, im not a skinny girl but im not exactly obese either but nontheless im overweight, but my bf likes girls with meat ...

Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - I don't see this girl I like very much, but when we do see each other; she talks to me, we have the same ideas, and she seems like she really trusts me as a friend. I haven't really made my move yet. She recently turned down somebody else because ...

Will she ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend said to me she wasn't used to being treated this good. She would tell me that she didn't deserve a guy like me. So i made her dinner and took her to a movie and she broke up with me. she is now dating some guy who is the total ...

Safe with birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Im currently on Birth control have been for 5 years none of my previous boyfriends (2) ever cam inside of me.. my boyfriend now wants to. Not all the time but just every once and a while.. im not sure if i should let him iv never done that b4 ...

Why do I feel scared and nervous with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago and i kind of got the feeling that he liked me and i liked him back. So we would text and get to know eachother but flirt sometimes. But the thing was he wouldnt make a move and i wouldnt either i was too shy. But ...

I don't know what to make of these mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (?) - This guy I'm dating is sending me mixed signals. Everytime we do more than kiss (fooling around but not too much) he runs and doesn't talk to me for a few days. And he always thinks we are moving too fast-even though he always initiates it. and when ...

I've fallen for him, the situation is complicated, and he wants someone younger

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Hi , have a big problem that is totally ruling my life at the moment . I have been seeing a polish guy who is 32 for the last 10 months, It started out as sex, we have become good friends, but i also have fallen in love with him. He knows this is ...