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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend scares me when he drinks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, and everything is wonderful. We are both very social and every weekend we used to clubbing and drink with his friend etc. However, in the past 2-3 months when we went out he would drink the same amount and ...

He always says "don't trip" and I don't understand...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I just started dating this guy and we have been hitting it off well. He seems to know when to be serious and knows when enough is enough. But at times he seems to act weird. Whenever I disagree with something or let him know that I won't be arou...

I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationsh...

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to ...

Can't tell if he likes me or he's just messing around. Should I push it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hello, so i kind of like this boy at school, but i didnt used to, i only like him now because of how nice i realised he is, but he can be quite complicated. He always texts me we talk about everything! I won't admit to anyone that i like him only to ...

How do I flirt in a pool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) - Hi, in desperate need of help! Alright, tomorrow I am going to Nottingham with our badminton team and this boy I have a crush on is going also (we are managers of the younger years) and basically, we've been given the green-light to stay up to whate...

GF has mood swings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Okay well im 18 and me and my last gf dated 2 years and my current gf and me have been dating around 2 years...so its not my first rodeo....but to my question..my gf and me are generally very happy with each other but lately there are days were she ...

We hardly have sex anymore. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never ...

She doesn't love me. Should I let go of the friendship? This hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - i am not sure shall i disconnect from a really good female friend of mine. We only started to know each other about a year ago even though we have been at the same school for 5 years already. Our relationship is between love and friendship since...

How do I know if we're just friends or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - How do you know if you are really good friends with a guy or if he wants something more? I have this guy friend who I kind of like, and we joke around and flirt a lot, and are really touchy, but I'm not sure if he's interested that way or not,...

I still love him and can't be just friends. Did I say the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing? My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is wh...

He's changed. I feel like I should take him back, but my feelings have changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am currently very confused and would like your advice.. My ex of five years which was a ROCKY relationship has come back into my life, he left wanted a break and to make a long story short he has come back being a new sweet self... Even tho...

Does he still care for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he is the one for me, you may all think I'm being ridiculous because I'm only 15, but I've been through a lot and I know what I want. He is absolutely lovely and I love him to pieces and I ...

He was once married and never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neith...

My family won't allow me to date, so how can I stop thinking about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey I'm really very confused because...some boys love me...and I cannot say yes to them because I am scared of my family and teachers too..so in this situation what should I do now????? Because my family and the teachers won't allow me to do ...

Is sex with a 'player' a good idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey I'll get right to the problem and i need answers asap! please :( The guy i had a crush on started talking to me about a month ago. He said he thought i was cute and a type of girl he would date. So he asked me to come over to his plac...

It's time we had sex. Tips please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) - I have been in my first relationship now for 3 months. So i am a rookie. What i want to know is when should i suggest having sex with my gf. she isn't a virgin, and i am. we haven't done anything like orals/handjobs, but do we need to do that before ...

I'm in a relationship but I love someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?...

Anyone ever have a friend that eventually fell for you? Does it ever happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Suppose you have been friends with someone for a long time (eg,months or years) and the person sees you as a friend but has never had romantic feelings for you. If you've been friends for a long time but this person doesn't have feelings for you...

My cousin and I like the same girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello, well I've been good friends with this girl for 3 years now and now i suddenly like her... Here's the problem.. Well, my cousin failed and is now in my class... He always hangs around her and i don't have any time at all to talk to her. Help ...

Afraid to tell him how I feel because I don't want to lose the friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i have feelings for my close guy friend and i need them to stop. he has no idea how i feel, but we both have had conversations about relationships with friends and how it's too risky and how it could ruin a friendship if the relationship ends badly. ...

BF is moving to a flat with three social guys. Do you think he will be tempted to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I am a 20 year old girl who has been going out with her bf for just over 6 months. We have both said that we love each other and recently, he has mentioned that he has thought about us living together. He also said that he never said it ...

I want to change her opinions about me and I want her to fall for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - i know this girl for 3 years...we were kinda friends and now i am totally in love with her. She is always nice to ppl, very sociable and good to talk to. She is beautiful and very smart. the problem is that i have been into her for like 6 month...

He is not ready to commit to me because he is 'not the man he needs to be' - what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man going on two years now ... and I recently suggested that we take our relationship more serious level and commit to one another .... he told me he's not ready because he is not the man he needs to be right now .... what ...

He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?...

Mixed signals from suitor after one date, what is the best way to move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - So I met this guy online and we agreed to meet up. After a lot of hesitation of whether he was feeling energetic enough to come out, we finally met up, things went well, it was a short meeting over coffee. We then went back to mine and messed ...

What top should I wear with this skirt? I want to surprise my partner.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have a gray skirt, with a dark blue stripe right at the bottom. It's pretty elegant and I need ideas on what blouse / top to pair it with. The stripe makes it difficult, I think. I'll wear it in an elegant context, maybe you can give me some ideas ...

I'm bi, do I have any chance with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm girl and I'm bi. I'm in love with this girl, who is my normal friend (she only comes to talk to me in break time and we're not in the same class. ) she is straight and doesn't know I'm bi. she is kinda friendly, she always holds girl's hand and...

Confused and a little lost on the whole situation.......I don't know what I can do anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Before I begin I would just like to apologize for how long this is. I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of N...

I don't feel attraction for anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Basically my problem is that I don't feel attraction for anyone. I've dated quite a few men but when I considered having sex or doing anything intimate with them I felt really turned off, repulsed even. I assumed it was because I hadn't met the ...

Why is he blowing me off now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - ok Ive known this guy for almost (dylan) 4 yrs i dated his bf and he treated me like shit he controlled my whole life,and dylan would always be there when i needed some one. He was my best guy friend, well 1 night he kisses me then the next day i go ...

Should I be jealous if my girl sits in my friends lap (innocently)?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Hello Everyone. I have been dating this girl for about a year and a half and so far we haven't really fought over anything major, at least rarely. Recently, after saying I would stop being jealous over stupid stuff, might have been a bad idea, she ...

Should I continue dating this guy ? (one red flag)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy from an online site sunday for a drink...it went well..the bar was dark so apart of me was thinking maybe we wont even know if we are truly attracted you know? He seems like a very genuine guy (but i am still cautious from past ...

Time for this virgin to get her sexy on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 24-year-old virgin and I've just now got my first boyfriend. Got your attention yet? Good. Anyhow, he knows I'm a virgin, and so he's been a really patient guy and letting me take it slow. We've fooled around, sure, but he always stops himself ...

First Date & A mysterious Call

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So today I went on a really good *first* date with this guy I met recently. While walking together,around 10 PM, someone called him ..he said sorry to me then responded with "I cant talk now" (i dont remember what else he said but it was short),he ...

Please tell me should I send him to hell already?

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31 March 2011 (F) - Me and this guy who is in the USAF are been going back and forth for quite some time now. He's leaving next week for a month and his Bday is this weekend. I wanted to call him, but seems he doesn't want to talk to me since I want him to give me his ...

I don't want him back..I just need to know why he changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Help, I just got out of a 2 year relationship because my ex didn't know what he wants. I agreed to the break up because even though I let him go, he took advantge of it. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but after 1 week that we were apart, he called ...

First time kiss...when should I give it to her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - I started dating the girl of my dreams a week ago, and I haven't kissed her yet and I don't know when to. Should I wait or should I do it soon? And I think I love her, should I wait for that too?...

How can I get more attracted to my BF? Or ...find another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I don't find my boyfriend really attractive, I said I would go out with him, because he is the only guy that has EVER shown any interest in me... I have tried everything to become more attracted to my bf because he really loves me! But I don't re...

Simple Attraction VS "I really like you"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - How do you know when a guy really likes you? I know he's attracted to me, but I mean attraction can only go so far, you know? When does it cross the line between just trying to get some, and actually liking someone, in your opinion? Is ther...

How do I explain to my parents that even though I am with a man, I still am bi-sexual ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and I am Bi-Sexual. Ive been bi since I was 13. It was rele easy to tell my mother and after telling her I have always told ppl the truth about myself. Though my sexuality was confusing to myself. I was bi ...

That last time I saw my BF, we had sex but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid.my scorpio boyfriend has totally changed.He was the sweetest boy ever and he made me believe he was in love with.we were havin a distance relationship and we only seen twice. And then he came back from the states recently I was s...

How do I flirt with my shy boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and we talk a lot online. I really like this guy, and love talking to him, but I find we almost never talk like a couple--we keep the romantic aspect of things very limited. I know he likes me, and I have tried...

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a cou...

Girlfriend doesn't want me to go on holiday...but I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hi, Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes... Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave he...

Information on how to make a Russian girl happy on a date

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I know it's silly to ask, nationalities aside, people are people. Saying that, I do need some advice regarding a certain wonderful woman that I have met that happens to be Russian: I want to know what NOT to do and what I SHOULD, how to make her ...

What do you think of this situation with a boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have a huge crush on a boy in the year above me. we went on the ski trip together, and before that we didnt know each other apart from names etc. on the trip we got to know each other and had a real laugh. i spent most of my time in his room with ...

LDR or the guy who's nearer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - So I have been going out with this guy for a month now. He lives on the other side of the country, and he is 2 years younger than me Lets call him D (also i have never meet him in person).Then theres M is a year older than me but same grade and he ...

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...