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Dating: Help and advice

Help. He's texting his ex. I don't want to lose what we have

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Please help. my boy friend and I have explosive arguements when he tells me he doesn't want me and wants to find someone else. He really makes me feel useless. we usually make up in the end. we've been together two years and i've found that when...

I met a great guy, and he took me out for a date, but he seems distant now. Where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at an inter-uni society thing and instantly liked him. This was 7 months ago. We flirted a lot and at the first social we kissed, nothing dramatic, just a peck, but still. Nothing was mentioned after that, we both were pretty drunk so I ...

My baby's dad walked out on me, my friends have their own life, and I feel there is no hope for me to ever be in a relationship again....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I am a single mum. My baby's dad walked out when she was only 19 weeks old due to me finding out he had been cheating on me, for how long I have no idea but I was crushed. I have been single for almost a year now. I know I am not the first female...

I'm 38 and I still feel immature...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I really need some help: I am 38 years old, and I am still so immature and hurt, and I don't know how I can appeal a decent man. After a lifetime of running after bad guys, in the last years I completely reformed and spent a long time into my own...

I'm interested in this man...should I send him a casual text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy for the first time on new years eve (so about eight weeks ago) through mutual friends (we all went out together that night) and we got on really well - he told me lots about himself and asked me about myself, then as the nigh...

I'm being as understanding as I can but what actions by me will help ensure her will come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend and i met almost 4 yrs ago. Both just out of a relationships. I had a year to recouperate from my ex wife leaving and cheating on me. She left her ex and came straight to my apartment the same day because she had nowhere else to ...

Friends vs. Relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Have you ever been in a situation where you want to be with someone, but another person isn't happy about it, and therefore is standing in your way? Perhaps you've liked a sibling's friend, or a friend's relative, or someone your friend likes as ...

My Gf really likes him. I may be the girl who hasn't shown interent in him. Should I reveal my interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - What should I do about this guy I like? Everyone at my school seems to like this guy that joined last year. He started a bit late because he switched school, and a ton of people have "tried it on" with him. My friend really likes him, in fact I t...

Guys: if he liked me, wouldn't he be making more of an effort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - This guy has liked me for a year but i wasn't attracted to him back then until this year I told him recently that I like him too! and we both want to see how things go. When i text him he'll flirt back and be real sweet, but then sometimes h...

Do guys not want the hassle of dating a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - is it a turn off to know that I am a virgin at 23??? I mean I am easily aroused and the thought of sex alone, even touching or blowing hot air on me makes me wet...and I have never had sex...and I just dont want that to turn a guy off from wanting...

I keep cancelling dates but I don't want to be lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I split from my daughter's father/my partner 3 and a half years ago, I haven't slept with a single person since. I've never been in a rush to move on as I haven't wanted to introduce anyone in to my daughter's life. I have had many dates but never ...

Girlfriend always getting hit on and never invites me to work parties!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - My gf and I have been dating for almost 3 years,im 27,shes about to turn 26. About a year ago she started a new job at car dealership,as a receptionist.Now because she is on the 'frontline' of the company,she has to dress nice.Now i dont have a ...

Is alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Is it alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?! Or will it scare him off? We've had a chat about what both of us want. To keep it cool and take thing slowly. But I've found myself thinking about him even more lately coz ...

I gave him my phone number but couldn't get his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I met this man a few weeks ago when i was out with my friends and he was out with his friends. At the end of the night, he wanted us to have each others numbers, but one of the other guys who was there, had a go at him ( he thought i didn't like ...

After we made out he said he feels like we didn't click why would he say this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - hi, so there's this guy who lives where i always go on holiday, about ever month. we have known each other for a about two years. I recently started texting him and we did this like every single day and i got very close to him. we started txtin a ...

I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I think my boyfriend's best friend is gay. Which wouldn't be a problem, I just don't understand how my boyfriend doesn't see it. Anytime I say something about it to my boyfriend he gets really defensive and says his friend isn't. I just find it ...

Does he like me enough for a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - So I've liked this guy for a while now and he knows this too. And all my friends says he liked me and he even has told me he does however I just have a feeling that he doesn't like me as much as I do to him, which is a problem. So he asked me out ...

He thinks I'm having an affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - please my boyfriend told me he is breaking up with me because i was told off of my friend, who is a male who told me he saw him with another lady. Now he thinks I am having an affair with the guy and tells me he wants to meet the guy before he ...

Engaged, but thinking of someone else... is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have a problem. I am engaged to a wonderful man and have been with him for a few years and everything is great, just recently though I have started talking to this guy who showed an interest in me romantically. I told him I was engaged and that ...

If he doesn't want me as a lover can I still be his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Well its sumwat about luv and friendship. I met a person through net chatting and we were seeing each other and mostly into each other and had a great time 2gethr. He proposed to me too and I was taking my time to know him though I was in love. At ...

I feel as if he's just chewed me up and spat me out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hi guys, just looking for some advice... I've been living with my boyfriend who is from another country about 3 years and everything (I thought) seemed to be going smoothly. We have talked often about having kids in the future. However last night he ...

I'm falling for a guy, but he's moving in 4 months!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Okay, hi, so I met this boy on halloween last year, and since then i think the longest we've gone wothout speaking has been something like 3 days? We always talk, about nothing and rubbish, and i was wondering why it wasn't going anywhere. Just ...

Men say I'm creepy, crazy, and a stalker...Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - well my problem is the very first time i went on a date i was scared so i was very stand-off ish then i started getting attention from the wrong type of guys but i really liked the attention so i gave away my virginity to someone who was just ...

I don't know who got me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together and have been trying for a baby for months.I was last on my period on the 26th January which usually lasts about 5/6 days. We had sex a few times from the first week of february and broke up. I met up with my e...

Help! Should I tell him I love him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hi help me guys. There is this guy we've been dating 4 almost 2 months and we like each other now im falling in love which is a good thing. So i just want to know that should i tell him that i love him or must i wait for him to say that as he has ...

What can I do to make myself more open to new friends and/or guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Ok, so I have already asked loads of questions here but I thought I'd keep going since I seem to be on a roll. I'm a 17 year old college student, I love college, both academically and on the social side of things. However, I am a very shy person ...

He stood me up because he fell asleep! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - This guy that i've been crushing on recently wanted to catch up with me for coffee. He said he would call me around noon and we'd decide on a place... I got ready and waited and waited...he didn't pick up my call and i got a message after 4 ...

His actions don't match his words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Im in a relationship with a guy who is older. He is 7 years older than me. We have being 'dating' for the last 4 month now. It defo just dating still as I only see him a couple of nights a week.He never takes me out through the day and ive never met ...

Am I just his texting friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Ive being txten a guy for the last month now. We txt all threw the day and he has being calling me a few times lately. We get on really well. I remember him from school but didnt know him to talk to. He is 21 and im 19. He works away from home and ...

If a guy won't wait does it automatically mean he wants to use you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - ok,so there is this guy-ive known him about 3 months but we didnt see each other for a few weeks and now weve started seeing each other again I tried telling him I want to wait a few weeks for things to get back to normal before we have sex but he ...

What do you make out of this? Do you think he may like me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I am a Sophomore in high school, and I have my Spanish class with a good friend of mine that I have a crush on, Tim, as well as my brother. My brother dared me to give Tim a lap dance (JOKINGLY!!) after I mentioned how I don't back down on dares. ...

Was he just playing me? how could he break up so callously?l'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm confused about something. About 2 weeks ago, at my high school, he confessed to me that he liked me. when he told me that, I was surprised, shocked and happy. He send me his number on Facebook so we can text. We texted all night about ...

What's going on? She likes me in every way, except sexually.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - My SO of about a year is 45. About 2-1/2 years ago, she had a hystorectomy. Our sex life has been pretty tepid, and we were both adventurous before we met. She says her lack of libido is due to her surgery, however I have seen pictures and read ...

I'm confused by him, where do we stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - So ive come to the conclusion that guys are very confusing. They dont seem to know how to express what they want from a girl. So i met a guy who ive known for a little while now. He is in the same organization as me in my university. He approached ...

I'm afraid he will leave college at the end of the semester not knowing how I feel about him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I really, really like this guy. We've known each other for about three-four years now. He's going to graduate college in the spring, and I'm going to in two years. We've been in theatre classes together this whole time. He's so much fun to b...

How do I convince him about having children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so here is the issue. I have been with my boyfriend, who we'll call "C," for about a year and a half. We are getting an apartment together in a few months and are discussing marriage quite soon. The topic of children has come up a few time...

Should I move in with boyfriend in a rocky relationship or try to make it without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - The situation here is a little complicated, so let me explain. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are both graduating college this year, and he will be moving across the country to take a job. I have no job lined up for next year...

I'm having an affair with a married man who's now in love with me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for nearly a year now, I am a single girl and this just started as a bit of fun, but in the last few months he has been telling me that he is so in love with me . He has been married for a year and a ...

How to start dating after a long relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - soo a little under 2 months ago, my year long boyfriend and i broke up, and i'm not sure how to start dating again.. there is a guy who i have a little crush on, but i feel so awkward and weird starting all over again, what are some tips? than...

How long after his divorce can I meet his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I was wondering how long after my boyfriend gets his divorce. That i will meet his family not in a rush just wondering? Its been 7 month cents his separation. He does not know when his divorce is done. I do not bother him about it. I have ask twice. ...

Why am I in love with the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I just broke up with my bf because he wasnt trying hard enough. There is another guy I know who has liked me at a distance for several years now, and has been talking to me more and more recently. He's everything I'd want in a guy, and has all...

Should we take things slow till his divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - This guy i am going out with loves me. I love him to should we take things slow till he gets his divorce done? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Boyfriend seems possessive! Should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Should I be worried that my boyfriend seems really possessive lately? Does it mean he's done something he knew he shouldn't have? When we first started dating (we have a long distance relationship while he goes to school) he seemed jealous but not ...

Signals from a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I really like this guy that i work with but from what i know hes on the shy side.. im confused with signals i think hes sending me.. like i told him that i wanted to get on his last nerve(which was a way to kinda flirt with him) and he said i was ...

My ex dated my friend and now that they've broken up my feelings for her are still there!

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1 March 2011 (M) - One of my bestfriends just broke up with his girlfriend, who just happened to be my ex-girlfriend. When they first got together I didnt talk to either of them, I said some things I didnt mean and made what I realize now what was probably too big ...

Our relationship status is not public on my boyfriend's facebook account...he had modified the settings so that only I could see the "in a relationship" status!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - So its been almost 2 years that my bf and I have been together. We've had our ups and downs like any other couple, but what separates us from any ordinary couple is that we learn to work with what we've learned from our past arguments, however, a ...

My non-exclusive boyfriend has an on-off fiance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Please let me know what you think about my situation... any comments or advice are appreciated :) I found out the day after valentines day that my nonexclusive bf of 11 months has secretly still been engaged with his on and off Fiance. Apparent...

I'm insecure because of past relationships, but I don't want to ruin the current one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have a real issue with trust. In my three previous relationships (in fact, my only three serious relationships) they have cheated on me or left me for another woman. I have done much soul-searching as to whether it was something that I did or ...

After opening up and sharing his emotions with me, he is avoiding me! What is going on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a couple weeks now. I wrote on here last week as I was worried that he went all off-ish with me after we had an argument... Since then, we met each other on Saturday night. My friends saw him in a few different places w...

Could he be trying to look at me at the corner of his eyes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - If a man who sits in front of a girl turns his head a few times, at an angle to look down where you can see his eyes, could he be trying to look at you? It seems he is not really looking at anything in particular. He is just turning just enough t...