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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't tell me he loves me often enough... I need to hear it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and it's going good except that he doesn't tell me he loves me very often. He cheated last year and we are working through this and it has definitely been very hard but we are getting ...

She's pregnant but she won't tell me when our baby is due!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I need advice everyone. I have been with this woman for a few years now and she became pregnant last year with twins. I will not go into detail but she was 20 weeks pregnant when she told me that the cord was coming away. I broke down for a ...

My boyfriend is going to kill me! I just had sex with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand and we weren't just kissing, I did not have a condom, I was not even planning to have sex, I was coming out of my job but worst of all it was my ex! My boyfriend is going to kill me. I am so afraid that he is going to find ...

I found another woman's panties in my boyfriend's glove compartment!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I was driving with my boyfriend to his apartment. I stopped at the durg store to buy some condoms but when I got back to his car I found someones elses panties! He knows they must of been there before but how could I not see them??? Then worst of ...

I feel scared and very insecure off messing up again. Any pointers?

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3 March 2009 (M) - hi guys. I'm really in need of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for five years and I love her with everything I have. Last year we finally decided to move in together and talked about marriage. At first everything went well but then things ...

His girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I've been talking to this guy who has a girlfriend, he's telling me that he plans on breaking up with her but he doesn't want to hurt her. As things come to a close between him in this girl (she knows about me) I get early in the morning a lot of ...

Am I just being used for sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months now. We have known each other for years. I feel like he isn't honest and loyal. He says he isn't with other girls but to me I keep feeling like he is cheating on me and just using me for sex....

We go for meals but I want her for dessert!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - There is a woman that I have a good relationship with. We eat together at least once a week. We do other things too. We take turns cooking and the other brings the dessert. Sometimes we feed each other in a playful way. Sometime for dessert I would ...

My b/f told me he would date this other girl if we broke up, this upset me, should I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend of six months and I have a very open relationship but there's something that I haven't really been able to stop thinking about. Yesterday he randomly asked me if if I liked someone else, would i tell him. I said that I wasn'...

How long to make a guy wait for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Ok I am getting a bit ahead of myself here but how many dates etc. should you wait to do things with a guy (first, second, third etc.), I mean how far should you go for each stage and at the end how long should you make him wait for sex....

23 year old male virgin needs your input

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hello. I am a 23 year old male, heterosexual virgin with no relationship/intimate experience. My problems in these areas resulted primarily from social anxiety and an overall lack of self-confidence. Simply put, I have never taken the initiative ...

Girlfriend wants a threesome with my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Ok, complicated scenario. I was with a girl for over a year and a half. I started sleeping with another girl, who lives out of state and was only in town for a month or two, but my girlfriend didnt know. I ended up breaking it off with the first ...

Should I be this worried about her being with another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - my gf is amazing. and i love her to bits and bits. i cudnt imagine life without her!! but, she said to me that people r trying to set her up with a boy, and even her teachers r getting involved! she drinks a bit, and LIVES IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY! i ...

Am I doing right or am I holding onto something that would never be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 this mounth we have been going out for 3 moenths but my mam dosn't like him (to be honest not a lot of people do) she says he has bad hygiene and she doesn't like his background "he's in a different league to us" I'm ...

How can I tell if he wants to kiss me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone: i've been dating my bf for a week and i really want to kiss him, but i don't know if he wants to kiss me. whenever we get off the school bus, we hug goodbye. this would be my first kiss and I'm 14. what should i do? and how can i tell i...

Is it OK for my girlfriend to classify her ex-lover as her best friend? How should I bring this up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Is it OK for my girlfriend to classify her ex-lover as her best friend amongst all friends (not boyfriend, but she seriously sought after him to be her boyfriend). I'm almost 25, her 24, and him 27... maybe older, can't remember. My ...

In terms of Personality, what is a man's turn on when he looks for a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Though this may seem a little vague, what would you say is the biggest attractant for a man when it comes to the opposite sex? We know that sex is a primary need and desire, but aside from the physical part, what do most men look for or what is the ...

If I give in and have sex with him will I be just another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on a guy that I work with, we have been flirting for about nine months, we finally had a quick snog, he has a rep as being a ladies man but I really fancy him, so I went for it, he text me to he liked it and I was just wondering ...

I had underage sex and now I'm worried that I'm pregnant

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - hey im underage n i slept wid my bf about a week ago and im really worried i could b pregnant because ive been feeling sick in the mornings and ive been getting worried and im too scared to tell my bf or go to a chemist to get a test in case they ...

How can I tell him I'm still not ready for a baby at 22? I'm afraid this will push him away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm a 22 year old, just completed my varsity degree and have made a decision to move out of my parents' house now that i have a job- which i'm obviously very excited about... Been dating my boyfriend for two years now and everything between us ...

From relationship, to friends....now will he ever want to be lovers again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with a widower for 5 years. We love each other very much, but he is afraid of commitment, so much so that when I asked him where he saw our relationship in a few years time, he said that he couldnt ...

Advice on romantic weekends please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - I want to plan a romantic weekend for my girlfriend. Any advice as to where mountains, ocean, lake, or city. What are some fun/ romantic activities we can do on the weekend trip? Ladies what makes a romantic weekend special for you...

Back in the dating game again after 11 years and now I cannot form a meaningful relationship with a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I came out of an 11 year relationship a little over a year ago and since then I have found it really difficult to form a meaningful relationship with another man. I don't seem to have difficulty attracting a man in the first place and over this pa...

We are constantly doing things for each other but are we actually good for each other long-term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - we share, we give, we care, but she is not interested in me.........all of the above attracts me to her. i'm very much like that. she is 42, never married, and has a teenage daughter at home. i'm 63 but most people tell me i look like 50. i'm ...

Does it sound like he actually likes me? Or is he just using me for sex?

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3 March 2009 (F) - Theres a man Ive liked for over 4 years now (I got talking to him more after I'd split up with my ex)and we became really flirty and really good friends with eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother. The first time ...

My Boyfriend has just had a baby with his ex....I need to know where this relationship is going!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - i am in a dilema i met a guy last May, we hit it off straight away, started seein each other end of August last year just casual we are both divorced,i have two daughters he has a son. However i have since found out that he split from his live in ...

Do I throw all caution to the wind and go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Is it to good to be true............. Recently I met a man who is in the process of getting divorced and we have been getting to know each other. Anyhow, we work together and spend a lot of time talking daily. Also, have seen each other outside wo...

What do they mean by "you're amazing!"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?...

Fear of commitment..how can I help him overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship BUT I really think he has a great fear of commitment. he was hurt very deeply in his past. What can I do to to help him overcome this and show him that I will not hurt him. When things are going really ...

Do guys take rejection to heart or blow it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Do guys take rejection to heart becasue a guy asked me out and I said no. This was few years ago and I met him recently and he's still mad at me becasue I said when he asked me I actually did like the guy but I didn't know if he saw me as friend or ...

She doesn't know how to french kiss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hey everone. Me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. And still she dosnt kiss all that well. Which I am not understanding, considering all her past relatonships and what not had to have taught her how nice a bit o tongue is. How can i...

Tips for getting naked, having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years. We are both seniors in high school. We are going to be going to different colleges I don’t know what that means to our relationship. It is not that we don’t have something special because we ...

Does this guy like me? I can't tell.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I am a college student and there is this boy I recently became interested in. Last week, he had asked me to stop by and see him at work to give him some music he wanted. I saw him and we ended up talking for a while. Before I left, he asked for my ...

We have problems saying the love word, how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating my Jacob for over four months. He's been so wonderful to me -he taught me to love myself again -to be more accepting of myself -he got me to start writing again -he's helping me to lose my stage fright when it cgomes to siting...

I feel too shy with girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - Hi, i am shy relating to ladies. I feel sexually active like any other man. I also even imagine having sex with girls whom i am sexually attracted to. I have never had a girlfriend just because of my shyness to girls. There is a girl in our college ...

I like him but now another girl is all over him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a huge dilemma here. I'm almost 22 and have never had a boyfriend. I've never had a lot of friends and I don't party like people my age. So you can see why... Anyway, my problem is that a guy supposedly likes me, or so say my friends. ...

We fight all the time but don't want to break up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend are always fighting. It's becoming a daily routine. But we don't want to leave eachother. What do I do ?...

I like her but she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - I like a girl and we talk almost every day. she knows i like her but she says she dont want a boyfriend right now.how should i approach this?...

My girlfriend broke up with me, and I am absolutely heartbroken. What can I do to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - i feel like crap right now!!!!! im in a terrible situattion!! so i've been going out with my gf for a little over a year and i absolutely adore..i cant live without her, we do every single thing together a we get along so great....we're p...

My fiance is wonderful, but we don't have the same connection that my ex and I had. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - i am 19 and i am enagaged i love my fiance but i find myself always making up excuses to not get physical. is like i am not sexually attracted to him as i was with my ex. i feel like i stil love my ex i think about him and i miss him. my fiance is a ...

Rough month with my boyfriend of 1 year. Is it too late to make up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend left me because he needed "space", instead of respeting his decision i cryed and made a whole lot of drama for 2 weeks. he got very angry, later he got better and said we should start as friends, we had sex and he said he still loved ...

Black and love white boys

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - i'm "black" and i love white boys but they don't seem to like me all the time.i'm not a "gettho girl" at all.HONESTLY i act "white".Is it because i'm black? i don't really know can you help me?is it because i act white but not purposely.and i refuse...

How can I leave someone I love so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Dear friend, I decided write to you because I need your help, and I cannot talk to anybody else about my problem. My problem is I met somebody a three years ago after I broke up with me ex that I've been with for about eight years. So when I broke ...

What does it mean when a guy asks you if you'd like to go get coffee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Here is my situation (sorry if it's kind of long.) I met this guy in a professional context (actually, in a job training class I assisted with teaching last year). They graduated. We got back in contact when he texted me wanting to know when the ...

Should I stay with my fiance or go back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for a year so far. Things haven't been going well because I feel like I still love my ex. I had recently started talking to my ex online and now I miss him even more and I want to be with him. I love my fiance but I love ...

Too tight for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and the other night I was going to have sex with my boyfriend. We were foreplaying before and he got two fingers in me then once we were actually going to have sex he couldn't get in me. It would be my first time and I told me best friend ...

Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...

Maybe his equipment is faulty... or does he just not know how to use it properly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - Regarding the issue of penis size, people always say that it's not the size that matters but how you use it. How else can a guy use it aside from plain old boring penetration? What are some techniques other than changing positions? I ...

I truly want to be with him but I'm not sure if I'm willing to be put on the backburner again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple months and things started off great, he's a real sweetheart and a total gentleman. But since he's started school again (he just got into med school btw), he doesn't seem to have time for anything let ...

Are those symptoms normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is taking metformin. She is complaining of constant headaches, weakness and she sometimes feels like throwing up (vomit). Is anybody here taking or has any knowledge of it? I called her doctor and he suggested she continues as she o...

The thought of a girl giving me oral sex aroused me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - First off, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and I love having sex with him. When I've masturbated, I haven't needed to think of anything sexual or look at anything sexual, because it seemed like everything I thought of (involving a guy or girl) turned ...

Starting a new job but my ex works there... my boyfriend is upset that I'm taking it.

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3 March 2009 (F) - I'm starting a new job, my first job but the problem is that my ex also works there so now my boyfriend is very upset with me....