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Dating: Help and advice

How can I make myself more confident with kinky sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a month, we have liked each other so much for a very long time and he was, well still is, my best friend. We have had sex and I really enjoy it and so does he, I have had 3 other sexual partners but with ...

My boyfriend has moved out of state because of his job. How can I cope without him? I miss him soooo much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years moved out of state for employment. I helped him move this weekend. I have been supportive. He is not happy about the move. He has been unemployed for months. I have a business so I am staying. We are going to meet up when ...

He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he ...

How can I let her see that I am NOT like her ex and would never hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend's EX used to hit her whenever he was drunk, and she was very scared of him. I'd heard that he abused he sexually as well, but she won't talk about it so I'm not so sure. When we met she was on antidepressants, and hadn't been with ...

Ways for him to last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex and we've discovered that he doesn't last very long at all... I'm talking like, a minute at that [don't get me wrong tis' a wonderful minute]. We've tried with a little foreplay, before...

Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our ...

I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Problem is I don't know how to. I've tried googling it but it didn't give me what I needed. Someone please help me I really want to surprise my fiance....

Could her nausea indicate she's pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I don't use condoms but she takes the pill religiously every day, but for the last 4-5 days she's had a stomach ache, could she be pregnant? I don't know if having a stomach ache means she might be or not, all I really know is t...

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he ...

She's become cold and distant and I don't understand why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Last 4th of July i met a girl and asked her out. She said yes! Everything was great! She was sweet, I felt Loved, and i made sure she felt loved. It was kinda a long distance relationship, but about Thanksgiving, by some miracle, I moved closer to ...

I don't know if I can trust him again, even though I love him as a brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating...

Any connection we used to have seems to be gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time lef...

My girlfriend and porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend looks at porn and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't think it would annoy me if she was more open about it (I.E. watch it with me), but she is very closed minded when it comes to it. I've also noticed when she looks at porn, w...

I know deep down he has returned to her. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I know deep down he has returned to her - but what do I do? I have been seeing a guy who I am deeply in love with. He knows I would do anything for him - but I also know that he still sees his ex and would probably like to get back with her ultimate...

I found out that he's telling other girls that he is single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago and everything was great. We loved each other's company, so after 1 year we decided to move in together. Everything was good in the beginning, he would cook, clean make breakfast, and cuddle everynight. Th...

Why can't I get hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i cant get a boner i watch porn i do all this stuff and nothing happens and i cant cum and my girlfriend hates so can u help me? please...

How to interpret the way a woman rejects a man's advances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hi. A quick 'Mars' vs 'Venus' question. If a man asks, via e-mail, a woman out on a date knowing full well that she read the e-mail as soon as he sent it, if he is rejected 100 minutes later via e-mail then does he read into this A) She hesitated, ...

My boyfriend doesn't touch me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend dont like to be touched. what do i do? he dosnt even like to talk to me i been asking questions then talking. he makes noises when i talk or touch him. what do i do?...

Should I trust my feelings on this, or just be pragmatic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I have know this girl for three months now. I had a feeling that she liked me as more than a friend. Although we had known each other two months, we had only met twice since the first time we had met at the time I asked her to join me for a walk and ...

I don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - 2 years and my boyfrienddosnt talk to me anymore and we dont go out but he gos to strip clubs with his co workers. but he tells me we are fine....

Should I stop sleeping with him until he commits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this man for 3 months and he says he wants to be with me but he's scared. What does that mean? We are in the getting to know each other stage I suppose, not officially dating. Is there anything I can do to make him not scar...

What I want is a deep passionate, yet reserved relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old female and I've had one boyfriend, long distance and it didn't work out (2 years ago). I never really wanted a boyfriend and then it hit me one day that I'm lonely and want a romantic relationship. My problem? At school everyone...

I like her but I don't want to go out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her and every time i see her or even talk to her over the internet i get butterflies. i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she ...

His past relationship is hurting our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - he thinks im hanging out with another guy, im not he is the only man in my life. how can i assure him of that?...

How do I let him down "gently"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i dont know how to begin so im going to try as best i can and hope it comes out right .. i have a lovely boyfriend who i believe i am in love with.. the problem is, lately iv allowed myself to get close to another guy (through msn and texts), even...

I'd like to ask him to go to Prom with me, but I've messed up. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey :) Well theres this guy Im good friends with and I kinda like him too. We go to different schools. Anyway I have my prom at the end of this year and a few people has asked me, although its girls choice!! And im very bad at dissapointing people ...

I'm 13 and my boy friend wants to go to second base

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and my boy friend wants to go to second base. I want to go to second base too however since I'm just starting to develop most of my chest is just bra. If my boy friend did any touching I'm sure he would be able to tell. I'm ...

Should I move on or wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (S) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day S and me hanged out pret...

I trusted him then but I don't now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I just got in a relationship in jan.. he went away to go to college in early feb so i was thinking to my self should i stay in this relationship.... i also asked him did he want to stay in this relationship and he kind of got mad saying his is on h...

L think he's straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - l'm gay, and he's straight. l have only known him since September, but it feels like l've known him forever. Recently l have developed feelings for him, but l cannot get the courage to tell him, fearing it will obliterate what we have now. I have...

Am I supposed to wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hi, hope you can help im 18 and i really like this boy hes 18 too but hes just come out of a two year relationship and says he just wants to be casual at the minute with me , he still has pictures of his ex girlfriend on his phone and facebook...

I think I'm afraid to orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm afraid of sex. And by that I mean i'm afraid to orgasm. I know it's supposed to be this awesome feeling but i can't bring myself to experience it. I have a boyfriend, and i love him very much and am very attracted to him but every time ...

The girl I dated recently is with somebody new. I feel upset for some reason. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out that the girl I dated recently has started seeing somebody else. I only dated her for a few months and we split up about three months ago, but for some reason, I feel like this has upset me a little. That seems unusual give...

4 years into relationship, and I don't think I ever had an orgasm. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i am in a relationships for almost 4 years..we didn't see each other often. when we we're together and we're making love i didn't feel any orgasm since the day we made it until now. i made different strokes or styles but it doesn't worth. i'Neve...

What do I do if he calls me and actually doesn't want to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than he was ever...

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the c...

I'm starting to think I sound really delusional

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - All of my life I've wanted to share my life with someone who loves me back just as much as I love him, but lately, I've been losing heart. I've been disappointed so many times, and I just wish there were that one person who loved me too much to c...

Is there anything that can soothe me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i had a school friend. we joined college together and she introduced me to her new girl friend. i fell in love with tht ga l[say 'mir'] from the 1st sight. well its been almost two years and i still couldn't tell her that i love her. we dont mee...

Any thoughts on getting over my nerves around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - okay, theres this boy i really like and we finally are boyfriend and girlfriend again, he says he thinks im nice looking and cute, and tells everyone he likes me and i feel the same about him. about 3 days ago he asked me out and i said yes, but we ...

Any tips to get this guy who I think may like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - so there is this guy I really like, some ppl say that he likes me but others say that there you can't really tell. We have known each other for 7 months and see each other once a week. we clicked straight away, but he had a girl friend so i didn't ...

I feel like I can't have a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - is there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have ...

My girlfriend won't stop mentioning her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my gf for about 10 months now, and everything is going good, but she keeps bringing up her ex all the time, she keeps talking about things they used to do, and how he acted and stuff, but the one thing that threw me off ...

I know he truly cared/loved me and I messed it all up and I don't know why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago we were together for 6 month. I am to blame, I was moody, miserable and angry. I thought I was acting like this because of the stress of work, new pill etc. Anyway we were seeing each other every week still. He ...

I want to tell her but I'm scared that she will not like me in that way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - So I have this fantastic friend, we have been best friends for nearly 8 years and we're pretty close. We dont see each other alot but when we do its like we can just pick up from where we left off and we talk every night over the computer (we go to ...

Tips on how to keep my relationship fresh, please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I need a bit of advice as to how to keep my relationship fresh. I have been seeing wonderful man for two years now, we see each other for one or two days a week and it seems to have fallen into that routine where the excitement is going. Litt...

I've been rejected by this woman at work - but how can I regain her respect for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hello there! My issue is that I asked a woman out at work a while ago who I really didn't know that well. At the time, unbeknownst to me she was already going out with another guy at work. She rejected my proposal via e-mail and that was that, basi...

Do things fall out of place so better things can fall into place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I after a while broke up. I was great to her, we had a very great relationship and we never fought and we always had a ton of fun while hanging out. We broke up and decided to take a week space from each other to help figure t...

What do I when he changes to be cold hearted and doesn't care anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i've been in this relationship for 2 years and my boyfriend and are now common-laws we live together and we have 3 cats. he just turned 21 and i'm going on 22, he changed 3 days after his birthday it went on for 2 weeks and after that he was fine...

Help! My boyfriend has a low sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi Friends~ My bf, 33yrs old, and I, 26yrs old, have been dating for 6 months now. On our second date he told me that 3 months prior he had dated this girl for 2 weeks and after he broke things off with her she came to him 2 weeks later and ...

What are the signs he's going to break up with you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - what are some signs a guy gives if he wants to break up with u? or at least thinking bout it...

I am tired of being lonely and played by dating! What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey I am 27 year old, attractive female. I do not have any family or too many friends in the place i live right now (the whole state - actually the whole country). Its depressing, hard and lonely life I live at times. Lately I have been gettin...

Can she persuade him to stay with her, if he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Well, I'll try not to make this too long. Here goes! I've been attracted to this guy at work for over a year, and he's known this (he was chasing me, she got jealous and chased him). He dated her (for sex only) for several months but continued ...

He wants to get engaged! We're so young!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - does he really love me and want to get engaged im only 15 he is 14 he wants to start and family and get married when im 18 and he is 17 what should i do?...

I don't want to push her but I know she wants space

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29 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I need some help here with a relationship issue. Im 21 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have been together for neary 2 months. we have fell for each other and say the "I Love You" to each other all the time. but because she has college and i ha...

We keep fighting about my past and my b/f's "lack of trust"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I am seriously involved with a guy now and it has been going on for 2 years. I was in quite a few relationships before which ended badly. I did not speak about them when me and my boyfriend started seeing each other initially. At one point I told ...

After 30 years friendship turns sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I have been having a very platonic relationship with a man for over 30 years..we are very very close and he has never once made a pass at me..or disrepected me. Only recently I realize that I am crazy in love with him and we kissed and made love. I ...