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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why am I always being dumped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Why are the girls in my relationships the ones who finish it? And why so early in to it?...

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it ...

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work ...

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing ...

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our ...

I love my girlfriend to bits but I just can't picture her in a sexual way...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I've got a question. My gf and I have been togehter for a long time like 2 years and I love her with all my heart. I'm going to see her in a little bit and it's just gunna be me and her at her house. Her parents trust me and we're ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

Why is it seemingly more acceptable for girls not to give oral than it is for guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why does it often seem like people are harder on guys who won't give oral than they are on girls? Even just browsing through questions on here, I've noticed that when a guy complains that his girl won't give bjs people tend to get a bit defe...

Blowjob information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue....

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, ...

Someone please translate this for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I am friends with a bloke, at first he was full on wanting to meet someone for a relationship. I have know him for a few months now the problems that he had have been sorted with the exception of his ex using his child to see him. He calls and t...

Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one.. Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend with something new and exciting! Keep in mind we still have to whisper..The family is in the bottom floor.;) Oh, and sis is down the hall.. But who cares.....

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

When kissing and aroused, what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - When you are snogging (kissing) a bloke and he makes you feel how aroused he is, what should you do, I mean, what does he want, what should you do?...

First time seeing him ... what should I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - hey its been a year and i have been talkin to this guy ever since,btw we met on face book he always wanted to meet up but i delayed it cuz i wanted to be sure of him before i met him but later on i got to know that his best friend knows my family ...

I like the wrong guy, and I have a mess in my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I like the wrong guy. I was in a relationship, and this guy I'll call "E" was my ex boyfriend's best friend, that was the moment when I started to like him. Then when my relationship was over he took distance from me. In those days I became clos...

Should there be an agreement on when to hang out with our own friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) ...

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a ...

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I hone...

Why the change? He seemed disinterested or distracted now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy i like who i met on saturday night at a party. One thing led to another and since then i spoke to him on msn on sunday. He asked for my number and texted me and the conversation was very flirty - asking to see me sometime soon ...

She used to be a HE!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as ...

I call my boyfriend too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Me And My Boyfriend God, we argue all the time and when hes in a bad mood i have a habit on ringing him to see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answe...

He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help ...

Does my girlfriend want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...

Sex in the rest room!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Two days ago I had sex with my boyfriend in a public restroom at my boyfriend's favorite place (it's a pool hall), I didn't meet him for like 3 weeks because he was in Australia. I missed him a lot and I just can't stop myself of doing ...

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed ...

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...

He's throwing his acted out fantasies at me!!

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31 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, So my fiance and I were talking about fantasies. We've already had a 3some with another guy (he just touched me and I touched him no sex) and I said I'd really like to try with another woman or couple out of curiousity (again, no sex ...

My girlfriend has a rape fantasy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I were talking about fantasies. She said that she has always had a rape fantasy. I was a bit weirded out at first but we acted it out in the end. Now, she wants me to act out the rape fantasy again, except this time she wants to ...

Do all parents feel like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My daughter's boyfriend is taking her for a night away with dinner for her 18th birthday after a big family party (he won this in a competition seemingly) and sent me a text to ask how I felt about it. They have been together two years and so all ...

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...

I'm engaged but unsure and events from the past make me wonder if I'm doing the right thing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I feel really torn. I have just got engaged but I don't know if its the right thing to do. Last year my boyfriend and I planned to have a baby we talked about it and it seemed that it was what we both wanted, he was more keen than me, but I want a b...

He's my brother's friend and I think about him 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately i been thinking about this boy his 16yearsold and im 16 too. He comes to my house sometimes he is my brothers friend and when his talking to my parents he keeps looking at me he is really funny,and i really like him,but he doesn...

Why do guys seem so shallow?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - question? why are good looking girls more like by guys then the plain looking girls. why are good looks and being slim and busty and young ,tall in height ,so important to guys why. i don,t understand why guys are so shallow and egoistic.tha...

We slept together and now he hasn't called

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really like this guy and have for a while. After becoming friends and months of me wanting him we began dating. Everything was going great at first and no problems at all. Then we slept together. I wanted to wait (We have only been dating ...

Mom made me choose between her and my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Okey my question is kinda complicated i have been with my boyfriend for 4 weeks now but ever since i started going out with him my mum has changed and is always moody with me and does not trust me. she thinks im gonna have sex when i told her wen ...

Romantic night in...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want to plan a romantic night for me and my boyfriend. I was thinking making dinner having a few drinks and dressing in something hot with sexy underwear underneath followed by some hot love making! Does this sound good to guys? or what else can...

We had a big fall out and now he's sleeping on the couch and won't make up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a major boyfriend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell ...

Student/teacher porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I'd like some advice especially from you guys out there about my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years, he's a teacher. Recently, I found he'd downloaded loads of student-teacher style porn films from the internet. Some of them involve the ...

I don't want my ex to find out I am cheating with his friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - my ex broke up with me because i cheated on him with a family member.. we are now planning to meet face to face so we can talk things over, but am having a fling with his best friend again which is still unsolved and he has not heard of it just ...

What could change his mind in just 24 hours?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - i went out with a guy for a year everything was well with him a day before we had a phone comversation it was everything well then a day after he tald me that he dont love me anymore what it could change his mind for 24 hours?...

Does he just want to get in my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - im 20yrs old i felt for a guy in a relationship wth someone else..we met about five months ago...text eachother go on webcam...i just want to know if he really liked me? he didnt tell me about hes relationship i had to text him over and over and ...

Boot fetishism

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, It's not so much a relationship, dating, love or sex question, but i just signed up and not sure how to change topic subjects, if you can. Before you do start to read, i am 20 years old from North-West England. This questio...

Ask to start over again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok there is this guy in my class that i never knew he existed until we were put in a group together. We started emailing each other back and forth. We finally went out on a date, it was awkward and I wasn't sure if he was feeling it let alone me. ...

I want to be in a relationship but now quite sure how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My name is John, i'm 19 and i'm pretty much lonely. I used to date a lot of girls back when i was i n high school but since then i stopped dating because of something that is hard to explain. Let's say that i first meet this girl and we talk for a ...

We always fight but lately we haven't been and now I'm worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - ok i know this will sound really weird but here goes. My fiancee and i ALWAYS fight no joke but its been like completely fight free the last few weeks and im happy it has but it just kind of worries me because last time this happened it blew up ...

Everyone says I should just ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy I really like. I may only be 14 but there's just something about him I really like. The one thing is, is that he's a really cool guy and im not in that range of popularity. I catch glances of him to me about four to five times a ...

Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

31 March 2009 (?) - I would really appreciate a guy's perspective here. So im in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and i were together for what would have been two years next month. we broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until ...

Is it wrong to have a baby now when we're so ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want a baby. I'm 16, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he's dying to be a father. I started college doing childcare because I thought I'd love working with children, but soon discovered that nursery work really was not for me so qu...

My boyfriend still has pain from an old sex injury, is this normal and can it be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suffers from a tight foreskin which causes him discomfort sometimes. I just learned that occasionally his frenulum also becomes very tender for no apparent reason and stings; he says it tore or was damaged to the point of bleeding ...