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Archived questions from: 25 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

B/f wants to know some of my b/f tricks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have givin blow jobs before, but not to my new boyfriend. He wants to know some of my tricks. What should i tell him...

Is it really "space" or just an "out"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - ive been with my bf for a yr and recently his dad's been diagnosed with leukimia, he was in the hospital for about a month and he's home now. our relationship has always been very well handled but just recently my bf said he needed space, he said he ...

Should I flirt with him? Is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'm comfused because first robert liked me and we were close then he started not talking at all to me and keeping his distance. Now hes all almost the same again but he keeps telling a girl that nobody likes him and he wants someone. Duh why won't ...

This really hot looking girl has asked for my phone number... but I have a girlfriend albeit I'm not crazy on her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - There is a girl surveying our building at work and I guess she is there for a week or so. The last few days she has been making eyes at me and smiling and I have been reciprocating. I've never had this sort of instant attraction feeling with a girl ...

Live my life... or stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years,(I'm 26, she's 23) we have bought a house together and are set up for the rest of our lives really. We also work at the same place so therefore see each other for dinner etc through the day. T...

Still a virgin at 33...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am a 33 year old virgin. I have never had a boyfriend, only dated casually. The reasons for this are several... the most important one is that I am overweight so I feel too self conscious to get close with a man. I have had several men try and ...

I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old and have a 3 year old little boy, and I am in an abusive relationship. We have been together for 5 years and he's the father of our child. I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?...

I panicked when we had sex and he couldn't get it in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I sent a question recently and well me and my boyfriend have been together along time. The other night we finally came to the point where sex was an option so everything was prepared y'know, but last minute I panicked (being my first time) yeah I ...

He says he is not a good place right now and can't be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - So here is my dilemma. I've known this guy for about a year and a half now. We're both pretty young. We just started talking in September. Then we started dating in November. Ive been in other relatonships before, and well he is the nicest guy ive ...

He goes hot and cold

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 5 years. We've gotten into this pattern where we spend 1 or 2 days of the weekend together and then I don't hear from him during the weekdays. If I call him during the week, he will answer and talk just fine. If I ...

He lied..he still checks girls out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Ok.....so in the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship I said that I dont like when he checks girls out because I find it to be disrespectful to me...and he said "ok, but iv been doing it my whole life, but if you give me some time I can ...

What should I do I am really into him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hello, There Please could I have more Answers to my question thanks so much :)? I’m 16Yrs Old and The boy I Like is 17Yrsold we both don’t know each other but he comes around my house (His my brothers Mate)Lately I been getting signals from him...

Is it ok to want some space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend of two years that I love with all my heart. We are two hours apart (me being at school, her being a hairdresser) and are constantly on the phone. Little bits here and there and longer conversations during the night that can ...

What do boys like for presents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriends birthday and our year anniversary is coming up next month, and he's the most annoying person to but for, i usually end up getting him clothes or jewelry and i'm guessing he's getting bored of it all, what do boys actually like for ...

She wants to end this as she thinks I will end up hating her! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for about 7 days. Now she's all like, 'you shouldnt go out with me', and she says that its bcuz she will probably do something wrong, and i will end up hating her. What does this mean? I'm confused. ple...

He texts me but wont call me! Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I lost about my next move. What do I do, my relationship of only a few months recently ended, not sure why, but, it did. We did a lot of things with our homes together and some of his stuff is at my place and vise-versa. Within the last two ...

He's had a chance to chose between me & g/f why is holding on to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - hello...i know you all are going to chew me out...but im still messing with this guy who has a gf...the only thing different is she knows about us now because i told her...hoping this would push him against a wall to make a decision... well it d...

Wanted to get something for easter present but it'll cost about 40.00!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for two months now.:) I thought about getting a little something for his younger brother (9 yrs. old) For Easter! Should I just go for it? But it turns out after searching and searching I would end up spending ...

I think he's a committment phobia kind of man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend alot and I know he loves me but...I think he might be one of those commitment phobic guys. He gets really close to me and then does something or says I do something that enables him to pull away for days or even weeks. He says ...

Would lubrication help till we can be more regular?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating almost a year, and we have been sexually active, beginning with us losing our virginities together, a great deal of that time with no problems. However, during the course of the relationship I have noticed in ...

He thinks I'm a gold digger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a great 4 month relationship, he wanted me to move in, even talked marriage. But then this happened.. 1 year before I met him, I had great trauma - bad abusive bf (left after 3 months) but a man from a different state ...

I really just want him to grow up and behave like an adult instead of a child running away and sulking and hiding.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend gets angry over something I did he does not show his anger he internalizes it. A few days after he makes more out of it and says he needs space to get over it. He makes mountains out of molehills. His friends all say he is a great ...

Should I have a baby by this guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he asked me recently do I want to have a baby with him. He already has 2 kids already and I told him if we do decide to kids and if we're still together maybe within the next 1-2 years. The mother ...

Is he just a big baby searching for a mother when he is hurt...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - We live in a very wealthy seasonal place. I am beginning to think my boyfriend is a walker. In case you don't know a walker is someone who escorts ladies to events, dinners, etc. My bf of 9 months said he was angry with me so he did not come to an ...

Webcam ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is away on buisness, any ideas of sexy things to do via webcam......

I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, ...

Why is he punishing me in this way? Is he just scared of commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have taken a 2 week break which I really need to sort out my thinking. First I love him and do want to be with him but here is the dilemma... He is very emotional and when he gets angry he runs away and goes into his man cave ...

Seeing 2 women at the moment but find it difficult to choose.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I am in my late thirties and have never really had a proper girlfriend or an intimate relationship. I've been on dates and had a series of short relationships, which never went beyond going out together on dates and kissing. The reason is that ...

Sex in an elevator????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is about 10 years older than me. I really like sex a lot and the fact that I'm young he loves the fact that I love to have sex all the time. I want to try having sex with him in an elevator but I think he's too scared to do it, how do I ...

My ex has asked me out again, I still love him but don't know if it's wise to say yes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me but I still love him... We started dating in the 7th grade and we made it all the way till the 9th grade. He was the one for me. The problem was our friends. His friends didn't like me and my friends didn't like him...

Questions I need answered before I try anal sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hiya, me and my partner are going to be having anal sex for the first time and I'd like to know if this is true - If you have anal sex regulary, every couple of months, does the women's hips and bum get bigger? Also when I'm 60 I won't be able ...

Dazed and really confused. Really need to figure out what I'm going to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very interesting and complicated relationship. I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we both love each other very much. Now here comes the complications. He's 32 and I'm 21. He has 2 very young kids (A 1 year old and an 8 month ...

15 years later he appears... what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Has anyone ever called out an individuals name (that you've never had a crush on) while having sex, and then 15 years later end up hooking up with that person? This is really driving me crazy... now I've known this particular person most of m...

He doesn't satisfy me like I do him... How can I tell him to try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - When I have sex with my man, I always give him oral but he only touches me down there and never gives me oral. I don't want to ask for it, because he might not want to do it, and I don't want him to do anything he's not comfortable with but it d...

What's causing my unhappiness and how can I change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i just need a bit of advice so if anyone can offer some that would be great? Been with my boyfriend 3 years, love him, thing is we had history we went together for 6 months, broke up for a year then got back together been back together three ye...

Really need some help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I was 16 when we got together, now I'm 23, and I am starting to feel that I want to go and explore life. I think I still love him, but I feel I've missed out on a whole part of my life. We seem to have les...

What does pookie mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - What does pookie mean? Seems like a fun pet name but I would wish to know the meaning before I use it....

Please help! I want to make a step ahead

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - my boy friend broke up with me a week and days ago.. the thing is he asked me when i was going to the north that means he wanted to see me i told him i moved on with a guy from an other country he is now jellousy that he d...

Crush, infatuation or love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy who is 3 years older and me. I think he is hot and really really cute. He's always on my mind, I smile whenever I hear his name and I could smile through my tears if I see him. I'm pretty sure this is just a crush and I'm ...

Should I cut him off now or wait until I the abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - So, I was with my ex boyfriend for over two years. It was my first real relationship and I loved him very much, we did everything together. Well two weeks ago, we were arguing and he had told me he cheated on me out of anger. The next day he tell...

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was ...

Is it normal for guys to keep adding girls on their facebook list?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone i am sort of worried about my boyfriend of 1 year.is it normal for guys to keep adding girls (they don't even know at all) on their facebook list? is it like one of those "cool" wannabe things or what?its really getting on my nerves now...

Can you tell me why she would be acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Well my best friend has a boyfriend that she's been with for awhile. When we met everything was fine. But lately it just seems like she finds something wrong with every person i date or have feelings for. And it doesn't seem like she's even int...

Please help me show a way out of this self-caused misery.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I am giving her time, what should I do now? My long distance girl friend says that she is super busy with her program and full time job. She was previously married but got divorced last year and we met during her divorce. I used to date her abo...

I like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - i am scared of something friends ....i have been committed to my girlfriend since a year but i dont love her !! i really dont know what i found in her but i like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with. probably the ...

Why does my friend have 2 boyfriends when I cant even get 1??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My friend has had 2 boyfriends for over a year now and its really not fair because I cant even get one. I've been told that I'm really attractive but guys just want to sleep with me and nothing else. And I dont sleep around, I make the guy wait a wh...

Should I sit down and talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Well tonight he said "we need to stop this because I am starting to get to attached to you, and I'm afraid what will happen if I actually do get attached." SO now what I think I need to sit down and talk to him, what do you think? To all those wh...

How can I relax and enjoy myself??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have been single for 4 years and now I have a special someone i have met. We want to have sex but its been so long since ive been intimate with somebody its like I'm starting all over again. i don't know what to do , say, how to act. my mind race...

Girlfriend always makes me jealous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend is always making me jealous..and she knows it. I hate that feeling i get, she knows i don't like it, yet she keeps doing it..i don't want to keep feeling this... And i've never made her jealous before.. What can i do? If anything....

Why does my ex want to see me for a catch-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hi there, About little over a year ago a long term relationship I was in ended. We were together for 4 years and 3 and 1/2 years in she went overseas to pursue studies. She was only going to be gone for roughly 12 months and we were very very much ...

He doesn't show me as much attention when we're with friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now (officially). The first couple months were good, great in fact.. We have the same friends and are in the same "circle" of friends.. In this group, there more single guys than couples. I'm ...

I am extremely controlling.. can someone help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and I am extremely controlling! I tell him that he cannot talk to girls and that he can't look at girls and that he can't be friends with girls! We fight all the time about this but ...