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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can I get him to ask me to be with him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I posted about this situation before, and would really like some advice on what to do. To the men out there, your take on this would be greatly appreciated! I met a guy a year ago online. I had decided to put myself out there after a taking a...

Surprise in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...=] Me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up next month. We've agreed to not buy each other anything ( We are saving for holidays which will be soon after!)So instead were gonna get a take away, movie, the usual.. Howe...

I start arguments with him for no reason. How do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - i have the most loving amazing perfect boyfriend anyone could ask for and we have been though so much, i really comftable around him and he treats me like his little princess but the thing is i snapp at him for no reason i cause agruements when i ...

Date: No idea where to take him, what to do, how far to go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - ok.. major panic here.. ive got a date wiv this reeeeeally cute guy. and long story short, ive no idea bout where 2 take him or what 2 say or how far 2 go wiv him? any advice here urgently needed!!! thnx btw yeh i am gay. thnx tom xxx...

Single forever..any guy I fancy always fancies someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - being single forever,never had a boyfriend don,t know how to get one,any guy i fancy ,fancies someone else. the only guy i thought like me didn,t,always on my own hopeless with guys.30 years old,i hate dating websites,i am shy,quiet,i play hard to ...

Will our different religions get in the way of our relationship in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - hey well I been thinking about my boyfriend well my fiance and just know some idea came in my mind and it's hat i am 7th day Adventist that's my religion and my fiance religion in baptist is that going to bring a problem in the future? please...

What can I say or do to get his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I don't know where to start but there is this guy I really like, he's in my year an single, I see him most days as we hang round with the same people but we don't really know each other that well and don't get a chance to talk to him on his own ...

I said I love her and she replied "he he". What does that mean

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - hello guys..im 18 and i have a friend i been dating for 5months already..i really like her and love her..my parents already know her and her's too..both of her sisters like me and votes for me..we always go out on a date like everyday. we call each ...

I feel like my life is longer my own. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I’ve been with my g/f about 5 months now and I really like and care for her but she keeps saying that she loves me and gets upset when I can’t reciprocate. I want to be able to say it but just know it isn’t true yet. Will this change for me? The tr...

Any chance of getting my ex gf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. I was wondering if with my situation I have a chance of getting back with my ex gf? ive been thinking about her alot lately. Anyway, heres my situation, I met her in October of 2008, we seemed to connect really well, and we beg...

My b/f ex keeps updating him on her life. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few months, we get on very well and are very close but I have a bit of a problem with his ex. It's a bit of a long story so I'll try and put it in a nutshell. His ex and he were together for two years but she ...

My BF is acting weird around me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 1/2. Everything had been going great and we even moved in together for about 9 months. Due to financial reasons I was forced to move back in with my mother and this really hurt his feel...

Outside opinion please: does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have known this guy for 7 months, i met him through learning to to drive! He is a nice guy, my type both personality and looks. Was wierd at first as i was confused to whether i did like him more than just a normal person, but the more...

Is it possible for us to be physical and get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - i am a non practising christian divorced with children and ive met a new partner who is widowed and a catholic can we have a physical relationship and get married ...

I want to kiss my GF but I don't know when to do it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend and want to kiss her but don't know when to do so. Please Help...

What should I do when I first meet him? Hug? Say hey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - im a 18 year old guy and im planning to go on a date with a 23 year old guy, i just dont know how to approach him when i meet him? hug? just a simple hey? what should i do when i first meet him? we have been set on a blind date by our friends... b...

New to the dating thing. Should I meet him for lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Help! Should I meet him for lunch? My boyfriend is in the area..and he text me this morning to meet him for lunch. He's used to buying food from the dollar menu during the week and on weekends we really splurge. He does pay for pretty much all our ...

Do I wait it out for him? I'm head over heels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - i really like the lad its unreal. i just love everything about him. anyways i have since last september and in february i got one of my friends to ask him out for me and my friend told me that he thought about it for a bit (he's always known that i ...

I need help developing my 'gaydar'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - There's a guy that i really like at my college. the only problem is that i don't know his name or anything about him! i am really shy and find it hard to make eye contact, but have wanted to get to know him more for about a year, and i really want ...

We still have feelings for each other, should we try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a...

I want him to know I want more than friendship without scaring him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for a few weeks last year but he felt it was too soon for us to begin a relationship so soon after the break up of our long-term relationships with other people. His decision not to move forward with our relationship really hurt me as ...

We broke up because I found out he already had a g/f, now he promises me he will soon be only mine, do I take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - please help me... im completely devastated, but im sure you get a few of us... i was seeing a guy. which i only lately found out that he had a gf of 8 yrs, and then he explained to me that he wanted to leave her but couldnt in his attempts cause she ...

I have chlamydia. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I feel physically ill right now, I just had a medication abortion last week. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 years and we knew we couldn't support a baby. I was off of birth control for only one month when I got pregnant. While I was at Plan...

Help Trying to get pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we ...

Should he quit smoking so his sperm can get healthier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we was together for 6 months.....the only thing about is we haven't gotten pregnant... he smokes weed a l...

He said he wants a relationship, but is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - i have jst met someone and he said he wants to start a relasionship with me but i havent heard from him since he left on sunday. he is in a open prison so i understand that contact is limited but he was seen in a car on tuesday. ive tryed to phone...

My new boyfriend with mental illness is frustrating me, should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (?) - I met a guy online and have been seeing him for about 3 months now.He is handsome, intelligent, educated and trusted in terms of cheating and I love him so much. I however feel frustrated in the relationship becauses : 1. He is sometimes distant ...

Why did he tell me he had a date with someone from a dating website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months. We are very close, talk every day and are intimate, although we have not had sex. He told me early on that he had a dating profile on a website. I have been trying to deal with this fact since he told...

I don't want to be made out as the bad guy to his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Need some advice. My fiance and i have been 2gether for 3years. Recently things have got really bad. All he does is smoke weed and not seem to have much of a future. Im 21 and he's 34. Friends of ours are getting married in a few...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys, So, one night i was out with my fiance and we bumped into our gym crew in a club. My fiance was so drunk that night i was really embarrassed and let him do his own thing. My gym instructor (who's female) was stood in the corner moving to...

I think I'm becoming a green monster of jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm becoming a green monster of jealousy. There is a girl in my year who i used to be really good friends, but she ended up going out with my then current boyfriend behind my back, among other things. There are many people who don't like her ...

Did he say he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my lovely boyfriend for a little while now, and the other night.. I think he may have said that he loved me, but I really dont know if he did or not and now im scared that if he did say that, that he wont say it again due to my lack ...

I am trying to write her an email but don't know what to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for a long time now and untill recently we were close now all we seem to do is fall out over silly things. I know she cares for me as a friend but recently each time I have suggested meeting up she is always to b...

I'm dating a girl but really confused about my sexuality

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I was here last year, and now I'm back coz I really have this big problem. In my previous questions, I have confessed my identity question if i am a "gay" or merely bisexual. And i have made a big mistake in my life of engaging myself in a hete...

He can be so charming but I think he's playing games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - So here's a long story, but it has no ending yet...i'm trying to figure it out. A month ago I met a guy, I had seen him before, and I always thought he was really cute, but he never paid attention to me. That night, he approached my friend and let ...

I have many girl friends but I am not ready for a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I feels lik i want 2 start a relatnship wit a lady but inside of me i know am not ready 4 any kind of relatnship, why i said so is dat i have many friends dat ar girls but i hv not lik start tinking about any of dem in d nite and i even finds it ...

How does a guy know when a lady claims she is in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - How do a guy know when a lady claims she is in love him and wat trick wil d guy use 2 proof her. Cos one of my g.fs is claiming she doesent sleep at nite bcos of me which i doubt....

Question to the ladies: do you like it when a guy goes straight to the point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Girls pls can i know d qulities dat makes a guy caring and attractive b4 u ladies. and do u girls lik when a guy go straight 2 d point witout beating about d bush....

Should I confront him? It's driving me nuts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi all. First time posting, and I'm sure you've heard it a million times already...so here goes. There's this guy (at work) I've {really} liked for some time now, and we had become pretty good mates... and I couldn't help but notice the littl...

Do you think he likes me? I'm too shy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy who used to always come into my work when I would be working and he would come through my counter, so I would serve him. I quit that job, and moved to a different retail outlet to work. I never told him I was quitting. But hes now ...

Is this a case of bipolar love ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - huuuuuhh.... ok. Here I go. ---IT’S TOO LONG SO IF U DON’T WANT TO, DON’T READ IT 2 years ago, i met this guy i'll call Jm who asked me for $ and then dissapeared. So I forgot about his name and about his existence. He also gave it back to me la...

19 year old girlfriend and her frequent visits to Bars... :(

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Ok, I am 18 years old. i have met a beautiful girl, who means everything to me. I love her personality, the way she smiles, and the way she laughes. everything about her is inviting. I met her 6 months ago. We werent offcially going out, but we w...

He treats me like shit but I'm head over heels for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - All right, where to start..? I guess first off let me start by saying I am crazy about him and don’t want to loose him… My man and I have been going out for a half a year now, but he still doesn’t consider me his girlfriend. He told me from the begi...

The Loved And Lost

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Im new here and I need some advice. Okay, here we go. I am in love with a girl I have known for a while. We have been close friends ever since we met and the day I started having feelings for her I told her. She said she felt the sam...

I just don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I just don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend, not been big headed but everyone tells me how beautiful Iam and how well i present myself, but the trouble is it's getting me down, no man ever chats me up, is it because i look to what some say ...

Is what he did considered cheating/

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - alright, ive been going out with this great guy. we've been friends forever and about a year ago we started going out. i trusted him with my life but i dont really know anymore. recently he went to a sleepover for something at school and there ...

My LD girlfriend doesn't seem to understand that I need "friend time"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is currently going to college 200miles away, i asked for two days off in a row from work everyweek so i can drive down to visit her for 2 days a week and drive back, i also work 10hr days and as soon as i get home i call her to see how ...