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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Trust issues. Please please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have just had an argument. It was about trust. She says I don't trust her... and she's right. We've been together for 18 months now but for about 4 months I have become suspicious of her. Without going into detail I ac...

Wedding disaster???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Huge problem with my wedding!!!!! I come from a very conservative family and they are paying for my wedding. They have invited many of their high profile friends and I feel like it is about showing off their money and not about my guy and I. My guy ...

Why is my mom so strict all of a sudden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy (Yeah, really original). Any ways, he's ten years older than me, he's 26. His parents are really good friends with mine. The biggest secret I have kept from my parents was not telling them I had started dating him when I was 1...

8 years and STILL not engaged... tells me "not to worry about it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 years. We met and began dating in high school and stayed together through college and beyond. We moved in together about 6 months ago and both absolutely love living together. Everything about our ...

Did she cheat? Was I wrong to stay with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my current gf a few years now, and about a year into the relationship, I went out of town on a trip with my family for a few weeks. While I was gone she met a guy, and started flirting with him. I found this out much later into the ...

How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship with an older man who I love but I think things are moving too fast. How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him. I'm 23 he is 42....

My boyfriend is driving me nuts!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my lad for a bout 9 months now, my longest relationship ever. I pratically lost my virginity to my current I have little experience. I've suggested things, would like to try things but it never works out. He comes too quickly ...

Should I continue the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on the next step in my relationship... First of all I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months together for a year and a half. He really wants to get married and have a baby. Problem is I don't know if I am able to have ...

I just wanna know what the gushy sticky stuff was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I had sex with my girl a lot of times, she just got off her period and I had sex with her. The last time we had sex was yesterday and while we was doing it it was good but when I pulled out I notice that it was gushy sticky stuff on the outside of ...

Do good guys come last when you are choosing who you want to go out with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - This is a question for the women of all ages cos I want to know what each generation of women think. I am a kind, considerate guy. I always treat girls like they deserve. I don't want you to think I'm big headed or perfect cos I know I'm not. On...

Weirded out with ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - We are going out for dinner, birthday party for a friend. My boyfriend of six years is friends with the birthday celebrant. The celebrant is friends with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend so I know she'll be there as well and this isn't the first time ...

What kind of woman/girl would you go for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to ...

Am I in the "friend zone" now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I am sorry to rattle on but I am desperately in need of advice on topics that I have never experienced or seen someone go through. It would be helpful for advice from females and males. I met this girl who is three years younger than me. we date...

I need help to decide... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Long question... I've been with my current boyfriend just over 3 years, and things have been amazing. He's nearly everything I could ask for in a boyfriend, we've even called each other "soul mates". However, during the past few months, I'd been...

I've been asked out by one guy but am close to being more than just friends with another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do - Me and this guy at work have been flirting since he arrived - after several missed opportunties and we finally kissed (about a year of flirting) he just wants friends with benefits I really want more because I like him so ...

How can I get my family to forgive him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years. We are getting married on May 1. Three weeks ago he went out to an all guys weekend and got really drunk and cheated on me. He called me the next day and told me we had to talk as soon as he came ...

In love with soldier and a sailor..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in the worst situation I have ever been my whole entire life, so far. I cannot go by a day without thinking of this troubling situation. My story goes like this: When I was 13 I met a guy trough my brother( his friend)he w...

How can I reassure my b/f while he is on vacation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys, Me and my new boyfriend have been going out for about five-six weeks now and hes originally from greece and goes there every summer. he sent me a text today saying how much he will miss me when he goes and will I come with him. I know for...

After I ask her out, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I posted on here a few days ago about a girl that i thought liked me that i liked as well, but i was unsure if i was reading her right. Well its confirmed that she likes me. She talked to one of my best friends about me and basically confessed to ...

I have a very overprotective father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I 19 years old, and a daddys girl. My mom died when I was 6 years old and my dad became very over protective. He acts lile Im a child, He calls my cell a million times a day and if I dont answer is will just keep calling. HE literally gets my uncle ...

Sexual Intimacy - help, any suggestions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a while, and we were not virgins when we got together. I had a 2 year borrowing sex life - only 2 positions, occational sex, she would cum in 5-10 min then be board while I finished - no real deep connection. My ...

He's with me yet he has a dating profile and a lot more besides going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for about a year and a half and then we broke up. However, we still talked every day, saw each other and did basically everything people in a relationship do. I never thought for a second that he was looking for other people. I ...

Mixed messages from my sex buddie!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy (sexually) but he seems to send me mixed messages. Is there anything I can do to make him like me in a romantic way?...

We have only ever had dry sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...

I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he ...

Pregnancy and having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm 21 weeks pregnant. I know that as long as you are told it's okay to have sex by your doctor you are in the clear. The only thing that I was wondering, and quite embarrassed to ask my doc, is does it matter how rough you do it? My husband and I ...

His ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for like four months. I know he was in a 4 year relationship a year ago or so, his and his ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it, like do what, take him out or leave him alone or what? ...

I must wait a year for him... so he says. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy in my life who after 4 years has re-entered my life, I met him when I was 17 and he was 18 we were seeing each other, our family knew about us and everything was well. I stopped seeing him as in those days he was very immature and ...

Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some ...

I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...

Where Did I Go Wrong With My Boyfriend In This Situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We’ve had our ups and downs which involved him cheating and me finding out, but we worked things out. Things have been going well until he suddenly began to distance himself from me. The communication bega...

It still haunts me, because I am very insecure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Lets start my story with a brief history of my problem; My girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago, i was devestated, but she claimed it was a big mistake (she made out with somebody at a party.) Anyway she is never in touch w...

A letter to my love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I made this letter for you guys to give to your significant other and I want you guys to take it to heart. Use it to let your women ( or men if you ladies are reading this)how much you care about each other, and if you want to add more to it, then ...

I'm scared his sister will succeed in this petty cunning attempt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been scratching my head and pacing back and forth over this situation all day as I've never really had this problem before (and ive had a few dramas in my life). I've been with my bf for over 10 months now and we have recently...

Is it ok for boyfriend to dance with his female friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi I have a quick question, What are the boundaries for when your boyfriend goes out to the bars with his friends that are mainly girls? He's in a female profession so like 90% of his friends are girls, which I can deal with. I am somewhat of a jea...

Is this relationship is worth salvaging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and I had a huge row tuesday and yesterday that started off over something really small. it was saint patricks day on tuesday and I was going to meet my friend in town.later on we my boyfriend texted me saying th...

He is a very convincing actor and he likes to play tricks on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - OK, I've been going out with this beautiful, lovely guy for a little over 3 months now. I really feel strongly for him but there are 2 big obstacles that I need help with. Firstly, his past. To be frank he doesn't have one. I've asked him a few ...

Question protected sex with person with HIV

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Ok, here's the thing and it's a pretty big thing. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We dated for about four months before we got more intimate. First it was 'making out', then she would give me a 'hand job' for want of a bet...

How many times can someone break your heart before you move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 2 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do think he has strong feelings for me back but too much water h...

Does he love me? I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - God i am so paranoid bout my boyfriend its driving me mad. My boyfriend has always been quite honest with me.but for some reason i always see the bad in him and never believes what he says.always think he has a motive for everything. Hes got a past...

I've never taken a girl virginity before

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about two years now and I recently asked her to marry me. She's the same age as me (25) but she's still a virgin. She said that she has always wanted to wait for the right guy. I've been with her for two years and ...

I don't know what to do about this boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - hey, i've been havinga a dilemma lately. There's a boy that I really like at my school, and i can never get him out of my head. Well, lately i've been feeling like just giving up on him, because I THINK, (about 95 percent sure) that he knows i like...

Broke up now wants to marry me...Should I consider it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm a female of 24 years old. I have 2 lovely childen by my ex boyfriend. Reason i broke it off with him was because he made another woman pregnant. It has been 2 yrs some months since we called it quitz. Now he has been aproaching me wanting us t...

Why did she suddenly admit that she loves me after all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been friends with this girl since we were teenagers and I've been in love with her since we became friends. It must be thirteen years all in all. She's the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on, we share the same interests, she ...

I want to split from him but can't get him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy I don't love. The thing is I already confessed I loved him but now I wanna get out! What should I do to avoid hatred between the two of us? Will he feel betrayed when I tell him I don't really feel anything for ...

HELP ME! This girl is driving me crazy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I of two years broke up about 2 weeks ago. We started dated pretty early in sobriety I had a year at 23 and she had 6mnths at 20. I know it was early. Anyway we had a really good relationship for a long time, we kept our programs...

I want to make this man fall out of limerence with me without realising it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - As a sometimes sufferer of Limerence (although not severe) I believe I have become the LO of another person! In fact I think I am caught in a limerence triangle! I am a female, who a couple of months ago was whisked away on a "top performers"...

I've changed from a fun person into a paranoid needy person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Im 27, and scared. I have been in a very fast and intense relationship for 6 months now. I love them more than I thought possible, and now I am terrified things are changing and I will end up being hurt. I need to know how mentally or medicall...

I want to know whats going on inside her head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - well here we go again! i wrote to this column almost 1 year ago to the date. my girl and i did get back together. i received some great advice but unfortunately ive found myself back in a situation again. it may help you to search my previous ...

Nervous Nora

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I want to talk to my new boyfriend more about sex but we’re both a bit embarrassed and I can never think what to say. We’ve been together for nearly three weeks and are getting a bit more adventurous in the bedroom. We’ve had full s...

Well endowed and anal sex help...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - hi all, i have had anal sex with a previous b/f, maybe, twice. he was average in size. it was ok and there were no dramas with mess from me or anything. i am now with another b/f, who is very well endowed. we are wanting to have anal sex but...

I feel so unworthy and pathetic. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Currently all my friends have boyfriends and I've never had a boyfriend and desperately wanted to have one. Now I've become so down on the fact that it will never happen I've given up caring and looking for that special someone. Does this mean...

Should I still be her friend and his secret lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I liked this one guy who will be named 1 well me and 1 hit it off when we would talk. He liked me and I liked him but we never really told each other we just knew we did BUT than my supposed friend who we will call 2 just started liking him because ...

He thinks I'm only out to scam him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Let's say you were in a relationship where your partner had an issue with trust. To the point were they actually believed that you were responsible for something that went missing. 4 years have gone by and I swear he still thinks everything is just ...

5 years and counting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a three year old child together. We fight constantly because I feel that by now I should have a engagemet ring and he says he's not ready for that. He says he loves me and doesn't want anyone ...

Second thoughts about marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I am 37, he is 38. We have been together for a little over a year, living together for 7 months. We are discussing getting engaged, and I am currently at a point where I am not sure about that. I have had a difficult time with this relationship ...

Dating tips for being in a backwards town

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I am currently attending a small boarding school with a rigorous curriculum that consumes most of my life. Coming from a class just shy of 50 students there is not much of a dating pool. I am about to graduate and go home for the summer before I ...

Any tips for insecurity and what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. I would really like to do something special and sexy for him in the bedroom (besides basic tipss.) But I am kind of insecure and chicken out. Plus, I don't know really what to do, and am shy when it ...

He doesn't like me the way that I like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Okay... so i really like this guy and we dated twice... we have made out, kissed, held hands, hugged, he has lifted me up, and i have sorta given him a hand job... he wanted me to give him a blow job... well he went and told my friends that he ...