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Dating: Help and advice

Texted me but doesn't have the balls to call me after what he did

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hello all I met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about 5 wks. He lives about a hour away so we dont get to see each other as often as I like. We get on great and theres alot of chemistry. He kept phoning last weeking saying he couldnt ...

Good or bad? I want to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to ...

Troubles in the bedroom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...

We went from friends with benefits to boyfriend/girlfriend I guess...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand with this guy. I'd never had casual sex before and I thought that's all it would be, but we developed into fuck buddies, then friends with benefits and the more I see him, the more I'm becoming emotionally attached. We now ...

My fault she's pregnant...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...

What exactly is it that girls look for in a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I was wondering what do most girls look for in a guy??? So this is mainly for girls but guys can answer too I guess and I'm not asking this so I can get a girl but I just want to know....

Confused... should I break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - SHOULD I BREAK IT OFF? This girl and myself have been seeing each other now for 7 months on and off. She is an old flame, we were boyfriend and girlfriend 2 years ago and got back in contact with each other a year ago. Seeing each other everyday, ...

Her friends say she's cheating on me, she says she isn't. Who do I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've been going out for this girl for five months now. I really like her and she says she really likes me. Her friends say she's been cheating on me but she says she hasn't. I don't know who to believe. I tried to kiss her last week but she told me ...

How can I explain to my boyfriend that me and Ty are JUST friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - So here goes, I have been best friends with this guy Ty since we were around 2 years old. His mom and my mom are BFF we spend thanksgiving and vacations together stay at each others homes blah blah blah you get it right? Anyhow I had a huge party...

Do I really deserve to be treated this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Five years ago my boyfriend found out that I was keeping a secret from him. I held the fact that I was doing drugs from him. The hard drugs. It wasn't even 4 months into me using when he found out. He was mad and I don't blame him. It is now 5 years ...

What's the best way to get him back???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has finished with me a couple of times and we have gotten back together, I know he loves me, it took him over a year to tell me and he always said he would tell me when he did fall in love with me, but he is so stubborn and finds it ...

I don't even know how but I'm screwing up my dream relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me. so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really gr...

How can I get my parents to give me a little more freedom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - POSTER AGE INCORRECT: 13 I believe I have found the love of my life. But, a few weeks ago, I found out we might be moving. I'm only 13 but I couldn't stand having to be away from my boyfriend. And, my parents are being bitches about it. My dad i...

No text back..not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - calling GUYS... If a guy doesn't reply to your text does that always mean he is not interested? ...

Living without him? What if this doesn't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - me and the love of my life and supposibly getting married he says he wants to marry me and i love him.. but sometimes i wonder if i could make it without him. what if he doesnt want to marry me ? what if this doesnt work?...

Why does he wear sunglasses and say "I don't want you to see what is in my eyes?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I just recently met a man who had approached me innocently, and i embraced him as a friend. The sucky part is, initially i was ok with being his friend, but im slowly starting to develop feelings, the part that is even worse, is that he is in a ...

He says he needs time to miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating the my boyfriend for more the 5 yrs. 4 1/2 of them we have lived together. Our biggest problem over the years has been the fact that he is more interested in having fun money then money for bills. I own my own house and make more ...

I can't tell her to her face how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Hi there readers!!! my problem is clear, I am in love with a girl and we have any knowledge between us, my problem is I can not find a way to tell her my feelings and I can not say it face to face, because I am not confident in my self.and my second ...

25 and have never been in a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a 25 year old female who has never been in a relationship. I have not had sex of any kind or been naked in front of a guy. The furthest I’ve made it is a bit of clothes on grabbing while kissing. I tend to run from intimacy, and ca...

Was he just trying to let me down easy by saying "take a break"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Alright so my bf and I are "on a break" kind of, as in we used to hang out 24/7 and were driving each other crazy. He suggested that we just spend a lot less time together, maybe hang out once/week, but still talk online and on the phone. Well s...

To play the game or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm 44 years old and recently divorced after 22 years. I have a bf I've been dating for 3 months. He seems into me yet always waits till the last minute to ask me to do anything and it seems like I'm making more of an effort than he is. I'm ...

What should I say to her and can she legally try to keep my baby????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and 7 months pregnant, my bf is 18 and both of our parents were shocked yet understanding when they heard the news. My mom and step dad have offered to help us in any wya they can. But last night I over heard my mom talking to a friend of ...

Who do I believe???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and been dating my girl friend as long as I can remember (LOL - we started dating in middle school). We are engaged to be married and last weekend we were at a party and she said that one of my friends (who is supposed to be in our wedding) ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to be sweet to me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi there readers!!! I've been having a serious problem with my boyfriend these past few days and I was wondering if you can give me any good advice to what I should do? Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and been living ...

Should I leave him and wait for someone to come along that is going to give me what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm having problems with this guy!! I'm 19. He is 26. We met 3 months ago. It turned out we lived a street from each other and I started to go round his in the evenings to chill. He never came to mine because I live with my family and they're a ...

Last night I cheated on my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Last night I cheated on my boyfriend and right after, I told my boyfriend what happened and now were having a talk today, and I don't even know what to say other than I'm sorry. We've been dating for two years and I don't want to stay away from him...

Is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Where do I begin? I know my problem will probably seem childish and maybe even overdone. The logical answer is to simply choose but sometimes it's just not that easy you know? So I've had this friend whom I love, cherish, trust and respect. He's an ...

Obsessed boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and ...

What is wrong with him? Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me, I always go up to him and start kissing him not even when he have sex he say 'baby show me some love or 'are you gonna show me some love and I find this really weird cos it's never happened before with none ...

I don't know how to handle this situation and could really use some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for two months. From the start, she has pursued me quite aggressively -- a fact that I initially found flattering. Unfortunately, as time goes by, I realize that I am simply not in love with her. She, on the other hand, seems ...

For my daughters sake.., should I settle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I met someone new. My husband and I were having problems. I was 8 months pregnant and he decided it was best for me to go live with my parents out of state. I don't want to get into the specifics of the problems but it did not involve cheating in a...

Do I reply after all this time if he is still married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I started seeing a man just before he got married. I know, bad move... I stopped seeing him as he needed time to figure out his life and what he really wants. I told him if it is me that will make him happy then I will be here for him. If...

What do I do to make him change his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - ok... its pretty difficult but i was already pregnant when i first met my fiance. we were together 3 months and he had left for pre deployment training. we had a really good friend and he told me while my fiance was away that he was sleeping with...

Can I enjoy love without infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I want to start off by saying, in the past I've always dated or pursued a girl that I've been infatuated with. Usually it goes fine except for the "simple" fact that none of them loved me, or they weren't infatuated enough to wish to continue. Af...

Should I or shouldn't I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, I went to a dance with my boyfriend at his school(I'm homeschooled). He's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th. I'm 13 and He's turning 15. Anyway, everytime I Met one of his friends, they looked at me in a funny way, like they didn't like me o...

What do I do to save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for almost 3 years ( since 17) and for the first almost 2 years it was a long distance relationship. We got engaged while still living in different states and planned on one of us moving. Due to some family problems i was ...

Pregnancy mabye?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I think im pregnant but im not sure. I started my period today. I thought it was strange because me and my boyfriend have been going at it everyday for the last two weeks. (I know there is only a 25% chance of getting pregnant without using a ...

Is he right in thinking I owe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a 2 year old together. At the time we both had great jobs. I took a year off for maturnity leave. Now, my boyfriend thinks that because he had to help support me when i was on maternity leave...he thinks i owe him this huge...

Am I in any way to be blamed for whatever is happening to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - hello everyone....i am scared please help !! me and my girlfriend have had many phone sex chats and masturbate on phone. she rubs her clit with a pen refill. recently she has got irregular periods and strange sensations near her clit area which she ...

I don't know what is stopping us from being together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 6 months. We both want to be with each other but I don't know whats stopping us from being together. We talk everyday and I see him atleast 3 times a week. I dont know what to do ...

I want to ask her to move in with me, is it too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I met this girl in line at the grocery store and she literally just drew me in. We ended up talking and that was that. About a week later we ran into each at a local restraunt and for about a month everywhere I went I would see. Some how during one ...

I used the Plan B pill and denied it! Now he accuses me of lying when he has told me so many, himself! Is this fair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ok... So I come on here regularly and give advice every once in a while, but now, I really need to hear others opinions. I posted this question last night, but didn't get much responce. So, can anyone help? Ok. My boyfriend and I went on ...

I don't get it..did I do something wrong when we met for our first date! Help me understand!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Sorry about the length but please do read it all. Thanks! I met this guy online and he was so excited at the prospect of meeting me. He asked me out and planned dinner at the beach. The night we met up something wasn’t right. He seemed distract...

What are some signs that ladies give off to show you that their interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Thx for reading this... here goes. Lately I have been having a lot of problems relationship-wise. I can never tell when the right time is, to ask a girl out. I don't know if maybe I'm always out of my le...

My gf is threatening to end our relationship due to my ex's interference!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I need someone.s help! My girlfriend broke my heart and she doesn't see why. Well, my ex keeps trying to message me and my girlfriend .(They were friends for a long time ago) This ex has lately have been causing problems and I try to ignore he...

Does she just want to teach me a lesson? Help me out here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've got a long distance relationship with a girl. She has problems and is stressed so I asked if we could just be friends until I got stuff together to come down and be with her. But I made it clear that I wasn't going to cheat on her and she told ...

I desperately need your advice aunts! Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I recently posted a question about my fiance and I having problems with him betraying my trust, but I didnt mention that 2 years ago I did something awful as well... Our relationship back then was pretty awful. He was always nasty to me, we fought...

My personal life is mixing with my private life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man since 2000 although we have known each other for nearly 24 years and had a previous relationship. We both got other children and one between us. My 17 year old has caused me a lot of problems and my boyfriend has been ...

I'm finding the distance a struggle... any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. I love him dearly, but it seems like we have had nothing but struggles since we began dating. We have been in a long distance relationship from the very beginning. He lives about 3 hours ...