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Dating: Help and advice

Ready for exclusive relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this guy for 3 mths and I'm ready for an exclusive relationship. I don't think he's seeing anyone else but I can't be sure. What do I do? I don't want to scare him off. Is it too soon to get to this level? I've been playing it ...

How can I stop thinking about this woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Hello, How can I stop thinking about this woman? 5 years ago I met a girl who I fell for, she was leaving the country to go back home, we spent a month getting to know each other but nothing happened. I didn't let on my feelings and I thought ov...

My boyfriend thinks my sex drive is too high!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 24. For the last few years I have masturbated almost daily and when I got into this relationship my sex drive has remained really high and my boyfriend comments on it a lot. He never complains in the ...

Should I trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Hi really need advice, started seeing this guy in August, it started not serious but then when it started to get serious he started to pull away and in January finished it.. I never contacted him but in about a week he was texting to see how I was ...

I'm looking for a gift to buy my boyfriend to show him I really care about him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I'm looking for something (a gift) for my boyfriend to show him that I really care about him. We've been dating for a very long time and we're quite committed. I was thinking about getting him a ring.. I don't think it would freak him out but I'm ...

Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I had an 11 year relationship with my boyfriend, we share a son 4 years old. I have decided to go back to school for medical assistant and he was not very supportive of that. Meaning he wanted a wife barefoot and pregnant. Anyhow, I went to school ...

How can I get him to touch me in a special way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I'm his first girlfriend so he's not too sure what to do but I really want him to touch me in a special way (as in on the body) how can I ask him without saying anything and without ...

Making myself as sexy as possible on webcam

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is going away to university and i won't be able to see him face to face for a while, we are going to use webcam to keep in touch, my question is how can i make myself look as sexy as possible on webcam... it may sound stupid but what ...

G/f too embarrassed to tell me anything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - im 14 and my girlfriend is really in experienced and shy, how do i know when she is ready for more than making out if she wont tell me because she is too "embarassed"...

I don't want to split them up just want to stop thinking of him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Heyyy, Soo, i am in love with a guy, but he has a girl =( We've always spoken on msn but since hes been with her he hasn't spoken to me once. We are in some classes together and he doesn't stop stairing at me! I am sooo confused lol I dont wan...

My best guy friend is starting to act really strange..I think its because of my b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my seventh boyfriend now for about ten months and everything between him and I is going pretty decently. Although I'm quite sure he is not the one for me, I still like him a lot and that's why I'm staying with him. My issue is my...

I've been eyeing this girl and can't stop thinking about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - i need help aunts there's this girl i've been eying and i cant stopp thinking about her, what can i do to get her to notice me...i dont know why but all of a sudden i get a wave full of feelings towards her and i 've never felt this way before.....

Never had a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - i am 30 years old and i never had a boyfriend even my first kiss,i find it hard to meet guys.most guys i know talk about other girls in front of me like i wasn,t there,any other guy i have liked always fancied someone else and i get just left there ...

Mixed signals..how do I figure them out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - i have a crush on this boy and he sends me mixed signals. he says he doesnt like me like that but he acts like it. i dont no wat to do....

Am I completely hopeless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Dear fellow readers, I'm 24 years old and am well aware that at my age I should be confident in my youth to find dates but adult enough to have relationships. Well, I haven't had a serious relationship for over 4 years, and that wasn't such a si...

I lied to him about my age, now he's finding it difficult to trust me. How can I gain his trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I wrote earlier about lying to my fiance about my age. Well the thing is I thought we'd past that, but apparently, it keeps coming up, now and then if I do anything, he suddenly remembers that I lied before. How do I keep him from second ...

Girlfriend too moody recently...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. We're 2 school years apart but I'm 20 and she is 17, but the age difference never shows and I'm very happy in the relationship. More recently though, she has been going into moods more ...

Are condoms enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a while and we have decided we are ready to sleep together, he knows that I am not on the pill (I don't want to) and he says a condom will be fine, which I sure it will be but I am a little concerened....

He uses his anger to distance himself from me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Any suggestions? We have been together for 11 months. However he uses his anger to distance himself from me. Whenever I get upset or hurt over something he does or something that happens he gets angry.. He expresses this anger by distancing ...

What can I do to give him pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I need some girlie advice, I have been seeing this amazing guy for about two months and we have just snogged and touched each other, I want to give him pleasure but as I have never done this before I need some advice. How do I start it, should I use ...

My boyfriend is so close to his male friend that they call each other "baby"! Do you think he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a best friend and they have been really close that they even call each other baby. It was until I started to show that I didn't like that, that they stopped but my boyfriend still calls him behind my back even when he sends sms or ...

Why are boys so immature where relationships are concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Why do boys act stupid in relationships? BUT are smart at any other things like sports or cars?...

He can't maintain an erection and it's killing both of us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I've been patient for far too long now... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. We don't live together and he's an hours bus journey away. I'm 23 and he's 24 and we've never successfully had sex :( when we went on our first ...

What should I do if the baby isn't his?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I am a mom of 3 little girls and yesterday I found out I am pregnant again. When I became pregnant with my oldest daughter my boyfriend was delighted. She was a ray of sunshine. 4 years on and I became pregnant again but my boyfriend wasnt the dad. ...

My girlfriend of 14 months split with me, we still see each other, she just won't commit.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - We were together 14 months and I thought all was well. Then out of blue she decided to split with me, saying she couldn't be with me at the moment but that she loved me and I have a special place in her heart. Since then we've still seen each ...

I'm interested in 2 other girls but have a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Well I screwed up real badly. Summing it up real easy. 1 I have a gf thats madly in love with me, I've lost interest 2 I'm madly in love with 2 girls who know nothing about each other 3 Another girl has a crush on me, I like her a bit. ...

"things going too fast & too heavy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - hi met someone and we went out. everything was going well said he would take me out last night for a meal etc. Been in touch during week and he was talking bout coming to my sisters wedding etc. Lost my phone on sat night and my mate texted him to ...

Dating this guy but in love with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've hated for pretty much ever, but we had to be partners in biology and I realized I'm in love with him. Ok this other guy that I'm not interested in asked me out. I said yes because I know the other guy could never love me back and I ...

She doesn't see how special she is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 ad my gf is 14, shes always so self conscious abt her weight ( shes a tad bit chunky, not even) and abt how pretty she is(beautiful btw) but everytime i tell her tht i think she's perfect, it seems as though she doesnt care abt my opinion, ...

Not sure if he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - at firstI know this guy for 2 months and the begining of 2 months we talked everyday till his school started.cause he is overly hardworking..after 2 months i asked him that how does he see me? he said me more than friend.he said me he liked me. ...

My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...

I'm falling so deeply and now I'm broken... help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I am currently so heart broken I dont know where to start my story. 2 years ago Im seperated from my husband and about 6 months after I met a guy through an adult online dating site thinking i want to just look for some exclusive fun (I dont do h...

I need some advice please. I cant figure this guy out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I have known this guy (23) for over a month through my friend. At first, I didnt really notice him too much and kissed his roomate (while drunk). I found out the roomate is a player so I just forgot about him and started talking to the other guy. My ...

He asked what I would do if I found out he cheated on me. Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - hi=-) just 1 day ago my boyfirend asked me what would i do if i were to find out he was cheating on me this really confused me alot becuase hes always saying how much he loves me and that im the only girl for him. but then why would he ask me this ...

I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Hey there, I'm wondering if anyone can help me here, my girlfriend has told me that in my sleep I have really bad nightmares and that I sometimes get violent, I'm panicking majorly here. I'm a nice guy, never anything bad about me but this is out of ...